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Need some help.....

November 24 2012

My daughter moved back in with me today (gonna kill my freedom but i do love her) and a male friend of hers helped her move in. We all sat around for a while and had a few laughs. They went back downstairs to unpack and unload the car. Next thing I know he is back upstairs looking for me for a chat. He is very funny and I enjoyed having a few laughs with him but definitely not going there for anything else. I was in my work clothes so nothing provocative there. Not sure why I attract the younger guys. Same thing happened to me when my other daughter moved home for a short while. Her male friends kept hitting on me. I'm not putting any signals out there but seem to attract this attention. Is this just a game younger guys play for the MILF factor? I really would like to know. I have no problem with the older woman/younger man scenario, but I feel my kids friends are off limits and way too young. How do I say, sorry but its inappropriate and no thanks! I can be assertive when needed and have told a couple to back off in no uncertain terms, but I'm perplexed as to the attention I receive. Is being genuinely friendly (like I would be towards any stranger, male or female, I meet for the first time), seen as a green light to younger men? Love to hear your comments and thoughts. SFxx

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RHP User

13 years ago

Love to hear any comments on this topic SFxx

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playful4u

13 years ago

Did he make a pass at you? was he clear in his intent? or did he just chat?

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RHP User

13 years ago

You say "it's inappropriate so get it out of your mind." Then you strip off into a string bikini and move like stifflers mum!!! :p

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RHP User

13 years ago

Maybe he was just trying to be polite and show you that he is a very nice guy.Someone who is worthy of going out with your daughter.See if your daughter asks...."mum what did you think of my man?'Guys like to be good to their lady's mums as it shows mum that their daughter is with a respectful and well mannered male.Did he eat all your food and drink all your scotch? We do that to

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RHP User

13 years ago

Playful4u.... he is very sweet and follows me around like a puppy dog. Every time I go to pick something up he will run to get it for me. I came home from being out all day and before I even got to say hi, I got compliments and asked: How was your day was? What did you do? Your necklace looks lovely it really suits you. Can I help you with your bags? I felt like I'd come home to my ex and the spanish inquisition! I appreciate helpful and polite people and love guys who want to impress me for the sake of my daughter but this is really intense. Even my daughter commented on how much we talk! I'm not doing any talking!....it's all coming from him...lol When this happened before, 2 of my other daughter's male friends actually asked me out and one made a pass at me in front of her! No alcohol was involved. They are just very straight forward and to the point. I should be flattered by the attention, but really I just don't get it. So many gorgeous girls their own age around to ask out. Kizza - hopefully you are right and he is only trying to make a good impression. Hardtrucking - LOL, scary stuff strutting around in a gstring bikini.

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