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One on One swap for the night???
October 11 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Do you mean having sleepovers? I'd prefer my partner come back to me each night. But I suppose that might change if they had a regular lover I don't see that as a next step necessarily. Some couples enjoy swinging because they are together, if they were to go it alone it might not as appeal as much. So, everyone gets or satisfies something different within themselves. Having boyfriend/girlfriends may not always appeal.
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TWOfourYOU
8 years ago
Interesting.....For us its about the enjoyment we have together while partaking in the fun with anther couple and single guy, the visual enjoyment and the experience we have in the group at the time....But hey each to there own! Will be following to see if it is common...
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FredAndGinger2
8 years ago
We've spoken to a few couples that are very comfortable to go out on separate dates with their boy/girl friends. That scenario wouldn't work for us personally but I can imagine how erotic and emotionally-exciting that could be. It does seem almost like a polyamorous lifestyle. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Definitely refining the open relationship definition. Compare notes over lunch next day.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We've done it a few times but with just one of us going with a "single", works for us as we are more into open play rather than everyone in the same room. Doing it with a couple would be fun too I imagine! Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
will be doing that and more when I snare a partner in crime 👍
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nightingale8
8 years ago
There's definitely a range of couples out there and full swap apart seems to me like one of the rarest combinations. This is a real shame but each to their own. My partner and I found it tough matching our tastes so that both of us were happy with both members of another couple so we have solved this issue by just dating singles outside of the relationship. That way nobody is left out :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Moxters
8 years ago
same house different rooms for the night could be fun...
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Mask_007
8 years ago
I am very happy for you to get there and starting to contemplate the next level. We can doa swap is you would like. The only problem I am single. Then I go out with you and hi go out alone. Hahaha😉🙄 good call... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have done this in the past with a couple we are extremely close to on several occasions, even entire weekends away, it has always been awesome fun. But as with what others have suggested at, it was more of a poly relationship than usual swinging arrangement.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Called ''Getting Into The Swing Of Things'' that a couple have put together about their first forays into the swinging scene. Very interesting as you think swinging would be all beer and skittles - it turns out it's a lot harder than people think. Difficult personalities, sessions where only one partner is getting into it, blokes that do the old blow'n'go and forgetting about their missus wanting her fun. Just the hassle to set up a meet in the first place. They talk about same-room versus separate partner swaps. I always wondered why anyone would bother having separate rooms for a partner swap, I'm quite the voyeur and would want to watch my partner with another. Apparently though, you can spend too much time concentrating on what the others are doing and neglecting to have your own fun. Being in a separate room negates this, you are forced to concentrate on yourself and your swap partner. Just disregard or try to ignore Mrs Steak (her alias) saying ''right'' (pronounced as ''raaayt") waaaay too much in an annoying nasal-American tone. It really did bug me.
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Forus1234
8 years ago
We've been on weekends away with couples & singles, but everyone has retreated to their own rooms to sleep after play. We have talked about & considered swap for the night in others beds, but....it would have to be with people we have known for a while. 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for all the well thought out replies guys 😁 we were thinking of edging our way towards a poly amorous relationship but with us always being at the centre. The excitement of meeting new people and how sexy it makes you feel when you can woo someone for a one night stand is something we are both into. To start out we were looking at meeting a couple potentially all play together, then date together but leave separately, then perhaps date separately and play separately. Always in all scenarios coming home to each other for the balance of the night. We are probably a ways off that last comma section but we could perhaps one day be in that mindset. An interesting topic, and we would love to hear further feedback especially from people who have successfully played this way and lead this lifestyle. Special thanks to okeydoke we love podcasts! 😂😂 MnM xx 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not polyamory hahaha we don't want bf/gf hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We’ve talked about it and it is something we would definitely do with the right couple once we’ve played as a couple.
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totallygenuine
8 years ago
I had experienced many 1 on 1 stay overs with the gf's/wives of the couples that I had formed solid poly relationships with from over the years (and still to date we all still keep in touch minus the play) lol I guess it all comes down to is what your both comfortable with at the end of the day.
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tomrach79
8 years ago
We have just ‘broken up’ with our boyfriend and girlfriend. Things were great and we first played as a foursome. Then we did seperate rooms full swap and progressed to individual dates. As fun and exciting as it was, it started to miss the point for us! We actually liked being all together with this particular couple as we were good friends before swinging. I guess the moral is, try not to label something just to call it something. Play each situation / couple / partner as it comes. But lash out and try it! It was fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
By us, more one night stand things and I agree plying together first would be a must I reckon. Another interesting podcast is swinger diaries which is a good podcast for content but not so much audio quality. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My ex wife and I had a completely open and honest marriage for the last 5/15 years. We’ve spoken about it since and both agree it was probably the closest and happiest we’ve ever been. We would after wait up for each other and share a bottle of wine. She would tell me about her dates and ask me for advice, or we’d do cute little things for each other in preparation for dates (she used to sneak quality chocolate bars into my bag for late night treats) We were supportive, empathetic, and caring for each other; and ultimately when we decided to divorce it was without malice or hatred. We divorced for reasons unrelated to our open relationships and have maintained an incredibly close relationship. I don’t believe my current partner and I are in this space and am not sure if we ever will be. It’s up to each couple to decide what works for them and be respectful, honourable, and loving about it. Peace Out Silver Wolf. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
My wife might be ok with it but only because I snore. I keep telling i cant hear me :D - Posted from rhpmobile
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