us2shebi

us2shebi

M50 F43

New Swingers Fears

July 13 2008

Hi Sexy Couples We were full of nerves when we went to our first swingers party. We were wondering if any couples have thought about going to a couples/swingers party but have ditched it due to nerves because of "what if's" when we are there? eg: What if we see someone else we know? What if someone is full on with my partner? What if we dont like the person who belongs to the keys we pull out of the bowl? Is every nude and will we have to do that? Let us know what your beliefs are about what goes on at a swingers party and why you wouldnt go We had ours and love to know yours us2shebi xo

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    The parties that we have been to have been pretty good. I won't name the one we occasionally frequent now (because I don't know what RHP thinks of advertising!), but it's much more of a social gathering with a spa (more often than not, a naked spa) and the opportunity of sex. I'm told that the Sydney parties are FAR more full on than little, conservative Adelaide! Neither we, not anyone we have spoken to, have witnessed the "keys in the bowl" thing, I think that's an urban legend. At swingers parties, no means NO and people who violate that unbreakable rule are asked (told?) to leave and never return. And if you see someone you know, well they are there for the same reason you are, so nothing to be ashamed of!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    Gday im from Adelaide what a dump of a palce this city is its a large country were people are to sheltered toventure out and the women dont reply to ya winks or messages. I get better responces from women interstate who are not so sheltered and not so judgemental as to who they like. Adelaide has no future for swingers here. As i said Adelaide is a large country town its not hard to bump into someone ya know that you dont want them to know what you are up to this maybe the reason why people are so sheltered. Im sure there are a lot more people who would like to adventure out and explore more in this feild but they are to scared to in fear of someone they know seeing or finding out what they do. You only live once explore and play as much as you can.