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No shows, WHY? And should we name and shame?
August 01 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know very well the detail that goes Into a planned meet, like yourselves, a lot to organise, we travel for our fun so there's an added errand... Sadly there are a lot on here that can't do it, when it comes to the crunch...I think it's very common for couples when meeting singles... Haven't heard a lot about other couples not showing up although I'm sure it's happened.... We seem to find it common strangely in paid members, is that a clue we overlook, willing to put effort Into a profile to lure you in , give them access to your pics and filthy mind, desires and fantasies, they have their way with you multiple times, before the meet... Then decide perhaps you were fantastic enough as that... NEXT!! .... Thankfully we can count on one hand the no shows, I'm sorry you have too experienced this, rest assured it has nothing to do with yourselves and all is about them... Name and shame Tab....like a failed to fuck system... Be like a guilty until proven innocent sort of thing....jury's still out for me on that... Hope your next meet blows your mind... Amongst other things 😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
just recently ended up being postponed due to my work being a very unpredictable industry.... All it took was a message to say "the mill has broken down its going to be late...really late....I'd still love to meet but we both need sleep.....what are your thoughts on rain checks??" Needless to say the next night was flawless 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
And the no-shows are the worst because it really comes down to rudeness. Genuine people will contact and offer a reasonable excuse, but unfortunately there are those armchair vouyers who have no intention of ever meeting who get off on the thought that you would have met them and are nothing like what they profess to be on their profile. Sorry to hear about your experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
They may chicken out - no balls to carry through with such a gorgeous female. They may also fit the 'too good to be on RHP basket', in which case they are fakes. Genuine people always meet or let you know if late, in our experience.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who knows. I have been here 8 years and in regard to no shows when going somewhere to meet it has never happened. Yet in the forums I hear it all the time, its one of the biggest complaints (next to men sulking over being ignored) I had a look at your profile OP and you look like a nice down to earth couple. All I can say is that maybe you are attracting more of the wanna be side of the RHP crowd. Many wanna be's find it easy to "be" behind the keyboard and screen which will present them with a problem when it comes time to meet up. Your friends list suggests you have high standards, something many wanna be's will aspire to, and pretend to be. There is nothing you can do, lowering your standards is not an option. All you can do is learn from each bad experience and use that knowledge to help you detect the wanna be's before they waste precious time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes agree. Too many picture collectors. But this site is much better than some we could mention. Of course our busy lives do sometimes interrupt our play times. But all it takes is a message or call - Posted from rhpmobile
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erotictouch4u
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' I had a look at your profile OP and you look like a nice down to earth couple. All I can say is that maybe you are attracting more of the wanna be side of the RHP crowd. Many wanna be's find it easy to "be" behind the keyboard and screen which will present them with a problem when it comes time to meet up. Your friends list suggests you have high standards, something many wanna be's will aspire to, and pretend to be. There is nothing you can do, lowering your standards is not an option. Surely though, their vetting of pictures would have indicated to the prospective meetee that they were of a standard high enough ? Especially if they were invited to meet somewhere.ET xox
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just how people act in our society today. Returning messages, RSVPing to events etc. All optional apparently. We recently got married - one couple just never turned up. Still haven't heard from them as to why. As to no shows in this scene, we haven't had any, although we would have without some last minute phone calls to check people were coming.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is a common complaint from couples...you really need to speak on the phone first before you meet..if its another couple make sure she actually exists...could be the singlemale couple phenomonen ..xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I apologise for my rant and thank you for the support.. My / our frustrations just got the better of us and yes, we travelled 6 1/2 hours, not just for the meet, we had other prior engagments but still frustrating 😓 we never thought about some of the points raised so far, we will take that in to consideration. Thank you beautiful people 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
We have been lucky never had a no showButWe swap phone numbers and sometimes talk first.Swapped face photos.Not into swapping heaps of messages, photos....maybe that's what the pretenders want and go away when we don't play that game.
