M57 F49
Old Days Old Ways
April 20 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
We should go back 50 years because everything was awesome then. There was another thread which was unceremoniously hijacked and nobody really got a chance to prove the past should be the future, so before this happens I would refer you to youtube. Search: Harry Enfield - Women know your limits Harry Enfield - Women Don't Drive The Trouble with women 1959 . . ps - I am disappointed when bitter, jaded, paid up members of the 'Damaged Women's Coalition' group men into a single basket, it is worse when men do it because it makes me spew in my mouth and then I have to swallow it. Thanks for that Mr Mum, perhaps you can apply to become a member.
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15 years ago
Yeah... take us back 50 years and illegal immigrants who set fire to detention centres would be trotted off this island on the end of a pointy stick. I mean, they're not prospective model citizens ffs, so piss them off back home, wherever that is. What have we become, when we are so politically correct that people float all the way here on leaky wooden rafts to take advantage of our social generosity?HugsStalky
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15 years ago
There are many wonderful men out there and I am Sorry JG but I am neither bitter, jaded nor damaged. I just refuse to give in to the opinion of a few. MrMum if you have a more traditional relationship...and it works for you....good on you. What you need to remember that it IS different strokes for different folks. Not all of us desire that wedding ring, that little certificate that says we are now joined under the law and in gods eyes...yadda, yadda, yadda. Some on this site have tried the traditional life and it did not work for them. Some (like myself) never wanted to get married but have had a long term significant other. (over 20 years) Most (not all) of the single women on here are happy being single at this point in time. A relationship can not always be fixed by just working at it. I am sorry for your simplistic view but in my opinion it is a little smug, complacent and unrealistic. l Now Stalky and JG...no where did the OP mention a time frame of 50 years and he would certainly not have been alive then. Just quietly I thought that the late 70's early 80's was a fabulous time.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Yeah... take us back 50 years to the day when a little boy with curly blonde hair was born. He was such a naughty boy but everyone loved him. Especially his favourite toy rabbit - with the oddly chocolate coloured tail. The boy so loved his rabbit - strangely he kept offering it beer? Why you ask - we don't know as little boys are just plain wierd. But he always opened car doors for the rabbit, always parting his fur looking for ticks. So you see chilvary is not dead .......................
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15 years ago
Hey you guys are developing a theme ! All these post are very similair and I think you probably need your own little section ! Romance has one on Anal sex but its not offical ....yet ! But they are self appointed anal sex moderaters ! Hmmm any ideas for a title for that section we have Hot topics Girls Ask Guys Ask Couples corner ummmmmmmmm A section for this stuff hmmmmmm .......anyone with any ideas ???? You know something we can role this into one whole section about supporting cuddly husbands , men making decisions etc etc Brae ........ Not particularly creative today !
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15 years ago
Far out! the 70's were an exciting period in our history! Women were encouraged to explore their sexuality, try out sex toys, take the pill, have more than one sexual partner. . . and yes . . . we did all this because we were members of the Damaged Women's Coalition. No man ever benefited from the women's liberation movement did they????????????????Good on men who liberate themselves from the belief they they CAN'T share the domestic workload or take responsibility for the emotional maintenance of a relationship.
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15 years ago
maybe that makes me old fashioned.... in defence to younger men a lot still do open doors, carry heavy items, and do "man jobs" that i am quite capable of doing myself (like change a car tyre etc). maybe it just has a lot do with the way you are raised?
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15 years ago
Chivalry has its place always, and I do like that occasionally . I like a man to be a grrrr man , but and its a big but......if I need to re-assure him that he's a big man and can take care of me in AND out of the bedroom, then it's all smoke and mirrors. Because deep down it means that I'll always be laying in the wet spot saying "No I dont mind baby, really, you deserve the dry spot so you can sleep" Cos one day your little lady is going to wake up with a ROAR because she's been so busy looking after someone elses insecurities that she forgot about what she wants, you know...what she really wants. And that might be something as simple as wanting to lay back and feel another woman's tongue going to town on her pussy without having to worry about things like," Oh gawd is he feeling like he's missing out, is this hurting his feelings, does he want it to stop, why can't he just leave the room if he's going to make me feel like this" you know, that kind of stuff You might be thinking Im a hard bitch right now, but I'm always an honest bitch .
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15 years ago
I did not know jaded was in the forum, my bride can have all she wants when she wants and if she wants to lie back and enjoy another woman, good on her. I did not marry her because she cant make her own decisions, on top of that she doesnt lie there thinking what she wants, she tells me, maybe that is where you went wrong, perhaps honesty and openess does still work, I notice you talk about dry spots, experience I guess can lead to that statement, why not have a man that would lay in the "wet spot" for you?, that is chivalry. I guarantee you one thing, if you find a man that will do it, he willl not be thinking "I dont mind baby" he will be thinking how nice it was to make the wet spot with you. Chivalry! It does have its place, everyday, every train ride, every bus ride, where a seat should be given up for a lady, every time a door is held open, so you can enter first, considering the content of your post you may try being a little more accepting, a little more engaging and receptive to these potential actions. You see I am of the mindset that a lady is a special thing, you dont need to dominate her, you need to care for her, protect her and be thankful to her for chosing you. Honest you may be, but left out is what it sounds like to me. You will disagree with me and I expect that, but I do hope one day you are treated like a lady, if you are you will always want more. There was a day when ladies were ladies, a time when woman were respected. I know I will be controvesial to the new thinking style that many woman today dont need any help, assistance or for that matter a man.
