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RHP User
14 years ago
I think it's a fantasy, unless it is a one night only deal. It is all about expectations you see. I mean, if you have no expectations, then that's NSA. Right?HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Definately a fact for me...Love my NSA sex have done it for years with no emotions from my part! The sex is great with NSA and there are no expectations! I have a new play friend at the moment and I am loving the sex and the sexting and the dirty pics going back and forth but it wouldn't stop me from picking up one or two more! It is my preference! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
For some ladies yeah for sure but bottom line we are just wired different. Most of us are better at the one nite stand scenario.....bonk and bail
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RHP User
14 years ago
What do you mean no strings? Do strings always mean a bad thing or lead to possessiveness? Or whatever it is you boys are are so scared off. Well I like strings and I will be tying someone up by their ballsack shortly. I mean that is a good string.... Right :p
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RHP User
14 years ago
Like i told a FWB only the other day when the "L word" subject came up. I was told not to fall in love and i replied that i cant sleep with someone on a regular basis without forming some sort of feelings. Im not going to fall in love but if u want to see me weekly and want me to stay the night and hug and kiss you afterwards i am going to develope some kind of feelings for you. Anyway as Meeka said why do strings have to be a bad thing? I could be the woman of ur dreams and u let slip away cause u want some NSA fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
A yoyo.. With no strings it just rolls down the street.. With string it comes back You decide
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know what kymmy, I reckon lots of guys get very confused when girls do the NSA thing, you know the bootie calls at 10pm or never staying the night. In my limited experience, they don't like it when you do it to them on an ongoing basis either. And it's the ones that say NSA that start telling you all about their life, etc etc. Dude, I dont give a rats. So I think it's fair to say that not all men can handle NSA either. I am in a super feisty mood tonight.... Come on someone tell me I am wrong. :D
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RHP User
14 years ago
Balls and string wowwow they are a natural combination I find :p
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RHP User
14 years ago
Meeka, I'm pretty sure you are right. Guys are not so different to gals when it comes to expectations. NSA... these are not long haul situations without expectations developing. One usually has more expectations than the other and either one or the other is disappointed when the expectations aren't met. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I totally agree with you (dont want to disagree lol) The ones that say NSA always want the hugs and kisses and the closeness of a relationship without actually being in 1. They bring you in emotionally then when u seem to be getting to close they freak out. Seriously guys do my head in if i didnt like dick so much i think i would swap sides
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmm well yes Stalky but that is true of any situation isn't it. My expectation is I get a 10% pay rise every year but that doesn't happen. :p In any situation where there are two or more people involved someone is going to expect something the others are not. Now I am confused, what are we talking about here when we say strings? Awh Stalkers.... I lost my train of thought now. :(
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RHP User
14 years ago
I quite like feelings! whats so wrong with meeting up just to hang out without even having sex....oh my god...my bad...just shoot me! Is everyone so preoccupied with themselves and their own immediate needs .....oops forgot what i was going to write next...that'll learn me to go searching through Itunes...anyhoo....can't remember! Suffice to ask, is everyone so scared of forming bonds, that they rapidly move on?...man thats just kinda sad :(Felonius...at least I found the Megadeth I was looking for.
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RHP User
14 years ago
They just like to think they can
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is usually the male that determines the strength of the string and it's eventual length. This makes them feel they are free to be unemotional when it comes to sexual encounters. When the tables are turned and the girl delineates the terms of the string they feel like they have lost their control of the situation even though the girl wants the same thing as them.It is a myth that all girls need emotional attachment to want sex. For the NSA girl all that is needed is an attraction to the guy she wants to have some fun with.
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RHP User
14 years ago
NSA, yes I like it as I have all my other needs met, and am happy with that. but This does not mean you can spend half hour with me and just bonk and run for it. Take at least an hour, to warm me up. Kiss me on the lips and other parts Kiss me before and after sex and please wait for me first, sorry but when your done your done. Try to at least pretend you want to stay longer, stop looking at your watch ten seconds after you have blow your bolt Wait at least ten minutes before you zip up your fly. NSA Nice Sexy Attitude Yes there are women who like NSA but like I said that does not mean a half hour fuck, while your mum is out of the house. Or the back seat of your car cause your to cheap for a hotel.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with you now shove over and let me join you on the feisty bench, it must be in the air tonight (nothing to do with post op, post pmt, tied in with sleep deprivation at all ;p)It is all about expectations. If you are fantastic in bed of course I would expect (want/expect whatever) more! duh!For me I am not keen on the type of NSA that goes under a meet, bonk and checking smudged lipstick in the rearview mirror as I drive off - all in under 60 minutes - never to be seen again. Actually now I typed it, it sounds kind of hot. damn.Anyway! My *preference* is all that and more on a semi regular basis. This also allows you to know each other a bit better and hopefully added trust allows added fun ;pJust don't expect me to go to your cousins wedding because of the smudged lipstick thing...
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captainkaos
14 years ago
I have had quite a few NSA relationships. As Tuscanred mentioned, as long as you take your time and respect each other, it's all good. It's also best to tell the other person your intentions. I did once sleep with a woman who said that she enjoyed the sex very much. As we were lying in bed chatting, she mentioned that I am a nice guy and that I would be a great catch for someone. Something told me that I don't think that I am going to see this person again. She didn't return my calls after that. SHE USED ME! Imagine that. lol. She just wanted NSA sex but didn't tell me. I just feel so used. lol.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nice Sticky Arsehole
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RHP User
14 years ago
NOT Seeeing you AGAIN
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is a good topic to look at applying a little twist. If you look at the porn industry, females out supply males by about 15:1 yet there is a stigma in society that males are the sex mad creatures. I find it interesting that the fairer sex has no problem ******* guy after guy. I'm not so concerned about the reasons why like the money etc...but i'm seeking opinions....does this make females more emotional because they seek or need the attention of lots of guys, or make them less emotional because they can have sex with a stranger 4 or 5 times a week and it doesn't bother them. :)
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