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March 28 2025

Has anyone been to a party or club and a work colleague or someone you know was there? What did you do? Was it an uncomfortable situation?

Comments

  • Brian_Breynolds

    Brian_Breynolds

    19 days ago

    Not myself but the first swingers party I went to there was a man and a woman there who were cousins.

    I think they knew each other were in the scene but previously had managed to avoid being at the same events. For some reason it they were on this occasion.

    I know it was very off putting for him at some point when he was playing on a bed and could hear her voice in the same room 🤣

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    19 days ago

    What happens in the swinger world stays in the swinger world. No one takes kindly to a snitch. Its a fast way of getting ones self on the not welcome list.

  • Opalrose

    Opalrose

    19 days ago

    Yes.
    Hubby is recognised at 3/4 of all the events we attend. I’ve only bumped into one person I know.

    I’ve been recognised on rhp by two clients, a mum from school, and two friends.

    Make a joke about it and move on. They are there for the same reasons.

  • Funtoo

    Funtoo

    19 days ago

    Yes a funny experience. We walked into a party. I immediately recognised the guy as I had met him socially. My partner recognised her as the girls had been friends since teenagers. “Oh what are you doing here?” “Um same as you” LOL After the party we took the friendship to a new level LOL

  • CandiKane

    CandiKane

    19 days ago

    Yep! I ((Operations Mgr.) came upon our Marketing Director(M) who was with one of the Account Managers(F). I had just arrived whereas they were in a more compromised situation. I barrelled straight up to them with enthusiastic hellos and a “Hey honey, look who’s here!”….lol. Guilty of having a little fun with it before putting them as ease. At work, we were often at odds with one another but mutual respect had also allowed us to connect to some extent on a personal level. This ultimately strengthened it.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    18 days ago

    Take it in your stride as no big deal and try to project this image ,,will
    Put them at ease and continue the night as normal ,dont make it any bigger than it is ,have a laugh to ease the tension if they or you are slightly freaked out , ,just go with nothing to see here move on ,as if its just a normal situation to you ,if you highlight it by panicking or the like ,you may set off a stampede of worry in there mind

    ‘Mr b

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    17 days ago

    LOL! There's heaps of my co workers on here who state they are single but infact not!
    One even had a hide to call me "fridget" because I refuse to have anything to do with him. He tried the whole "slut shamming" business by showing another coworker my profile. He was soon shut down. The hide of him, when he himself is on here with a single profile but is married. What a douche!
    To be honest, I really don't give a shit what others think of me being on here. It's not for them to decide. It shouldn't even be a topic of conversation in a workplace.

    Ms Foxy

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    13 days ago

    The correct answer is "This is our first time at an event like this!"
    Followed by "how are you guys enjoying it?"

    Yes it happens because there are not that many people and events are limited. About 3 times for us.