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Oral - Men to Women

September 07 2012

So, I've posted a thread on oral techniques women use on men and men's preferences used on them, but what about men to women?   I'v found in the past that 99% of men I've chattedto, when it comes discussing "talents" the men seem to boast about giving exceptional oral only to find, if given the chance to prove how good they actually are, I'm left thinking "that's it?". Don't get me wrong, I thought it was ok, just not really as mind blowing as I told it would be. Then I met someone who told me he's very good at oral and my response was "well, yeah, I'll believe it when I experience it as I've head that before only to be disppointed". Now, I'm not someone who demands total satisfaction, and it's not like I've got all that many notches on my bedpost (so to speak) but I've found that oral is something a lot (I didn't say all, I said a lot, just in case I get accused of labelling all men the same) of guys think they're better at it than the rest. Anyway, this last one who assured me he's good at it, once I experienced it with him, I found he was just so OMG! Words could not describe! I don't know exactly what he did and how he did it (I'm sure there's only one tongue in his mouth, but it's as if he grows an extra one when he's down there as it feels like there's more then one at the time)   So, guys, tell us; are you good at giving oral and, if you are, what exactly do you do that makes you so good at it?   And, ladies, for those of you who, unlike me, know what they do, what is it exactly that you like done to you when receiving oral?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Oh good one!   I am of the opinion that this is a crucial matter to great sex.   I love the taste, texture and smell of a womans' vagina.   I like to start with gentle nuzzling and soft "bites" of the outer lips.   after tasting her I gently lick and suck the area of the man in the boat.   This is followed by sucking in the outer lips and pressing against them with my tongue.   I love to get the woman sooo... wet and muggy pushing the clitoris with my tongue and lips especially on the clitoral hood. Usually after about 10 or 15 minutes of this most women are begging...   Mike

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    whether it's giving oral or baking a cake...I've seen operators in the mining game come to sites bragging how good they are on the machines, when it only takes 5 minutes in the seat watching them to realize their skill level... sometimes it's laughable, so why set yourself up for failure i say... Be cool about it. Say fuck all! ... where's the element of surprise. Chances are she has experienced a better mouth than yours before, so zip it and let your tongue do the talkingWhat's enjoyable for one woman may not work on another, your technique may need tweaking as their all different, same with us blokes. Communicate what feels best, listen, tune into her body, enjoy the act of giving and want to be there... seeing the pleasure on a woman's face is GOLD and i'm sure the rewards will be plentiful...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    When I saw this post, I just had to reply to this one as I do enjoy the taste of a woman on my lips.   I like to start by planting soft kisses around the inner thighs and around a woman's lips before going any further. Then, when I feel the woman is comfortable, I slowly, but surely, move my kissing closer and closer to her lips, licking and softly dragging my lips over both her sets of lips, even softly parting her lips with just my tongue to feel the heat of the inside of her vagina. At this point, I will then concentrate on her clitoris, licking, softly sucking and even, very gently, using my teeth to barely run over her softest part. If the woman begins to push herself against my mouth, I slowly open her lips again, this time with my hands, and work my tongue further inside, even tasting her own juices. Finally, if my technique has achieved its goal, the woman will be on the verge of orgasm.   I have recently met someone, an extraordinary sexual woman, who absolutely loves this and I am more than happy to please her as I get total satisfaction knowing she is satisfied.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Okay, seriously now, you have to enjoy it to do a good job of it... Love a man who loves the taste, smell, feel and look of a pussy... this 'licking' that you see on pornos alot ain't gonna cut it. Yes that can be part of the repertoire but you need to get that sucking, pulling motion going on and around the clitoral area; and without being too rough, I like a fair bit of pressure. My husband is an absolute genius at this - coincidentally he can touch his nose with his tongue. But don't be disheartened a Gene Simmons tongue is not required lol. Mmm and inserting a finger or two inside and stimulating the G spot whilst you tongue my clit is going to tip me over the edge, just a word of caution though, I may put your neck out when my knees slam around your head and my ass bucks up into your face....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'richo1968' When I saw this post, I just had to reply to this one as I do enjoy the taste of a woman on my lips.   I like to start by planting soft kisses around the inner thighs and around a woman's lips before going any further. Then, when I feel the woman is comfortable, I slowly, but surely, move my kissing closer and closer to her lips, licking and softly dragging my lips over both her sets of lips, even softly parting her lips with just my tongue to feel the heat of the inside of her vagina. At this point, I will then concentrate on her clitoris, licking, softly sucking and even, very gently, using my teeth to barely run over her softest part. If the woman begins to push herself against my mouth, I slowly open her lips again, this time with my hands, and work my tongue further inside, even tasting her own juices. Finally, if my technique has achieved its goal, the woman will be on the verge of orgasm.   I have recently met someone, an extraordinary sexual woman, who absolutely loves this and I am more than happy to please her as I get total satisfaction knowing she is satisfied.And she is one lucky woman!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'miketheduc' Oh good one!   I am of the opinion that this is a crucial matter to great sex.   I love the taste, texture and smell of a womans' vagina.   I like to start with gentle nuzzling and soft "bites" of the outer lips.   after tasting her I gently lick and suck the area of the man in the boat.   This is followed by sucking in the outer lips and pressing against them with my tongue.   I love to get the woman sooo... wet and muggy pushing the clitoris with my tongue and lips especially on the clitoral hood. Usually after about 10 or 15 minutes of this most women are begging...   MikeI just bet they are begging.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Saskia72'Okay, seriously now, you have to enjoy it to do a good job of it... Love a man who loves the taste, smell, feel and look of a pussy... this 'licking' that you see on pornos alot ain't gonna cut it. Yes that can be part of the repertoire but you need to get that sucking, pulling motion going on and around the clitoral area; and without being too rough, I like a fair bit of pressure. My husband is an absolute genius at this - coincidentally he can touch his nose with his tongue. But don't be disheartened a Gene Simmons tongue is not required lol. Mmm and inserting a finger or two inside and stimulating the G spot whilst you tongue my clit is going to tip me over the edge, just a word of caution though, I may put your neck out when my knees slam around your head and my ass bucks up into your face.... Morning Sakia.....xXx.. reading your post just made me feel sO horny.....i totally agree, ones has to love the taste, or its all down Hill... As far as im conserned, i actually love it, and could do it for as long as the woman lets mE.....   By far one of the Hottest tasty's Part of good HOT sex....xXx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Let me just say..if you love what your doing then result is in the pud..Did the Colonial give away his secrets ??   I could be very korny and say its finger licking good ...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am loooving this thread. Don't stop!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I kinda like it when a man pretends that he does not know exactly where tha button is, nothing worse than having your clit attacked before you have had a good licking first................blush!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'DeviousMissM'I am loooving this thread. Don't stop! http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/why-do-guys-love-licking-pussy-32082 Hugs...xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The less the brag about it... the better they usually are at it. The men that can do it and do it well, don't need to try convince girls how good they are... they just do it!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    when your licking you have to love the job, your tongue and nose can place pressure on the right places without you acting like a dog at the food bowl. you can be gentle and rough depending on the stage she is at. licking as well as tonguei fucking, sniffing and holding your head in postion while she cums during oral works well.allowing your lady to explode over your face and then start kissing her seems to work .