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15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' There are many wonderful men out there and I am Sorry JG but I am neither bitter, jaded nor damaged. I just refuse to give in to the opinion of a few. MrMum if you have a more traditional relationship...and it works for you....good on you. What you need to remember that it IS different strokes for different folks. Not all of us desire that wedding ring, that little certificate that says we are now joined under the law and in gods eyes...yadda, yadda, yadda. Some on this site have tried the traditional life and it did not work for them. Some (like myself) never wanted to get married but have had a long term significant other. (over 20 years) Most (not all) of the single women on here are happy being single at this point in time. A relationship can not always be fixed by just working at it. I am sorry for your simplistic view but in my opinion it is a little smug, complacent and unrealistic. l Now Stalky and JG...no where did the OP mention a time frame of 50 years and he would certainly not have been alive then. Just quietly I thought that the late 70's early 80's was a fabulous time. Oh when I was referring to bitter jaded and damaged I wasn't necessarily just referring to you.... and the 50 year thing was something I just made up myself... not the OP. But then I guess pin-up girls to me are synonymous with WW2 and the 50's and 60's, less so of the 70s and 80s. I just took some liberty and assumed. . No big deal.. I mean you must've made some assumptions in your time... even in your post. Although I agree with it for the most part. Quoting 'mumonmum' I did not know jaded was in the forum, my bride can have all she wants when she wants and if she wants to lie back and enjoy another woman, good on her. I did not marry her because she cant make her own decisions, on top of that she doesnt lie there thinking what she wants, she tells me, maybe that is where you went wrong, perhaps honesty and openess does still work, I notice you talk about dry spots, experience I guess can lead to that statement, why not have a man that would lay in the "wet spot" for you?, that is chivalry. I guarantee you one thing, if you find a man that will do it, he willl not be thinking "I dont mind baby" he will be thinking how nice it was to make the wet spot with you. Chivalry! It does have its place, everyday, every train ride, every bus ride, where a seat should be given up for a lady, every time a door is held open, so you can enter first, considering the content of your post you may try being a little more accepting, a little more engaging and receptive to these potential actions. You see I am of the mindset that a lady is a special thing, you dont need to dominate her, you need to care for her, protect her and be thankful to her for chosing you. Honest you may be, but left out is what it sounds like to me. You will disagree with me and I expect that, but I do hope one day you are treated like a lady, if you are you will always want more. There was a day when ladies were ladies, a time when woman were respected. I know I will be controvesial to the new thinking style that many woman today dont need any help, assistance or for that matter a man. Do you seriously think you're Robinson Crusoe when it comes to being chivalrous and respecting women? It might not be how you wanted to come across, but read your posts, you make it sound like your the lone ranger trying to resurrect some sort of societal order... Please don't make me swallow my own spew again...
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15 years ago
Fair crack of the whip, I do not believe for one minute that I am the lone ranger! Read the posts, my reply is my reply, if you read a lot of posts here you will see a common factor, men dont seem to fair to well. My point being if more men held open a door and be a little old fashioned, then the difference may be nice. perhaps you may like to pen your own thoughts instead of quoting quotes. anyway good to see debate lives on
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15 years ago
Perhaps tainted would be a better word for me than jaded ?? And its because I have a good memory, yes even here in the forums when people ask advice about ohh I dunno.......help in getting a third person into the bedroom when they're not attracted to the cuddly hubby type.....that was the 'expense' of the little lady I was speaking of. And her trying to make up for it by gushing about how wonderful he really is. Well good on her to a point, but its just not going to convince any third person to get suddenly attracted to him.. I have been treated like a lady, and not just by my ex (cos Im sure he did at one stage, 13 yrs is a lot to remember) and if Im honest with myself those men from my friends list who treated me like a lady could have gone a bit easier on that front, heck Im not THAT much of a lady Im not really here to look for chivalry, and Im not even sure its the first thing on many girls minds here..... You are talking about within your marriage, as to how applicable the decision making and chivalry works, fair enough, but you can't expect others who are either here for what they don't receive in their marriage, or dont want the feely schmeeliness of the marriage to coincide with their sex life, or god forbid they should decide to go it on their own ....poor single girls who couldnt possibly cope without a strong decision making man . lefty loosey, righty tighty !! see I can manage quite nicely hmmmmm feel like a nice screwdriver
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mumonmum' There was a day when ladies were ladies, a time when woman were respected. Can you please define " a lady " for me .....IYO ? I know I will be controvesial to the new thinking style that many woman today dont need any help, assistance or for that matter a man. Of course we all need help, of course we all need assistance...ocassionally and yes we all need a man every now and then. Thats what friends are for and if the friend cant fix it...I can hire me a the right man for the job!
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15 years ago
FOR FUCK SAKE GET OVER IT WILL YOU ALL !!!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'missbowpeek'FOR FUCK SAKE GET OVER IT WILL YOU ALL !!! im with you all the way missb but i will add, im not jaded, im bitter and twisted...who the hell needs or wants a man all the time, i dont, i can do things for myself and like Fionabee if i cant i know how to hire one to do it for me roxxy
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15 years ago
Its a habit that just comes naturally for me. At a very early age we were taught to respect and show manners to others. To this day, I still open doors for a lady/ girl.. I will stand and offer my seat in a bus train etc to the elderly, pregnant women, women with babies or children and I often help a lady upstairs with prams or any difficult situation.. I dont do it for brownie points, I do it because thats just the way we were bought up. Sadly, in todays world this has fallen by the wayside. Too many lame brains who can only think of themselves.. Rather than offer some respect, they are libel to mug you instead....
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15 years ago
I have a wonderful partner that gives me his hand when I get up from sitting, does all the harder jobs, puts my preferences first, makes me breakfast in bed if I sleep longer than him and generally keeps me in comfort. On the other hand I get to assemble things like engine hoists, 1tonne presses and heavy engine stands. I built all the shelving in the storage area and workshop. He encourages my hobby of putting my WRX through its paces on the skidpan (and will later on the race track), and is very supportive of my line of work.What about a combination of old and new and calling it "Modern Chivalry"??
