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" No single guys" ???
October 09 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nothing against single guys.. we were all single once. But a single guy does not fulfill all our fantasies.. different people have different fantasies, with us as a couple there is a few variations you can do with mmf but not many at all (for straight guys) so just adding the extra "f" is a jaw dropping difference in our point of view to the amount of variations ;) So for us it is a waste of time getting 20 messages a day from single guys. I LOVE cock, but we BOTH love pussy so that is the only way it is going to work for us :) Each to their own though!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That some of them...yes that reads some not all...can overstay the welcome, by seeing more into what it is than reality. I used to work with a woman who only would flirt with attached guys as she knew (in her mind) that the guy wouldn't want to act on it. Does this make sense??
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RHP User
13 years ago
But 2 pussies and one cock is limiting . Too many holes and not enough things to stick in there!! Can't do dp with 2 pussies can you !! And cocks wear out so least i have a back up plan when I want more !! But I agree each to there own and as I said more for us !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Very well described Justforfun..Each to their own! We have more fun with couples than single guys..They just don't Rock our boat.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have met some grt couples and had some fantastic relaxed mfm, dp, fmf, and its been sensational.
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RHP User
13 years ago
some cpls are paranoid about singles, and will only play with other couples, or attached men. to us this seems like an unnecesary concern....if a couple are so insecure that they see a single unattached man as a threat, then they shouldnt be here........ single men pose no threat whatsoever, if you set simple ground rules, and adopt transparency as the norm with any contact...share every conversation, every text, phone call and email, keep no secrets and tell no lies..... its easy as falling off a horse.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
But We have had many straight guys come play , but isnt this site about getting your fantasies meet ? I love all cock , straight or bi !! Doesn't explain why people don't like single guys though . You never know the perfect single guy might send you a message and you could have the best night of your life !
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree... ffm there is too many holes, thats why we only want couples, not single males or single females
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Except without the 'no' at the beginning. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Single-men-37587
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RHP User
13 years ago
Is all a matter of preference, and people should respect other peoples preference and by that, it explains what they want and what they are looking for by being in this website. I know everyone is horny and you will be lying if you're not looking to get laid at the end of the tunnel. There's nothing wrong by being horny, but bear in mind that not everyone has the same sexual desires and fantasies. No matter what crazy ideas you have going on in your head, if it says "No Single Men", then it simply states that they are not looking for single men, nothing against it, just single mens don't have a part in their crazy sexy minds. There's no harm in trying to push your luck, who knows right? Maybe one day!? Don't feel bad about rejections! And don't hate the couples for blocking you, only because you didnt read the sign. Although there are couples out there who's a bit shy and states "No Single Men" in their profile, but actually they have been thinking about that extra cock that you single men can provide! Who knows right! The way I see it, is all about the timing and luck I suppose.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We love our single guys ... have quite a few awesome guy friends now who come to play ... bhcouple, you are right ... the single boys are always eager and flexible and our guys always turn up with a sexy attitude and fun in mind ... and good to have extras for our party nights too
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wonder if it's just to weed down the number of messages received?I notice you even get single women looking for men who are attached.Besides the ego boost from getting a man to cheat with you (which on a website like this is no ego boost at all, if he's here to cheat, it's got nothing to do with you), I think it's because sometimes you just want to fuck and you don't want anything more than that. You know the married guy isn't going to come looking for more.Well, as a single guy, I can tell you I do not want anything more. If I did I'd be on RSVP or something. I reckon attached guys are more likely to want more. If they're here to cheat, they're probably unhappy with their relationship. All of a sudden they're having some carefree fun, and BAM! You're looking far more attractive as a parter than their wife.
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RHP User
13 years ago
From single guys to our relationship and stalking . I am not looking for a new partner just someone to have some naughty fun with! If the relationship is sound you have nothing to worry about ! We pick our guys carefully and have had no problems with them over staying there welcome or being pests. In regards to getting 30 messages a day , it's great to have so many options. Not everyone is going to be for us and us for them , so the more people you make contact with the better . I think people have misunderstood my question , it wasn't about preference it was about " single guys" . Whats the difference between a guy in a couple and a single guy ? If your in a relationship with a guy you obviously like cock so why wouldn't you invite one to play !