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Lol......the next man that walks into my office had best be careful.....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    very very nice description :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Love it when she squirms everywhere, gasps and squeals while thrusting her wetness into my face. As said before, it's all your senses being aroused in such an intense way all at once.. a beautiful, wet, quivering pussy is right there close-up, with her legs wrapped around your head, her stomach, tits and face contorting in ecstasy making the backdrop just perfect.. love to do it to my partner on a candlelit bed, after a hot shower ... Only 'problem' is it can be too much for her and she just needs me inside her for her release... ah, first world problems :) Maybe we need an extra pussy to move onto afterwards ;) On a completely different note, Roger, you may want to think of a new picture.. -It does look quite strange - like you're maybe dropping the kids off or it's a very cold day to go swimming XD

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    but Im a lick only girl.   Strangely for me (those who know my other sexual desires will understand why this is strange) I like tongue only. Dont suck, dont bite/nibble what ever else you think of doing with your teeth just dont!! do any of that to my clitoris.   I cant handle it...I squirm and try to run away....sucking and nibbling my clitoris is just an extremly uncomfortable thing for me I hate it *shudder*   Use your tongue only and firmly on the clitoris and Im a happy girl.   Oh and guys forget those soft gentle kisses or gently blowing your breath on me unless you want to really spoil the mood and have me rolling around giggling.   Kisses Fcous

