Moving from conversation to sex

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  People ask questions to try and make small talk... work, children, sport, marriage, divorce, religion, politics..... all the graceful topics lol.... I suppose we forget that it doesn't hurt to talk about sex... in a sex on premises facility with other people who's purpose for being there is to hook up and shag. That's not a bad topic of discussion for a sex on premises place.... and it readily leads to explore the concept in the privacy of a room stripped naked.What I'm saying is... swing the conversation away from the polite socially acceptable tea party conversation.. to something more intimate. Do it early so you can meet more people if those ones turn out to be duds.HugsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Never start the small talk in the first place.... talk sex from the start. xx Meeks

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Easy to say that you should control the conversation, but it can be difficult to achieve but as both Stalky and Meeka have said, steer clear of the everyday and go straight to erotic/sexual talk.Or, as Sheba has done on more than one occasion - just grab a guy (in her case) and utter the immortal word 'you wanna go have some fun', or on an alternate situation 'yep, youll do, lets go I need a fark'Ah, she can be forwardShebagaz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Only Sheba is forward Gaz??? I find that hard to believe. :PM

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we havent been yet but hopefully soon would love to hear from more couples. 2hot2curious xox

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  don't talk sex. just do it. lolwe usually start with just kissing each other and then one thing leads to another

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100' Only Sheba is forward Gaz??? I find that hard to believe. :PM Honest Meeks, she is the only forward one of us I mean, as the male half I know my place. Shebagaz

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  While I pratel on here I am terrible at picking people up I mean really truly terrible so I am no help ......other than tyo tell you what Sarah does at clubs to pick people up ! Ahhhh yes the twist of the whole thing Sarah who rarely if ever comments on here is the sassy sexy one who picks up at clubs!Sarah is gets terribly bored of talking of children , day jobs and truly if you have a flash car please please dont start talking to her about it she will be off before you can get the make and model out of your mouth ! Sarah who is a champion "picker upperer er er" .......... she has only ever failed once ! Sarah generally starts by talking about swinging , how did you get involved , how often have you been here before , what do you like , have you meet many nice people ........... NEVER talks about general stuff ! As I have said before this is all FANTASY for us we want to escape from our delightful normal lives into this magnificent fantasy when we are at a club we want to be sexy adventerous dont talk to us about the washing and what the petrol prices are like we are in a club TO HAVE SEX ! So be intimate ............. be sexy ............... be adventerous !Now this has worked on some tremendously wonderous nights for us FUN we will never forget!Stay sexy BE sexy !Brae ...............

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  So what is your pick up line Brae? "So do you cum here often?" Really?? HahahaxxMeeks

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We've been to ci a couple of times and found everyone to be relaxed and friendly. I must say I'm a bit surprised that the single guys aren't a bit more forthcoming in their approach. They seem very shy and did get involved with mainly small talk. I can understand that they don't want to come across as predatory LOL - but as suggested before maybe they should just ask if the couple is looking for another guy and take it from there - everyone knows why they go to a club like this :-) Couples on the other hand are much more direct and will ask straight up if you'd like to go to a room - bizarre when you think about it - you would think things would be around the other way - maybe I've forgotten what it's about to be a single guy - but if it was me a single guy in a room full of couples I'd be working the room after some hot MILF !!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100' Never start the small talk in the first place.... talk sex from the start. xx Meeks Flirting and non-verbal b4 even uttering a word is what I'd start with, a look, a touch, can totally send a CLEAR HOT URGENT message Eg. Scan the room first, decide who you would like to meet, then try and catch their gaze and then hold it for an uncomfortable amount of time and practice a look that says 'i wanna fuck you because you are the hottest piece of ass here, ahem aside from myself' haha Then after a little of back and forth staring, make your approach and straight away touch them, not grope them!! Something more subtle like brush some part of their body, stand reasonably close and place your hand against the small of their back, or on their arm, or extend your hand and then just hold theirs instead of shaking it (cheeky sexy) hehe, something... contact is sooo hot from a stranger, very familiar therefore concreting the message that you are trying to send. Then like Meeks said, do the small talk after, start in the middle and get straight into the good stuff (dirty HAWT good stuff!)... Eg. You give good starring, I had to cum ova and tell you A+ for sexy eye contact... How would you feel about taking sexy contact up to another level, what would you like me to make contact with that is on your hawt body next, i take ALL requests... And it is like anything in life that you want to achieve, it may take a little practice to hone your approach b4 you nail it if it doesn't come naturally. But you can totally learn to do the confidence bluff up front whether you truly feel confident or not (just like a job interview, but way better benefits LOL!). It is all fun and games!

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