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are a married couple as u can see, male is bisexual (lol) but we do like single guys as long as they are bisexual, we dont have any fun with a straight guys so we have (No single straight guys) its what we like, but we will play with a straight couple, and we rather have couples that the guy bi.... We have found a lot of single guys straight or bisexual are full of bullshit.. We had one come up from Perth yesterday and he wants to do every couple in Gero so we told him to take a hike, we dont like guys who arange to meet and then put you off for a day as he's meeting someone eles and if he gets a know back he come and see us errr no thanks... Get sick of putting our time out for idiots and bullshit.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
but , we got to the stage now where we entertain the thought of a single guy when WE are ready.... ' not the other way around.. Single guys almost always refuse to read our profile where we state VERY CLEARLY we will contact them , and then only if Mrs JJ feels a connection...As a straight male, I dont have any jealousys towards Mrs experiencing some new cock.. In fact its a great sexual release for her but its not something she desires every week...As mentioned in countless posts.. the oversexed small brain brigade spoil it for everyone... Too many guys think being here is like being in the pub with their mates and have no idea what they need to do to attract attention...The pic and the name are important to us and is what we look for when the right time comes along.. Any guy with a suggestive name automatically gets the flick and the pic needs to be desirable.. not naked .. Sprouting your sexual prowess also belongs in the pub.. The people you meet should be the ones who tell you ' you were good.. not you tell them..But all in all, adding a guy is something every couple should try at least once.. If the guy ticks all the right boxes it can be exciting and rewarding... Accept it for the experience it is , and most of all keep it fun...So our motto now is, if you ignore our profile criteria, we ignore you...
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2more4fun
13 years ago
Perhaps it's the classic case of only one or two pests spoiling it for all other single guys? I think most guys do read profiles or send messages to people seeking guys but I guess a percentage figure they'd hedge their bets by writing to a couple who isn't seeking guys on the off chance they might be interested :|I appreciate that if you're not seeking guys it would be frustrating to have your hopes raised when a new message comes in, only to find it's from yet another guy. Some couples/girls seem to get really riled up over it though. If I was a guy, I'd probably just get my jollies from writing to couples who have the whole "NO SINGLE GUYS, EVER, NEVER, EVER!!!" and ask them if they can make that point any clearer... Maybe that's what some are doing lolWe might get a couple of messages from single guys but it's never really a problem :| It's easy enough to say no thanks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We'd have to strongly disagree with MikeandShels comment. We don't gave any insecurities in our marriage nor are we paranoid about playing with single guys, we just don't desire them in our play, pretty simple really. We enjoy MFMF, MFM and FMF with couples as this is our choice! So we have every right to be here!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That you just like what a couple can offer but no one puts in there profile " no single girls " just cause you prefer couples . You really narrow your field if you single out a whole group before you ever give them a chance . I say fair go for all !!! You might miss out on a great opportunity ! Plus each group has there own reward . Doing one thing all the time ( couples , girls , boys ) gets boring ! Mix it up a little . Different people for different moods Xxx
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PartyOrg
13 years ago
There are just too many guys on here and not enough girls..... i dont think there is one couple on here that can say they get bombarded by 30 messages from girls a day. Maybe then we would see someone say "No Single Girls" quite a funny thought really. Actually I dont think anyone would write NO SINGLE GIRLS on their profile no matter how many messages per day they received from girls.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is my second time on RHP The first I was part of a couple seeking women onlyThis time I am here solo seeking women onlyYet every day I am getting flirts/messages from countless menEven after I send the reply short answer is no, long answer is NOOOOO they still persist on sending moreYes I love cock, but I love my husbands and have no interest in another man at this stage.So as I see it what I have on my profile means nothing anyway.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have sent flirts to people with the NO SINGLE GUYS Jihad warning just to waste an unused flirt for my own amusement, obviously I expect no reply, but it tickles me to imagine some irate bloke sifting through looking for female playmates only to be swamped in a sea of sausage. I do find it slightly ironic that some of the couples who post pics in the amateur pics section often have a strict ban on men, yet actively encourage men to drool over the lovely lady in question.I once had a chat with a RHP couple on msn who had a strict ban on men,yet when the girl got on msn on her own she told me she longed for two cocks to play with but knew it would be a deal breaker, though I don't think most couples seeking women are in this position for that matter.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol, I ask the same...double standards i think...single guys are welcome :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
