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Ok i gotta ask . .. Does the fact that there are people in chat who have no profile pic and no cam STARING at you Freak you out

March 23 2011

I been in Chat for a while now on and off and find that invariably i get looked at. Being a guy i kinda expect it. i can usually count to 3 and they disappear . .ergo procto ipso facto due to the pure reasoning i cam with clothes on . . Pause for effect . .NO! not naked and actually showing Face. I know Scarey But then there are the no cam, no profile pic people who will sit there and stare at u on your cam for ages, no saying hi, not saying anything but just looking. Does this freak anyone else out? I had taken to blocking them but once my block list hit 40 pages i found it pointless. IT was like swatting flies. Any thoughts? Cola xxx

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You mean to say you intentionally put your sexy lil face up via cam directly from your home and broadcast it all over the internet and now you complain because people are daring to look at you? hahaha. It's hysterical deude. I used to go in the chat rooms while at work... I'd click to say... your face..... and then the phone would ring... I'd take the call, open my customer file and phone log over the top of the browser... then I'd go and get a coffee... come back do some work... get bored.. think RHP... go back.. and there's your mug... or in your instance... there's not your mug on account that you blocked me... so I block you back so as to remember what kind of person you are and I move on. (Have I actually blocked you? I don't know without checking). At one point in time I tried to make a competition out of it in secret men's business... but then RHP changed the rules, took away the counter and I couldn't see how many people have blocked me. Spoil sports... hehe.And, tehn there are guys who block because they're having a tug and want to do it.. in private... over the internet in a chat room... lmfao.. that's just hysterical. Bloody wankers all of them... hehehehe.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes. It would freak me out. Stupid Blackberry won't let me quote or use emoticons, so here goes a very dodgy attempt at it: "And, tehn there are guys who block because they're having a tug and want to do it.. in private... over the internet in a chat room... lmfao.. that's just hysterical. Bloody wankers all of them... hehehehe." ... Which is precisely why you'll never see my jugs .. Or should I say MUG on RHP webcam chat. I guess im a control freak who isnt quite enough of an exhibitionist. It would also mean I'd have to keep the computer room clean for background purposes! Bugger that! :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Im a peeker, if I'm in the right sort of mood I'll check out the cams and it kinda goes like this, wanker wanker wanker oh a smiley face !! jolly good a lady wanking how sweet ( equality) smiley face, some ones chair, some one showing their tv or porn, another wanker, oh look some one breast feeding, no not a lactating fetishist, and then i think wow so many small willies in chat or wow that was big where does he live. I'm missing the man with the parrot, THAT was interesting:) Let me perve, I'm getting old and picture or no picture up I'm still a perve lol So just realise chuppa thos staring either a: are HOT for you b: making a cuppa or c: having a tug while looking at yr pretty face d: maybe they never seen a black man??? GL xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    it scares me abit and im not one to scare easily lol all that back stabbing and blocking shit the forums are so kindergarten compared to that shit when i was in there i wasnt reading anything...i was busy but we were blocked for looking at a bloke that was watching us...???? that is just odd to me lol roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If it makes you uncomfortable don't turn on your cam. Like Stalky sometimes I will get distracted and not be paying attention or I'm focused on the chat room and not watching the cam. Sometimes when the person who is camming leaces it drops to the person below so sometimes it's not even you they intent to look at. Your missing out on a lot of potential great friens by having 40 pages of blocked people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'd actually guess that a lot have clicked on 'view cam' or whatever it says here, then minimise the window and bugger off doing other things. This is why I don't view cams. I have MUCH better things to do what sit there trying to watch people - talking to the neighbours, checking email, dealing with customers, hanging washing, finding a meal, making coffee, visiting the bathroom, chatting to other people....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Get ya cock out and wank yourself stupid join the masses buddy and when your gunna blow straight down the cam mate ... they will comment then

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hon.....just make the chat screen bit bigger...and minimise the room list....then you wont see who's looking at you...and you wont worry about it!Easy!JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    There is no "law" against people watching a cam when they don't have a cam and/or won't communicate with the person they are watching.....but there is also no rule that we cant use "block" to make our cams more private. And no rule that says we shouldn't block silent watchers, wallflowers, passengers, wood duck, the terminally shy, etc.FWIW I usually whisper to silent watchers b4 blocking I'm not comfortable with being perved at by men and tend to block them unless they hop off smartly.When a so-called "couple" is a guy by himself, I tend to block those as well.If any of that sounds harsh, funny, whatever... all I can say is that people get blocked for a whole lot less.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey I experience what you say at times. I believe some of the guys you chat with are just wanking themselves off as they make sexy comments etc. However it is hard to work out who is genuine, so just ask more direct questions to try and find out what they really want. I have arranged meetings with guys, go to the trouble of gettting ready, all dressed etc and no show, just part of the game we are playing, but just enjoy dont take it personnally,, April/Brian xxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Maybe they just want something nice to look at instead of a bunch of guys "galloping the lizard"!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TassieRose' it scares me abit and im not one to scare easily lol all that back stabbing and blocking shit the forums are so kindergarten compared to that shit same story plus every second line is someone talking to a "whispy" publicly? why not whisper back? or do they simply need everyone to know that there's something 'private' going on? LOL . I look at the cams cos they're there and 'curious' is my nature but i usually won't linger. . I'd probably try a little harder to get into chat if it listed people's age and location in the list of people online so i could see if it was worth my time being there. I'm not really interested in chatting for the sake of chatting with all the cattiness you see spilling over from there into the forums. xx Sarah