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15 years ago
Well said Justjuice. Quoting 'justjuice' Its a habit that just comes naturally for me. At a very early age we were taught to respect and show manners to others. To this day, I still open doors for a lady/ girl.. I will stand and offer my seat in a bus train etc to the elderly, pregnant women, women with babies or children and I often help a lady upstairs with prams or any difficult situation.. I dont do it for brownie points, I do it because thats just the way we were bought up. Sadly, in todays world this has fallen by the wayside. Too many lame brains who can only think of themselves.. Rather than offer some respect, they are libel to mug you instead....
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15 years ago
Quoting 'naughtygirl4310'maybe that makes me old fashioned.... in defence to younger men a lot still do open doors, carry heavy items, and do "man jobs" that i am quite capable of doing myself (like change a car tyre etc). maybe it just has a lot do with the way you are raised? EVEN GAY MEN!! I had a great gay friend and he was taught by his mum to always pay and to open door for females etc etc I had to hide my share of restaurant bills in his jacket pockets etc but it was gorgeous that it was just something that he liked to do :) I am useless with household fix it jobs and i have ANOTHER gay friend who doesn't mind doing these things for me! Plus I have been out with HEAPS of mates and whether the guys were single/taken, many of them are super polite and have all the old world charm. I have been treated 5 star by many of my friends partners, it is very welcoming when you are visiting, or out with them somewhere :) These days we are lucky, if your marriage/relationship blows up in your face after a decade like it did me, then there are options! I tried for 18 months to get him to deal with our new found issues (parenting, his mum stepped in and took his place, and he lost his opinion/backbone/mind?! And hid in his work for 70 hours or so a week). If i had to stick with that marriage like woman in the past had to due to social stigma or not being able to support themselves. I without out a doubt (if i didn't go to jail for wringing his mums neck first) would have lost myself in unhappiness and not been the best that i could be for my daughter as a role model nor enjoy life the way i could as a free happy person (that i am building back bit by bit). My ex is a DIFFERENT person now in my eyes, all the words around family and parenting were complete fiction... But we are both to blame, it isn't all him, so i am not man bashing. There are many wonderful men out there and lucky me will get to experience more of them now, there is an upside to everything right? Choices/options/freedom/awareness/less judgement/understanding/acceptance/open minds/information age/global village etc... LOVE IT!!!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Its a habit that just comes naturally for me. At a very early age we were taught to respect and show manners to others. To this day, I still open doors for a lady/ girl.. I will stand and offer my seat in a bus train etc to the elderly, pregnant women, women with babies or children and I often help a lady upstairs with prams or any difficult situation.. I dont do it for brownie points, I do it because thats just the way we were bought up. Sadly, in todays world this has fallen by the wayside. Too many lame brains who can only think of themselves.. Rather than offer some respect, they are libel to mug you instead.... not just men do all this...i do everything you have mentioned and so do my children..male and female...so why do men need a pat on the back for it?? roxxy
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15 years ago
Roxxy let's put up a "Men At Work" sign for them pmsl then we'll put one up for us girls
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15 years ago
Tassie Rose and Dontgothere.... Fair dinkim.. some people always seem keen to try and find a way to turn something good into something bad. I was not talking about you or the fact that you and your children also pratice the things I menioned.. Thats for you to say, not me. I was talking about how things are today vs the way I / we were taught way back when.. Sensualnight read it as it was meant to be read .. If you girls have a problem with that, thats your problem.. If you dont , and care to want to make a positive contribution... thats also up to you.. I practice what I preach... I just dont talk about it... Any futher negative comment.. ??? hmmm
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15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3' Romance has one on Anal sex but its not offical ....yet ! But they are self appointed anal sex moderaters ! I hope you have got a lot out of our cautions on recieving, As you would know,double anal and fisting requires additional precautions. Cheers!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Tassie Rose and Dontgothere.... Fair dinkim.. some people always seem keen to try and find a way to turn something good into something bad. I was not talking about you or the fact that you and your children also pratice the things I menioned.. Thats for you to say, not me. I was talking about how things are today vs the way I / we were taught way back when.. I practice what I preach... I just dont talk about it... Any futher negative comment.. ??? hmmm how am i being negitive...i just stated that it isnt men that do it...i was raised to stand and offer my seat, to hold open a door for someone and to help with heavy loads...i was just pointing out that it isnt just men that do it, women are raised that way too...i for one am raising all my children to be rescpectful and curtious, to everyone, male and female i just would like to know why woman do these things and think nothing of it...but men think they are hero's because they do it....you might be a gentleman me JJ but i am one too (penis or not) roxxy
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15 years ago
C'mon JJ , my 'sign' post was typed with a very light heart. Its true though, you boys always tell us when You've done a good job didnt say it wasnt cute
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Its a habit that just comes naturally for me. At a very early age we were taught to respect and show manners to others. To this day, I still open doors for a lady/ girl.. I will stand and offer my seat in a bus train etc to the elderly, pregnant women, women with babies or children and I often help a lady upstairs with prams or any difficult situation.. I dont do it for brownie points, I do it because thats just the way we were bought up. Sadly, in todays world this has fallen by the wayside. Too many lame brains who can only think of themselves.. Rather than offer some respect, they are libel to mug you instead.... thank god there are others here that think like me/us. i'd never been called names for being too nice or too polite, until we came here and started posting in these forums. I love my wife, she loves me. makes life very simple. i open car doors, buy flowers and perfumes, remember everything she says to me and celebrate every milestone we share without prompting......our life is very happy as a result..........
