OMG! That M word....Morals!!! WTF!!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Of course, I can only speak for myself. Personally, I've never had an interest in playing the field, but having said that, I've only ever been in committed relationships. OK, I've had a very sheltered life! I think, though, that if I found myself in a FWB situation, I'd still refrain from getting around....I just don't feel comfortable with the idea. And I'm not greedy! :-)

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Im too cheap to pay for working girls, dont have the time for a relationship, love meeting new people, and think friendship and sex is a great combination. Want morals, got to your local church.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You see, that's the guy thing - generally guys are pricks, don't give a damn about anything but their pricks and all brain acivity is carried out with the objective of pleasing their pricks. I speak here as a guy but one who has a wonderful partner but also because I have been treated occasionally in the past by women who have behaved somewhat similar. I can only suggest you treat the site as it is - generally a sex site and occasionally you might meet Mr. Wonderful who will sweep you off your feet and take you to never never land. I do apologise for the generallity of guys, they can't think any other way but I would suggest if you are looking for a lasting moral relationshipwant with total morals , here isn't the place for that. Yes it might happen (yeah right) but the local church study group would have better chance of fulfilling this need. You are right to have your values and I for one if I met a lady on here would never attempt to have sex on the first date - ever. However we (my partner and I) are swingers, we are here to find like minded people, form friendships and have extra fun. My partner and I have strict rules and we follow them - alone or together and i suggest you keep to your rules with fervour otherwise you become less of a person than what you ultimately want.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  but there are other people who seem to, so i guess it comes down to individual perception. The onus is on you to remember that we're NOT all here for exactly the same reasons and to be clear about what you want and explore the object of your desire's individual perception, if you beat around the bush or don't ask them, is it really their fault that they don't meet your expectations? . Also, I certainly don't see the pursuit of sexual arrangements with consenting adults to be immoral. i was looking for exactly that big shag fest as soon as i hit submit, but I'm honest about what i'm after, I play safe, don't compromise on my personal beliefs and do my best not to hurt anyone's feelings, what's immoral about that? 'Morals' are yet another indivivual, personal thing I think, probably best kept that way rather than projected onto others. . As for being stood up, that just plain sucks and you've every right to be annoyed about it, but the beauty of being a girl on this site is that for every fool that messes you around, there's 2 genuine guys who'll be shaking their heads at him and hoping to be the "NEXT!!" one you'll consider. Don't give up babe, talk to someone else and let them put a smile back on your face!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi Sensual...... I like to think an exclusive thing is possible... It can be hard to find - through this site or elsewhere!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thanks for your replies Just a couple of things as I wait for RHP to delete my account...again! Taking another break :-) I aim this at men because I am only seeking men, I am sure if I were seeking women as well, I may find the same happens. No offence intended. Church groups??? So moralistic people are religious and cant enjoy sex and relationships? Sorry got to disagree with that. Over the last 10 years I have a 3 exclusive relationships with RHP men....as mentioned obviously they didnt last the distance, but were great at the time :-) But....my gripe is at happenings of the last month.....is a vent, nothing more, nothing less. yes_I_am_naughty - good to hear, I will continue to live in hope lol

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