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On your face is not for me!

December 07 2011

For the record... I love receiving and giving oral... however, having my bits positioned above a man's face whilst receiving oral is, for me, the most vulnerable, exposed and uncomfortable position I can be in. I can't explain why it is, apart from that I'm a giver, not a taker and prefer submissive positions, to me being in a dominant one (although that doesn't mean that I won't take control) When I have found myself in that position, I would only ever be there for a couple of minutes maximum.... not that I don't enjoy the sensation, I just feel exposed and even self conscious.   Fellow RHP friends, what position are you most uncomfortable with or don't like and/or can you please give me some advice on this?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My advice is to close yr eyes and just pretend yr some where safe or yr happy place and enjoy the orgasm. I like it from behind bent over

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You should you tube the vagina monologues.... love your vagina like we do! hehe. Personally, I'm not in the hand on the back of the head either being forced onto or indeed forcing said head onto a dick. I know some gals totally enjoy that and I have obviously participated when required but I feel very uncomfortable about it. It's probably a hang up that with years of therapy I could get over... but who's got the time?HUgsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This is not the same but still a vulnerable time for me..it is when i am getting very close to cumming..and i dont want to just yet..it is like any touch could make me explode....love it !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Is where I belong :) I LOVE it I like the visual and the control , love it love it love it Hmmm not much makes me feel exposed sexually , I don't like being tied up though , does that count?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm not really comfortable sitting on a guys face either.... I just feel like I'm suffocating them!! Much prefer just to be on my back when recieving oral....so yeah I would have to agree with you :) x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Agree with what you both say.. I also feel vunerable sitting on a guys face and much prefer to receive my oral while laying on my back or even sitting on the edge of a chair or reclining on a lounge.. That way I not only feel whats happening but I can also watch whats happening. Far more forfilling and more comfortable for bothl.. Mr JJ , always gives that way and has not even suggested I sit on his face... ( at least not for years now, was different when we were new). I agree with the suffocation bit also.... Mrs JJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You have to hold yourself up right so that you dont actually smother the man beneath you and the effort required to stay in position detracts from the ability to completely relax and abandon oneself to the moment. No I would rather not sit on thier face either.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Will you still look deep into my eyes as your sitting on my face !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have a friend who loves it when I go down on her but is never keen to sit on or over my face. I like the control a woman has when she is above me and I'm pleasing her but if she is not in to it then it's no good for either of us. She likes to take control in other ways though, just not sitting on my face

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I feel smothered and its hard to use fingers and I want space. ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Love being under a tasty pussy u get better access to it all and arse aswell mmmmmmnm yummy pussy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    "Sit on my face and tell me that you love meI'll sit on your face and say I love you tooo"Too hard and I always get cramp at the wrong moment.

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Agree with everyone here that having the woman on her back lets her totally feel the moment and relax. Too much effort for her to be kneeling over me and as I like to take my time there is definitely the possibility of cramps and that does not help. I would suggest you are more exposed and vulnerable when on your back since when over their face you can just get up anytime you feel uncomfortable with it.   I am not a fan of "over the leg" when giving or receiving oral. Find it uncomfortable with the pressure of weight on the thigh distracting from the other feelings. Much prefer to be between with the legs spread wide. ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    With a beautiful sexy woman laying back in a leather chair wearing your suit jacket...Absolutely bliss ;) I am the luckiest guy in the world.But the best position is undoubtedly with her laying back on a bed where you can be such pleasure...Though I am open to suggestions...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I love squatting over a man's face whilst he's doing his deed. I prefer to ride the man and just as I am about to cum, I plonk myself upon his face, so he can drink my cum My favourite position is DP whilst sucking on a cock I like 69 with me on top.If the guy is on top, I feel like I'm being suffocated by his balls and gagging on his cock if rammed too far in.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    wot if you were there for AGES, and started O'ing like outt of control, u may forget to let your man get air lol!   I've met a few guys that CANNOT get enough of 69rs, they want me on top and they seem to get off on me getting off so much that i have been restrained there while trying to break free from O OO OOOSSOOOOSOOOOOOOO ooooo OOO, can get pretty crazy! hehe What i find funny about it, is whilst they are hell bent on sending me to another solar system, i am unable to really manage bugger all in return during the whole thing, but they don't care?! I don't think they have too much time to gawk at ones exposed lady bits, i think they are more interested in the bucking screaming bonko they've created haha   I feel vulnerable when instead of the natural craziness of where sex takes you, the odd player sorta interrupts it, for 'let's try this position' and if it ain't common place, by the time what goes where is communicated, the syncronisty of the dance is gone, from flow to where do/does it go???   Just go with it!! don't think about anything