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15 years ago
Quoting 'Romancefor4' Quoting 'looking2try3' Romance has one on Anal sex but its not offical ....yet ! But they are self appointed anal sex moderaters ! I hope you have got a lot out of our cautions on recieving, As you would know,double anal and fisting requires additional precautions. Cheers! Hey but your telling the story ! Brae ........;-)
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Its a habit that just comes naturally for me. At a very early age we were taught to respect and show manners to others. To this day, I still open doors for a lady/ girl.. I will stand and offer my seat in a bus train etc to the elderly, pregnant women, women with babies or children and I often help a lady upstairs with prams or any difficult situation.. I dont do it for brownie points, I do it because thats just the way we were bought up. Sadly, in todays world this has fallen by the wayside. Too many lame brains who can only think of themselves.. Rather than offer some respect, they are libel to mug you instead....As a woman I do that as well. I also insist on my children...male and female doing the same!
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Tassie Rose and Dontgothere.... Fair dinkim.. some people always seem keen to try and find a way to turn something good into something bad. I was not talking about you or the fact that you and your children also pratice the things I menioned.. Thats for you to say, not me. I was talking about how things are today vs the way I / we were taught way back when.. Sensualnight read it as it was meant to be read .. If you girls have a problem with that, thats your problem.. If you dont , and care to want to make a positive contribution... thats also up to you.. I practice what I preach... I just dont talk about it... Any futher negative comment.. ??? hmmm exactly....we've been subjected to the very same thing...say something nice and immediately someone crucifies you for it ....
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15 years ago
hi guys ,new to this thing, but chivalry is not dead, after i chopped the firewood,de-facto offered to carry the wood so i wouldn't get splinter's
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'justjuice' Tassie Rose and Dontgothere.... Fair dinkim.. some people always seem keen to try and find a way to turn something good into something bad. I was not talking about you or the fact that you and your children also pratice the things I menioned.. Thats for you to say, not me. I was talking about how things are today vs the way I / we were taught way back when.. Sensualnight read it as it was meant to be read .. If you girls have a problem with that, thats your problem.. If you dont , and care to want to make a positive contribution... thats also up to you.. I practice what I preach... I just dont talk about it... Any futher negative comment.. ??? hmmm exactly....we've been subjected to the very same thing...say something nice and immediately someone crucifies you for it .... Mike where is the crucifixion you've taken it to heart or the wrong way. There wasn't any nastiness in my post, in fact I said it was cute. Maybe not you in particular, but men do point out their little jobs to us girls, it's not necessarily a bad thing more like one of those little things that do endear you to a woman. My opinion on this topic was directed at the why shove the wonderful points of one man down our throats, when it actually sounds like an overcompensation for something else. And to be perfectly honest I dont even see where the chivalry had anything to do with it. In fact if anyone should be offended its the single ladies who were deemed 'pity worthy' in the opening post
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15 years ago
Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'justjuice' Tassie Rose and Dontgothere.... Fair dinkim.. some people always seem keen to try and find a way to turn something good into something bad. I was not talking about you or the fact that you and your children also pratice the things I menioned.. Thats for you to say, not me. I was talking about how things are today vs the way I / we were taught way back when.. Sensualnight read it as it was meant to be read .. If you girls have a problem with that, thats your problem.. If you dont , and care to want to make a positive contribution... thats also up to you.. I practice what I preach... I just dont talk about it... Any futher negative comment.. ??? hmmm exactly....we've been subjected to the very same thing...say something nice and immediately someone crucifies you for it .... Mike where is the crucifixion you've taken it to heart or the wrong way. There wasn't any nastiness in my post, in fact I said it was cute. Maybe not you in particular, but men do point out their little jobs to us girls, it's not necessarily a bad thing more like one of those little things that do endear you to a woman. My opinion on this topic was directed at the why shove the wonderful points of one man down our throats, when it actually sounds like an overcompensation for something else. And to be perfectly honest I dont even see where the chivalry had anything to do with it. In fact if anyone should be offended its the single ladies who were deemed 'pity worthy' in the opening post wasnt saying we had been crucified here, but certainly have elsewhere....there has been many time when someone says something nice/loving/supportive/cute about their partner, or a belief, and others immediately go on the 'attack' .these 2 have been shot down already in 3 forum topics they raised, and not by just one person, but by a few. and its not right........ if i made it feel like i singled you out, then i apologise. you had already redeemed yourself with an explanation. i too feel that its 'cute' sometimes, but would never take any good feelings away from anyone who loves/supports/cares for their partner like these 2 seem to.
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15 years ago
I can see we are on totally different pages here. When I wrote what I did, I did not sit there thinking I was about to insult either you or tassie rose or any other female. ? Im still scratching my head thinking how you or anyone could be offended by anything I had to say. Maybe you and tassie have had some bad experiences with male ego's in the past, but please dont tar everyone with the same brush.Haha.. had to laugh at your comment regarding shoveing something down your throat to over compensate for something else.. hehe.. My mind just went into overdrive.. for the record, Ive never had any complaints in that department, in fact quite the opposite.. oppps Tassie' have you been looking through my b/room window again ? hehe.. didnt think my cock would become involved in this, but it did.. haha..