As the husband of a woman who likes cock, regardless of our own personal sexual preference. Let me tell you I'm greatful to have a cock. Granted there are some men out there who are simply dicks. "parden the pun", hence they are single. Off course they come with there own issues, as do we all, from overstaying their welcome, to forgetting its just a game we all like to play "she's not your girlfriend champ" Seeing my wife outside the reality of our everyday life and feel sexy allowing herself to escape from all that were she can indulge, and loose her inhibitions is a reward all on its own. On the jealousy issue a more wiser friend explained that when you play, she isn't your wife more your best friend sharing a naughty experience together. I also try make the single guy feel as if i'm there mate and we have been given this opportunity to indulge and for full this sexy woman's needs. If anything its great that the guy can respect me, but not thank me. Guys don't be intimidated by me or ask my permission. Just treat her like a woman who loves cock, with out crossing the line. Lastly it's simply the love, trust and respect we have for one another that allows both of us to feel comfortable with "single guys" Brendon
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ok, I cant see my comment I made earlier but it seems, couples say no single guys because 1they can2. They aren't looking for them i.e the womanor 3.,,the guy feels uncomfortable mmmm :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
This site seems to be predominantly a couples and bi women site.Single men are generally regarded as a scourge, pests and a nuisance.Although I do notice the professional party organisers recognise our value as a revenue stream.Then take out the "just here for the forums" mob, "must have giant cock mob". "must have six pack mob" "no one under 25" " no one over 45"Aarh, enjoy the forums boys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
bhcouple I got to agree with ya...... We rather have a single guy (him being bi) than a cheating married guy any day, but we do have on our profile single bi-guys and couples oh and single females as I still love the females body.... Just can stand the bullshit that comes with some people....
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RHP User
13 years ago
You've just excluded 98% of the single men on here!!! :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
YOU are the typical single guy that spoil it for the rest... Sending flirts to couples when you know know they request people like you need not apply.. goes to show where your sick mindset is..If you feel your'e not getting anywhere, look at your self and try and find out what the problem is.. How far do you think it gets you by getting your kicks from being a pest ? .. at 38 yrs of age.. one would think you would have grown up some.. apparently not so......... Mrs JJ
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RHP User
13 years ago
Couples aren't really my thing, even though I've never had the opportunity, but having a hoot of a time doesn't mean sex always. Could be just a hangout thing.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' YOU are the typical single guy that spoil it for the rest... Sending flirts to couples when you know know they request people like you need not apply.. goes to show where your sick mindset is..If you feel your'e not getting anywhere, look at your self and try and find out what the problem is.. How far do you think it gets you by getting your kicks from being a pest ? .. at 38 yrs of age.. one would think you would have grown up some.. apparently not so......... Mrs JJI'm as typical as any other human being, unique, just like everybody else. One would have thought that a sick mindset might go way beyond clicking away an unused flirt, but alas the sheer depravity should not go unmentioned or chastened in your humble opinion, god forbid anyone who sends you request to play farmville on facebook. I would imagine that a pest might send repeated flirts, while someone sending one could be construed as simply taking the piss.I am perplexed as to why you would assume I'm not getting anywhere, obviously one would not expect to get anywhere with a couple who have inserted NO SINGLE GUYS into their profile, so the suggestion that I apply a little introspection is not really necessary, unless you perhaps think I might have more success as a woman?.I fail to see how sending a flirt to a couple who have absolutely no interest in an extra male joining them could spoil things for a single man?, unless of course they intended to change their NO SINGLE GUYS from upper to lower case and eventually remove it, had it not been for that darn pesky flirt of course.