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RHP User
10 years ago
previous experiences for me though I have suffered a lot of panic attacks and anxiety just before a meet. While I realise it's no excuse for a lack of integrity; it's just some people deal with it better than others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was waiting in a pub car park for my friend to arrive, the phone rang, it wasn't her but it was Mrs D asking me to pick up our son from school as he was unwell. These things happen, fortunately it wasn't our first...or last date.All that aside there's no excuse for ignorance.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe just like the dentist or doctors we should confirm our play dates with a call the day before to ensure they are coming. Not arranged any meets yet but will bear this in mind - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have had plenty of no shows. If I can't make it I always cancel. Things come up in life and at times its just not possible to be able to make it. I think people should cancel out of respect.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'eagertongue4u' Quoting 'Blindman67' I had a look at your profile OP and you look like a nice down to earth couple. All I can say is that maybe you are attracting more of the wanna be side of the RHP crowd. Many wanna be's find it easy to "be" behind the keyboard and screen which will present them with a problem when it comes time to meet up. Your friends list suggests you have high standards, something many wanna be's will aspire to, and pretend to be. There is nothing you can do, lowering your standards is not an option. Surely though, their vetting of pictures would have indicated to the prospective meetee that they were of a standard high enough ? Especially if they were invited to meet somewhere.ET xox The verification system makes sure that RHPers are real and the very same pervs that the photos showed 15 years ago. What could possibly happen in a short decade that would turn someone into a wanna be and only enjoy talking the talk while shy of walking the walk. lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Any on with a Fake Profile will hide behind PCs, Mobile Texts and I think just get their jollies which they can get anywhere else. Certainly not in public or face to face. When I say Fakes it is men behind the auspices of a woman's photo and women behind a Man's photo. They think they are smart but if you look for keywords you can sort them out quickly. Must always have a phone contact before a meet otherwise to see who is real and who is not. There are plenty of good honest, sincere people on the dating sites, just ignore the 0-5% that are not.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can never understand why people would do that trynplease, you sound like a great couple, I feel some people think they are to good and don't bother letting you know if they not going to turn up, looking at your profile would certainly turn up lol Sometime things can happen from both side , it's just polite to communicate and explain and work something out
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your comment surprises me, and I wonder if there are people here who don't confirm their meets on the day or the day before. That's a must for me personally.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is nothing so hurtful than a person who lies or only teases.about meeting you...i may be nieve but i like meeting new friends and put alot of effort into the adventure through traveling or paying for accomodation...i am not rich but love adding good fun memories to my lifes story ...and to be tricked is cruel especially when a text is all you need to cancel 24hours before. Most of my friends ,like mmyself, are hard working people with little spare time
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've had a few no shows, despite being in the habit of confirming the day before. Very frustrating! In terms of being able to name and shame, there's always going to be the issue of people just opening a new profile. So even if there was some system that put a 'black mark' on a profile if they were reported as a no-show by a certain number of people - say 3 or more - then the serial offender would simply create a new profile and start with a clean slate again. Grrrrr
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh yes please we should have lots of thumb down buttons on peoples profiles. its not like anyone would abuse the right to shame someone. Some great flags would be. No show,StinksNot what the photo shows.Other genderIs still married.BoringDrinks to muchTiny/CavernousLimp/DryUglyLiesFreakEats with mouth openSnoresCan't fuck... Gee maybe even have a little section to Invalidate. Members can write stuff and you can not change it. It would have to be anonymous as you would not want people invalidating you just for invalidating them. What heaven that would be, as it would get rid of at least 99.9% of the riff raff that crawl the underbelly of this site. Oh forgot one.Sarcastic dick.LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes , you have every right to be peeved and the rant was warranted.. Fortunately ' it's never happened to me ... but I could imagine if it did... And yes , I do understand the time you ladies put into preparation.. The effort you guys put in deserved much better than what you got... Jay...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think that informing the site administrators first is a good idea. They, surely have access to email addresses etc and are in a good position to give pretenders a shove if they do it regularly. But realistically we need to accept that this is online 'dating' and there are many ugly issues attached to this world way worse than 'no-shows'. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
and with an arse like that, I'm surprised anyone would not show up! I mean that purely as a compliment. Don't take it personally, but I understand your frustration, a lot of time goes into it, particularly for women with all the preening, shaving etc etc being super clean, all the things we do to prepare for intimacy and the potential for it to happen, it sucks that this has happened to you. Like I say, the way you look, go figure?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thought the same myself... ( the arse ' that is ). but you can't talk....
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RHP User
10 years ago
But very rare but it could be as you are so remote.
