RHP

RHP User

F64

Mind body and soul

December 16 2012

I thoroughly enjoy being on rhp - it has broadened my mind, body n soul! Recently I have met a man from rhp n we are developing a beautiful relationship.. Is it wrong for me ( & he) to still be on rhp? We both still receive n send flirts n messages to other ppl as we enjoy the contact with others, but neither of us are wanting to pursue anyone else! We have found happiness?

Comments

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Do what you like!! In the words of dr suess - as those that matter won't mind, n those that mind won't matter!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    only the 2 of you can answer that..............if you dont want to see other people at the moment, then you need to be honest with the ppl with whom you are chatting, i think also you need to remember this is how you 2 met.... just from a chat....personally if i was developing a relationship and agreed we didnt want to see other people then i would be saying bye to RHP........just my opinion....goodluck with the choices you make.x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You obviously haven't changed your profile from when you were "unattached", so I am guessing you are both still looking! I see alot of people on here to claim to meet the "love of their life" but...never change their profile. Sure, in the first line you will read "NO LONGER LOOKING AS I HAVE FOUND THE LOVE OF MY LIFE", but then the rest of the profile still reads from when they were single! I have a good giggle when I see that and give them about 3 months (max) before they are single again! Nothing wrong with either of you being on here...but if you are serious and don't want others...then change your profiles (fully) to show that you are in a relationship and not meeting anyone at all! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    If your wanting to date other men or not. Why keep the profile if you're attached?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Firstly congratulations....secondly I'm with xfun, but to add, what does it matter to you if you're still on here and taken?? Why not setup a couples profile to enjoy the contact?? Hmmmm...the mind really DOES boggle sometimes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    DELETE your profiles? What's stopping you? Greener grass just in case. Can't you contact your other friends or is it still the chase for the ego? Why not develop your "relationship" with out the influences of RHP.... especially if you do not want anyone else and I must also ask why waste other peoples time?!Yep.....My mind boggles as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Congrats on meeting someone here ..and I do hope it all works out for you...   You say your developing a beautiful lrelationship which is fantastic...but be very clear if he feels the same way   Time for some very honest and open communication between the both of you..Yep "The Talk".......and what you both want from this new relationship...   Nothing wrong with keeping both your profiles going as long as you state that you are both in a relationship and arent looking at present and misleading/hurting others... or here for the forums etc.....but you both need to be real clear on where your relationship is at and if you do both to elect to keep your profiles going...as to why you are..to avoid any issues between you both later.   Please also remember too how you have both met..dont get me wrong I met someone here a long time ago and had a 3 year relationship with them...and I have no issue with that... but for some uknown reason..the way you met (being from and on a "sex site") well the usual rules (for want of a better word) just dont seem to apply   Wishing you all the best :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    +1 for having the talk. If you have found happiness then IMO best to talk and both be totally clear than making assumption and someone being offended.Cheers,W.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I can't believe i've found a woman on here using the words 'mind, body and soul' lol. You mean you've actually looked past the only criteria that seems to matter to women and that is you must be 'hot' lol.   Bravo.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    to your question is in the asking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thankyou all!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' I can't believe i've found a woman on here using the words 'mind, body and soul' lol. You mean you've actually looked past the only criteria that seems to matter to women and that is you must be 'hot' lol.   Bravo.   You mean there are men on here that are not hot? and the critea for men would be   must have hole, and must be wet at all times, must leave door ajar so they do not break there nose when they run out the door zipping up as they go   ok where was I ohh yeah, I just want hot men...mind is not important, soul is that Fish? body sure must have a pulse

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13'to your question is in the asking If you felt secure your decisions were the right ones, you wouldn't be asking.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You had me at must have hole! Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I thought it was carpet,The carpet is always greener under someone else's bed !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Update us all in a months time. Good luck.