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Naked or lingerie?????

January 16 2012

Ok here's a question for men and women. When having sex do you prefure naked or sexy lingerie? stockings etc.

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    nude nude nude!!!!!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Makes me feel pretty and confident............which is going to lead to a better session

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...and the sensuality of slowly removing it, pushing it aside with your fingertips, nose or tongue yes please. | Of course, there is nothing wrong with going totally primal and tearing it away with your teeth either...shopping for something new the next day with her can be a lot of fun. | | Thanks, I'll help her with that in the changing room.

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    LOVE sex with Lingerie and Stockings and Heels...especially leaving the stockings on...the feel of their silky softness against my ears   Quoting 'ChasingChilli' is it just me or is sexy often found in the shoes? Yes Chilli sexy is always found in a nice pair of high heels and the kind of sheer stockings with the line running up the back of the legs ET xox

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingChilli' Where it goes from there varies according to the situation. The same WOMAN can...rip off my clothes and I love it... slowly undress me and I love it... fuck me fully dressed and I love it... Chilli xxis it just me or is sexy often found in the shoes? Slight amendment to your opening statement Ms Chilli ;) xxAgreedAgreedAgreed*shudder*A man in al dark suit, crisp white shirt and the woman in full lingerie, ankle strap stiletoe heels... cliche but deliciously sexy! A woman in a mans white workshirt and thigh highs... *swoon*VTxExcuse me whilst I have a private moment

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I like to stay partly dressed, I like the office look with the stockings under it. I like to stay dressed with a few buttons undone like I am in a rush, and pull my panties aside while you have me on the desk. Its like corporate caught in the act sex

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    It's like Christmas. It's part of the folly to tear away the pretty wrapping to get to the prezzie hidden within.HUgsstalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    we covered this recently elsewhere.... but...its not always practical to play in lingerie...it kinda takes away the spontaneity... we dont indulge our guests....the sexy gear isnt shared... but it comes out when the moods there,or time allows.... on a 'date' night occasionally ( we 'date' even tho we are married.... it adds to what we share, if we go through the motions of what we had when we were courting...it keeps the memory of those days fresh....and is an exciting diversion from the mundane) Shel will surprise me with something new..... or.... i'll treat her with something i've picked up while out and about....sexy lingerie....if she's into the wearing of it...makes for a wonderfully intimate gift.......

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Unwrapping a present is always fun....then again, an open present on a nude beach is just as fun...finally means I don't have to lie face down on the sand....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    well you have won me over........ Quoting 'tuscanred'   I like to stay partly dressed, I like the office look with the stockings under it. I like to stay dressed with a few buttons undone like I am in a rush, and pull my panties aside while you have me on the desk. Its like corporate caught in the act sex

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Sexy lingerie, stockings and heels.....up against a window with the girls out........partially exposed / partially covered makes sex hot hot hot & hotter.......xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    personally I think men would look ridiculous in stockings or an outfit!!

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'missopenminded'personally I think men would look ridiculous in stockings or an outfit!! So you don't like the G-string and socks look ? ET xox

