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Oh Yes...Yes...Yes...Yessss....Oh hell NO!
February 26 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
that is a hard one! However he deceited you!. Recently I was messaging a guy on another site. Messages were yummy and his cock pic was fabulous yeah yeah and the rest. Very handsome indeed! He is a FIFO and believe it or not I am quite a busy person up here :P...so it took some time for our schedules to finally align. (4 weeks) The day he was back and me being me, thought RIGHT, I am going over to meet this cock/man and there of course, low and behold he was not what I expected. A little like your scenario FUN. His cock though, he confessed had been Photoshopped by his WIFE ffs. (At least he was honest.. right)You all know what comes next...I had another wine and made my excuses I had a work callout and politely left. ( I could not quite bring myself to be honest and hurt his feelings at that time and thought I would message him later that night... With in the next few hours though he messaged me saying he thought I was hot and blah blah, I then messaged him back thanking him for his compliments .. HOWEVER it is not going to happen you had been deceitful AND never disclosed you were married. His response was.... That's ok ....Happy hunting then :( I don't think I hunt though as I do not usually initiate first contact. Except for a few on here lately now that I am paid member and get 5 messages a day to send to whom I choose are just luvlie. Today though I sent one to a sexy couple just to perve on their PG. I must be getting old.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes but a woman..I'm real and me!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am just soooo glad that I insist on cam before meeting someone! A rule I think I will happily stick to! . The married excuse was a good one..but unfortunately these 2 guys are well and truly single! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Miss funloving....Thank you for proving.... by default...... half of the points Ive made in here about attraction.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Miss funloving.... Thank you for proving.... by default...... half of the points Ive made in here about attraction. DG It is about attraction and I have always said that! But what is attractive to me may not be attractive to the next girl! I don't mind a guy with no abs...but don't put up abs if there aren't any there (not even when they lie down)! I am a very aural person but unfortunately I am a very visual person too! . If I had seen them on cam first...there is no way I would have started ANY sex talk! I just feel that maybe I am being shallow as I am no oil painting myself! But why do people lie and have old/fake pics? I don't get it! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
.ive met few females that not turned out how they said they looked and yeah they sounded hot and sexy on phone.ive also had a few that turned up and ran away again..im one of those guys that they say nice body shame about the face and as i get older it not much better but i still have a great body so im told ,and at 43 i still keep fit..i think its funny people go on a hot looking face and then get all disappointed by the beer gut small ,dick and lack of experiance..there a reason why us ugly fuckers are great as sex ,,we dont get it all the time,well not like i use to anyway
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hate webcams, they are like the ugly lights at night clubs. They highlight everyone's imperfections, unless you have a really super duper expensive and awesome one, but if you're on the lap top and using the built-in cam, you can bet that the angle and lighting just suck! Not attractive. Seeing people on cam, they always look better IRL. Saying that however, cams don't give beer guts. I have never really understood why someone would bother photoshopping abs/boobs/butts/acne scars etc. If you're serious about meeting people, they're gonna see your body, and they're gonna see your lies. I have come across profiles in which the pics look great, but when asking for a face pic on the phone was sorely disappointed at the fact that those profile pics were either really old or really inaccurate. It is off-putting because you hope to get genuine people and part of that is genuine, un-photo-shopped photos. We don't augment photos apart from playing with the lighting whilst taking the pics, we want our pics to be as accurate as possible so people can make a genuine assessment of attractiveness. It's not fair to use photo shop!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honesty is the best policy.I have a photo (in private) that has not been photo shopped.I have had females on this website ask for a photo I grant them access and never hear back from them.So be it.There has to be an attraction there yeah the mental side i.e sexting and phone sex can be phone but in the long run most people want to meet.If you put fake photos up aren't you going to get court and then you have wasted everyone's time
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RHP User
13 years ago
False advertising seems to be a regular occurrence on date sites. I remember meeting a girl on here last year. Pictures looked incredible body looked amazing. She said she was 34. When I met up with her, she had a face like a can opener, and when she leant over her sking left her ribcage.....34? more lie 54!
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RHP User
13 years ago
It just makes my skin crawl that I even orgasmed with them over the phone! I LOVE phone sex and sexting, I could do it day in and day out...but...I still need to have some sort of an attraction to them! And now I am avoiding their calls/texts like the plague!! I don't know how to put nicely that I am just not into them to meet them! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'zx10knight' .ive met few females that not turned out how they said they looked and yeah they sounded hot and sexy on phone.ive also had a few that turned up and ran away again..im one of those guys that they say nice body shame about the face and as i get older it not much better but i still have a great body so im told ,and at 43 i still keep fit..i think its funny people go on a hot looking face and then get all disappointed by the beer gut small ,dick and lack of experiance..there a reason why us ugly fuckers are great as sex ,,we dont get it all the time,well not like i use to anyway That would turn me on Fun I met a guy from here after chatting to him for months and he was nothing like he pretended to be. Was unattractive in deeds as well as in looks and was very possessive despite constantly telling me I didn't do it for him. He couldn't get an erection without viagara anyway so wasn't just me that didn't do it for him. He didn't have pics and when I asked him to upload some he kept claiming he was not IT savvy enough to add any. I learned a major lesson with that one and have never met anyone since without seeing a pic first. Cam is even better cos its current. Bugger though about wasting time and I know what you mean about not starting a conversation if they don't float your boat.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Short fat bald and ugly here lady's Come n get me
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RHP User
13 years ago
What can you do... nothing's quite as seductive as a good vocabulary...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know that I am vain, have faked a headache to not spend time with a guy.
