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Oh my.... you look old for your age!

March 01 2011

It has come to my attention that a few women, and I am sure men do this too about their age or body parts, are lying about their age. There is one rather popular person on this site saying she is, lets just say she says she is 32, yet she looks more like 42+ in her photos. Why are people insecure about their age? Hell when I am 50 I am still going to be saying "I'm 50"... so are you ashamed of your age people?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    welcome to the internetz its all serious buisness here. yes plenty of people lie about there age(u know who u r) lol. but if there good then that's all that matters

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am the age that I am, no amount of lying will change that.My profile states my preferred age from 34 and I was recently approached by a gent whose profile had him at 33. He wrote me and assured me that he was actually 39 and that he had "shaved off a few years, like everyone else". Hmmmmm that would put me at 50 then, if "everyone is doing it" .....DAMN!! I look FANTASTIC for a 50 year old!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I wish I had it in me to lie about my age....but to be honest....I love how people don't believe how old I am and love the compliments that come my way! < I'm still pulling in the young ones....when that ceases ... I may then lie about my age! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    many people describe themselves as athletic, but winning a pie eating contest does not make u an athlete.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I applaud the ladies who replied to this... you all look gorgeous at 43, 47 and 50... hope I look that good when I am 50.tomo - hahaha serious in here? you don't go into that chatrooms huh? lol theone... so true :) hahaI just commented on that cause it bugs me how people want to think others are stupid. If you clearly don't look 20 and you look more like 40 don't say you are 20 then *slaps to the forehead* Be proud of your ages is all I say. :D

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The proof is in the meeting. l Why do many people say they are attractive when clearly they are not? Attractive to whom? l It may also depend on the age of the man you are trying to attract as well.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sweetie at 31, you dont know what you are going to do at 50, you can only sumise.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well age deception exists - doesn't worry me so much as how we hit it off. Personally I am straight up and state my age - have met a few who were clearly lying and even if they were not did not please my tastes so I passed. One who did lie but we had fun for a while anyway was not too outrageous so it was fine by me. I guess some are 'insecure about their age' have a weird idea that they will not be noticed on the waythrough to a real life meeting. For me it seems weird and counter-productive in the long run.....CheersArcher65

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'goldygirls' tomo - hahaha serious in here? you don't go into that chatrooms huh? lol Obviously my sarcasm was lost somewhere along the way,... ah i didn't put this on the end :P. lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'theone1983' many people describe themselves as athletic, but winning a pie eating contest does not make u an athlete. Speaking of which.... I like the sound of eating pies ... just you and I and a couple of fine ladies..... and just to make it athleltic enough for you.... I think a bit of pole vaulting is in order.Some people say I don't act my age... fair cop. HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    52, well 52 1/2 now :) . I did ask in a topic a few weeks ago, 'Who tells the biggest little white fibs about their age -Men or Women? I am happy with my age, all the years that have gone into forming the person that I am today, all the lessons learnt, the little wrinkles earnt, they all have a few stories behind them. . I am also a realist. Whilst I could pass myself off for a younger age, I really cant see any reason to do so. I am here to meet guys, face to face, so what is the point of pretending? . I am the age I am, take it or leave it .

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'She_la'DAMN!! I look FANTASTIC for a 50 year old!! | Just had a look at your profile and you look great for 50 year old. Damn...want to share a room at the nursing home with me sometime? Us old folks have to stick together, you know. | That reminds me of a line out of a Bryan Adams song "the only thing that looks good on me....is you!" | Maybe that's the best approach... | ...dress for success.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am one of those women who is insecure about her age,, hate growing old.BUT, i have never lied about my age, there's no point!no amount of face cream ( or polyfiller) can disguise a face that is obviously creeping towards 50!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ruby_blossum' I am here to meet guys, face to face...| | Damn, RB...I thought you were here to have fun, you know the kind? A game of Star Wars...light sabres flashing and Darth himself wandering the streets of Melbourne. I kind of light the idea of having my light sabre in hand and scaring the panties off of the ladies walking down Collins Street...and I do a mean voice over as well. | Oh well...better find a place to sheath the light sabre until somebody is ready to play, huh? | | If it helps...I am not quite as hairy as Chewie. Well...not quite, anyway.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    u can eat it over and over again, and never get sick of it.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Your as old as you feel !! why so serious who cares? Iv never been questioned about my age, in the end its not how old you are, its how you feel, and i feel fucking fantastic!! Damn i'm HOT!!! and i know who i'am lol....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    light sabre boy..... bit chilly to be waving the ole sabre around in Collins Street! Always had a bit of a thing for Darth....all that heavy breathing and deep voice.... Even Chewwie has a great roar.....but I think Hans Solo was my fav.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Wow Stalky is still pole vaulting at 49 - that's impressive. :) Although how big are the poles I wonder???? xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    One tactic is to put your age up by 25 years and then people will be amazed at how young you look............means I should saying I'm 74...........Hmmm on seconds thoughts?????