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    A few times people ask me to wear something special when I meet them for the first time. I do not bother. In all honesty I usually wear a very long skirt and a shirt. Reason is I am dashing around taking pictures. I would feel stupid going to my studio where I usually paint, in stockings and heels , I would find it kinda hard to explain, and my landlord would put the rent up as he may think I am running an escort agency on the side. Though when the weather is not to hot, I do wear stockings and suspenders at times. The other thing is that I know women who go to all that trouble, to wear stockings on a stinking hot day, heels you can hardly walk in, and its a no show. These are men that go on and on about what they want you to wear, but half hour before you meet their cat died and they just cant make it sorry, petal. So no I would not bother t o dress up on a first meeting After that well I prefer a nice hotel where I take a bath, then get dressed and wait for you to turn up at a set time. Then I can jump out and yell surprise and you can say god shit no TR I said dress like a Teacher not like a preacher, shit now you ruined it!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I love lingerie, but not as much as I love removing it.It sounds clichéd, but it really is like Christmas or your birthday. You try to remove it carefully to show how much you appreciate the effort the wrapping took and how jolly chuffed you are to even get a present, but really you just want to shred it and fling it out the window while howling like an animal at the light fittings, which is generally frowned upon if either a) it's the good stuff; or b) you're on an upper floor of a hotel/theatre/old folks home and it lands on someone with no sense of humour. Or if the locals are really protective of their light fittings.Biggest problem is the battle between civility and desire, the gentleman and the beast, which usually rages within me with such force that I get the shakes something awful, which just makes removing things without damaging them that much more difficult. It's a vicious cycle yo!For me personally, there is nothing better than that moment of first contact when there are no more barriers and the objective becomes experiencing as much simultaneous skin contact as possible, from toes to nose. I want to touch and taste every inch. All at once.Ok, so it may destroy some of my mystique when I'm rolling backwards and forwards over a woman like the world's most gorgeous rolling pin, and the 'wheee! wheee!' exclamations interspersed with slurping don't help, but dammit it's fun! And chances are if a lady fails to giggle at the situ we should never have progressed to that stage anyway.If that's the case it's best to get one more 'wheee!' in, then with as much dignity as you can muster make your way down to the bingo game in progress below, borrow the mic, politely ask if you can have the slightly damaged lacey underthings back, and return them to their owner. Humming helps with the dignity. Makes you appear aloof and whatnot.I highly recommend retrieving and donning your own underwear before doing so. There's an alarming number of humourless buggers in the world, and the third time you have to explain to the policiza why you're standing naked, engorged, throbbing and shaking like a leaf in the middle of a group of senior citizens you may end up on a list and be legally required to wear a tracking device at all times.But I digress, in summary SKIN SKIN SKIN! More! All of it! Hide not yon delectable softness under a bustle! At least not for long. And either wear lingerie you hate or let me pay for it so I can destroy it with reckless abandon and not risk a fit of the guilts deflating me at an inopportune moment.Skin, remarkable stuff. Utterly smashing. Marvelous. Oh boy, I'm thinking about it now. That moment of initial penetration, crushing them to you, flexing, entire body wracked with pleasure, every point of contact electrifying you... Chills! Ooer!TTFN!,NarcPS Apologies if I ramble, long long day. But damn! Women! Soft, delicious, perfect. Yum factor 57!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'missopenminded' personally I think men would look ridiculous in stockings or an outfit!! Hmm, damn, didn't think of that.Well, so, like, on a totally unrelated note, like, what's the deal with returning frilly knickers? They give you a refund or store credit or what? I've only worn the G once and that was backwards, and the bra only ever on my head, so they should still take it all back right?Er, I mean my friend. My friend did those things. Um, he'd appreciate any 411-esque info! I'll pass it on.*cough*

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    There is a time and place for both; it depends on the spirit of the occasion.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Tuscanred.... that is my fantasy! And I am with Chilli- I love to have my sexy clothes on and see where it ends up.............and I dont mean the clothes!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Narcissist' I love lingerie, but not as much as I love removing it.It sounds clichéd, but it really is like Christmas or your birthday. You try to remove it carefully to show how much you appreciate the effort the wrapping took and how jolly chuffed you are to even get a present, but really you just want to shred it and fling it out the window while howling like an animal at the light fittings, which is generally frowned upon if either a) it's the good stuff; or b) you're on an upper floor of a hotel/theatre/old folks home and it lands on someone with no sense of humour. Or if the locals are really protective of their light fittings.Biggest problem is the battle between civility and desire, the gentleman and the beast, which usually rages within me with such force that I get the shakes something awful, which just makes removing things without damaging them that much more difficult. It's a vicious cycle yo!For me personally, there is nothing better than that moment of first contact when there are no more barriers and the objective becomes experiencing as much simultaneous skin contact as possible, from toes to nose. I want to touch and taste every inch. All at once.Ok, so it may destroy some of my mystique when I'm rolling backwards and forwards over a woman like the world's most gorgeous rolling pin, and the 'wheee! wheee!' exclamations interspersed with slurping don't help, but dammit it's fun! And chances are if a lady fails to giggle at the situ we should never have progressed to that stage anyway.If that's the case it's best to get one more 'wheee!' in, then with as much dignity as you can muster make your way down to the bingo game in progress below, borrow the mic, politely ask if you can have the slightly damaged lacey underthings back, and return them to their owner. Humming helps with the dignity. Makes you appear aloof and whatnot.I highly recommend retrieving and donning your own underwear before doing so. There's an alarming number of humourless buggers in the world, and the third time you have to explain to the policiza why you're standing naked, engorged, throbbing and shaking like a leaf in the middle of a group of senior citizens you may end up on a list and be legally required to wear a tracking device at all times.But I digress, in summary SKIN SKIN SKIN! More! All of it! Hide not yon delectable softness under a bustle! At least not for long. And either wear lingerie you hate or let me pay for it so I can destroy it with reckless abandon and not risk a fit of the guilts deflating me at an inopportune moment.Skin, remarkable stuff. Utterly smashing. Marvelous. Oh boy, I'm thinking about it now. That moment of initial penetration, crushing them to you, flexing, entire body wracked with pleasure, every point of contact electrifying you... Chills! Ooer!TTFN!,NarcPS Apologies if I ramble, long long day. But damn! Women! Soft, delicious, perfect. Yum factor 57 Very sexy, now here is a twist, the guy buys it, and you hand him the scissors , careful baby

