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Not allowed sex for a month :(
June 13 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sounds like my first marriage.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Imagine how much fun your going to have when your ship shape again. Look out Mr Add....lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are a heap of chastity devices on the net.
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RHP User
14 years ago
So if that is what your gyno says.......what does your dentist say? Anal anyone? Oral perchance? Penetration is not the only method of having sex....sheesh woman try thinking outside the *box* (pun intended)
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RHP User
14 years ago
While I am not sure how best to go about it, given the little information (and no, am not asking you to tell us what the operation was etc) you have provided, I think best thing may be to have a month of focusing on Mr Inaddition, and then when you are ready to rumbleeeeeeeee, its switch time, a month of focusing, on YOU. So for this month, lotsa headjobs, handjobs etc for Mr. Spice it up with varying locations as you are able.Am sure that when this month is over and it's your turn, you will (a) have one hell of a time and (b) more than make up for going without, for a month.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh darling!! I hope you're ok!:(
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RHP User
14 years ago
a cock cage.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' So if that is what your gyno says.......what does your dentist say? Anal anyone? Oral perchance? Penetration is not the only method of having sex....sheesh woman try thinking outside the *box* (pun intended) All those other orifices are indeed available but seriously...how hard is it not to just slip it in??? I have the willpower of a flea on a dog....gawd...it's going to be a long month!
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RHP User
14 years ago
just lay back and say arrr
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'InAdditionTo' Quoting 'Handmaiden' So if that is what your gyno says.......what does your dentist say? Anal anyone? Oral perchance? Penetration is not the only method of having sex....sheesh woman try thinking outside the *box* (pun intended) All those other orifices are indeed available but seriously...how hard is it not to just slip it in??? I have the willpower of a flea on a dog....gawd...it's going to be a long month!Each day, each week, a new reward can be obtained for your diligent absteinance with the final culmination of one huge sexy reward when all is cleared and good to go. Little reward certificates or coupons can be printed up, to be collected at a later date.
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
a while back i had fairly major surgery which meant no sex for 6-8 weeks (thankfully we got the ok after 6) it was the LONGEST 6 weeks of my life so i feel for you.I suggest lots of cold showers and yes use those 'other orifices' where ever possible I would also plan a special 'celebration session' for when the month is up, set aside a whole weekend for fun and games and just make up for lost time. whatever you decide, good luck WBYM
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RHP User
14 years ago
From a health background and perspective.... No sex for a month will mean no Penetrative sex for a month,for whatever reason,infection,bruising etcorgasm itself will cause no harm unless you have cervical stitches.If infection control is the reason for the abstinence,cunnilingus only becomes a risk if you have not properly prepared the givers mouth IE: gargle and mouth wash with beatadine oral rinse... even then not a certain but a preventative infection method. Good Luck, be safe Be well....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nudierudie2' From a health background and perspective.... No sex for a month will mean no Penetrative sex for a month,for whatever reason,infection,bruising etcorgasm itself will cause no harm unless you have cervical stitches.If infection control is the reason for the abstinence,cunnilingus only becomes a risk if you have not properly prepared the givers mouth IE: gargle and mouth wash with beatadine oral rinse... even then not a certain but a preventative infection method. Good Luck, be safe Be well.... Lol, thanks for the frank advice here...will absolutely take it on board. I will make sure Mr Inadditionto is thoroughly doused with extra strength oral rinse before I commit him to hours (at least 2) of oral pleasure. It goes without saying that I'll reciprocate - can I go without the oral rinse though ?.Day 3 and counting ....
