M45
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June 29 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mick It happens to all and sundry, I'm a firm believer in courtesy and will take a knockback with courtesy, unfortunately everybody doesn't sing off the same page, don't forget ladies get probably 10 , 20 ,30 times the messages as us guys, it's a chore to respond to every single message - well that's my pc view on thing's ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
12 years ago
Hi Mick. it is rude and I for one am working harder at that. We got a flirt from a couple, read their profile where they 'expected' a reply if they flirted with you. We were interested in catching up so we replied with a message and photos, but we are still waiting for our 'expected' reply as a courtesy. I wonder do people (and not just on this site) go through life forgetting how to treat other people. The double standards are annoying but don't lose sight of your needs - there is nothing wrong with you at all. This market (PHP) favours certain groups and young single men (who are looking for exactly the same thing we all are) are not on top of the list. Keep perseveringMxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
After reading your post I feel bad so I replied back saying no thanks to the many messages I receive , it's all about the wording and not sounding desperate to me . Good luck in the future just keep it real and don't take it to personal . 😄 Erin - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
If a couple specifically says that they are looking for other couples ( not single guys) and you, as a single guy message them, surely you can't expect them to reply? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi dve31t, I used to make the effort to reply to all messages, but recently I've had a run of people who get offended at my polite decline and call me all sorts of names and insults (sometimes even threats). So now I'm hesitant because I don't want that kind of negativity. All I can say is take the no response as a response in itself, if someone is interested they'll get back to you. Happy messaging - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
I'm with Andyinoz. The Ladies on here from my understanding can receive a lot of messages. Some can be a little blunt at times. One can get over that sort of thing. I can understand why they don't reply to the bulk of messages, we do live in a busy world. There have been posts from women lamenting the same thing so it does go both ways. Enjoy the replies you do get.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Check out the post by Redhot666 "why do guys say they want to meet then don't" Blokes don't turn up to a meet, go figure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanxs :) x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't read in to it too much. One funny thing though, girls struggle to find the time to reply to nice, respectful messages... ...Send them one that pisses them off, and all of the sudden the find plenty of time writing lengthy replies designed to destroy your soul.
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RHP User
12 years ago
regarding this issue, they tell me that sometimes men get abusive or start begging when they politely decline. So by them giving no response, that is the reply. There is nothing wrong with you...its not about you, its about the ladies preference. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It can be like seasons here at times lol either it's light rain or it's flooding down :) Stick with it and above all stick with your own beliefs :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
But this sort of post, and there have been many the same in the past, just stinks of male entitlement. Really, a woman is expected to reply to you because you messaged her?? Please! She did not ask for your message. You put in effort to approach her, so what? That's not her problem. She's just minding her own business, her lack of reply is not rude. She gets to choose if she wants to reply or not, your effort does not obligate another person to anything.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have asked for a certain age group, so I am for one whom will not reply to a message or wink, as I think it is equally rough to send such when I am not interested. Same with couples. If I want to younger person/couples I would have stated such in my profile - so that shows to me they can't read or they desperate, and some messages are one word, example Boo, hi, etc. I am guilty of not replying to those messages. Nor will I reply to the message that has a phone number, with no name and a request for a fuck. So at then end of the day, we have a reason not to reply. Mind you I have send messages ( my weekly allowance) and not been replied to, so it cuts both ways. Hope you have lots of good times on RHP as it one of the better sites.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We think it is just down right Rude not to reply to other people who message or send a flirt. We even reply to people that have not read our profile 100% but it does get annoying at times when you receive messages or flirts from people that really dont match what we are searching for.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Even though I state on my profile that a certain group will be ignored, I still find it common courtesy to reply to every message sent my way (plus I have OCD). I try not to be rude when I turn people down but, like being_me stated, some guys just won't take no for an answer and are best ignored. However, an initial message should always get a response, IMO. Just keep at it, OP and good luck :) ----------------------- Oh, Stripey One (AKA Tigeroo) I hope I am not one of those you talk about LOL That did give me a bit of a giggle ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It would seem that all of us have messages that aren't replied to, perhaps for some there isn't there the same imperative to reply? Whether this is an indication of society changing, males being "aggressive" in their messaging, I don't know. The only person I can influence is me, so I will continue answering, and sending messages. And I think older, married men are at the bottom of the desirability scale. Only way I can go is up, if courtesy and manners help, I'm all for it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Last week I got a message from a married man. I replied with the template "you don't match what I'm looking for". I got a sarcastic reply of "Thank you for the cut and paste reply". Sometimes I get messages and I don't read them straight away if I don't have the time to send an appropriate reply straight away. I don't even bother replying to the "Wanna fuck" messages. I'm over them.! Don't take everything to heart on here and just have fun :)