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Letsgetcrazy09
13 years ago
Oh Fun ..... U know u excite me too
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Letsgetcrazy09'Oh Fun ..... U know u excite me too But I have seen you in your naked glory! And ohhh boy...GLORY ALLELUJIAH! And when you wear your suit? Hubba Bubba you ARE my Mr Grey! Now just to get your number for the phone sex!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' It just makes my skin crawl that I even orgasmed with them over the phone! I LOVE phone sex and sexting, I could do it day in and day out...but...I still need to have some sort of an attraction to them! xFunlovingx Apparently..... no you dont!The image they portrayed, and how that played out in your mind... was enough for yoru arousal mechanism to fire up.Its just that the reality of heir physical appearance.... wasn't to your standard.And thats fine......... I like what I like too. But dont ignore the fact that even though they did deceive you with a visual image (which was wrong on their part!)........they still managed to connect with your mind in a very, VERY sexual and primal way.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' It just makes my skin crawl that I even orgasmed with them over the phone! I LOVE phone sex and sexting, I could do it day in and day out...but...I still need to have some sort of an attraction to them! xFunlovingx Apparently..... no you dont! The image they portrayed, and how that played out in your mind... was enough for yoru arousal mechanism to fire up. Its just that the reality of heir physical appearance.... wasn't to your standard. And thats fine......... I like what I like too. But dont ignore the fact that even though they did deceive you with a visual image (which was wrong on their part!)... .....they still managed to connect with your mind in a very, VERY sexual and primal way. DG And I am trying to bleach my mind as we speak lol! They were VERY VERY sexual and such a turn on.....and did indeed connect with my mind! So....is it the deceipt that has turned me off...or their physical appearance? I would wager on the physical appearance...When I saw them on cam...My face looked like I had just eaten a dozen lemons and I was completely turned off! Makes me wonder about guys who ring TeleCafe or those Sex Numbers...Is it more the aural that is a turn on? Are we better left to our imagination and just have anonymous phone sex and sexting with someone on the other side of the Country who we will never meet? After all I do LOVE phone sex! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can't help but find it sad but very amusing xfun....kinda reminds me of a jerry springer episode called"help...I've fallen in love with my phone sex operator!!" This really skinny guy proclaims his love publicly, then out walked the lady....well....lets just say there were more chins than a Chinese phone book, as she cuddled her bucket of KFC, and the look on his face was priceless :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't get excited about someone till i see them in real life. I'm all for the phone sex thing but really want to know who I'm talking too but you can only test attraction in real life. As for OP - well avoidance is probably the best option if you are feeling gutless, if feeling more assertive you could have some words about misrepresentation and how that doesn't make you excited.
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RHP User
13 years ago
phone sex,I don't see it as a prelude to any other variety of sex.It is all about the voice,a photo is nice but not necessary for me .What is necessary is the right voice.A few years ago I became quite addicted to having phone sex with a voice in WA,it was not just the tone ,not just the words but the whisper. Whisper in my ear the right way and I will follow you anywhere.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' And I am trying to bleach my mind as we speak lol! They were VERY VERY sexual and such a turn on.....and did indeed connect with my mind! So....is it the deceipt that has turned me off...or their physical appearance? I would wager on the physical appearance...When I saw them on cam...My face looked like I had just eaten a dozen lemons and I was completely turned off! Makes me wonder about guys who ring TeleCafe or those Sex Numbers...Is it more the aural that is a turn on? Are we better left to our imagination and just have anonymous phone sex and sexting with someone on the other side of the Country who we will never meet? After all I do LOVE phone sex! xFunlovingx Because phone sex is cerebral sex.... with the voice going straight to the subconscious part of your brain.... the image YOU developed was above and beyond whatever pictures they initially misrepresented themselves with.Then your imagination made those images.... real..... real enough for it to excite, arouse and attract you to them, their voice, their mind, their imagination speaking directly to yours.That is what makes their physical misrepresentations more confusing and difficult for you to reconcile.Your imagination led you down the path as much as the guys did.But you enjoyed the journey Isnt the mind.... interesting.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jaybaby77'I don't get excited about someone till i see them in real life. I'm all for the phone sex thing but really want to know who I'm talking too but you can only test attraction in real life. As for OP - well avoidance is probably the best option if you are feeling gutless, if feeling more assertive you could have some words about misrepresentation and how that doesn't make you excited. Gutless? That is a huge call! No, I am not gutless I just don't like hurting people's feelings! One of these guys has been more than just phone sex! I had to talk him into getting emergency help when he texted me and told me he had problems that needed tending to ASAP! I have a problem with alot of guys and always beg for them to not put me up on a pedestal! I find that some guys put me so high on a pedestal before we meet that it actually does turn me off wanting to meet up with them at all! I am not perfect, I am not the bombshell they like to see me as, I am not young and firm bodied! I tell them all this..but out comes the pedestal never the less! I wish there was a tactful way to tell them but am a loss at the moment on finding that tactfulness without hurting them! Noone likes to be told they are not good enough! We do that to ourselves enough in life! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
13 years ago
All that has been said is why I dont like to get into erotic chat with anyone before meeting them.I like to know who I am talking with first....that they are who they say they are, not a kid, not someone I am not attracted to.Attraction goes both ways, its too easy for both concerned to build an image in their minds and when you meet someone can be very disappointed if you dont match that image.I prefer to meet first.
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