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rupamohan
10 years ago
I don't think RHP can help. RHP is a business and there are some consequences in getting involved. There are reason why dislike is not there in facebook. It will help if all non show related OP can also share how may hours or days before and after the date time, was the last contact made with other party, and what was the exact words of agreement. We generally use the terminology lock the date and reconfirmation on the day and before getting ready, before starting and we only had 2 no shows from 300+ new dates. We also had only 1 no show from our side based on understanding of other couple. This date was planned and talked 3 days in advance no venue decided and it just happened that both sides didn't reconfirm. Other couple reached the venue and txt us to come over. Assuming cancellation we had already made other plans. So in short we don't have serious no show issue!!! can be just bad luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why would the administrators want to get involved when it's nothing more than one person's word against another? As far as multiple complaints being filed against one person by different people, it could just be that a group of members is ganging up on someone. It's happened before. Even if the culprits were to admit to standing you up in follow-up messages, what happens outside of RHP is none of the site's concern, unless perhaps you could prove illegal activity and they chose to suspend the member in question.
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RHP User
10 years ago
no show. My first rhp meet was supposed to be this weekend but was cancelled a few days ago. Not a problem though as we have been in sms contact and phone contact and the poor guy sounded so sick he had no choice but to postpone. We're already planning another meet .
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've never experienced a 'no show' nor have I been one. But I have read here in past topics that some people have problems. Again, as I said in another topic... It comes down to 'Human Decency'. Knowing that particularly women have to go to a lot of trouble to get to a meet (especially if they have kids). It's easy for me, I'm alone and just worry about me. I am also studying and have no fixed work hours (apart from occasional studio sessions, which admittedly are generally late arvo or evening, but I get plenty of notice). A simple phone call or text a couple of hours before the event will save someone so much trouble and then anxiety and anger... If you have to chicken out, just say so... People are understanding when someone does the RIGHT thing... SADLY, they are SURPRISED when someone does the right thing. A sad indictment of our treatment of each other. A wise man said many years ago... "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you". Don't recall the name... LOL.
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RHP User
10 years ago
With regard to a 'Name and Shame... That sort of thing can get quickly out of hand... Mix ups do happen and people DO actually have sudden commitments. So, to assume that someone is just a 'no show' and you haven't heard may not be enough and may result in someone suffering being ostracized, when it was perfectly innocent. I suppose, it may be possible to ask the site management to look into a 'no show' or what appears top be a purposeful one, and make a judgment after having heard the other persons story...
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Huntswingyou
10 years ago
We organise parties and book venues, and people don't show up, after committing - no word, no nothing. It's so aggravating. If I was meeting someone for a one-on-one and couldn't make it (just say I felt sick, or school rang because my kids were sick etc), I'd definitely give them notice and cancel! It's common courtesy, after all. Hope you meet some more genuine people in the future.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Muso17' it may be possible to ask the site management to look into a 'no show' or what appears top be a purposeful one, and make a judgment after having heard the other persons story... Her: Mods, (insert 2-page message)... and then he didn't turn up! Mods: Sigh. Guy, what's your side? Him: Hey mum broke her ankle and needed help! I sent a text message explaining but she called me a liar.Mods: Sounds fair (and we seriously won't know if it's the truth anyway). Miss, get over it. Or: Him: Mods, (insert three more lines) and she broke off all contact and blocked me!Mods, Oh FFS, here we go again. Miss? Her: Well, in his last sms to me he was rude and I changed my mind. Sue me. Mods: Please don't bug us again sir, we have enough to do with deleting all the shit fights that happen on the forums without getting involved in off-site personal drama.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not a mod. Or am I?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Or there partner is not really keen to playbut is pushed by them.Manners also would help.I have not come across many recently butknow there still out there. LOL
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DTE_couple
10 years ago
Yes text first after swapping numbers, then a phone call and let everybody speak to everybody.We mention to the other couple that we are going to send a confirmation text a few hours before the meeting. And if there is no response that everyone concerned, class the meeting as cancelled. But we often remind the other persons the day before as well. And we all agree on the confirmation text.Whenever we have done this - 100 % we end up meeting Just our thoughts .......
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RHP User
10 years ago
On my recent trip to Sydney I had a no show, no phone call, no text, nothing ... I even messaged a few hours before scheduled meet and the message went to voice mail... Someone else had also expressed interest but as I had already made arrangements, I didn't think it was a good thing to meet the second person, I did message them about the following night only to have them also be a time waster... I was dumbfounded, thinking .. "Is this what Sydney men are like now?" Accidently I started to talking to another man who turned out to be a wonderful gentleman and restored my faith in this site (a little bit) It was a real disappointment to have to deal with the fakes and the phonies.. my radar is usually pretty good with fakes but for some reason this first guy completely reeled me in... but he wont get another opportunity.