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rikcoin
12 years ago
Kinda true red_hot_ass. Fair enough the "no response" has a meaning. But what if I get a reply, asking for more info or photos, respond, then nothing? When someone responds with a "no thanks", I always say no problem and good luck with your search. Like I did with you. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I took the opportunity to make my own templates, using my own terms and phrase, they don't appear to be "cut and paste". Quality4u - I hope you don't get any more cynical replies.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quality4u memory impairment showing, my apology for getting your name incorrect.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looking4quality
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MsJonesy
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' But this sort of post, and there have been many the same in the past, just stinks of male entitlement. Really, a woman is expected to reply to you because you messaged her?? Please! She did not ask for your message. You put in effort to approach her, so what? That's not her problem. She's just minding her own business, her lack of reply is not rude. She gets to choose if she wants to reply or not, your effort does not obligate another person to anything.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How should I reply to this....hey how are you?....I looked at his profile ,apparently this man is both 20 and 24...his profile is all "ask me ".....the rest is all template....should I reply,"who the hell are you"....or just ignore xQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Mick its just the way it is on here. Yes women get overwhelmed with messages so to reply to all is not neccessary in my opinion. This is not a reflection on their character or manners. May I suggest you hit the forums, chat room and meet and greets as a better way to break the ice. Missbomb I think op was seeking some clarity on the way things work here rather than seeking 'male entitlement' which is I think as you say 'was sticking your neck out' EG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Aaww dve31t theres nothing wrong with you! Im one to always reply, it might not be straight away but i do, even if its a thanks but no thanks. Can also understand the other comments on this forum.Good luck x
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I received a message yesterday, that read "start putting out or piss off" from a man that had already sent me a message when I first joined, "would you like to meet for sex" which I said no thank you too. So I asked WTF, the response I received was, I was having a bad day and so I responded with a well I'm sorry you had a bad day, but I've had a bad week so go fuck yourself, oh and then I blocked him..... I unlike some of the others on this site, do not get very many messages (lucky to get 3 a week) and that was one of mine for the week.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
As others have alluded to, this is the nature of the game. You can analyse the gendered behaviour patterns and probably form a pretty logical conclusion as to why it seems men send more messages and typically recieve less replies. Keep your chin up, it's a numbers game and you are bound to make a connection with someone if you can persevere through the process. As for it being 'rude' to not reply to messages, I suggest that every individual has a differing interpretation as to what constitutes 'rude'. I'm in the final year of my degree, I work and I have an active social life hence I don't feel the need to make the time to stroke strangers ego's by letting them down easy with a template reply. As MissBlissBomb suggested, there is no obligation or contact that one is bound to. I'll continue to not reply to messages that don't interest me because quite frankly I would rather spend time replying to the ones that do. Chin up fella's. It's a jungle out there. -KK - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
...redhotpie is more of a warm custard flan.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' But this sort of post, and there have been many the same in the past, just stinks of male entitlement. Really, a woman is expected to reply to you because you messaged her?? Please! She did not ask for your message. You put in effort to approach her, so what? That's not her problem. She's just minding her own business, her lack of reply is not rude. She gets to choose if she wants to reply or not, your effort does not obligate another person to anything. WTF babe, GOY! If you message a girl and she does not reply to you, that means SHE IS NOT INTERESTED, period! We are not your mum, we are here to find potential friends, playmates, or whatever it is we are looking for. We are NOT HERE to make you feel good about yourself babe! Is it rude to not respond to 20 messages a day? Hell no! Its rude to come winging on the forums about it - man up babe!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' She did not ask for your message. You put in effort to approach her, so what? That's not her problem. She's just minding her own business Unless our profile states we are just looking or only here for the forums, isn't it a given we are here to get in contact with others? If a message is polite, I think replying is the right thing to do. If a stranger approaches me on the street to say they like my dress or ask for something, I would not ignore them and keep walking. Would you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