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't have a problem riding a persons face, ride it like it's Seabiscuit. Oh yeah!! My legs can fit around the biggest head :p Although I do feel a bit vulnerable in the cow girl position, for one, knees/legs don't go around the guy cause I am so short and I am a bit selfconcious of my big boobs wobbling about. So I usually avoid this position .... Shame cause it does feel good. :( xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    There are quite a few men out there that I wouldnt mind suffocating to death with my pussy!!!   Pusscat xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I don't have a problem riding a persons face, ride it like it's Seabiscuit. Oh yeah!! My legs can fit around the biggest head :p Although I do feel a bit vulnerable in the cow girl position, for one, knees/legs don't go around the guy cause I am so short and I am a bit selfconcious of my big boobs wobbling about. So I usually avoid this position .... Shame cause it does feel good. :( xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I much prefer to be on my back when receiving oral..... especially when handcuffed to the bed

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Love that idea Pusscat   xx SnS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    so here is the reason,once she is positioned above me i can feel the way her body quivers above me. i mean every single quiver, every single quiver and every single shudder. i can run my hands up her body, touch her ass, her breasts as she rides me. from below her i can watch her and see how much pleasure she is getting. at that point its covered all my senses, touch, smell, taste, hearing and sight. it is a mighty powerful experience for me when she comes.sure its fun in other positions, but none give me the same feeling. so if you want my thoughts get your guy/ girl to put a blind fold on (it might not help the feeling of exposed though)cheersa

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The best oral I ever received involved me on all fours with him coming at me from behind (I was on a bed and he was at the end of it). The only time I've ever squirted from oral sex and I nearly drowned the poor boy. Damn he had a tongue to die over and over and over again for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Geez if I can have his cock all the way down my throat for as long as it takes trying to circular breath like a sword swallowing didjeridoo artist then he can manage- especially when they probably love it..... ask them if they do to quell self consciousness :) I love it, with just the right amount of suction given I can grind myself to orgasm in a few minutes- little to no tongue or fingering required and it seems different and more pleasurable when my body is in an active state opposed to a passive lying down one which I like firstly.....and then......Legs straddling, thighs quivering, face and hands and forearms sucking in the cold of the plaster wall, tits filling my man's hands, hair in my face = big orgasm.Free's up my man's hands as he isn't stuck on an elbow or 2. I love that it more comfortable for him just to lay there as I sort myself out and he just gets to relax.Just as you are getting a bit more committed to the orgasm lean back slightly to give an area around his nose to breathe and if he starts slapping you silly then don't be like "wow he's kinky tonight" and consider that he may not be able to breathe hahaha but don't let that stop you what's the worse that could happen- He could pass out or die from pussy most men would be willing to take that risk and die with honour lolCass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I can't handle it!!! It's the 2nd time I have done it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    As long as he is good with his tongue...he can do me in ANY position!!! I love face sitting....my only problem is I cum too fast....bloody hard...but too fast! . I don't care which way he licks me out...me face riding him...me on my back...me on all fours...me on a chair...me on a swing............Just lick me out good! My fantasy is to be licked out blindfolded...mmm would love to have that done by a stranger with no words exchanged!   xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hmmm, I love the sensation of sitting of a guys face; having total control over the intensity of the stimulation and being able to pull back if I want.But...I get very very wet and I get self conscious about juices running down into his throat and choking (or worse, drowning him...gosh, explain that one to the police officers)... kinda takes a little off the edge

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I dont feel comfortable at all sitting on a mans face cause of the smothering thing but also cause im holding a little extra weight and self conscious about it i dont think its a very flattering angle   I dont mind the 69 possie with me on top but as fiona said its tough on the arms and body to give the person underneath you some room   I would much prefer to be on my back or on a chair/lounge

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' As long as he is good with his tongue...he can do me in ANY position!!! I love face sitting....my only problem is I cum too fast....bloody hard...but too fast! . I don't care which way he licks me out...me face riding him...me on my back...me on all fours...me on a chair...me on a swing............Just lick me out good! My fantasy is to be licked out blindfolded...mmm would love to have that done by a stranger with no words exchanged!   xFunlovingx want to wear that blindfold on top of this face funloving?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The most vulnerable I felt was being on the bottom of a MFM and that was mostly because my only option was to lay back and enjoy the moment with two people laying on me. I soldiered through it! If it's not doing it for you then don't do it. Work on the position that does make you week at the knees for a day or two!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'nsamark1980' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' As long as he is good with his tongue...he can do me in ANY position!!! I love face sitting....my only problem is I cum too fast....bloody hard...but too fast! . I don't care which way he licks me out...me face riding him...me on my back...me on all fours...me on a chair...me on a swing............Just lick me out good! My fantasy is to be licked out blindfolded...mmm would love to have that done by a stranger with no words exchanged!   xFunlovingx want to wear that blindfold on top of this face funloving? Oh yes please....just pick the place and time and make sure that your face isn't late!! xFunlovingx