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NSA Cuddles!
March 30 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my experience........ I called that......."Marriage"...DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Actually it's the newest thing in Japan. Men can now go to the cuddle cafe and pay women to cuddle them by the hour or even all night. It's extra if you want the woman to fall asleep with you or if you want her to stroke your hair, pat your back, look into your eyes, or if the guy would like to fall asleep with his head in the girl's lap, etc. All platonic.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I could easily just fall asleep in a man's arms and not have sex. It is about intimacy more than sexual release.
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Andwedanced
13 years ago
Gotta love the japs! Make the rest of us look so normal :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
There's nothing like a big warm cuddle to give you an instant rush of happy. I'd rather have sex though ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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Paradisepair
13 years ago
Before I might have trouble keeping my hands from straying...
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RHP User
13 years ago
when I'm asleep.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Through the grapevine. Cuddles are nice but preferably after a nice long session
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think that would work that often with the same person.... eventually one would want more more than likely
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'In my experience........ I called that... ...."Marriage"... Hey nothing like a good cuddle with the rite person...but preferable after awesome sex..nah Im still in the "Give me great sex " mode................
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Giggle_pot' There's nothing like a big warm cuddle to give you an instant rush of happy. I'd rather have sex though ;)- Posted from rhpmobile I'm with Ms GPcuddles are nice but not as nice as being embraced whilst performing an erotic act
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't do it. To me, that's something you do when you're in a relationship, not a no strings arrangement.
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RHP User
13 years ago
At the beginning of my marriage...LOL then I left as wanted more than a cuddle but not with him!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
do it without first engaging in some delicious fun. It would be too frustrating with someone I was attracted to.Psychologically, If this was an ongoing request, I think it poses some interesting questions and I would want to explore it a little deeper.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who i have on occasion indulged in some fun with, who i have on a couple of occasions called and said i need a hug. One morning at 2am, after one such call, that man came and crawled into bed with me and held me, hugging me, when i thanked him the next day and said i felt a little selfish, he said "Hey, who's to say i didn't just need to be held too?" Everybody needs a hug sometimes
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just made the "awwww" sound out loud - my oh my that sounds lovely!Quoting 'karynb' Who i have on occasion indulged in some fun with, who i have on a couple of occasions called and said i need a hug. One morning at 2am, after one such call, that man came and crawled into bed with me and held me, hugging me, when i thanked him the next day and said i felt a little selfish, he said "Hey, who's to say i didn't just need to be held too?" Everybody needs a hug sometimes
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love a pair of masculine arms around me, beats my pillow hands down. You know where I live if you are needing that cuddle Jokerza, your more cuddlier than my pillow any day
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would love that. Especially in winter get your arse over here....pats bed I would love to start a business like that, over here would be really nice but how much to charge lol, and what about OH&S issues sorry madam, if you got poked in the back with a hard object and sorry that you had to change the sheets cause he blew all up your back and sorry sir if I came its just well you were there and I started rubbing up against you in my sleep I love tribbing...............sigh
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to sleep naked with a male friend of mine and we never had sex, at all it used to be so nice, he was so popular with the women but did not do a thing for me nor me for him, but we were best friends. I want one of those again. I do miss the non sexual hug , my hubby cannot do that at all he gets a hard on every single time we have seperate bedrooms as well, so I hug my pillow
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Actually you would surprised the amount of ppl they actually want no sex friends with benefits.... They don't want anything but a friend to talk too n to just feel held...
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RHP User
13 years ago
CuddlesWithBenefits ? ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' Who i have on occasion indulged in some fun with, who i have on a couple of occasions called and said i need a hug. One morning at 2am, after one such call, that man came and crawled into bed with me and held me, hugging me, when i thanked him the next day and said i felt a little selfish, he said "Hey, who's to say i didn't just need to be held too?" Everybody needs a hug sometimes xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I know them, if we're already intimate, then sure, cuddles only on occasion is a given. If it's about only cuddles with someone and never sex then nup - cuddles are really intimate and if I'm attracted enough to them to be that intimate I'm going to want to have sex, for sure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some really great input so far, some comments mentioned it is very intimate and sex must be a factor, Does that mean that cuddles are measured as more intimate than sex? It seems these days that we are more open to have sex ( one of the most if not the most intimate acts between people) with someone than to be open to non sexual signs of affection........what do you reckon?
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RHP User
13 years ago
thats what a cat or dog is for!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I cuddle my cat in bed every night, if there is a man in bed the cat gets booted out and I jump on that man. Yes, I cuddle male friends, but briefly, friends or no they alway get a hard on if its more than a few seconds
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'OneEmerald' I don't think that would work that often with the same person.... eventually one would want more more than likely ..I am totally willing to test this theory out with you....xD
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just love that sensation. Cuddling and wrapping my arms and legs around my partner and watch the moon light peeping thru the blinds and spreading across the bed, And slowly dropping asleep and waking up early with the fresh air and underneath warm blanket our nude bodies wrapping each other. No other sexual activities involved. I think, Its hard to give NSA cuddle as you require some sort of feeling or knowledge of the person.. unless you have fall in love at first sight with that individual.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Philosopherpoet' Quoting 'OneEmerald' I don't think that would work that often with the same person.... eventually one would want more more than likely ..I am totally willing to test this theory out with you....xD Sure thing...
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is nice just to hold someone for comfort and to comfort someone. It is just two people wanting the touch of another human being. No expectations, just silence and closeness. Intimate? It can be. Human, definitely.If the guy gets a hard on, so what. Men can keep it in their pants.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And he truly is a friend, who i have occasional benefits with. Sex wasn't on the cards that night and he knew it before he arrived. In fact we do more checking in on each other and hugging than we do sex. No emotional BS, just a lovely friendship with a lovely man. Quoting 'MissPoppins' Just made the "awwww" sound out loud - my oh my that sounds lovely!Quoting 'karynb' Who i have on occasion indulged in some fun with, who i have on a couple of occasions called and said i need a hug. One morning at 2am, after one such call, that man came and crawled into bed with me and held me, hugging me, when i thanked him the next day and said i felt a little selfish, he said "Hey, who's to say i didn't just need to be held too?" Everybody needs a hug sometimes
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