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15 years ago
Dontgothere... If you dont mind, I would like to bring you a bunch of beautiull red roses when I pick you up in a flash white limo for our first date.. I promise I'll open the car door then reopen it again when we arrive at a nice pre booked resturant on the harbour. If you dont mind' I wll also make sure you are comfortably seated.. You can choose your favorite bottle of fine wine to have with our succulent dinner before we're both quite relaxed and engageing in a slow dance to some sensual mood music. leading to some warm cuddles and tender kisses. With the mood and the passion aroused we can then return to the comfort of the back seat of the limo... oppps, that is of course is if you dont mind being spoilt by a rather good looking red blooded male with manners.... hehe.. PS... just teasing
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15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Dontgothere... If you dont mind, I would like to bring you a bunch of beautiull red roses when I pick you up in a flash white limo for our first date.. I promise I'll open the car door then reopen it again when we arrive at a nice pre booked resturant on the harbour. If you dont mind' I wll also make sure you are comfortably seated.. You can choose your favorite bottle of fine wine to have with our succulent dinner before we're both quite relaxed and engageing in a slow dance to some sensual mood music. leading to some warm cuddles and tender kisses. With the mood and the passion aroused we can then return to the comfort of the back seat of the limo... oppps, that is of course is if you dont mind being spoilt by a rather good looking red blooded male with manners.... hehe.. PS... just teasing You almost had me there for a minute ya shit stirrer And for the record , at no time did I take offense to anything you wrote. It was the opening post only. When I was stirring myself and did the quote of Roxxy's post, yours just went along for the ride. . oh and a man who can slow dance is very very sexy
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15 years ago
As Mrs. Juice is obviously already well aware, you are as smooth as cat poo
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15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'dontgothere' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'justjuice' Tassie Rose and Dontgothere.... Fair dinkim.. some people always seem keen to try and find a way to turn something good into something bad. I was not talking about you or the fact that you and your children also pratice the things I menioned.. Thats for you to say, not me. I was talking about how things are today vs the way I / we were taught way back when.. Sensualnight read it as it was meant to be read .. If you girls have a problem with that, thats your problem.. If you dont , and care to want to make a positive contribution... thats also up to you.. I practice what I preach... I just dont talk about it... Any futher negative comment.. ??? hmmm exactly....we've been subjected to the very same thing...say something nice and immediately someone crucifies you for it .... Mike where is the crucifixion you've taken it to heart or the wrong way. There wasn't any nastiness in my post, in fact I said it was cute. Maybe not you in particular, but men do point out their little jobs to us girls, it's not necessarily a bad thing more like one of those little things that do endear you to a woman. My opinion on this topic was directed at the why shove the wonderful points of one man down our throats, when it actually sounds like an overcompensation for something else. And to be perfectly honest I dont even see where the chivalry had anything to do with it. In fact if anyone should be offended its the single ladies who were deemed 'pity worthy' in the opening post wasnt saying we had been crucified here, but certainly have elsewhere....there has been many time when someone says something nice/loving/supportive/cute about their partner, or a belief, and others immediately go on the 'attack' .these 2 have been shot down already in 3 forum topics they raised, and not by just one person, but by a few. and its not right........ if i made it feel like i singled you out, then i apologise. you had already redeemed yourself with an explanation.i too feel that its 'cute' sometimes, but would never take any good feelings away from anyone who loves/supports/cares for their partner like these 2 seem to. Ok and that's fair enough, I dont remember the shot down in flames threads of these two before, but it was actually on another one of theirs that something didnt seem quite right, and I (yes being me) voiced my opinion, but I ALSO said I didnt want to take any happiness away, I just wanted an explanation or a further one so I could perhaps take it in the manner it was intended. Nosy parker I know, but if you say something on here or ask an opinon, we all know that many varied ones are going to come back. The good the bad n the ugly as it happens Happy Easter anyway xx
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15 years ago
Seriously girls most of us can and do live very independently but society has become such a let down. Manners are missing in action nowadays, chivalry is hard to find, alot of romance is dead so when on occasions the above are found in a beautiful man, I will embrace it because it mirrors me and keeps me smiling. These posts get soooo caught up in everyone talking shit on their soapboxes. For all those negatives out there enjoy your independence we all do, we are all more than capable but give me a chivalrous man with manners that can lift heavy things and has a backbone aswell anyway over a bush pig who thinks only about him
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RHP User
15 years ago
........the way supposedly happily married couples either crow long and hard about thier relationships (and I am not saying that there is anything wrong at all with that) or spend thier entire time trying to point out the error of the ways of thier single friends? l I am more than happy ATM being single and lovin' it. I do not feel the need for a man, partner, significant other to compliment my skill set and share my space / house or yard workload. Why should I be pitied then? I CHOSE this lifestyle. When I am out with a friend and I decide I want to stay and have a BBQ at her house, I dont have to ring anyone and let them know. If I have one too many drinks at said friends' house, I dont need to let anyone know I am not coming home. I can do what I want, when I want. Go where I want, when I want. I am answerable to no one! I like being single. l If marriage is the bees knees, if you are so all fired in love and sooo wonderfully happy with it, if you compliment each other so well, then what the bloody hell are you doing here?