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Of course every man likes to think he does a good job.. but in reality, how do we know unless the receiver tells us.. ?I can never understand how anyone can claim they are THAT good, seriously' I think it's all in their mind. ?I give oral as part of the sex act itself.. so far no one has told me I was bad , but if I was' will they tell me so. ? I think no , because in most cases they would rather lie than dent the guys ego..eg: the lady has a few drinks, is relaxed and feeling horny VS a shit of a day, tired , not in the mood.. Naturally' the chances are when she receives oral things are more likely to happen when she is relaxed..Cmon guys.. cut out the self promo and face reality... I think you set yourself up as a loser if you dont or cant deliver the goods as you claim... You could go down on the same lady 2 days running and she will react differently on each day.. I do concede however' that some guys are better than others the same as some girls are better.. Trophy's are awarded by others.. not by one's self...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Hmmmmm..... Do I share my secrewts gained from a thousand years of studying amongst the Taoist Monks?! LOL DG Ohh, do tell!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love a man's tongue on my body.. I like it very slow sometimes.. starting from my ears, to my neck, biting my nipples.. going down down, pausing on my tummy and my hipbone.. teasing those sensitive areas.... (I have very sensitive palms and feet too...) Hot tongue will then start its journey up my inner thighs, playing around my clit, gently biting my lips.. I know where it will end next and by then I'd be dripping and he'll stroke the wetness around my vagina and do tentative circles with this wet amazing tongue and FINALLY rest his mouth on my clit for a sec.. 2 secs.. Then one flick and suck.. Oooh I love the sucking.. Suck and lick while rubbing my bum.. Eat me till I beg you to fuck me.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    There does indeed appear to be alot of self promotion on this and similar threads. I myself have had the same man do the same thing on two different occasions, once I found it amazingly good, the next it was "Blah" and I could take it or leave it- definitely linked to the state of mind/level of relaxation and actual horniness at the time.......Just saying:) eddie the expert... Of course every man likes to think he does a good job.. but in reality, how do we know unless the receiver tells us.. ?I can never understand how anyone can claim they are THAT good, seriously' I think it's all in their mind. ?I give oral as part of the sex act itself.. so far no one has told me I was bad , but if I was' will they tell me so. ? I think no , because in most cases they would rather lie than dent the guys ego..eg: the lady has a few drinks, is relaxed and feeling horny VS a shit of a day, tired , not in the mood.. Naturally' the chances are when she receives oral things are more likely to happen when she is relaxed..Cmon guys.. cut out the self promo and face reality... I think you set yourself up as a loser if you dont or cant deliver the goods as you claim... You could go down on the same lady 2 days running and she will react differently on each day.. I do concede however' that some guys are better than others the same as some girls are better.. Trophy's are awarded by others.. not by one's self...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    For a man who loves to perform cunnilingus and has a passion for pleasing a woman to her achieving oral orgasms to a woman, I believe the key is to adjust or vary your oral technique for each woman receiving! But generally I have found that the woman’s groans of pleasure will guide you to her satisfaction and where exactly she desires to be repeatedly licked! Like anything, there are average exponents of oral and exceptional ones, but there are no points scored for boasting!!! The receivers will surely enough tell you excitingly “that was a 11 out or 10” or “Wow, that was the best ever” or “ this is so addictive”!! For me, I enjoy doing it with pride and passion and like it’s the last bowl of your favorite dish you are ever going to have! Lol. If I was asked…….After completing the kissing her lips and neck, and other foreplay, stimulating her, I would start by moving my tongue up her inner thighs and teasing the groin area, licking around the whole wet vagina, listening to her responses. Then I move in licking and flicking my tongue slowly on her outer labia lips, as I enjoy the smells, the juices flowing and her pelvic movements on my warm lips. I then move to gently glide my wet tongue on her clit, with a combined action of lips and tongue. Increasing the intensity of my tongue-flicks on her clit, I gently but firmly take her clit in my mouth sucking and holding it for two seconds. I then release and concentrate on whipping and swirling my tongue on her clit faster and faster in a combination of circular or “figure eight” motions. She may like long and fast upward licks with my flat side of my tongue too. Depending on the woman, I vary the pressure of licking, sucking and gliding of my tongue actions to her satisfaction. After five or ten minutes, I then may insert my wet middle finger inside her moving it upwards, probing her G-spot, as I continue my gliding tongue actions on her clitoris and surrounding area. A hand moving up to stroke her breasts and nipples wouldn’t go astray either. Lol. Her groans of delight will tell you, the next course of action. After fifteen minutes, the woman will tell you either to reduce the intensity for 30 seconds or so, before going continuing…..or to increase the intensity to deliver her an “explosive” orgasm. I personally love the feeling her whole vagina shuddering all over my face and pleasing her to reach her climax…… Performing with passion, variation of style and communicating are the keys in my opinion.... :-)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    There is not one oral technique that all women love. All ladies are different and have various needs / desires. The secret is to explore what they like by reading their reaction and seeing exactly what they want and where they want it!!   Alot of men do it so they get it in return...but to do a good job you have to love it and be willing to do it all night with no expectation of getting some in return....which I'm always more than happy to do!! :)   Needless to say most blokes talk themselves up to no extent. Those that are truely good at it don't need self promotion...if you're really good word will travel!! :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Yes ....I agree.....perform oral on a woman with passion and pride! Your tongue action will speak louder than words of self-promotion! And oh.....do it without expectation of reciprocal deeds ;-) The benefits will show up for themselves down the track..... :-) !!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    This is what I lurve to do when giving excellent headOne hand on the perin Both balls cupped in one hand gently massaging Tongue is erect and very moist and as I suck down roll my lips into my mouth at the same time and HUM. The vibrations add to the sensation and twirl my head up and down like the BARBER SHOP sign ;)