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Missing my Mojo? Is this normal? Does this happen to you?

September 17 2011

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By mojo I mean, lost that horny feeling Two months now... when will it come back? I guess it occurred because my last 3 'suitors' had an unagreeable ending (oh and one beginning). First one kept his cards close, i got led up the garden path a bit (well allot with what he said and how much he said...), got a few thorns that stuck ouch! Then opps drunk at a work function, was a GREAT night, but for many reasons that is where i wanted to leave it, but i get daily communiqués of, but how about this or that etc etc arghh!!! AND the worst, a guy at work drunk emails me explicit RHP type come on's to my work email, AND I had no idea who he was, i had to ask a bunch of people, get a sneaky walk by iphone photo taken of him and that still didn't help?! Then he got moved to my floor (yay, NOT), so every time i go get a coffee, here he comes! He mentions NOTHING... talks about coffee? Then a few weeks later, more drunk emails to work... FFS how many times can a person say no, and at work? WTF? It is great to receive purvey emails from people u don’t know on RHP, but at work, it doesn’t sit well at all... S did those last 3 experiences put out my fire? The first two were HOT HOT HOT sex, but in the end bad head fucks, and the third, just a bad head fuck... Did they break me? I haven’t even watched any porn!! It makes no sense, surely it shouldn’t have put me off from getting off altogether??? HELPPPP!!!!!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    All perfectly normal. Yes it is a piss off when it happens but feeling horny for a woman also has a lot to do with head space and where we are at in a particular point in time. If the last three men did a number on you naturally your subconscious is saying "DONT GO THERE. DANGER, DANGER" Just relax, forget all your troubles and woes, it will come back when it is good and ready.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Worrying about it will undoubtably prolongue the agony

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I guess these 3 encounters did occur during a bad time, 7 months battling with the ex to come to an asset split agreement, even though it was OVERLY fair, blah blah. Moving on, bad times are in the PAST, spring has sprung, i need to brighten the F up! Then it will sneak back when I am not looking. I just love to whinge (a little too much )

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ebbs and flows ... Factors combine to create a brick wall that gets a little hard to knockdown ... Fiona is right in that headspace plays a very big part in how sexual you feel. Infact, it plays the starring role. It's how women are programmed. No porn eh? What the? :-p Hormones are at work most likely ... This too shall pass.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nothing that a trip to Sydney wouldnt fix Booba ..!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Focus on someone sexy!& strut your stuff GirlfriendThere's always Headfucks don't we all know that just dont let it effect! u not worth itGood luck Get your Mojo back Visualise a hot Guy u want to fuck good put it out to the universe & make it happen!xxxas Stalky would say! NEXT!get fussy! your worth more than Fuck Wits We live & learn!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The *obvious* answer, is, you gotta getta girl ;) too many men from the sounds of it :P

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Bratzilla'The *obvious* answer, is, you gotta getta girl ;) too many men from the sounds of it :P Hey, what a great suggestion! You can see that I am a little up to pussies bow with mere males ATM which I have to say is VERY rare for me, they usually seem like the less complicated half?! (BUT...coz their brains and our brains just do not have enough bridges at times and too often communication and understand spills out into the ether!!).   Haha such a clever answer!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Bratzilla' A hand with my house improvements that is... you are so generous offering to help perfect girl time hey!   I am covered in paint and plaster ATM, with 6 more full days ahead acting the part of 'tradeswoman' LOL! ROAR!! I even have my own tool box hey   Have been swapping between painting, flooring, wall papering, moving furniture back and forth and bak and forth and back and forth and get head spins from using the enamel paint on the new skirts and the bestest job eva, skeeting the floors after ripping up boards and carpet...   You too could enjoy how glamourous it feels to have sweat rolling down ya face, and be coated inside and out with plaster or cemment or paint (what ever it is that i am scraping off the concrete)!   Still happy to lend that hand? i have a deadline for half the house to be ready by 9am for the new floor. It should have been done by now, but very importanbt business came up that i just had to attend to... err To do my bit as an RHPr and give advice in EVERY topic as i have all the anwers all of a sudden, especially on the sex (i should have been having latley) topics, my advice would be so valuable because I am so in touch with the scene right now.... (call it a fantasy?)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Would you mind at all if i did a cut and paste   Again, very clever!!! Creative aren't ya   Why after a year on here struggling with the same annoyances as you stated did i not think to write an anology rahter than listing one pet peev after another as i went along, which resulted in hitting the max word count and having to condense all the helpful info that maybe a couple people might read? lol!   Hmmmm i feel creative all of a sudden (not to get back to my tradewoman work), maybe i'll insert random things in a few places in my profile and see how long it takes someone to ask what did i mean by, "FEED ME MY BOTTLE", or "BAA BAA", "UNCLE COUSIN FUCKER" but not in the capitals (not sure why i used caps? too much paint sniffing...)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Gold :)And cut'n'paste away :) I don't mind at all lol. Or just plagiarise ;)I *love* paint. No, really, I do. So if you really do want that hand.... I'll bring a frilly apron and the jager. Let's do it ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Looks like someone got some MOJO back?!

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