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RHP User
15 years ago
where you are coming from with that question Fiona, but I can still relate to why, it wasn't that long ago that I wanted to bring something extra into the bedroom. Wasn't received well though And I hate to think of all those years as wasted years when I think back, because they were my years as well, but gee what was I thinking . How can you be married to someone for so long and not realise how dramatically things can change
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dontgothere... you're right... I can be a bit of a stirrer sometimes.. but Im also a sucker for a slow dance while gazeing into the eyes of a very very sexy woman... specially if the mood is simmering... hmmmmm even though I ended that with a tounge in cheek comment.. dont waste the flattery... you earnt it.. hehe...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' If marriage is the bees knees, if you are so all fired in love and sooo wonderfully happy with it, if you compliment each other so well, then what the bloody hell are you doing here? Hehe Fiona, You have left the door open for this one! Its because this is a swingers sex site and us anyway are exploring the wonderfull world with other couples swinging, and having fun, Dont you agree! Cheers and Kisses!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'I hate to say it, but you're living in a fantasy world if you expect that kind of life to come true. Personally I would be happy to suscribe to your newsletter, if most of the women I'd met, or haven't for that matter didn't turn out to be total bitches or prick teases.... but again, I'm not holding my breath. Chivalry is dead, move the fuck on and make the most of this post-feminist emasculate world while you still have your balls. Allways enjoy your posts Nick, great sence of humour! ,
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RHP User
15 years ago
..just find yourself an English gentleman? We were brought up with all the old virtues :> The guys you are talking about might be aussie bogans / bevans/ westies..lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Yeah... take us back 50 years and illegal immigrants who set fire to detention centres would be trotted off this island on the end of a pointy stick. I mean, they're not prospective model citizens ffs, so piss them off back home, wherever that is. What have we become, when we are so politically correct that people float all the way here on leaky wooden rafts to take advantage of our social generosity?HugsStalky you got my vote 100% stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ok OP have read your post 3 times ( call me slow..) From your profile you are 41. I dated a lot of guys your age and older, hell Im in a relationship older then yours and in the length of time that's in line with the joke of prison sentences .In no way were they poster boys for chilvary. open car doors sure.Im sure guys do that now. You have been married eleven years and are out of the dating loop. What makes you think it doesn't happen now? If guys want to woo, they can pull out all the stops Im sure. This "Old Style" you are talking about relates to people in what I'd call grandparent status era and it couldn't have been that fantastic if women forged ahead with equal rights to work and earn a living along side thier man.So if you are talking solely in a relationship,again you are making MAJOR generalisations which if you can tell I always have issues with.I can see why independent single women women would take a stand against you feeling "sorry" for them as well.There are posters on here that whether they realise it or not , it feel like they are self advertising. Whether it be about there prowess, penis, or relationship, it can come across as self serving.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' ........the way supposedly happily married couples either crow long and hard about thier relationships (and I am not saying that there is anything wrong at all with that) or spend thier entire time trying to point out the error of the ways of thier single friends? l I am more than happy ATM being single and lovin' it. I do not feel the need for a man, partner, significant other to compliment my skill set and share my space / house or yard workload. Why should I be pitied then? I CHOSE this lifestyle. When I am out with a friend and I decide I want to stay and have a BBQ at her house, I dont have to ring anyone and let them know. If I have one too many drinks at said friends' house, I dont need to let anyone know I am not coming home. I can do what I want, when I want. Go where I want, when I want. I am answerable to no one! I like being single. l If marriage is the bees knees, if you are so all fired in love and sooo wonderfully happy with it, if you compliment each other so well, then what the bloody hell are you doing here? well might we ask you the same question.........what the bloody hell are you doing here?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Dontgothere... you're right... I can be a bit of a stirrer sometimes.. but Im also a sucker for a slow dance while gazeing into the eyes of a very very sexy woman... specially if the mood is simmering... hmmmmm even though I ended that with a tounge in cheek comment.. dont waste the flattery... you earnt it.. hehe... I heard that
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT' I have a wonderful partner that gives me his hand when I get up from sitting, does all the harder jobs, puts my preferences first, makes me breakfast in bed if I sleep longer than him and generally keeps me in comfort. On the other hand I get to assemble things like engine hoists, 1tonne presses and heavy engine stands. I built all the shelving in the storage area and workshop. He encourages my hobby of putting my WRX through its paces on the skidpan (and will later on the race track), and is very supportive of my line of work.What about a combination of old and new and calling it "Modern Chivalry"?? omg no.that would suggest some sort of........... equality...... omg ......omg ....... omg
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well I guess theres nothing wrong with your hearing then... But there must be something wrong with my eyes.. they went all funny when I checked your pics.... hehe..PS.. ur waiting for me to stir ya aint ya...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Well I guess theres nothing wrong with your hearing then... But there must be something wrong with my eyes.. they went all funny when I checked your pics.... hehe..PS.. ur waiting for me to stir ya aint ya... You should be careful when viewing those pics, luckily they're only the tame ones you can see. The pg pics could very well send a man blind But yes I kind of get that feeling that a stir is only around the corner with you. kind of like the boy at school who would dip my plait in a pot of glue when I least expect it
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know what you mean by that... OK... if I gotta go blind in the name of humanity, then so be it. Already my eyes went abit funny , so you may as well put me to the sword and send me completely over the edge,, ( way to go ) hehe.Oh happy days. oh happy days.. lol.. Oh btw... I wouldnt dip your platt into ink. least not while theres other fun things to play with..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'I know what you mean by that... OK... if I gotta go blind in the name of humanity, then so be it. Already my eyes went abit funny , so you may as well put me to the sword and send me completely over the edge,, ( way to go ) hehe.Oh happy days. oh happy days.. lol.. Oh btw... I wouldnt dip your platt into ink. least not while theres other fun things to play with.. Mr. JJ I have to be completely honest and say that maybe they wont send you blind, Im probably just talking myself up here lol something we all tend to do . But I would always get the door for you, should you have trouble finding your way back out after viewing them But watch your back, Im notorious for pinching a bum or two when a man isn't looking especially if he's been stirring me up.
