RHP

RHP User

F33

Not sure what to do.

November 04 2012

I've just been wondering what I could do to improve my profile? Because although I have tried to summarize my wants/needs it seems to me I'm still getting the same amount of "Ur hot lets fuck". Honestly it's annoying as hell but is it a natural guy thing that will continue to exist or is there something I should improve?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    if you wish,you can be a little more detailedin point formoutlining what you're IN TO and what you're NOT IN TO.you will always get guyswho lack social skillsasking for a fcuk.just ignore them.nothing you can do...at least it makes it easy for youto weed out the pedestrianfrom the truly gifted(like me)*kiss on cheek*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's just par for the course.   You have mentioned in your profile that you enjoy slow sensual sex with an attentive lover, you have also mentioned that a nicely worded message would catch your attention.   You are always going to get a few numbnuts who just don't get it. Welcome to RHP.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Theres absolutely nothing wrong with your profile, you're young hot and on rhp which means you're going to get attention. Luckily for you, you can choose to ignore whoever you like. Just don't ignore me when I come to Queensland and invite you out for a drink ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But you look lovely for a larger lass. So you are just going to have to put your "Shit deflector on"..You can write what you like in your profile section, but it's possibly not going to change your problem. Though I would take the time to block those who get it wrong in the message department. This will filter "Repeat offenders".As an aside. I'd loose the pre-selected bit's and put everything in your own words. I also think it's worth while changing your pics and words from time to time.. Even though I'm guilty of not keeping up with that my self. ~rolls eyes~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    This is how it is gorgeous girl. First up you are talking about sex and therefore a man will conclude that this is mainly what you want from RHP and the people that you might meet through this site. Sex... that's it. Of course there is nothing wrong with this but you then have to accept that you will get those morons sending you those messages. So, do you want a little more than one night stands? I would say this upfront and say you are not after mindless sex with just anybody, etc. etc. This will at least bring the number of "let's fuck" messages down a tad. I once had on my profile that I was here for fun but ultimately would like to find a boyfriend. Boy did my messages take a nose dive. LMFAO. And people say the blokes don't read women's profiles. They certainly managed to pick that up and they ran a mile. Good luck gorgeous.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm here mostly to keep in contact with a certain few, and for the forums ;) I still get messages. No, they don't read. They might be able to, but they don't. Their penis looks at you with it's one good eye and goes "cor! gottagetme a peas o that!" And....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok here's the deal youngin. Meeka and a couple of others have hit the nail on the head when it comes to men's advances. But one more thing, it does NOT matter how well you write and construct a profile, if your photos are scantily clad, men will see you as easy. If you want respect, then show it in both your words and your photos.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' Ok here's the deal youngin. Meeka and a couple of others have hit the nail on the head when it comes to men's advances. But one more thing, it does NOT matter how well you write and construct a profile, if your photos are scantily clad, men will see you as easy. If you want respect, then show it in both your words and your photos. Hardtruckin... are you saying because I have my ass on display I don't deserve respect? Well I am here to tell you. I can dress the way I like and I am free to choose who I am with and I DEMAND respect. If a few doofuses want to see me as easy and cheap, well you know what. That is their loss quite frankly. I am brazen but I am not cheap nor do I sleep around willy nilly... and if they can't see a confident woman who is sexually open that is truly their loss.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I didn't articulate that very well at all eh?? And for that I do apologise and will return when I can articulate the point on a much more neutral level without suggesting that women don't deserve respect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's going back to a woman having to be a lady and sex is a thing to be hidden. A lady by day and whore by night eh? There are definitely guys out there who think this way hardtruckin, whether you do or not I can't say. The way I look at it is, this is their issue, their problem and their old fashioned way of looking at things and they are missing out on some fabulous women because of this attitude. Oh and women feel this way too I know. Damn religious upbringings!I have always been open about sex and sexuality That is me... doesn't mean I am going to fuck you though. Another interesting point I was discussing with someone recently. Men that think they are supposed to only be serious about or they should only marry a "good" girl yet some of them will never be satisfied because they have kinks that these women will just never satisfy. Be honest about what you need and just ignore the dickheads. That's all we can do. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Firstly, I love a woman to be open and honest, I respect it in fact. There's something sexy as hell as a woman that is in fact open about her sexuality. However, and I guess this really is a moot point with which I make, but the way ones profile reads and appears is always going to attract the market that it appeals to. I don't believe, that women deserve any less respect, quite the contrary in fact. God I hope this is making the point that I want to make, without me sounding like a prude or an offensive jerk. Big weekend on the turps and my brain is still in the deep fryer lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Women probably get that many messages and flirts is the reason why they IGNORANTLY dont reply unless the guy looks like George Clooney. If the guys had to wait for ladies to apply it would be months. If you dont like it try RSVP lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Should be hard on you! But I do know what you mean. However times are a changing, and there will always be men who just don't get it. I am open and honest and I like to be naughty or adventurous or however you want to put it and I hope I will appeal to the men that will appreciate that in a woman. This is me. If I inadvertently attract men who can't keep their pecker in their pants every time they see a bit of flesh. So be it. It is inevitable but I reserve the right to tell them hell no! You can look but you can't touch. Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' . A lady by day and whore by night eh? Correct..ahhhh the perfect partner / Lady

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thank you Meeks. And btw, you can get all sorts of devilishly naughty and adventurous you like ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    hardtruckin' prompted an uber sexy profile pic from meeka...Big respect hardtruckin'We were talking about respect right? ~laughs~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'You can look but you can't touch. Meeka We can also lick the screen without you knowing meeka, i'm biting your nipple right now

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'But you look lovely for a larger lass. Men! He meant to say you're gorgeous!   *Drags LRE off by his hair for some training*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Just how I roll :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well said,I like ya stylex R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Ok here's the deal youngin. Meeka and a couple of others have hit the nail on the head when it comes to men's advances. But one more thing, it does NOT matter how well you write and construct a profile, if your photos are scantily clad, men will see you as easy. If you want respect, then show it in both your words and your photos. covers myself up blushing...does this mean men do not respct me?   this is my concerned face