M56

One for the Couples

November 05 2008

Here is a question for the couples out there, When couples are seeking a guy for some fun times do you prefer to hook up with attached or married guys or do you prefer to hook up with single guys? The reason I ask this question is I have heard stories on how the swinging couple hook up with a young stud for some fun and it starts out as 3some fun, then after a while the hubby starts to let the wifey have some fun alone with the young stud and before long hubby lets wifey and stud go out together and so on (usually to fill the husbands desire to be a cuckolded husband and to see wifey really let go and be greatly satisfied and pleasured) then before long wifey and hot stud are becoming an item and hubby is no longer a hubby. So as a couple do you feel more comfortable seeing a single guy or a attached / Married guy (where also there is the thought that the couple wants nothing to do with a cheating attached / married guy) Oh well I hope you all get what I mean cause I did garble on a bit. thanks for your time and input. Nel.

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playfulminx

17 years ago

For me personally (and hubby also), we prefer unattached men. I like the idea of a threesome - not three people in the room with one other person somewhere in the world not being a part of it, knowingly or unknowingly. I'm not into entertaining guys who are cheating and even if a guy is in a genuine open relationship, I still find it weird. I can see how an attached guy could be viewed as safe but I've seen enough cases of people getting emotionally involved regardless of marital status. At the end of the day, you just have to lay down the ground rules properly before you bring home a boy, married or not ;)

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RHP User

17 years ago

Actually that's a great theory except couples who swing enjoy it only when they completely trust each other not to run off with the fuck. Your logic could also be flawed the other way.... I would assume immediately that us married cheating guys are not about to run off with the fuck because most of us are quite comfortable being married to the women we love, however.... that's from my perspective... there are married guys who are not happy living with the woman they no longer love... and are just as likely to run off with the fuck as any single guy is. Just my thoughts.

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RHP User

17 years ago

I would see it as a glaring problem if the wife wanted to just be with me and not have the husband around. That said, I prefer couple play where the husband gets to fuck her while I get to kiss and feel her all over... I just really enjoy being able to focus on a woman getting off and turning her on even more. Maybe it's because I'm a man and I can't multi-task, but I find having sex while trying to do that just doesn't really work. A woman needs two guys.* LOL! * for awesome sex, but only one for a good relationship ... and you thought that YOU garbled...

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RHP User

16 years ago

you know why

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RHP User

16 years ago

...and some of that you mentioned. Vague I know, but from my experience, when an on-going relationship has been established with a couple, all sorts of variants can happen(as you outlined). Depends on the couple and what He & She desires. It can be specific to start but evolve into all sorts of scenario's. With one, with two, all three. Obviously attached men are less available and lower risk, single men more available higher risk. But that's a generalisation. The couple makes and breaks the rules. I'm always happy to be part of the adventure, whatever the parameters. And when I was the male of the couple for a time there, the same applied in reverse. Always exciting, whatever the turn of events.

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