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Wow Stalky is still pole vaulting at 49 - that's impressive. :) Although how big are the poles I wonder???? xxMeeks haha....what I wonder is how many times he slips over and oops! that pole just went right up his bum!Love ya work Stalky!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well MissBJ I think at 49 Stalky can be forgiven for falling and slipping occasionally, and if a pole happens to go up his bum well you know he probably doesn't even feel it at that age. By the time he gets up he is probably forgotten why he was smiling in the first place. Hehehe ... I am sure Stalky does very well for his age - and I can attest to the fact that he definitely does NOT act his age. xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sounds like you are going to have a pie eating contest at your place theone1983. What do you get if you win? And who is going to be baking all these pies? You? hehehehhe. Apple is my favourite - lots of cream please.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    if u win, u get a big cheesey grin plastered across ur face. i dont think there will be any losers in this little game. apple pie hey? u mean like the babies arm holding an apple. those ones always have a creamy centre.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Tarlisa' Your as old as you feel !! why so serious who cares? Iv never been questioned about my age, in the end its not how old you are, its how you feel, and i feel fucking fantastic!! Damn i'm HOT!!! and i know who i'am lol....You were as old (or as young ) as the MAN you feel. Damn I'm young!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Wow Stalky is still pole vaulting at 49 - that's impressive. :) Although how big are the poles I wonder???? xxMeeksOnly out of bed first thing in the morning

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    age? is no big deal... we got tired of counting...hell we just got tired..... but lifes too wonderfully fun to miss out on...so we gym 4 n 5 days a week, ride motorcycles very quickly 'round race tracks, play, laugh and generally have much more fun as we crest 50, than we've ever had in our lives...and it looks like getting more fun as time goes by...... bring it on we say!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    PSML @ theone1983.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Age is irrelevent to a goo time. Sorry to get off the subject for a second, but i think you are as the woman you feel. I dont realy care if the lady im interested in says on her she is 25 on on her profile when i can see in her profile photo she is realy 62 if i like the way she looks and she turns me on, im still going to fuck her if thats what she wants.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I am 46 and proud of it. I would never lie about my age, i am so proud to say that i am that old and still look hot!Leesa

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My attitude is...why should i lie,if they then meet me and think Fuck she looks old for her age..i would hate that...so stick to the truth and all will be fine..lolLeesa

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'lovman8'One tactic is to put your age up by 25 years and then people will be amazed at how young you look............means I should saying I'm 74...........Hmmm on seconds thoughts????? 59+25= 84

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Well MissBJ I think at 49 Stalky can be forgiven for falling and slipping occasionally, and if a pole happens to go up his bum well you know he probably doesn't even feel it at that age. By the time he gets up he is probably forgotten why he was smiling in the first place. Hehehe ... That's either the result of a mislead youth and too many cones... or the early onset of altzeimers. It's no laughing matter! Now Meeks I know you must have told me before but I can't remember... but what did I forget? Oh... kegels.... that's right... wrestling match, mascara, back sweat, lick theone's armpits... yep... I think I'm back on track now... is there anything else?Pie eating contests....... first we have to make acceptable pies!.... I hope that's sweaty work... maybe the 25 second guy should be made to go around the block a few times before we sample each other's workmanship. :p Meeka.. you better pack the score cards.... I can see you now purched up there on a platform like a diving judge. :p HugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Age in years is subjective .......apperantly some age quicker than others so how do you quantify that? The real question is how old are your photos? We routinely see photos on here that we know are 10 years plus old! Whats reasonable? photos within 0-4 years?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Im not lying when I say Im 21 with 12 years of experience am I??I hope not!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' 59+25= 84 | You know...I would believe that. Now that we know that...what cup size? | Jearzus! | | You have really lovely.........eyes!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    on this we must agree with romancefor4. there are many with photos that are way old.... ours are between 2 weeks and 18 months old, with the majority being only a number of months old.... but we see mid 40's people showing pics from up to 2 decades ago.......we feel that pics should be as current as possible. especially if you are a couple...as theres no problem as someones always free to hold the camera.........