...is spot on! Although women on here don't 'ask for messages', they are, after all, on a dating site. So at least they should expect them. I just wonder why there are so many women on this site, who get so upset and offended over everything...why are these people even on here? If you hate getting messages, hate people looking at your profile, hate getting asked for dates or sex, perhaps you should bugger off back to EHarmoney where you belong, or get off dating sites altogether...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately I get so many pm's or flirts that I just do not have time to reply to all individually. I am on the verge to reply all (I think we can do that) but then that too isn't personal. I wouldn't take it to heart, it wouldn't be you. It may just be timing
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will reply to anyone who sends me a half decent message (much like some other women here I don't bother replying to those who are crude, or just say "hi" or some other pointless one or two word message). And I don't respond to flirts because there are just too many. Also, I've found with flirts that even if I respond saying I'm not interested, people often don't read the flirt text; all they see is that they got a response and they think that's a signal for them to keep contacting me. But the thing to remember - and this is still something I'm trying to remember in my interactions with people - is that generally speaking the only person's actions that you have any sort of control over is your own. Much as we would like people to reciprocate our politeness, or respond to us, or do whatever it is we think they 'should' do, the fact is that we can't make them do it and we can speculate about their reasons until the unicorns come home, but it won't change anything. Some people also seem to think that they are 'owed' something on this site, particularly if they pay for membership, but that's another thing to get over. People don't owe you anything, you are paying the money to use certain features of the site but nowhere does RHP guarantee that you will receive replies, meet people, or get laid by paying that money. Harsh but true. So just take things as they are on here and see it for what it is, don't worry about the people who don't reply or are rude, and don't have any particularly high expectations. Try and have a bit of fun with it, don't let yourself get jaded and have that reflected in your profile like so many end up doing, and you might end up surprised at what happens.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Some people also seem to think that they are 'owed' something on this site, particularly if they pay for membership, but that's another thing to get over. People don't owe you anything, you are paying the money to use certain features of the site but nowhere does RHP guarantee that you will receive replies, meet people, or get laid by paying that money. Harsh but true. I wasn't referring to you with this bit OP, but it's a sentiment that is expressed fairly often on here by others.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just can't be fucked.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Clearly they are not interested so move on. Rude as it may be though as EG said it is not a reflection on you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quote: "If a stranger approaches me on the street to say they like my dress or ask for something, I would not ignore them and keep walking. Would you?" This is exactly the point. We are all so different and respond to similar situations individually based on our experiences and preferences. I don't think that makes some people 'rude' and others 'polite' - it makes us different. I personally would keep walking, especially if I didn't find the stranger attractive, they projected an aggressive/weird vibe, I had somewhere to be at a particular time, so many reasons really. What you might rationalise to be the 'right' thing to do is purely subjective to you as an individual. It doesn't govern us all. Power to you those that do reply. That's dedication. :) -KK - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry, but I must disagreee Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' She did not ask for your message. You put in effort to approach her, so what? That's not her problem. She's just minding her own business Unless our profile states we are just looking or only here for the forums, isn't it a given we are here to get in contact with others? If a message is polite, I think replying is the right thing to do. If a stranger approaches me on the street to say they like my dress or ask for something, I would not ignore them and keep walking. Would you? Meander, In my mind it's a bit more like junk mail from telcos/electricity providers/insurance companies asking you to transfer over to them. I don't write them a polite 'thanks but no thanks' note either. I might want new insurance but just because they tried for my business doesn't mean I'm 'rude' not to reply. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
12 years ago
Objections were lodged privately with me regarding my 'like' of MissBlissBomb's post. I see no reason to change my mind, but perhaps can add some clarification why I agreed. People choose to send messages and flirts. Similarly, people choose whether to respond to your messages and flirts. It is really that simple. Is there an expectation you should receive a reply to a nice message which invites the receiver to partake in a conversation? - probably, but as we have all seen, it is not guaranteed. Is that a fair expectation? - probably. However..... If you then choose to feel sad/angry because of the lack of response then that is your prerogative and your own making. But to lay the blame at the feet of others for your emotional response is hardly fair. I maintain my right not to respond to messages which are outside what I say I desire, whether it be age, relationship status and/or gender, and the messages which are downright offensive and/or make NO effort to engage in conversation. I am not a 24 hour fuck shop and will not respond to anyone who asks in a message for a fuck or a meet before they ask for my name or make the effort to engage in conversation. Yes, Circz I am entitled to respect, and that starts with message content. Thanks also for the reminder that respect and decency should be the basis of all our interactions. Perhaps if we all keep that in mind then our messages will better reflect who we are and the result will be more likely favourable. (This reflection is not aimed at anyone, particularly the OP).
