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One hot and one not so hot in a couple
January 24 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
.. to ensure the girls are satisfied.... ?OK... so.. start "Working your arse off" to get yourself back in shape.... Is THAT an option?I am 57.. fit healthy and worked my arse off all my life.. outwork guys less then half my age any job anywhere.. or give it one hell of a crack.. watch "The SUGAR Movie" learn what works for YOUR body and stop following the crowd..MOST humans for example should NOT eat grains... and should NOT drink beer...MATE.. I say this for one reason.... I don't give a fck WHAT you look like.. or what you think of yourself... "I am NOT going to fuck you anyway"BUT.. YOU have a problem with you.. so... HERE is the solution...1) CHANGE youOR2) ACCEPT youEither one of these will solve your problemNow.. get OFF your arse.. and go for a walk around the local park....A GOOD BRISK walk....and change your life.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is self deprecating..... But.... There's a fine line between self deprecating and self loathing.... That's loathing.....not loafing lol which is us lol If we had dandruff we could call ourselves a lamington lol At least lamingtons will even the field hahaha lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
From someone who has struggled with body image issues my entire life (since primary school), my advice is this: Stop assuming that you're not as desirable as any other man on here. People have different desires, different tastes, and what one person things is sexy someone else won't. Accept that not everyone will think you're hot, but plenty will. Sexy and attractiveness is not only the physical, it's the rest of you too. Trust me, an "average/cuddly/bigger" guy, who's funny and sweet and cheeky and who puts in effort in the bedroom, is far sexier than some ripped guy who has no personality and is a selfish lover. Ripped guys intimidate me anyway, so I steer clear of them! 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Curioustwo88
9 years ago
I think it really depends on the type of people that you are meeting up with. For my husband and I it really has doesn't have much to do with what a person looks like and more to do with their personality! If people have a great personality and we all get along well it makes them a lot hotter!!! I get what you are saying though about showing your personality through your profile. It can be difficult to articulate, I always find it hard to write something that captures us. I guess sit down and look at what you have written and make sure it captures what you want it to. Mrs Curious - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Shame your in NSW I love a bigger bloke - Posted from rhpmobile
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usnow
9 years ago
While what you say is 100 % correct , many woman here are so overwhelmed with contacts ( and also get a little ahead of themselves with all of the attention ) that's how they work through them , so the guy with all those things you mention doesn't get a chance to show them .
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yeah I think my original question may not have been worded correctly. I have no issue with how I look don't mind at all that I am bigger I am more wondering how to show off on profiles when you don't have those attributes in muscles and being ripped. Once again no problem with how I look just wondering how to stand out more I guess!! Thanks for all your responses! - Posted from rhpmobile
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ReyandJean
9 years ago
Self-confidence is the greatest aphrodisiac. Hard to show your character to its best advantage over the internet. Get into as many face to face confrontations as you can, believe in yourself and take rejection as positive feedback. Having said that I do about 500 sit-up thingies a week and otherwise spend my lunch hours in the gym. Being in shape definitely helps with the self-belief. Rey
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hahaha! Not as your profile pic anyway, maybe in your private pics if you have to. Maybe you can write a bit about your personality, but don't blabber on about how you can satisfy any woman blah blah blah. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, you are 100% correct too. What may come across as rude and extremely picky is usually just the way the women here have to be in order to keep their messages to a manageable number. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes, you are 100% correct too. What may come across as rude and extremely picky is usually just the way the women here have to be in order to keep their messages to a manageable number. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Being a fatty like me, we already do!!! Hahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
Make you pics about you as a couple, there's a few individual pics but none of you together, so I can't form any opinion of you as a couple. If you are available only as a package then present yourself that way....thats always sexy.
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
I'm tall and lanky, I'm fit though, I do weights etc. sadly though when I had fwb and we were looking for other couples they want a bigger baulky guy and I do not fit that profile at all. Im the other end of the scale I'm thinner and is a turn off for a lot of women
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FredAndGinger2
9 years ago
Getting into reasonable shape is not hard. Don't watch TBL and think that's how it must be done. They are extreme examples. Watch Fat Head Movie and you will be shocked to see a guy eat Maccas for a month to lose weight and improve his blood counts. *Excess* carbs are your enemy My Ginger is simply not interested in guys that don't appeal to her both physically and in personality. This pond is large and we simply turn to the next profile.. Fred - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You look fine to me Lyndon - I was expecting to see a face like a bucketful of bashed crabs when I clicked on your profile photo. Hard to assess the rest from a chest-up pic but you certainly don't have the jowly appearance of someone who has spent too much time hanging around the pie van. If you're worried about the girth then like Cavey said, either learn to accept it and see the sexy in it (and there are women out there that love a more curvey bloke, just like there are blokes that like the same in women) or do something about it. A mate of mine, face like a bad pizza and less than concerned about his figure, but man could he pull chicks! You would walk into a pub with him and he would just project something. I am not kidding, women would approach him out of the blue all the time. He just had to stand there. Like the South Park movie (remember that?) ''chicks dig confidence''.
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RedHotCoast
9 years ago
....who looks like a train wreck but women love him. All he does is sit at the bar licking his eyebrows and women flock to him.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Different course for different horses. You have to be able to deal with rejection. Simple part of life. Definition of insanity is doing the same thing & expecting a different result. If you are not happy with the way you look physically either change your perspective or change yourself. When you feel confident in your own skin, you shine. It shows & you become a magnet. Study the laws of the Universe & you will understand. Remember photos are very one dimensional. They wont show off your amazing personality. Things will click eventually. Not everybody likes a "cock shot' or a ripped torso. If people don't like you or the way you look, tough titties. You're not in high school anymore. Just move the mouse, & move on. Or, hit the gym. Your choice.
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bebes5eva
9 years ago
I'm a bigger bloke too, so far it hasn't stopped people from contacting us too much. I've found that because our public pics have our faces covered we do better sending messages than flirts. I think when we send a flirt a girl my look at my body and be less interested but if I send a confident message and attach face pics we do much better, I think the face is important. - Posted from rhpmobile
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bebes5eva
9 years ago
You'll also find plenty of women don't mind or even like bigger guys, or are interested in masculine dudes and bigger guys seem to exude that a bit more. I think my beard gets me over the line with some couples lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had poor body image for ages and swinging helped me change that! I lost 25kg and feel way better in myself and has given me confidence I didnt have! Im still a bigger dude and can relate with what your saying - my wife is a stunner and always has been and she gets alot more attention then I do! Although I do get attention also! Being comfortable in yourself and condident is sexy! - Posted from rhpmobile
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