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DTE_couple
10 years ago
Yes we have come across many of them. Usually its the male half arranging everything. And then says to the female half ok this is whats happening or he has arranged. And she says no !! Then come out all the excuses under the sun.Best thing to do is speak to both people in the other couple and arrange your meet. And you will have a lot less no shows.It has worked for us !!And just Confirm before you meet up the day before and a few hours before. This way you and your partner don't get ready for nothing.... Its only 2 quick texts at least.If everyone were to agree this is the norm, there should be a lot more happy meetings and playtime !!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think (mr) there's a lot of the old grass is greener happening also to coincide with the laptop wannabe's! I've been guilty of a no show and to put it simply I got way too occupied and greedy with lil miss, doesn't excuse my rudeness but a simple truth - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
No shows? Hah! what about the ignorant bastards that don't even bother to reply!
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RHP User
10 years ago
This has happened to me a few times and with no explanation let alone the courtesy of an apology. But I think that those that do this have the same attitude as the profiles that read messages sent to them and dont reply. I have read all sorts of excuses and explanations for this but at the end of the day both ghings come down to simple manners . And yes a flag on profiles would be a good warning to others and might make the profiles who do this more circumspect in the way they treat others...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have recently became a paid member so I can contact people to meet and make new friends and have recently sent some messages to people . The problem is that nobody has the common courtesy to reply back to you even to say , no thanks your not what I am looking for. Is it so hard to have manners just to reply. I think I am not going to bother renewing my membership when I don't get any response from messages I send. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes a meet that no guaranteed play can be a big mission for some couples due to having kids,finding a sitter,financially can put a hole in the pockets for couples,so the one chance they do get they gotta make sure it's worth it,it's disappointing going home empty handed after money spent on travel,alcohol,baby sitters etc and all you want is a good time and blow off some steam after a hard weeks wrk etc so chatting would probably be the main key and being straight up with what you're looking for so ppl know exactly what your want etc eg,clear pics too not old one's - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
So according to the doyens here if you put anything about time wasters in your profile your seen in a negative light. The sage advice from the doyens here its up to you to "properly filter" the no shows. You will see typical sentiments like this....."Negative phrases like that in someone's profile makes me think they're demanding, intolerant and sometimes quite angry."....or this piece of gold.........."In other words they hate timewasters so much, they are going to waste twice as much time searching them out. And waste every one elses time in their process."......But wait it even gets better.........this is my fave!...... "if we see a profile where it says in bold 'NO TIME WASTERS' for is it is a clear indication that we are dealing with a pushy persona that wants action there and then ... and so we know to avoid them.".......see they know you have an "attitude!" If you are looking for advice I would suggest that coles would be a better place. People here, "the usual suspects" will look down upon you if you even hint at the fact that you don't like your time being wasted. So you have a couple of choices.....1; put up with it because people will see you as pushy or negative if the subject is mentioned.......2 fuck the obtuse profiles here and go for it......tell prospective playmates you are serious about meeting and don't want to be just pillow talk.Its all about matchmaking so follow your own revealed truth and do what you think is right which will hopefully get you the right match. Basically complaining about it here on the forum is a ............waste of your time....LMFAO .........ridiculous I know but you have walked into a land mine here. Put it in your profile or mention it upon early contact and those that think you are anything other than genuine and well meaning can go and.............
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' So according to the doyens here if you put anything about time wasters in your profile your seen in a negative light. The sage advice from the doyens here its up to you to "properly filter" the no shows. You will see typical sentiments like this....."Negative phrases like that in someone's profile makes me think they're demanding, intolerant and sometimes quite angry.".... There are those members that make me think they could be those things, and then those who just keep proving it over and over. Tip folks: Consider making plans only with people who have been verified and validated, and always speak on the phone (with both, if a couple) before meeting. It may be harder to find someone, but you could end up saving a lot of time in the long run. Just my opinion, x Doyen.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Let's name and shame the ones that do not reply to a nice message. People that do not have the decency to at least send a "No thanks", after receiving a message where the reply is free. This group is legion on here and they are either lazy, ignorant or not serious. Probably all of the above.