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Do Unto Others As You Would have Done Unto You" I'm not a religious man, but out of the 10 commandments this is the one I live by. dve31tAs I have been told its a numbers game in here and a matter of taste If you don't have what they are looking for to bad to sad. Just keep in mind that men out number women 30 - 1 You could look at it this way. How long Does it takes you to read profiles of say 20 ladies, then send a message to them per night. Now times that by 30 and imagine you had to sit there read and respond to each and every one of them. (A no thankyou button would be nice)Just hang in there be polite and chat in the forums, what you say in the forums could work towards you. in my opinion the only women worth getting to know, are the regulars here in the forum.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow. Stop.... You are turning me on. Lol. :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'KindredKohl' I don't think that makes some people 'rude' and others 'polite' - it makes us different. Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' just because they tried for my business doesn't mean I'm 'rude' not to reply. That was my opinion only, and I didn't call anyone rude.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Wow. Stop.... You are turning me on. Lol. :P ...all the ways to turn you on Meeks ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just sose ya know,according to RHP themselves this is an adult dating and social networking site xQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Tigeroo' ...is spot on! Although women on here don't 'ask for messages', they are, after all, on a dating site. So at least they should expect them. I just wonder why there are so many women on this site, who get so upset and offended over everything...why are these people even on here? If you hate getting messages, hate people looking at your profile, hate getting asked for dates or sex, perhaps you should bugger off back to EHarmoney where you belong, or get off dating sites altogether... it is actually men who are getting their panties in a wad about women not messaging back, as if it is their right, not women
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'allsorts72' "Do Unto Others As You Would have Done Unto You" I'm not a religious man, but out of the 10 commandments this is the one I live by. dve31tAs I have been told its a numbers game in here and a matter of taste If you don't have what they are looking for to bad to sad. Just keep in mind that men out number women 30 - 1 You could look at it this way. How long Does it takes you to read profiles of say 20 ladies, then send a message to them per night. Now times that by 30 and imagine you had to sit there read and respond to each and every one of them. (A no thankyou button would be nice)Just hang in there be polite and chat in the forums, what you say in the forums could work towards you. in my opinion the only women worth getting to know, are the regulars here in the forum. The Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:2-17 NKJV)“I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.1“You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me, but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My Commandments.2“You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.3“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.4“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.5“You shall not murder.6“You shall not commit adultery.7“You shall not steal.8“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.9“You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.”10
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RHP User
12 years ago
oh? I agree with Tigeroo. Yep all the lame, dickhead messages upset me on my bad days. You know the ones....... Would love to blow my load on your tits, r u up 4 it" type of messages. But otherwise I accept that I am on a sex site, I have saucy pictures up so I expect messages and I also expect that I will get vulgar messages on occasion. And why not?? I am quite often vulgar on this form, so I can't blame men for thinking that I would be open to such an advance from every Tom, 10" Dick and Harry. I don't get my knickers in a twist because someone has looked at my profile a bazillion times because quite honestly, I haven't noticed and I accept that I have a public profile so it is their right to look all they want. I find it odd that some women know about it though.... I suppose they may look at their statistics to see who has viewed them? I admit that I can view this topic calmly because I haven't accepted messages for years because I see how it makes the women. The whole process is bloody exhausting and it is plain annoying when men don't read your profile or ignore your requirements, and when you live in a major city you do get lots of messages which is tiring, after a few months you are completely over it. So I know my limitations. This whole online dating stuff is not for me, at all. I literally, Can not be fucked.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I reply to all messages as I have a template saved & it only takes seconds. A decent well written message may even get a personalised no thanks message. But yes, time is sometimes a factor but I do always reply (I may miss one ever now & again by accident). But....... some time ago I had received some nasty replies having sent a polite "thanks but no thanks" type message. At that point it did make me wonder if it would be better to not reply & avoid those kind of messages. But in the end I decided that I was not able to stop being polite just because some other people were jack asses. But I can understand why other women don't go down that path.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No one has said that they're upset by messages or that they don't expect to get them. Just that this suggestion that anyone who sends a message is somehow entitled to a reply is bullshit. I don't owe anyone anything just because I'm on here. I'd be similarly dismissive on eharmony (if I knew what that was). Are you being intentionally obtuse?