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RHP User
15 years ago
C'mon now... dont back peddle.. I've already made my mind up that whatever ur hiding in that PG cant be all that bad...not when your other pics are that good. Whats more' I already bought myself a white cane just in case I get some flash blindness... Anyway, if I go blind I'll just have to feel my way.. hehe Now you cant say thats a bad thing...Get the door for me ??? why' where u taking me....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'fionabee' ........the way supposedly happily married couples either crow long and hard about thier relationships (and I am not saying that there is anything wrong at all with that) or spend thier entire time trying to point out the error of the ways of thier single friends? l I am more than happy ATM being single and lovin' it. I do not feel the need for a man, partner, significant other to compliment my skill set and share my space / house or yard workload. Why should I be pitied then? I CHOSE this lifestyle. When I am out with a friend and I decide I want to stay and have a BBQ at her house, I dont have to ring anyone and let them know. If I have one too many drinks at said friends' house, I dont need to let anyone know I am not coming home. I can do what I want, when I want. Go where I want, when I want. I am answerable to no one! I like being single. l If marriage is the bees knees, if you are so all fired in love and sooo wonderfully happy with it, if you compliment each other so well, then what the bloody hell are you doing here? well might we ask you the same question.........what the bloody hell are you doing here? And not telling everone how perfect that love of my life is....except that we want to play with others and make it more perfect! Sex is sex. If a couple is so fond of saying how great thier marriage is..IN MY OPINION....there is something not so great if they are looking for more.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'fionabee' ........the way supposedly happily married couples either crow long and hard about thier relationships (and I am not saying that there is anything wrong at all with that) or spend thier entire time trying to point out the error of the ways of thier single friends? l I am more than happy ATM being single and lovin' it. I do not feel the need for a man, partner, significant other to compliment my skill set and share my space / house or yard workload. Why should I be pitied then? I CHOSE this lifestyle. When I am out with a friend and I decide I want to stay and have a BBQ at her house, I dont have to ring anyone and let them know. If I have one too many drinks at said friends' house, I dont need to let anyone know I am not coming home. I can do what I want, when I want. Go where I want, when I want. I am answerable to no one! I like being single. l If marriage is the bees knees, if you are so all fired in love and sooo wonderfully happy with it, if you compliment each other so well, then what the bloody hell are you doing here? well might we ask you the same question.........what the bloody hell are you doing here? And not telling everone how perfect that love of my life is....except that we want to play with others and make it more perfect! Sex is sex. If a couple is so fond of saying how great thier marriage is..IN MY OPINION....there is something not so great if they are looking for more. in your opinion...pity it means nothing to us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'C'mon now... dont back peddle.. I've already made my mind up that whatever ur hiding in that PG cant be all that bad...not when your other pics are that good. Whats more' I already bought myself a white cane just in case I get some flash blindness... Anyway, if I go blind I'll just have to feel my way.. hehe Now you cant say thats a bad thing...Get the door for me ??? why' where u taking me.... I was being chivalrous and getting the door for you, while you went for a walk in the gallery
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RHP User
15 years ago
That I love the idea of Dontgothere and Just juice juicing it up , but hang on , I guess I already knew that. And that MistressT does stuff which is actually really cool , and that there have been some nice posts about how people should respect each other , ok good , but to be honest I really think that The Mums and like couples are the wrong people to be pushing chivalry , I mean no offense but I'm trying to cut to the chase here ; you're nice people BUT YOURE NOT GOOD AT PRESENTING THIS. You've had a crack at it and to a large degree it has FAILED. I think it's a good topic and worthy of discussion , I like your intentions and I also have a real liking for you as people , but you are just plain and simple -the wrong people for the job. Find something to post about that you are right for , there's a million subjects , but because of the way you've gone about it you are flogging a dead horse right now. With respect , Loz
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nort4t
15 years ago
Do un to others as you would have them do un to you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for the compliment re dontgothere and justjuice.. Yes' we juiced it up a little.. thats just the way it panned out.. We had our differences in the early posts but I had the feel dontgothere was alot more fun than discussing differences.. so thats where we went.Now to your post, seems to me you have taken it upon yourself to be judge and jury on anything posted so far. Sorry to say my friend. you are wrong in your summary.. Yes' there may have been some posters that tip toed around the subject but they probally didnt want to put as much thought into it as those who did.Im sure many of the posters knew exactly what they were talking about. Maybe they didnt structure their comments in a way that may have suited you, but they did get their point across to the majority.Never ceases to amaze me that there is always someone sitting behind their keyboard thinking they are mightier than thee and those who something to say that isnt in line with others...Your post came across as a know all.. not nice
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry JJ if you didn't think I was being nice. I gave my opinion and I stand by it. I was trying REALLY hard to be nice and helpful. I can just reiterate in brief ; I thought that some of the posts were useful , but most of it was presented in such a way that people are not going to take it on board. Actually you know what I'm really saying , I wasn't going to say it but I will ; the posts were argumentative and that was one reason why they wouldn't acheive the desired result. But anyway I said that the posters , some of the couples that is , and I only named the Mums are not the right people for this particular job of pushing chivalry etc. Call me crazy but I'm totally sure about that , and that doesn't mean that I'm thinking I'm mightier than thou , I'm NOT saying that I would do a better job either. Anyway I think it's better if we just agree to disagree. But don't misunderstand me , my intention was to be nice and I DO NOT think myself superior. And as I said , I like you guys , so what's my motivation for putting you down???? I haven't got one and I'm not doing that. Cheers , Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
You two could have settled it with a sword fight but in todays modern way of approaching things it means something totally different. Yes Im poking fun (I found I do actually need to inform people of this now LOL) Just letting you know, I would be a willing audience for the modern 'pants down, willy out' version . . Ok , what have I learned from this particular discussion? 1. Chivalry/manners/Gentlemanliness does have its place in todays mating game as long as there is no 'but' at the end of it . 2. That when I typed the manliness part of the sentence above I actually went, "MMMMM" 3. That nested quotes can get you into a lot of trouble, if you giggle at one part of it, be prepared for others to believe you are giggling at the whole part of it oops. Yeah I guess that was a half assed apology of sorts. 4. That women can also be chivalrous 5. That people can have a discussion on differences and still realise that at the end of the day, thats all it is. 6. That even when I'm all fired up on GirlPower and doing the My way or the Highway, all it takes is a man to lead me down another path with some smooth wording and Im a gooey pile on the floor damn you !!! 7. That I wish to god that MikeandShel would let me know who's posting. 8. That I need another coffee and am going to hit post now
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RHP User
15 years ago
C'mere... giv us a hug.. I already found out how you go all gooey pie to some smooth chatter.. but thats what makes you so feminine and cute.. and thats why I would open any door at any time for you.... you smoothie you...PS.. see no stirring.. haha.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lol alright I'll come give you a hug, but you know I'm going to be checking that you haven't been standing at the bar all day and it won't be by way of a litmus test heeehhee
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ohhhhhhh... I know what you mean by that. Dont worry, if I know its you I'll be ready and I promise 'll avoid the beer completely and join you for a scotch, I wouldnt fall over anyway.... They dont call me tripod for nothing you know... haha.. ( I wish ).. Anyway, when ur hugging me you'll find out quick enough... you wont need that wooden spoon... maybe just a cold spoon ... but be gentle K.You're a smooth cheeky bugga.. aint ya... WTF is a litmus test , now I gotta go look it up ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry didnt realise......... . You're a smooth cheeky bugga.. aint ya... . Pulls her dress down a lil bit .
