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Oh go on...

January 04 2010

Andy here, so i promised a sexy post. So had this request from a couple friend of ours. The couple have asked to borrow Sal for 'mr's birthday. The trade off is, he is going away and she can come round to ours. Means he gets a FFM I get a FFM. So I'm in two minds - How would I feel if I dropped Sal off to play, what do i do, go home like a culkold husband and wait until she's finished shagging... I could go to C.I if it was a Friday night? Would I mind, I don't know. Sal has said she's not interested in visiting them alone. Plus we have always said, we play as a couple. The evolution of our swinging has chosen to offer us a chance to try something out of our comfort zone. The other option is this, I'm heading to NZ in April and Sal will be in Brissy all alone (back off, back off you lot) if I'm out of the country what if I play in NZ and she can then choose to take them up on their offer. So what to do... do i just say to sal 'Oh go on...' or do we stick to our guns!

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RHP User

16 years ago

We tried similiar Andy, except MFM with another couple, on the Friday night we booked an apartment on the coast and the guy from the couple joined us. His wife stayed at home and reported she hardly had any sleep. The next night I joined the other couple and my wife reported the same....no sleep. The actual playing went great both nights, but for the girl left at home neither were impressed on the night by themselves at home. We probably wont do that again. But then thats what swinging is about...new experiances ....doing something different....pushing the boundries ... Cheers

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DonnaBrett

16 years ago

Brett here...Guess it all depends whether it's a case of being jealous or not? If you are the jealous types, it's probably best not to do it. If that's not the case, what's it matter?..you are both getting something out of it. Don't know how long you have been swinging but you'll find as the years go by your attitudes & limitations change. In the beginning for us (over 10 years ago) we never considered playing separately. However nowadays we are more easy with it providing the safety factor for Donna doesn't come into question, but that's a whole different issue. We sometimes have "adventures" as we call them by ourselves often without the other person knowing until after the fact..it's a big turn on to hear about it after. ie: Donna once jetted to Sydney for the day (without my prior knowledge) for an adventure, then last year she spent a night with a world famous rock star (who shall remain nameless ).Then, I've had female friends drop around for daytime adventures while Donna's at work. It's all harmless fun! Of course, to us at least the whole purpose of swinging is to enjoy it together 99% of the time...but a little bit extra now & then doesn't hurt. I think the important thing is that you are both on the same page, you must agree or problems will probably arise. Good Luck!

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RHP User

16 years ago

Don't ever stray from rules, unless completely sure..that is my advice. Weigh up the pros and cons of it, and then go from there. You are taking on a whole new boundary...make sure it is what the 2 of you want, and you are not doing it for anyone else but the 2 of U.... If you are pleasing others, dont do it...... My advice.. Leesa

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RHP User

16 years ago

Andy. I've ready our posts and conversed long enough to know you well enough, mate... to know you wont stand to be cuckold. You've got rules. Search your feelings Luke.. use the force.... and you will know what I mean. Stick to your rules Boss. HUgs Stalky

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RHP User

16 years ago

Ask me what I think :PI am not here to be loaned out to fulfill others fantasies, though I like and respect this couple and are somewhat flattered by the suggestion.Andy and I have agreed that if we are apart, i.e when he goes to NZ, we are both free to play but with total respect for each other....Like no keeping a playmate as a facebook friend like a trophy to flaunt in the face of the other :PWe know he (of the other couple) is going away soon and if she is free to play and wants to play with us then that is their choice, I just do not want to feel obligated to 'put out' because she did, if I do it it will because I want to and because Andy and I are both cool. Interesting though to hear similar experiences of other couples. What you did, how you felt about it etc.xx Salina

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RHP User

16 years ago

I think, out of sheer thinkingness and no real actual experience with a situation such as this, that if you were OK with it you wouldn't be questioning it. It's not up to us to try and convince you one way or the other, so my feeling is that you stick to your guns. I really have nothing else to add. Feel free to completely disregard my non-advice :-)

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RHP User

16 years ago

"Sal has said she's not interested in visiting them alone" Kinda stops right there doesn't it? Just my opinion (hi BJ!) Mat.

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RHP User

16 years ago

i have been the stay at home half before (yeah mr..i swear people use me for my wife lol) if your both cool with it go for it but andy i suggest you find something to amuse urself with i.e a book (if you read) a game or something because otherwise u will sit there and dwell on it.. I did when mrs went off to play, stuck at home with 2 kids trying to put 1 to bed the other is crying...you thought u women could get resentful lol.. sal i know what you mean as well your not a hire car lol but my advice was for andy as the 1 staying at home or doing whatever.. till next time scott

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