Open relationships

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You sound less than enamoured with this scenario, have you considered that she loves you but perhaps your libidos are out of sync, maybe she needs more? Open relationships aren't for everyone, but work beautifully for some people, they never work if there is insecurity involved.Good luck with it all mate.Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I second everything Sweetie says. I would also add 100% safe sex to that list, as well as regular testing for both of you. It's a big decision that could have long-lasting consequences. Talk about EVERYTHING, leave nothing off the table in negotiations. Read the book, it's a good one. Research online. Talk to others who are doing it/have done it. But do this together. All the best with your decisions.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Reading your profile you guys say you allways play together. Why does your wife now want to play without you? This raises so many questions as you are not new to playing. If there was medical reasons eg you cant perform which stops swinging successfully or you had a young family and the baby sitter thing was a issue ....yes sure investigate open relationships. Bells are saying caution in my head, ummm and a 20 yr age difference. Need more info!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Well that also works two ways mate. Never the less, if it doesn't sit well with your mind, then your position is not capable of compromise without grief. Mind you... as I said before... what you don't know doesn't hurt you... think back to Victorian times where doctors came along to housebound frustrated wives and manipulated them with their hands to bring.. relief. You could think of this little bit on the side as a form of therapy by a doctor. Hell, you could make a rule that all the extramarital dudes providing stress relief to your missus could even get dressed as doctors. Problems solved. HugsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  try the above site..or if your on facebook add her as friend...Chantelle Austin...she will have great advice for you. Good luck

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thanks guys all great advice, we have actually been discussing the scenario and we both know that strict rules must apply and be adhered to by both. It is not the 20 year difference so much as the attention Mrs 2into gets from guys and ladies that actually don't care for her but it is the excitemnt of her feeling wanted by ppl other than me. We go to Swingers parties reasonably regularly and play separately sometimes, I think some of the excitement in her wanting the extra bit is that it is a naughty secret. We will work it out Thx All Sweetiepie and stalky are you sure you are not counsellors, We haven't rea bad comment from either of you in Forum yet

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