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Misunderstanding.. speak with out know facts

August 27 2011

Recently there has been a few people who have made a comment in the forums,about me and about my old OLD profile. (2nd one.)..making statements about me being basically being a man basher....that i'm bitter and unbalanced..Quick to judge...so must be newbies no offense..To those, here is a some info for u to take on board.im not being nasty.The first time i joined..i was newly separated..(1yr & of my own doing) after 26 yrs of marriage..I had a profile pic...and some in my private gallery...The amount of messages i got made it hard to reply to them all. I am sure they'd just look at my pic and didn't read my profile..I would reply saying thank you but !! your profile doesn't match what i'm looking for...then blow me down..they'd sent a message back asking..can i look at your private pics.as if im going to that..lol...then when you say no..they get abusive...( I wasn't the only single female that got this treatment..there's also been posts on this in the past)Hence the 2nd profile....YET that didn't stop guys from making contact with me....in fact their profiles are what i seek to a T...also their messages where classy...now some guys could learn a lot frome these ones......So whether your a couple or a single person...what each seeks, will of course be different just the same way..in how we handle it also....Now this leads me to my Question::: As any ones perceived judgmental view or opinion of some one that they have spoken to let alone met and gotten to know colored your perception..thus stopping you from making contact with a person...even if they are or might be what you want ?,

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RHP User

14 years ago

Heymumma, I just goota luv ya! Your the best. I pitty the fool whom ever says defaming comments towards you.C-1xo

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RHP User

14 years ago

..do you mean NOT spoken to or let alone met...etc ?(I can be a bit slow sometimes)

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RHP User

14 years ago

The way I see it, other people have the problem, NEXT. lmfao.. life's too short to worry about what other people think and as we swiftly approach a worldwide population of 10 Billion, bad friends are easy to come by so they're just not worth the effort.SO.. now to your question. People change their minds. If you're someone who refuses to change your mind... i.e. you happily travel through time resolutely satisfied that you made a decision and your going to stick to it come hell or high water.. then you'd be one of those superior "second only to god" beings to which I say next. If however you're one with the world and flow around obstacles like water down a hill then you're my kind of person. Is that judgmental? Yes. Unavoidably judgmental... but who's got the time to persuade people to follow the way? Do people get a second chance? Yes of course. What we believe today we might not have believed yesterday, or tomorrow.... unless you're still one of those self dilluded "second only to God" people to which I will probably always say "next". HUgsStalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Heymumma, I would like to think that I make my own judgements of people. Everyone has their own way of looking at the world based on their life experiences and values. So their way will not be my way - just a different way. Besides some people have hidden agendas so you always have to make up your own mind first. Lolz. Although, if a friend or even a woman from RHP tells me someone is dangerous well then, I have to give that some weight. I would be stupid not too. xx Meeka

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RHP User

14 years ago

Sounds a bit like it could be a title for one of those shit-house reality televisions shows, huh? On this site...I will always make up my own mind and that is often subject to change, first or second opinions can be very different so periodically I even go back and check my block list. Besides, simply because one or a few people might think someone is red hot or crap doesn't mean they won't be a bit like the hot chili powder that I sometimes put on my watermelon. Yeah I know...but when I traveling in Mexico they were doing that and before I made my mind up I gave it a go. | Same thing in the rest of my life...if I make my own decisions I have the right and opportunity to change them at any time without notice and worrying about whether or not it's the flavour of the day. The worst thing about following a crowd....you have no idea where they are going until they get there and most of the time, neither do they. | PS...put a pic back up. I made my mind up not to put people on the front facing page of my friends and fiends gallery a while back and that's not likely to change. | The day I start to sweat about anything here...I'm gone.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Hi meeka...Girls i've known on on her would of course warn us if someone was dodgy..but only if they had met the guyin question..We single girl always looked out for each other..Also your spot on. when you say.....(Everyone has their own way of looking at the world based on their life experiences and values. So their way will not be my way - just a different way. Besides some people have hidden agendas so you always have to make up your own mind first.)which leads me to say..Hi stalky..it has taken me a long time to change some aspects..but i'm now I'M so what....just let it run off like water off a ducks back..I too will give peeps a benefit of doubt..2 chance the once only..everybody has an off day as such..There was more to my post...which explained other issues certain peeps had with my old profile..but RHP have cut it out...to with chat...i'm sure you would recall posts..on this issue.which other girls complaining about what went on...on the odd occasion.Good thing were not sheep...hahaha...Midnight....Hi MrActive..Yes to your question...Thanxx to all for your inputmumma..xox

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RHP User

14 years ago

Oh luv ya chiverlyone...You know me....and as do the other few of my friends who are still on here,and in the forums....You ..have gotten to know that..besides being nuts..im harmless..lolmumma

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' The worst thing about following a crowd....you have no idea where they are going until they get there and most of the time, neither do they. | | I would have thought the worst thing was all the baaaa-ing noises.

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Misunderstanding.. speak with out know facts

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