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hmm, technology to the rescue?I must confess I've thought about slicing through my adversities, the idea certainly has merit, but the wall I hit was what happens if, er, well, you know, um...Well, hypothetically speaking mind, like, if one is an borderline fiend with a propensity to shake that borders on Parkinson's, general numbness through his hands meaning he goes through glassware like Kleenex, and a thuper thecret blood fetish?It sort of sounds like playing Guess Who's Coming To Dinner: The Baphomet Edition. Thuper fun! But, er, of course not for everyone, all parties consenting, full disclosure and relationships of reliance addressed etc. etc...I'm not sure if sharp objects are really something that should be introduced under the circ's.Hang on, do they still make those plastic safety ones they gave you when you were a kid? You know the ones that could cut card like a muthalova but not skin or anything else? Reckon they'd work on lace? What about the ribbing on a torsolette?Merriweather call the boys in the lab and tell them to put on a pot of coffee! We've got science to do! Top men Dr Jones. Top. Men.TTFN!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I once ripped some clothing on a lady, she said to continue. I did. She had such a rush. No one has ever done that to her before. And I will admit, it was a hell of a turn on for me too. :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    so funny.like that comment.too much

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    sexy lingerie always...for me. I love to wear great underwear all the time for my benefit, because I like it, and it makes me feel sexy...and if I happen to have a meet and I have a gorgoeus man "slowly removing it, pushing it aside with his nose, his fingers or his toungue" then even better!I have of course done the meet with trench coat, heels and nothing underneath (cliched I know) but that worked pretty damn well tooWhat the heck I'll take it all!Minxy

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Mmmmm I'm with Minxy I too luuuurve my lingerie at last count over 45 sets (ok yes I need to part with some!), I wear lingerie I love everyday and it has to be matching!! haha I then have my ultra sexy lingerie, play lingerie, special occasion lingerie, suspender belts, stockings and don't even get me started on my shoes!! haha But there is also nothing wrong with being naked...my skin is often commented on and preferred over the lingerie!! So depending on the mood, the man, the setting I'm sure I've got it covered - pardon the pun!! LOL Ohbaby69 xXx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Most of the time sex ends up naked, skin to skin. I quite enjoy that moment when you're trying to maximise contact, like you're going to pass through each other. You know the feeling, arms and legs, everything entangled. Lingerie is a mighty fine path to take there, of course, especially when it's removal is included in the process.If you're talking about photography I much prefer some things left to the imagination. I find a lot of full frontal stuff to be very... well... alright. That's a bit... uneventful. There's tits and pussy, I guess. Cover it with a 2cm strip of material though and I'm desperate to know what happens next!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I love the look of it. It can enhance a woman's sexuality, especially as we age and things start heading south on us. Still, skin against skin feels better. How about starting out with the frilly nickers and accessories and losing them all once the lights go out?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    why do the lights need to go out? sex and candles are made for each other..... we agree with the naked bit tho...once the presents been unwrapped...then its time for play....the lingerie is an accessory to foreplay...

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    There's nothing better than a woman in sexy lingerie. Stockings, suspenders, heels..........Perfection

  • contemplating1

    contemplating1

    14 years ago

    ...on, as an exciter...   Then where it goes from there..........!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    There's nothing better than a woman in sexy lingerie. Stockings, suspenders, heels...........Perfection

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I'm quite sue that lingerie is horribly impractical for you ladies to wear on a day to day basis, but trust me as a living and breathing red-blooded male, the sight of it triggers thoughts and desires that are indescribable! A wise man once said "something is a lot more sensuous than nothing".   Skin on skin is great too, but the feeling of nylon stockings wrapped around me .........

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Lingerie without a doubt. Garters!

  • blackie251

    blackie251

    14 years ago

    Chilli has it right, pull panties aside, leave bra on, dress up, tease me with stockings, is awesome

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    and of course heels......

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Ms ohbaby69 would look magnificent in a hessian sack! And make it look like high passion fashion! Grrrrrrrrrrl.. Lol!.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Brevity is the soul of lingerie....Dorothy Parker   Nothing like a tongue to nudge that brief piece of silk or satin aside .....the slow tease....mmmm yes please