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RHP User
14 years ago
you poor, poor thing... I really do feel for you. I'm sorry I can't be more helpful, on the few occasions where I have tried to abstain it has been a dismal failure. Even after the birth of our children we never lasted more than a couple of weeks - foregoing the recommended 6 weeks... I have zero will power when it comes to this, a couple of tweaks of the nipple and theres no going back. Perhaps you culd take up knitting or baking, something really sedate to keep the mind off more raunchy activities. Although good suggestions here with the oral, if you're anything like me, there will come a point where you just can't help yourself. My suggestion is that you go without as long as you possibly can, and then start with the oral etc at that point. Just noticed that you are at the 3 day mark, this is usually the time where I start to get tetchy if I haven't had any. You may want to see your doc and get some valium... if all else fails you can remain half comatose for the next few weeks. Good luck, and a speedy recovery.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Change your profile to Male. They seem to go without for months on end quite easily. ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Tea with that Mrs.Tri.....lmaox Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrsTri' Change your profile to Male. They seem to go without for months on end quite easily. ;) Love it! Poor mites...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nikki you are one of the most clever girls i have met you will work it out just think very hard lol You could always find him a casual friend just for a few weeks if not suck suck and suck!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' Quoting 'InAdditionTo' Quoting 'Handmaiden'Each day, each week, a new reward can be obtained for your diligent absteinance with the final culmination of one huge sexy reward when all is cleared and good to go. Little reward certificates or coupons can be printed up, to be collected at a later date. Love your coupon idea. Could/would work not just for this, but for anything. Could really spice things up for couples or singles. Write your fantasies singularly on pieces of paper, pop them all into an empty Milo or Coffee tin and once a week/month, dip your hand in, pick one, and go make it a reality. Wouldn't have to be something you hadn't done before either.Quoting 'MrsTri' Change your profile to Male. They seem to go without for months on end quite easily. ;) LMAO Mrs Tri. Sad but true, currently 2 yrs, for lil ole moi.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Looks like you will have to take note of the detour signs ..Hopefully the road wont be blocked for too long !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Saskia72' you poor, poor thing... I really do feel for you. I'm sorry I can't be more helpful, on the few occasions where I have tried to abstain it has been a dismal failure. Even after the birth of our children we never lasted more than a couple of weeks - foregoing the recommended 6 weeks... I have zero will power.... Yup! I didn't take heed of the 6 week mark after child birth either...apparently (and so I can testify), it's not a good idea to have sex with stitches still intact especially with an unconvinced Mr Inadditionto to bowing to my constant pleas of "don't worry darling, I'll go easy". ... and then having to console him after the stitches broke (Ladies...seriously...not a good idea, however horny you may be).Hmmmmm.... And with the oral...once its been in my mouth - there's just no stopping me. Im dooooomed and will surely have cobwebs growing very soon.To top it off - babysitters on tap for a month and no playtime allowed .
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RHP User
14 years ago
An ex of mine was the samel (4 weeks) thought it would kill us.You learn to improvise plenty of cuddling, plenty of oral and you tend to play the 'back nine' a bit more often. One of the tricks we found was no waxing, let it grow and on the way home from the docs go via the beautician :) When the front nine reopens set aside a few hours at least, you go like rabbits lol Hope all goes well !
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm starting to feel really sorry for you InAdditionTo...... perhaps all us rhp forum readers could go out of our way and have an extra fuck while thinking about you.....telepathic penetration??????
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RHP User
14 years ago
for painting that picture of phone sex.....Now I have this really silly picture in my head of Mr&MrsInAdditionTo....laying next to each other- in bedON the phone to each other...lol ......and for some reason the phones are the old fashioned dial telephones.
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RHP User
14 years ago
May I suggest you take up online gaming, like World of Warcraft or Eve (or Ultima Online, if you want to go really old school)? For years these games have been helping millions of people not have sex.You're welcome.xx Stuck
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RHP User
14 years ago
send him to the spare room with a lock on - for him to be safe....lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
is not really alternative activities, that sort of comes naturally when you start to get your sex on... the biggie is how do you put the brakes on... foreplay without penetration is like Bogie without Bacall, a hamburger without the bun, fellatio without cunnilingus (just plain not fair!) - and yes I know foreplay is awesome, divine and fucking great, hell, sex without foreplay is just as frustrating, they compliment each other beautifully. How to be satisfied with just the one... that is the question. It used to be said to stop a man in his tracks you could whack him in the nether region with a cold spoon, not so sure how effective that was, was never so pissed off with a bloke that I could bring myself to test out the theory OUCH!... Never heard of a comparative treatment to make women back off... as there doesn't appear to be a market for that problem, on the contrary there are all sorts of lotions, potions and things to get a woman begging for it... So are there any old wives tales about things that make your libido take a nosedive... as I think the only way to really get around this is abstinence for as long as you can possibly stand it...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I too am having a minor op mines scheduled for next week. I'm hoping to play the night before but not sure as they never told me not to just wondering what they'll think if they see any 'evidence' lol. I've made plans for a week later to catch up with new friends ;) so I'm hoping all will be ok by then! I'm a Scorpio so patience and abstinence don't work well for me!
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RHP User
14 years ago
......and for some reason the phones are the old fashioned dial telephones. Bahaha...The spooky thing is...we have one of those! It's a genuine black 1940 Bakelite dial phone - and I love it. Sound quality is crap though - perhaps its time to move it to the bedroom Day 5....getting desperate!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'MrsTri' Change your profile to Male. They seem to go without for months on end quite easily. ;) I suggest doing some 'meet first' (having dinner with compatible couples) and then 'playing later'... you can use your dictionary as the centrepiece ;)Cass xxx
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