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'll do the pants down fight if you'll be in my corner doing the fluffing
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RHP User
15 years ago
coming on how cool would that job be? I mean seriously
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RHP User
15 years ago
Then what???? heehee more....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'alldanite'Then what???? heehee more.... oh I meant ears, Im all ears....yeah thats it
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now THAT is style :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
wellllll doggy is A-Style
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RHP User
15 years ago
Um yep Chilly , you've been sucking on some ringside ice and you've had your hands in the icebox too. So you teasingly stroke your fingers in one slow motion from feet to pussy , watching DGT shake and wriggle all goosie. Then you poke your long toungue out and dirtily look in her eyes , she looks very concerned but very excited , you take one long freezing lick from ainter to clit , she shakes again and moans mmmm just to tease her some more you spin her around then and bend her over , you give her ass a one-two spank with those icy hands then drive your tongue deep in her ass....you can take over from here....hey you've borrowed my fluffer but I'm still rock hard....
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RHP User
15 years ago
I hope Im getting paid well for this movie
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RHP User
15 years ago
Please tell us what Chilli should do *reaches for massage oil*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Its chilli in here and everyone is watching me, Im just the behind the scenes girl ya know, my best work is done off camera
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RHP User
15 years ago
Where the hell were ya Chilli? , we were good ta go. Mind you I spose she could always dive under the blanky with you....U-huh yepahhhh....
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RHP User
15 years ago
You've just given me an idea
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RHP User
15 years ago
Feel free to email me the porn!!!! Unless your idea was to buy some fancy embroidered winter blankets or summink , that I'm not so interested in nup
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RHP User
15 years ago
look for a new thread soonish Oh and dont whinge about the blanky, you wouldnt be complaining if your hands were bound in it and the other end shoved in your mouth for a winter ballgag Never underestimate the multiple uses for otherwise seemingly harmless household items
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I thought you might tie my hands with one end then strangle me with the other , yeah asphyxiation!! Woohoo , you are gonna have sex with me at the same time tho right? Not as hot otherwise....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Geez... only gone 5 minutes and you guys been running amuck... Wow... sorry dgt.. all that stuffs too agressive for me. I perfer a nice bottle of red followed by some slow sensual dancing .. then watch things hot up from there.. Awwwww .. how tame is that ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'Geez... only gone 5 minutes and you guys been running amuck... Wow... sorry dgt.. all that stuffs too agressive for me. I perfer a nice bottle of red followed by some slow sensual dancing .. then watch things hot up from there.. Awwwww .. how tame is that ? Have to change it to a bottle of white Mr. JJ , red gives me a headache that no amount of panadol and nagging will get rid of. Alldanite and I were just playing a game of 'thems fightin' words LOL Dont be scared
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RHP User
15 years ago
but this is a REALLY good burger I'm eating , so you're gonna have to wait a sec :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
YOU asked me to say more you evil finger-pointing hijacker LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
a nice bottle of wine and some slow sensual dancing , yeah that is gold , there ain't nothing better than that in the whole world , seriously I agree
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RHP User
15 years ago
Time to sell my ropes on eBay and retire as a soke shihan. Do you know how long it takes to collect all that paraphernalia? Not long...I am a quick study and do have a ribald sense of the classics. | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'Get a wiggle on...cut n paste or just start a new sicko idea, but SOMEONE needs to give Midnight a run for his money... | Porn written by the Wiggles...hey, it's about time somebody told the truth about Captain Feathersword, so I guess I can just delete the two pages I had written and go back to work on the revised edition of the owner's manual for the Starship Enterprise? | Besides, it's not easy to type with one hand or less and you know what happens...|... ♂♀ | | They never showed that on Star Trek though...did they?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I meant ♂♀♀ | I had thrown DGT into the mix just at the start of page three. |
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RHP User
15 years ago
DGT... White wine.. ? We have a problem here... white wine gives ME a headache ... Now what ? OK I know ... how bout a cocktail with the lil umbrella and the lil red cherry on top and 2 straws... hmmmm.. now thats a good idea.. Oh' maybe you dont like looking directly into seductive bright blue eyes as you're drinking... hehe.. didnt think of that.. lol..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Awww chilli.. Sorry hot one... Im not into spectator sports.. so I'll just have too leave the wanking up to the wanker and the wankee ... never played on the sidelines ever... Im a innocent soul... hehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice'DGT... White wine.. ? We have a problem here... white wine gives ME a headache ... Now what ? OK I know ... how bout a cocktail with the lil umbrella and the lil red cherry on top and 2 straws... hmmmm.. now thats a good idea.. Oh' maybe you dont like looking directly into seductive bright blue eyes as you're drinking... hehe.. didnt think of that.. lol..hehe I love bright blue eyes, and I can still look into them seductively while sucking on that cocktail straw ooh that was cheeky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Cheeky is right... took a sec for the penny to drop... then me thinks ahhhh ' I know what you meant by that.. hehe..Oh... no beer right .... or it might head down this way
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