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'| You have really lovely.........eyes! just 'cos they 'peak' at you, doesn't make them see.. (yeah yeah, I know how lame a pun that was) xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Maybe they are posting their "real age" as opposed to their chronological age like on Oprah winfrey :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    What So some actually look at our pix lmao.. Crappers maybe I should stop sayin I'm 16.. oh but mum then i won't be teasin the peddos. But yeah I do see the point here and have seen the lies many times they clain to be 30 but look 50.. Oh yeah daddy your wrinkly bits n grey hair are soooooooooooo hot pffft............. Next!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    my first meet after joining RHP was with a woman who was clearly quite a bit older than her stated age and clearly less attractive than her "attractive" status! She had no pics up so my fault for not asking I guess. There were other problems too but I won't go into them here!Anyway, the lesson is to go in with your "eyes open".

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Just 'cos they 'peak' at you, doesn't make them see..yeah yeah, I know how lame a pun that was Peek-a-boo ... Peek-a-boo ...twice as nice? | | Yeah...ti was that lame but I could not leave you haning. Dumb and dumber?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    now ur talkin' bro. tag team? boy/girl vs boy/girl? might be a bit hard to lock in an arm bar, covered in all that oil, but no doubt there will be 'bars' of a different kind. meeks, u can also be the bikini girl who announces what round it is. sans bikini of course.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    well i am one of the lucky ones ..i guess as most females say i do not look my age so yes i put it down on my profile as to what they say i am age wise and they still dont believe me when they check my bod out so what is a guy supposed to do when he is blessed with great genes????

