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No profile pic? Reply 2 EVERY email?
May 15 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
you have already opened the message - no pic so its easy a little thanks but as you have no picture and my profile clearly states I would like a picture first I dont see this going any further. Good luck in your Search. type of template message....hit the send template responce, select it and its done...yes I do respond to every message - even if they go against my prequisites clearly stated in my profile...however this is only to the first message after that if there has been no change in their profile (in your case no pic uploaded or offered from their PG) then if I am nasty they get a nasty response, mild mannered and they get ignored, somewhere in between - read serial pest - then they get blocked. , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
But some days, I swear that it damn near kills me to do it and calls for a level of patience I just don't think I have anymore *sigh*
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
I do not see a requirement to respond to every message received and certainly do not see much merit on the whole 'flirt' thing.Email means bugger all. Usually it takes far more to convince me that you are not just another moron.What some see as the polite thing to do; others, like myself, are realistic.Those of you who choose to respond to every email here, can I ask; do you also apply the same level of politeness to the spam you receive in your regular email inbox?At the end of the day, it's all I view most of the emails sent to me anyway - spam. Quite clearly the person writing the email never did read my profile. Why should I waste my time humouring a pest?If someone is THAT taken by you and wishes to show interest - they will.I firmly apply the rule here that I owe you nothing. Nobody does.We, ourselves, create our own persona's here, our own profiles and at the end of the day, are COMPLETELY in control of the level of interaction we have.With this in mind - do what works for you and what you feel comfortable with. Be individual and respect yourself enough to know when you are compromising your own integrity. CheersHan
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RHP User
15 years ago
no matter how crass or vulgar or obvious it is that they haven't read my profile. I have a template set up and it takes a second to select it and send it. It says something along the lines of 'Thank your for your message. I'm not interested but I will you well'. I used to use different templates for different reasons for saying no, but now I'm down to just the one. . If I get a polite response asking me why, I'll make the efort to give them a detailed answer. Anything else gets responded to in the exact tone in which it was sent.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I reply to every message and flirt...the first time recieved. It is sometimes only a template reply and other times something really nasty I compose myself but yes. They all get answered. Some of the people messaging me may not be abe to resad, they may be ignorant and rude, but they are still human, they still have hopes and feelings. Until they become a pest then I try to remember that there is a human at the end of the message.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can empathize with you...which I know sounds strange coming from a guy on this site, but my inbox is flooded every day too. I have to admit that I have now gone to template replies and it seems to work for me...here are a few. | What do you mean "I am not your type"...I am perfectly happy if you want to fake an orgasm. | I understand, but if it improves my chances...I can send a few cock shots via email. | So far...replying to all those rejections that I receive has been a pretty low return exercise. I wonder if I should start replying to the odd out flirts too or if they are just setting me up... | ...for a sneak attack rejection.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i reply to all even if i use the templates if they have no pic i always ask for one most times i get to see one just reply with template misssassy it is the easiest way and normally no bad responses come back i just think everyone should have pics trial_error
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn'I do not see a requirement to respond to every message received and certainly do not see much merit on the whole 'flirt' thing. Email means bugger all. Usually it takes far more to convince me that you are not just another moron. What some see as the polite thing to do; others, like myself, are realistic. Those of you who choose to respond to every email here, can I ask; do you also apply the same level of politeness to the spam you receive in your regular email inbox? At the end of the day, it's all I view most of the emails sent to me anyway - spam. Quite clearly the person writing the email never did read my profile. Why should I waste my time humouring a pest? If someone is THAT taken by you and wishes to show interest - they will. I firmly apply the rule here that I owe you nothing. Nobody does. We, ourselves, create our own persona's here, our own profiles and at the end of the day, are COMPLETELY in control of the level of interaction we have. With this in mind - do what works for you and what you feel comfortable with. Be individual and respect yourself enough to know when you are compromising your own integrity. Cheers Han Han, . Isnt that what they are doing by sending you a message in the first place??? m As for spam...I dont get spam in my emails...and I dont consider every message I get here spam either - they are people wanting to meet you which is ultimately what this site is about - meeting people - what you do after that is your business. . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
the problem with responding to every flirt or message from those that you have already stated in our profile you are not looking for is that they use that as an opening to continue to chat by replying to your message. And of course being polite you respond and it then never ends lol so in saying that there are those that you just cant respond to in order to save yourself the hassle of neverending back and forward messages/flirts cindy :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Majority of us believe in responding to the FIRST message in the negative after that its your call...you have already politely declined them...its only an in if you allow it to be...just ignore or block after the first refusal... . Kisses Focus
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
Let me be specific then; those who are interested and want to get to know you better will; not merely send you an email saying 'oh you're so hot can I eat your pussy?'This is where I choose not to respond.Hope that clears it upHan xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't. I'm quite happy to admit I suck at it. I did have the "really busy right now" auto reply setup. Now I just have the option to not receive new emails option ticked as I got bored with receiving crap.
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
The point being that I am not obliged to respond to anyone on here if I don't want to!Nobody is.Also, like many others point out and I've said previously; why should I even remotely give the time of day to someone who has clearly not read my profile?That, on it's own, should be reason enough!CheersHan
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have a life, I do not have enough time to reply to Wankers! that send msg" like Im horny! what doing! lets play tonight! blow me! What do they think! its a free escort service! I dont feel bad! they should! they sent crap msgs!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'trial_error' i reply to all even if i use the templates if they have no pic i always ask for one most times i get to see one just reply with template misssassy it is the easiest way and normally no bad responses come back i just think everyone should have pics trial_error
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