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RHP User
12 years ago
The inference that not replying is rude was definitely made in your post when you likened not replying to messages to not replying to someone who addressed you directly in irl.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't take it personally when I don't get a response. I see it as not getting past a smile and small talk at a bar. I do appreciate when I do get a response back but realise if I messaged a girl or couple then 30 other guys have done the same. Just be patient show some personality, sometimes you get a response a few days later or when they are looking to play next.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I personally think it's quite alright to get a "no reply" response. Maybe even better than a template reply - after all, the message (pun very much intended, thank you kindly) is clear. I myself reply to actual messages (as opposed to flirts / friend requests), but then I don't have to deal with getting 97 of them each day! It did happen once - but then I woke up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...If a girl made a post, something about how she's not sure of herself, shes struggling to meet people, not getting replied to and needs feedback and ideas to improve her online image... And I come on here and tell her to 'Get over herself' and 'learn to take rejection on the chin' and to 'harden up princess' I would be torn to shreds online from every direction. Sometimes, the double standards on here are utterly deplorable!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Are you being intentionally obtuse? it's called a strawman
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Seachange73
12 years ago
This subject has been raised and responded to death so I will join in the flogging of the dead horse for the last time as have time this morn between my appointments and enjoying my STRONG soy latte. In my experience, I did try to respond to all messages and flirts when I was new but the effort was unsustainable. We women get tons of messages (50+ per day) and flirts (sometimes up to 3000+ @ month). Crazy! A lot of the messages are template or cut n paste jobs which shows how lazy they are. Indicative of their attitude in the bedroom . Or the short vulgar intro messages, e.g "hi. Wanna fuck". Or the infamous one liners "hi how r u". These messages dont deserve my reply in my opinion as if they read my profile they would know not to send something so vacuous. I respond to messages when they are respectful and have at least attempted to craft a personalized message based on my profile. It does not have to be Tolstoy-like. Simple or interesting but personal. Now the response may not be guaranteed in his favour but I do appreciate a personal approach. With regardd to flirts. Meh who has the time with the aforesaid numbers when we are busy responding to the messages and posting in the forum? A ladee gotta eat (and cook and pamper ourselves). Don't take it personally. Just understand our point of view. Take care and good luck. X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Very smart ,time saving exercise if you are getting bombarded ladies props Probably deflates a few egos on the way,at least we get closure!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Write a decent message and I'd suggest your replies will be endless. If you received messages that essentially said "here have my vagina on a plate; no questions asked" Would you think:- A. I'm in BOOYAH!!! B. Well; that was a little too easy. C. Erm...why should I choose you? D. A combination of B&D ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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twintownjack
12 years ago
Check out a the previous posts on "Thanks For The Fun" its the same topic but with a different tittle.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Tigeroo. Yeah but....... no but...... Awww okay. I am bending over for my spanking. You can't take it personally or it will destroy you. Men are upset because they get no response... and women are upset because men are not listening to what they want. And at the end of the day when it starts to get on your tits , whether you are a bloke or chick, it's time to take a break. I don't think anyone can be on here without taking breaks from it all. dve31t there is nothing wrong with you, so don't take any of this personally. We don't know you so any "rejections" are based on 1% of who you are so you shouldn't even worry about them. I for one like your pictures and I am very happy to see someone with a nice smiling profile! Woo hoo. It's a numbers game in here. A lot more men than women. Can I suggest that you go to the events and the meet and greet nights that are held in Sydney. You will definitely meet a lot of people in one go and it is a much easier way of meeting other dirty fuckers. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' Quoting 'allsorts72' "Do Unto Others As You Would have Done Unto You" I'm not a religious man, but out of the 10 commandments this is the one I live by. dve31tAs I have been told its a numbers game in here and a matter of taste If you don't have what they are looking for to bad to sad. Just keep in mind that men out number women 30 - 1 You could look at it this way. How long Does it takes you to read profiles of say 20 ladies, then send a message to them per night. Now times that by 30 and imagine you had to sit there read and respond to each and every one of them. (A no thankyou button would be nice)Just hang in there be polite and chat in the forums, what you say in the forums could work towards you. in my opinion the only women worth getting to know, are the regulars here in the forum. The Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:2-17 