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RHP User
10 years ago
coz my dick too big - Posted from rhpmobile
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Katkat
10 years ago
Hah, I had this guy saying yeah he's coming to a private party but never had the balls to turn up to or have the decency to say sorry I changed my mind or I'm just fucking with u! Well at least I had the balls to be at the party myself & met new couples & newbies I had fun! May be a rating standard/recommend option other than validation would be good don't u think RHP? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
"There are those members that make me think they could be those things, and then those who just keep proving it over and over." Wow you must have some amazing super powers. Please tell me how you ascertain that wild assumption from viewing a profile that mentions "no shows". When someone like the OP has been stuffed around and may simply feel the need to advertise to the no shows that she is fed up, and adds that to her profile you see her as angry?.....and that comes under the 2nd option i suggested to the OP. So by" proving it over and over", you keep viewing the profile over and over?....strange addiction.
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snowytoes007
10 years ago
I think it just reflects the fact that some people are just rude. There are people out there that just think whatever they feel/do is more important than other people. I get the fact that some people get cold feet (or their partner does) and while you'd think this would've been worked out before locking in a date, i'm sure it does happen, but if it does, at least have the guts to get on the phone and apologise. It would still be annoying mind and it's fair enough to be pissed off - but a simple apology can make all the difference. Shit happens, it's how you deal with it that reflects on you as a person.
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RHP User
10 years ago
.....why you wouldn't show up unless you cannot avoid it due to work, kids or being sick or you are planning on doing it on the sly to your partner and you chickened out. Better off not getting mixed up with people like that anyway. A simple message or call to explain is just being a good human.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It seems to be more the norm these days no matter where your from. We are so over no shows or people who are not what they say they are. It's got to the point with us that we no longer look to make contact, if people want to contact us all good but we will want to know that they are serious and what they are looking for before we take it to the next step..........
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was talking about you. x
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RHP User
10 years ago
You organise the meeting place to be at a swingers venue. Yeah it cost money, but if they dont turn up, youve met some other people in the process and had a nice night out. On a sidenote: a while back I was very keen to meet a yummy guy for a straight up play. Couldnt use my place, couldnt use his, so instead of finding a motel we went to the local swingers venue, went halves in the $70 entry fee and jumped into a private room and bonked ourselves silly for a few hours.... Cheaper than a motel and condoms supplied. Haha
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sweet_cherry69
10 years ago
Way Togo Hun - great idea :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had this happen big time last night.... Week long messages, everyone's keen. Numbers exchanged, girls chatted briefly (reception dropped out). Arranged a meet last night in CBD. We live 1.5 hrs away so paid for a room, drove in, say at the bar for over an hour past meet time. Got a text "(female) has a headache taken meds be another 45 mins" by this stage it's already 10.30pm. We reply if it's looking dubious are we going to pass. They say yup lets pass. Extremely disappointed and let down. Then 30 mins later.. "How about some MFM fun?" We shut that down. They knew we were newbies and this was our first couple date. I know life happens but I really feel like we got played, and at considerable expense.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The worst thing about this site other than fake profiles Like everything always gonna be a few people who cant be trusted but i say make a date and turn up. If they no show try and have fun where you are then cone home and post their no show on the boards Name and shame! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That was crappy. Plus why wait an hr after they were supposed to be there to let you know they were running late? Bad manners. And then to casually throw a mfm in... Sorry that happened to you guys
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RHP User
10 years ago
It did suck but since we were in the city we bit the bullet and went to a club for our first time (I had major club-a-phobia, miss was quite keen) and it ended up being a good move. Participated in our first full swap all while s third couple were going at it on the same bed!! A rather full on first dip but comfortable with it all the same. So on on!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thats good to hear CuriousCrumpet. Unplanned but worked out well. Plus you overcame the club fear.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Love your profile name xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks Freya. It's a bit gooey and sad how it came about but our pet names for each other are Crum and Pet. Not used often but effective to convey the right emotion when needed. The curious speaks for itself !! Lol
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xxsexythingxx
10 years ago
