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Missing Females?
June 15 2021
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SpicyKale
3 years ago
Oh Jesus, sorry that’s just a dog act. The pie almost needs to put that up as a warning to new members on their FAQ’s It’s something we’ve heard lots of complaints about on one of the other sites years ago. As close as we’ve got to having it happen was a guy wanting to meet solo for a drink because his wife worked shifts. Reverse image searchlight linked the wife’s pics to an independent escort. Tineye is your friend!
couple6270
3 years ago
O F yeah
RHP User
3 years ago
I think that you should have said no, irrespective of whether they turned up or not. Rules are rules. However you have said yes and you can't complain about it now, as you weren't steadfast in your rules. Sure, it's not an ideal circumstances, but to me it seems that you reluctantly said yes and that's not a good thing to concede to sex when you aren't 100% agreeable to it.
teamaj2
3 years ago
I think it’s a common occurrence.
In our early days of dipping our toes in the RHp waters , we had the same thing . We spoke on the phone and the ‘wife ‘ was working . We did arrange to meet and when we wanted confirmation on the day that the meet up was happening they ( he ) didn’t answer the phone or message .
There is no rule book on this journey . We learn via experiences, the people we meet along the way and of course the forums 😆
I think it’s just something to be mindful of . Maybe a phone call prior meeting with all four of you may help . Ax
2EssesExploring
3 years ago
We turned up to a hotel and the guy was there but his partner held back at work. He offered to start without her, we offered to wait. He took several calls from her (right!), then said another couple was joining us. We said we’d go get a drink and return later, met other couples (eww) in the lifts.
We hightailed it out of there and most annoyed that we left a bottle of vodka.
If people lie, we no play!
RHPCountry
3 years ago
That would have been a very terse no thanks and block from us. Whilst we always confirm via phone with both partners first via phone so have avoided that scenario so far. If they say wont give out the mobile we say thanks and have fun but not for us.
NewVicCpl
3 years ago
Shit, sorry that happened, has the profile gone from here or are they still out there trying the same thing on others?
We have had a few guys try that trick, generally a message in the 11th hour saying the female is too shy so won't be coming but have always walked away and said there will be no play until we all meet and are happy to play, generally results in the end of all conversations from them / himRHP User
3 years ago
I chatted with a guy from a "couple", eventually he invited me around to his place for a drink and a chat. When I got there, his wife wanted to know what was going on as she had found our messages on his phone. She was polite enough to me but was mad as hell with her hubby. Needless to say she knew nothing about the RHP couple profile. I know of several more that say they are a "couple", but I know they're not.
RHP User
3 years ago
Wouldn’t help much as he would only open up another profile , but I would name him .
Mrs_Deep_Love
3 years ago
People are shit, that's terrible. The desperate lengths people go to to get their end away is pretty pathetic.
Hopefully you have learnt what to look for next time. I have definitely learnt some hard lessons since joining online dating.RHP User
3 years ago
There are a lot of scammers, they choose the adjective of a couple or a female, To see the pictures and then start cursing, More than once I submit a complaint to the management of the site ...... and the answer is only a block them.
2EssesExploring
3 years ago
Oh just remembered an even worse one. We chatted with this guy and even got to phone calls and would talk to his girlfriend. Something never quite added up so we never met but later met a couple who had met him. His MO was to go down the road and pay strippers to come back and act like his girlfriend on phone calls. The heights of desperation of some people!
abab1
3 years ago
We run parties and we have defence against fakes, we meet everyone that comes to our parties before we give an invitation.
Makes for no surprises and a great party!RHP User
3 years ago
Sadly there are false profiles. We tend to look for verified profiles. Also ask to speak to both of the phone first. A lot disappear. We met a bi fem who told us we were the first real couple she had met in 3 years !!!! Always the guy turning up with wife at work, sick kid, meteor just hit wife lol etc. While it is annoying inevitably the idiots get caught out or just disappear.
RHP User
3 years ago
We have had this on soooooooo many occasions but there are normally big hints in the conversation before it gets time to meet. Caught 2 out this week. The worst thing to do was to play with him and let his actions be rewarded. Anyway feel free to message us if you would like some tips on spotting the lowlifes.
Cheers kitty.
livelifegohard
3 years ago
Sorry to hear, however you need to establish your ground rules before hand. Unfortunately this is one of those times you will have to own your shit, hard lesson to swallow.
There are so many fake profile and scammers on hear I think I have reported more fake profile then I have made legitimate contacts with on hear.
Now we are getting single males posing as a single woman and even as a couple probably to avoid paying a membership and then even offering if you would like a blow job from my bi partner first and I’m straight so don’t feel bad. It’s a tricky thing this online dating thing. I naively thought people would be completely open and honest with what their intentions were. Yes I believe we do grow and change as we progress though your sexual journey and I know I have certainly. This just one of those moments that you have learned and will grow from.RHP User
3 years ago
I know from experience that some women suggest seeking threesomes to partners that they have no interest in following through with, the ball starts rolling and everyone is keen and the penny drops that the fantasy is about to become a potential reality and radio silence ensues on her part and the guy is now standing there looking the fool.
Hungrybumcheeks
3 years ago
Can someone please tell me how to post a topic hahaha xxxx
Oompies
3 years ago
Hi we have had a no show. Really annoying that they couldn't just say they weren't going to meet us. We are thinking it was just a male and not a couple.
RHP User
3 years ago
It’s my belief and so far my experiences, that having a first phone call, talking to both parties and then organising a first meet without play helps mitigate against these scenarios taking place….. just like baseball, 3 strikes and they’re out…
But…I’m a cunt like that…
Lunchbox73
3 years ago
Bottom line, don't hook up with people who haven't been honest with you. The guys wife is probably at home thinking he's out with friends.
NEWHOTCOUPLE
3 years ago
It’s frustrating as it is I think this is a regular occurrence on dating apps, because as you see in some circumstances it actually works for them.
Unfortunately for a lot of single guys this also adds more negativity to the sting that it is already a test with single guys looking to play
Can’t say it hasn’t happened to me in the past and is a good chance it will probably happen again in the future
I guess it just comes down to the old saying customer Be aware
AnnieWhichway
3 years ago
Do your research and learn how to tune your bullshit meter. 1 couple wanted me to travel 400 km for a meet, a hotel room at his expense. But long story short, noticed his wife's pics were not right. A Facebook search of the phone number got the real name and family pics.
So my ultimatum was to delete the profile from rhp or I'd ring his wife. It was gone very quickly.
Don't beat ourself up OP, it's a learning curve that most of us have climbed and still are climbing
We could write a book of the bullshit scenarios men come up with to get their end injustforthefun44
3 years ago
Has happened to use
A couple profile we asked to speak to the female response sorry she is working late.
Have also had females profile that end up being males.
Don’t bullshit you will get more fun
joebull81
3 years ago
Sadly this sort of stuff happens a lot. I've even found it happens with guys posing as couples to meet guys, get pics/take vids or ask them to jump through all sorts of hoops without anything in return. When asked for proof of there actually being a female in the relationship, they just say that there's thousands of guys willing to so what they want, and if I wanted a chance with them, then I would do what they instruct.
Sadly these parasites are everywhere.
GreedyLadies
3 years ago
That’s an old scam….single guys pretending to be a couple.. seen it all before..
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