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RHP User
13 years ago
With the superfluous amount of 'fake' profiles on red hot pie, adult friend finder and many others, a single male like me has only a few options in front of him.One option is to 'play the numbers' and flirt/message as many as he can. Another option is to slam a spam-style attack and hope for the best (similar to the first option).My option? READ THE PROFILES and make an EDUCATED judgement on what is - and what is not - a viable way to invoke a positive response from an attractive lady/couple who WANT to share me (or both my mate - also male - and I).Most profiles ARE real and by far the majority of those profiles are by women and couples who KNOW what they want - AND state it reasonably clearly in their profile.I believe its just a matter of respect - and when the question is raised as to 'why' the 'no single men' sign is put on the door of these profiles, the answer is quite clear - because they CAN, and they mostly don't want just a single male - sometimes they want two ;) hence - my mate and myself ;)In any case, the vast majority of women and couples will HONESTLY say what they want, and being a single MAN, I will respect that.There will be the odd occasion where I will 'try my luck' - and in some cases has paid amazing dividends, but mostly - I'll respect the wishes of the 'no single men' allotment and move on to those profiles that DO want single men and have a much more satisfying time - purely because they WANT to have me (and sometimes 2men) there to play with.Smile - it's all about having fun y'all ;)R xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
If a man of 38 years of age gets a thrill out of sending messages to couples who clearly state "NO SINGLE GUYS" What does that tell you ?No matter how articulate you put it.. Its still wrong... Definitely a hit out of what it is you cant change..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Luvnya69'We'd have to strongly disagree with MikeandShels comment. We don't gave any insecurities in our marriage nor are we paranoid about playing with single guys, we just don't desire them in our play, pretty simple really. We enjoy MFMF, MFM and FMF with couples as this is our choice! So we have every right to be here! that you dont 'desire' them, isnt what i was saying....i said some couples are 'paranoid about single guys'..and will choose a married guy (playing on his own)over a single.... thinking that they are minimising risk....its an unreasonable point of view, and one i believe is driven by fear...singles pose no threat, unless you allow it, or invite it....i speak from experience here, having played as a single when i was on my own.... i've been confronted by jealous enraged husbands, after their wives pursued me outside of what we'd done as a threesome....something i'd never invite or promote, as i understood the boundaries of behaviour....i'd been seen as a threat, by couples who were ill equipped to play in the way that we had, and had to face down a paranoid partner, who wanted to shed blood..not my fault, but something i had to deal with on a couple of occasions...my advice to them was, in the end, that this wasnt the lifestyle for them, unless they could deal with their fears and concerns........we dont have these fears or concerns, but its our preference to play only with men who are single and unattached...not out of fear, but because we've been the unaware one ourselves, whose partner was out there playing, and we cant do that deliberately to another.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well I have it on my profile no chicks or cpls..lol Chasing Only cock for me..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' If a man of 38 years of age gets a thrill out of sending messages to couples who clearly state "NO SINGLE GUYS" What does that tell you ?No matter how articulate you put it.. Its still wrong... Definitely a hit out of what it is you cant change.. Not so much a thrill, but enough to sometimes raise a minor chuckle. I'm afraid that at 38 I still exhibit a childish sense of humour sometimes, I try not to quash it though, as it often helps when dealing with the mundane. I would have thought a little honesty might provide insight for those who seem flabbergasted when they receive a flirt from a man, especially after clearly stating they under no circumstance want any form of male contact. I assumed it might perhaps even verify that indeed these mindless flirters are only taking the piss, but no, it has seen me cut to the quick and I shall refrain from bouts of candor in the future ;-).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Clearly, the other flirts he sends to those he DOES want to make contact with..... arent keeping him busy with responses. Love your work!, that's more like it!.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Brendon Granted single guys potentially come with issues and risks. If I had to be honest, I've had my issues with most. But the right guy with the right ground work you can avoid some of these comments "No mate she's not your girlfriend" "Yes buddy you can fuck her, that's why your here isn't it?" "What you want her to pick you up, then let you fuck her and I'll drive you home " "If you can't get it up, she's not going to beg you to or suck a soft cock." "Mate if I lick her clit while you fuck her. That doesn't mean I'm actually waiting for you to stick it in my mouth." "I don't give a shit if the iPhone is better than the Samsung Galaxy" "My views on the current refugee issue is totally irrelevant." "We are not going to ask you to take your clothes off, we are both laying here naked what do you think??" "She's not a piece of meat mate, if that pussy is sore because of you I'll be pissed." "You better hurry up and cum, I've cummed and my beer goggles are off so get on with it" "If we told you to wear a condom it means you wear a condom, don't make us tell you again" Just a minor few issues to get clear first. But a normal, confident guy who knows how to play with a couple is great and heaps of fun. I treat him like a mate. He has my back and I have his.
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