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Open relationship
July 05 2020
ell tell guys would you prefer a relationship or committed to that person
- Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
4 years ago
What is this jibberish?
86Jasindy
4 years ago
Even with an open relationship there still needs to be an element of trust in your partner. I know many so called monogamous relationships that are full of distrust and cheating.
My partner and I are totally committed to each other, and yes, he has sex with other women.Sawadee
4 years ago
...before posting ... l sorta get the gist of what your trying to say ' so ' ... What you say seems very simplistic ..unfortuneately these ideals may not always be as simple as what it seems.. If it appears too good to be true ' it usually is ?
MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
Can't you have both?
Ms Foxy
click_lick
4 years ago
Not everyone is made for an open relationship. Things change, feelings get hurt, people fall in love inadvertently.
So be careful what you wish for.
That blade of open relationship cuts both ways.
Ask yourself...will you be ok when Mrs goes away and stays the night with her other man while you are home alone watching Netflix?
Will she be ok staying at home while you go meet the other woman for a day or two?
How will the other man react?
How will the other woman react?
People talk a lot about strong relationships and unwavering trust on here.
But an open relationship is a very special beast.
As opposed to swinging, you're not having the fun together at the same time.
Your fun-boat splits in two in an open relationship.
Take care!Sawadee
4 years ago
I think you nailed it pretty well.. The fantasy is often not as good in reality... Works for some ?
RHP User
4 years ago
Click.
It would depend on what’s on Netflix ! And if it cold outside.FeistyFatty
4 years ago
@Click.... sorry but as a person in a long standing and successful (no issues) open marriage you don't really seem to have much of a grip on what they're all about. Google Compersion. People who subscribe to and fit the "psychological profile" should be the only people entering into an open or poly relationship.
verago250
4 years ago
After being married for 38 year my wife says she doesn't want sex anymore. She says she is happy for me to go find it, evan bring it home. Does she meant? What if I do? I know I'm not ready to give up on sex. This has been going on for some time and for it to go wrong I don't think I could handle it.
MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
Why not
Ms FoxyRHP User
4 years ago
Open relationship for sure! It’s virtually impossible to match with one person kink wise, with love and respect you can explore things your partner isn’t interested in with others who are... as long as everything and all parties remain open and there isn’t any dishonesty.
RHP User
4 years ago
Thank U all for Ur reply thanks heaps
RHP User
4 years ago
Im one that doesn’t understand an open relationship.
If you need more from someone else without your partner being involved then why have a partner.
Swinging is the next step when commited as you both get to enjoy the fun even if not joining in and just watching.
nightingale8
4 years ago
There’s plenty to hide in an open relationship, like how much money is spent on dates or whether protection is being used. You could argue there are more things to hide simply because more people are involved! There’s much more to grapple with in open relationships (feelings, schedules, health) and much more to gain. Though for simplicity especially when times are tough, monogamy is the go. Currently in an open relationship in theory only as there’s no dating happening for the time being. Not forever...
RHP User
2 years ago
As long as it's agreed by both parties that's all good variety is the spice of life but if an issue should arise a mutual respect would have to shown to resolve it so both where equally happy with the outcome all good
AimToPlease_Boo
a year ago
I’ve been with my Wife for 13years. All of that town was just us 2.
We’ve spoken recently and I gave her a hall pass while out of town for girls weekend.
She has slept with one guy so far. And we found afterwards that what helped was the honest and open communication.
We both love each other just as much or more than before.
If she sleeps with others. I know I’m the one she comes home too and I trust her
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