NKJV)“I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.1“You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me, but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My Commandments.2“You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.3“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.4“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.5“You shall not murder.6“You shall not commit adultery.7“You shall not steal.8“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.9“You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.”10 Thanks for pointing it out, don't care, still live by it. and please don't call me babe I don't know you and we have never met. Pet name are reserved for people I meet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'allsorts72' Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' Quoting 'allsorts72' "Do Unto Others As You Would have Done Unto You" I'm not a religious man, but out of the 10 commandments this is the one I live by. dve31tAs I have been told its a numbers game in here and a matter of taste If you don't have what they are looking for to bad to sad. Just keep in mind that men out number women 30 - 1 You could look at it this way. How long Does it takes you to read profiles of say 20 ladies, then send a message to them per night. Now times that by 30 and imagine you had to sit there read and respond to each and every one of them. (A no thankyou button would be nice)Just hang in there be polite and chat in the forums, what you say in the forums could work towards you. in my opinion the only women worth getting to know, are the regulars here in the forum. The Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:2-17 NKJV)“I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.1“You shall not make for yourself a carved image, or any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me, but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My Commandments.2“You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.3“Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the Lord your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.4“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.5“You shall not murder.6“You shall not commit adultery.7“You shall not steal.8“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.9“You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.”10 Thanks for pointing it out, don't care, still live by it. and please don't call me babe I don't know you and we have never met. Pet name are reserved for people I meet. I will call you what ever I like babe - lighten up !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Tigeroo' ...If a girl made a post, something about how she's not sure of herself, shes struggling to meet people, not getting replied to and needs feedback and ideas to improve her online image... And I come on here and tell her to 'Get over herself' and 'learn to take rejection on the chin' and to 'harden up princess' I would be torn to shreds online from every direction. Sometimes, the double standards on here are utterly deplorable!!! But that is not what is going on here in reverse babe.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol.... You'll call people what you like eh?? Based upon that attitude we could call you stupid....right?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Lol.... You'll call people what you like eh?? Based upon that attitude we could call you stupid....right?? Entitled, spoiled, ignorant...are words that come to my mind.
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RHP User
12 years ago
its all been said
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Lol.... You'll call people what you like eh?? Based upon that attitude we could call you stupid....right?? - Posted from rhpmobile Well said lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why cant we all just get along.......
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RHP User
12 years ago
I swear darl, sometimes I think you're just here to troll, hun. You're doing an excellent job, doll face x
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Seachange73
12 years ago
I think we have veered far enough from topic and some have vented their annoyance wrt Melbourne Babe. Fair enough. But can we stop throwing peanuts from, the peanut gallery and focus on the OP. thanks. Melbourne Babe, this is a forum where ideas and concerns are open for discussion. You have previously mentioned that you are a lawyer and therefore you do understand that all forums have decorum by which each is accorded respect to discuss their ideas and as they deserve and to also be addressed accordingly. Your input is most welcome but try to respect some people's boundaries as per Allsorts' request. Discussion will flow better that way. just my opinion. Good luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and typing this with a raised eyebrow I contacted a person a well over a week ago to applaud him for what I thought was excellent observation and post elsewhere I've yet to hear back from him - fair enough - probably thinks I have designs on him and I'm not his type and who the hell was I to contact him in the first place as I didn't fit his selection criteria, that's fine, contact was made purely to compliment him on his other post Meanwhile, his waxing lyrical about non response
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' The inference that not replying is rude was definitely made in your post when you likened not replying to messages to not replying to someone who addressed you directly in irl. One rude (imo) action does not make someone a rude person and I did not mean to imply that members who don't reply to message are rude people. I apologize for not being clearer about that.
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