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M59

Not a Small Town

October 17 2010

Ok I live in one of the top ten biggest cities in Australia. Still there are only a dozen eliagable females within 50km that fit my criteria, (wich is basically arround the same age). I have messaged all of them with a polite Hello and either received a "Not interested" or no reply. On the no replys i have sent second and third follow up messages, (to send more would be pointless). This senario has been repeated on other dating sites. In the three months i have been on the internet I am yet to actually have an ongoing dialogue with a potential partner, let alone actually meet someone. This is not a complaint, so please do not flame me, and moving is not an option. Your assistance and help to discuss my further options would be greatly apreciated. So what is my recomended next step.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    this is actually sort of serious- maybe they're not fans of snakes? There are also a few spelling errors which makes it a bit confusing at times. Also, many, many guys have complained of a lack of interest/success on rhp, but it might just be what you get when there is a surplus of guys and far too few girls on here. We get a lot of attention and it's kind of easier (though not fair) just to sit back and wait for the next message. I try to answer them all but a busy life sometimes just gets in the way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You could try putting a smiling and welcoming photo up. And maybe re-word your profile by adding a little light bigheartedness to it. That's my thoughts. Good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    try smiling in some of your pics? without seeing your messages its hard to comment on those, but make them personal - show you have read their profiles and comment on something they have said. It's the "men are from mars and women are from venus" thing....females think differently! lol .... in my humble opinion....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    change your criteriawiden your search areamove somewhere elseWhy don't you get off the internet and go somewhere to meet people in real life? Surely there must be plenty of single women in Newcastle - not including the ones you'd meet on Islington :p they might be out and about, not on RHP.As a single guy on RHP you're already involved ina numbers game where the basic odds are not in your favour, add to that being in an area with a much smaller population and the numbers get even worse - much less chance of a woman interested in you being on RHP. Get outside and meet people in real life (easier said than done for some though)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just a couple of ideas 1. Check your spelling. A well presented and well thought out profile will always stand out. 2. Pics. A photo of your upper body/full face shot with a smile or pleasant expression is preferable. You look good but I think your photos let you down. Otherwise you seem ok to me. Good luck with your search.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ok Tyrian29...I'll lend a hand. I've just checked out your profile to see what's up and have a few ideas to run by you...take it or leave it...no flaming intended. From a visual perspective, a good first step might be to rethink your profile pics...possibly deleting them. I for one am way more interested in trouser-snakes than tree-snakes (if that's what that is) and, while I appreciate demonstations of clever zoom photography, there's a reason why broken nose capilleries don't make it into Voyeur Magazine. Always check for edits...looking 'sore' is not a good look. And while you are editing your profile, perhaps you could rethink what you've written by sticking to the subject header eg. in the About Me section...talk more about you. Avoid challenging your reader with generalised questions and statements about what you think about the rest of us. And, as strange as it may seem...you might want to reshuffle the order of things you're Looking For...in fact...try turning your list on it's head. This is RHP...it's all about the intimate encounter - top of the list - number one. If you hit it off and the sex is hot then sure 'dating' could occur, but if you're really into walks in the sunshine then PLEASE consider checking out the probably-very-good relationship sites out there. I hear they can match people on very deep levels of compatibility... No thank-you message necessary...hop to it!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    you are in a city full of so much beauty and wonderment and there are heaps of places to go see and meet ladies in any age or agenda you can think of ,,,,I havnt had a look at your profile but if you start on here by sooking then it dosent look good ,,,,just play it by ear and reply to a few forums have fun and kick back for a while ,,,,,,, the ladies of RHP can get a feel for who is fun and interesting in more ways than just a profile so dont give up just give it time, Andy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Dude, I lived in Newcastle and meeting women is easy and Newy has more pretty single women per male than any city I've been to. Ditch the snake pics, smile, be uplifting and positive in what you write on your profile and maybe treat yourself to a fresh new hairstyle and a spray tan before you take your profile pics. No crap I have had some excellent interest on here from the Novocastrian ladies in our age group so they're out there. It's competitive so play the game hard my friend!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You are only willing to go 50km??????????? Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think you aren't serious if 50km is your limit. Some on here travel vast distances for the right people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks to all for the feedback. I was attempting to be a little different in my photos. Might have to take it back to basics, with some nice pic's as recommended first. and use a spell checker and re-write my profile. Stand by for the new me . . . .comming here soon !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its easy - join "Getalife". Its about 3 to 1 women. They run heaps of activities in Sydney.But you have to talk to them and charm them - and the sex is not guaranteed like this sex site - lol.RegardsMr. SR

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'seductionrules' But you have to talk to them and charm them - and the sex is not guaranteed like this sex site - lol. what?! the sex is guaaranteed here??!! in that case... someones got some 'splainin to do...:p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What's wrong with wanting someone close by? There is no way I would travel more than 50km's!!! I want to spend time with someone, not spend all my time driving there and back!!