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    My age is correct. My pics are very current and not been touched up. Guys tell me I dont look my age. For this ... I love them lolI have found most guys that I chat too have "lowered" their age. I don't find that attractive in a man. If he lies about his age .. what else does he lie about?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have posted my real age, which is 40 and I am always constantly getting questioned about it! I just look a lot younger! I am lucky I guess, but it does get frustrating having to explain my age and almost on a daily basis online and offline!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I always get called as lying about my age. I know I look like I'm 30+ but I really only am 21. I think man are probably prone to doing it as much if not more than females, particularly when talking about body parts or appearance.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sheesh I am going to have my work cut out for me. First I need to win 2 out of 3 wrestling matches with Stalky before he will let me ride him like a horsey, then the play off - boy/girl vs boy/girl teams you say. Oldies vs Young-uns??But we need to have an opening ceremony first I think. So as the judge I say we need a display of the athletes. So the boys need to get oiled up first and have a wrestle together. You know, to get us girls in the mood.Tag - your it. Meeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I forgot to mention's Stalky's pole dancing. Must not forget that. We can probably schedule that for intermission. Hope you have a huge tarp we can slip and slide on - oh yeah!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well might you say (to quote a failed PM of Australia) as a female don't lie about your age. That is very convenient given we chase you.As a male I never lied about my age and got nowhere. So I changed my age, only by 5 years, and now it is all good. I guess I am lucky that I don't look my age but, if you are 50+ trust me, girls don't look. Even if you message them polightly indicating in a discrete manner that you may be 50+ but in body you are say 45 and in mind probably younger.There is a smorgasbord of men here for the women to pick and choose, wish I was 30 with the internet.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i can see it now. the representitives of each team flying a flag proudly from their poles. glistening with oil as they enter the arena. the cheers of the crowd. sweating, panting, grunting with the effort. followed by the best nights sleep, and sweetest dreams in ages.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    forget the mascara-ed boys in the other thread, THIS is what I'll beg Meeka to let me watch! xxx Sarah (on my knees)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    pics are the big one , if you are upfront and for real then in my opinion pics should be no more than a couple of years old. I also agree with mikeandshel, you are as young as you feel, i still race motorbikes , do triathalons and all that other crazy shit that most people my age think is not responsible for my age, get a life people and do some living, and please dont lie about your age , be proud of it!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Can you get your mind off the boys......poles......for a minute here!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    you are who you are and there is no point hiding it.... besides at my age, if you decided to change your age....i probably would have trouble remembering how old i was this week!!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Well I am going to admit to being a fibber...........I really do not want anyone over 60yrs ............unless they are a George Clooney type . I am A1 healthy very active, work hard and many a man over 50 will have a job keeping up with me. I do not have any saggy skin, do have a few extra pounds without being fat, if I loose them then I will soon look drawn and haggard. I usually admit my age on the second date.......but as most guys only want a one night stand, I rarely get past the coffee stage. The young guys pester me 'for the experience'! I just want someone nice. Why am I on here?........because i am nearly 65years old and sexually active, can't wait til I am 80yrs !!!!!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Sorry Fionabee what was the question again? Age? Yes some people definitley look and act older than the stated age of their profiles. xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Hi ! Ms Mermaid Beach . I'm think this is a relevent Question.But I sense the Person you chose as an example maybe more ,that you have a long standing issue and a bit of the cattiness came out.On saying that My reply to you is .I'm 59 now I have Younger Admirers Lovers I don't count the years Past but the past year.It's experiences, People I've met and enjoyed, Challenges /Opportunities lessons learned . Living in the Preset and looking forwardt o the Future. Therefore I have no problem with My Age or do others . I have come across Guys who have tried to hide their age but it's just a aste of time I am lucky to see behind hteir Facade .Age is irrelevent to me anyway it's our Connection. Thanks for your Topc. :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I've been caught out. I'm really 26. The juig is up.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I ADDED 2 DECADES OR SO.......I NEVER TOOK ANY LOL

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    hey there all, it has been a fascinating and entertaining read...I am 46 and proud of it, there I said it.. lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    holly shit im nearly 49 an im proud of it. lol Quoting 'Tomoln'welcome to the internetz its all serious buisness here.yes plenty of people lie about there age(u know who u r) lol. but if there good then that's all that matters

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Feeling warm and fuzzy reading the posts from the gorgeous women on here. I admire and adore women who exemplify grace, and nothing says graceful more than a woman who is proud of every line, crease, and stretch mark on her body. This type of woman exudes sexuality and magnetism. Yes, we know who we are. I am 33 years old. And no matter how long I shall live, I know I will always be proud of my age.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Sorry Fionabee what was the question again? Age? Yes some people definitley look and act older than the stated age of their profiles. xxMeeks Yes... get back on topic.... Anyone savvy enough to use baby oil will have a waterbed bladder at the ready for the wrestling match.... no need for a tarp!HugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'BuNnY_BoiLeR' I ADDED 2 DECADES OR SO.......I NEVER TOOK ANY LOL And i love you for it bunny!!! haha xxAnd Madam Dragonfly no I do not have an issue with the person this was originally about... it was actually over a few profiles I saw when I went through a search. So your theory...does not match the relevance of my forum post :)It was a mere observation.Alfred Hitchcock oh age is not a issue for me... people of all ages are gorgeous. I don't care if someone is 60 and still on here..good for them. I was merely saying why say you are 20 something when you are clearly 40 something? I found it funny that they did this...that is all. No biggy on it!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I've never lied about my age, I'll be 55 in May...look 10 years younger, act 20 years young...lol...and all my pics are current Years ago I heard my mum say, "you're only as old as the ones you feel"...if that's the case I'm somewhere between 25 and 45 ChasingMidnight...If you're interested in cup sizes, how does 14H sound...lol |

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    i agree rubeingserved good to see all the ladies telling the truth lol

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I think why lie, if your hot.. YOUR HOT.. if your not lying is not going to change anything.. But then people are just afriad of numbers no matter what they are..Age, Weight, Height, even how many friends some people have(but that is a whole nother topic).. Just get over it or get under em..lol