Hello to all you rhp people, NO SHOW, well don't we all know how this works?We had a weekend planed with a few couples to enjoy her birthday weekend, as we been speaking to a couple that was to travel to Brisbane, they asked about staying in Brisbane for the night, we said we will arrange a motel unit for us all to stay and split the cost, so no driving home after drinking all night. Well did we get let down by them,,,,,not only did they not show up and leaving us with the bill (that we where going to split) but not even a text or message to say they cant make it.As we have respect for others and if we cant make it we will advise you of this. Just so over arranging to meet people and getting let down. xxsexythingxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CuriousCrumpet' It did suck but since we were in the city we bit the bullet and went to a club for our first time (I had major club-a-phobia, miss was quite keen) and it ended up being a good move. Participated in our first full swap all while s third couple were going at it on the same bed!! A rather full on first dip but comfortable with it all the same. So on on! Hey guys, Good to hear you turned a pretty negative situation into a positive one. Still sucks you got a no - show, and poor communication but great that you stepped outside your comfort zones and tried out something knew. Def the right kind of attitude for us. AJ & Mish
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi! Trynplease.Thanks for your interesting and relevant thread.It seems to happen .I have been stood up too. Luckily it was at Home .My vibes told me beforehand they would be a no show, so all worked out well.I take my time Chat via MSG.then before meeting I always Phone Chat to make sure the Guy knows Our meet will be as Potential Friends with no pressure for either of us. Just chill and enjoy the moment.The Phone chat is excellent because one gets to know very quickly if you're compatible and you can decide to continue to meet up or not.We let things flow naturally ,always nurture a Friendship 1st.If we're meant to be Lovers it will happen and enjoyed immensely at the right time. It works for me and all concerned.. Cheers Lu:)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Welcome bak xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi! Freya:)Thank you very much for your Lovely sentiments .I just saw it and you my dear brought a smile to my face because of your kindness.:)I've been here on occasion but not in the Forum, with that greeting I think I'll drop in more often.I hope all is well with you lovely Lady :) x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'tree_nymphs' I know very well the detail that goes Into a planned meet, like yourselves, a lot to organise, we travel for our fun so there's an added errand... Sadly there are a lot on here that can't do it, when it comes to the crunch...I think it's very common for couples when meeting singles... Haven't heard a lot about other couples not showing up although I'm sure it's happened.... We seem to find it common strangely in paid members, is that a clue we overlook, willing to put effort Into a profile to lure you in , give them access to your pics and filthy mind, desires and fantasies, they have their way with you multiple times, before the meet... Then decide perhaps you were fantastic enough as that... NEXT!! .... Thankfully we can count on one hand the no shows, I'm sorry you have too experienced this, rest assured it has nothing to do with yourselves and all is about them... Name and shame Tab....like a failed to fuck system... Be like a guilty until proven innocent sort of thing....jury's still out for me on that... Hope your next meet blows your mind... Amongst other things 😝 I hear it happens alot. I have always showed up if i tell them i will. I find some ppl can be so rude and treat this as a joke. Wait till you get someone that you know doing it. I have several fwbs and have had others. I dont deal too well with the rudeness of men saying they are going to come on such n such a day, u speak up until that day and no arrival. You have washed, groomed, makeup for what. You message them just for them to say Oh sorry i cant come now because of. "Hello and you didnt tell me before now why, and i had to message you to find this out why" Needless to say anyone that does this to me never sees me again. Ive never had this done in the past.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'xxsexythingxx' Hello to all you rhp people, NO SHOW, well don't we all know how this works?We had a weekend planed with a few couples to enjoy her birthday weekend, as we been speaking to a couple that was to travel to Brisbane, they asked about staying in Brisbane for the night, we said we will arrange a motel unit for us all to stay and split the cost, so no driving home after drinking all night. Well did we get let down by them,,,,,not only did they not show up and leaving us with the bill (that we where going to split) but not even a text or message to say they cant make it.As we have respect for others and if we cant make it we will advise you of this. Just so over arranging to meet people and getting let down. xxsexythingxx that's really poor form, what a shitty thing to happen, makes you wonder about some people doesn't it
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CuriousCrumpet' Thanks Freya. It's a bit gooey and sad how it came about but our pet names for each other are Crum and Pet. Not used often but effective to convey the right emotion when needed. The curious speaks for itself !! Lol Hottest main profile pic I've seen
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RHP User
10 years ago
Then you would've loved the front row seat I had to the live show ;) Sadly that was taken while waiting for another no show in Perth last year. Luckily that time my company was paying the room bill and we managed to enjoy ourselves that much I'm sure the Neighbours ears bled lol Thanks for the lovely compliment, she'll be well proud when I tell her that!
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RHP User
10 years ago
No we should not shame the no shows its like the old saying give enough rope will hang so at the end of the day it's no skin off my nose if they do it to me they obviously do it to others before to long they will have no one to do it to so hence give enough rope will hang - Posted from rhpmobile
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