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Message Sex protocols

December 04 2013

I love to turn a phrase, to build a picture in someone's mind of anticipation and delight. As such, I enjoy message sex. (On iPad, no paragraphs, sorry). So when I'm in the mood, I offer a verbal suggestion and if it is picked up I continue from there. Now you expect a lag time, as you assume the other person is reading, reacting and then typing..... That was until my last 'chat' where one of the pauses seemed inordinately long, I then messaged back asking if I had lost them (to whatever reason), however I was a little put off when they came back with the response... "Oh no, just had a shower and a shave" and then continued the conversation. Then piece de resistance, the next message was "I've come. But I'm still horny". So here is my question.., what do we expect as basic manners when engaging in sexy chat? What do you feel are the dos and donts?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    bores me into a coma..I prefer to speak on the phone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm going to have to write you a piece!!

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    12 years ago

    Can I put my hand up to read your writing too? x Me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's because he ain't that into you or the whole texting thing. Or maybe the wife needed him to do something.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe the husband needed him to do something...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He's still horny?... Tell him to go fuck himself. .If it's a friend I'm chatting with, I'm going to assume they might head off to pee, make coffee, start a meal etc. But a sex chat, I'd expect complete and unadulterated attention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I realise already he's an arse, geez act like that with a chat, you can only imagine what he would be like in person... No thanks! What I would like to know is, what would you take as acceptable or a no go. Be it with someone new or a first time sexy interlude.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He's just good at multi-tasking?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sexting and chat sex doesn't hold my interest so I am probably likely to do something like that. It's just not stimulating for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't expect anything from anyone, to be honest. What people do, what they value, what they accept or offer is up to them. I think life would be a lot more peaceful, at a micro and macro level, if people stopped expecting others to behave the way they think they should (too many 'they's by you get the picture). So, I simply take note of what people do and decide if I want to continue a connection with them. The man in question - would never hear from me again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You know the saying... You show me yours, then I'll show you mine! To cute.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Nice approach to it all. We are all here for a fun time, so to just take it at that level.

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    But I'm absolutely convinced the written word and the ability to massage one's mind is just as important a means of foreplay when maintaining contact or "geting to know" someone more intimately. In these cases it's sometimes more about what's not said but only hinted at. I love the written word and I'm sry but hopefully when something is well written it can take you away, nake you feel, imagine, smell, taste, touch and yes.....cum. "I am laying here thinking of you. An innocent enough act, if it weren't for the reactions of my body betraying my arousal just at the mere thought of you. My breasts become fuller as the blood flows to them, the tingling sensation of my nipples as they pucker and harden. The ache between my legs as even I "feel" the blood rushing to engorge my aching clit and my body develops a buzz all it's own! The pulsing, demanding, incessant and unassuaged hunger that my flesh seems to have developed for yours. I remember the night you first bound and blindfolded me. Face up first, giggling and blushing and wanting you to do to me anything you wanted. You took my arms first and placed the restraints around my wrists then lifted my head from the pillow to slip on the blindfold. Running your hands down my body you bound one ankle then the other leaving me a little length so I could bend my knees a fraction. You kissed me deeply, the only thing I could do to show my excitement was growl low in my throat and playfully take your bottom lip between my teeth then suck on it as you teasingly withdrew; laughing at my bound frustration. Your hands moved over my breasts, one slid further south and your fingers teased my button before entering my wet snatch. A moan escaped me.... muffled by your kiss, you were everywhere, my mind, my body, my senses. You paused, I could picture you trying to make up your mind "What next?" I felt your weight shift from me and heard you rustling through the "toolkit". Then felt the vibrator as you ran it lightly over my aching clit, lubing it with my juices before sliding it back and forth inside me, my hips raising from the bed and again your mouth on mine. I wanted to touch you so badly but could not free myself. Your kisses trailed down my neck, where you paused briefly. I don't know if it was for effect or if you were stealing yourself against your own "wanton need" so you could truly toy with me? And the vibrator still moving, my body rythmically demanding more as my hips push down, seeking deeper penetration, your thumb massaging my clit. I give myself up to you, to this." To be continued....... but I'm sure you get my drift. No not everyone can write like that but it's fun trying 😎. And I have had a few friends who quite enjoyed sexting, it can be fun; starting out a scenario and playing together to see where it goes and who "gets off" first....then there's the accompanying horny pictures......🙈🙉🙊

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    ...to my knowledge I haven't lost a reader yet.......for any reason. 😎

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Take me..... I'm yours..... Oh yeah, that was just a sample. That is what I love about sexting (perfect word) that perfect build up, the innuendos, the anticipation of what your imagination might do. It can be quick and to the job, or slow and drawn out. Sexting for me is a great prelude to what that person will be like, how their mind works, also I admit with teenagers in the house phone chats just don't work. Thank you for the perfect example

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' But I'm absolutely convinced the written word and the ability to massage one's mind is just as important a means of foreplay when maintaining contact or "geting to know" someone more intimately. In these cases it's sometimes more about what's not said but only hinted at. I love the written word and I'm sry but hopefully when something is well written it can take you away, nake you feel, imagine, smell, taste, touch and yes.....cum. "I am laying here thinking of you. An innocent enough act, if it weren't for the reactions of my body betraying my arousal just at the mere thought of you. My breasts become fuller as the blood flows to them, the tingling sensation of my nipples as they pucker and harden. The ache between my legs as even I "feel" the blood rushing to engorge my aching clit and my body develops a buzz all it's own! The pulsing, demanding, incessant and unassuaged hunger that my flesh seems to have developed for yours. I remember the night you first bound and blindfolded me. Face up first, giggling and blushing and wanting you to do to me anything you wanted. You took my arms first and placed the restraints around my wrists then lifted my head from the pillow to slip on the blindfold. Running your hands down my body you bound one ankle then the other leaving me a little length so I could bend my knees a fraction. You kissed me deeply, the only thing I could do to show my excitement was growl low in my throat and playfully take your bottom lip between my teeth then suck on it as you teasingly withdrew; laughing at my bound frustration. Your hands moved over my breasts, one slid further south and your fingers teased my button before entering my wet snatch. A moan escaped me.... muffled by your kiss, you were everywhere, my mind, my body, my senses. You paused, I could picture you trying to make up your mind "What next?" I felt your weight shift from me and heard you rustling through the "toolkit". Then felt the vibrator as you ran it lightly over my aching clit, lubing it with my juices before sliding it back and forth inside me, my hips raising from the bed and again your mouth on mine. I wanted to touch you so badly but could not free myself. Your kisses trailed down my neck, where you paused briefly. I don't know if it was for effect or if you were stealing yourself against your own "wanton need" so you could truly toy with me? And the vibrator still moving, my body rythmically demanding more as my hips push down, seeking deeper penetration, your thumb massaging my clit. I give myself up to you, to this." To be continued....... but I'm sure you get my drift. No not everyone can write like that but it's fun trying 😎. And I have had a few friends who quite enjoyed sexting, it can be fun; starting out a scenario and playing together to see where it goes and who "gets off" first....then there's the accompanying horny pictures......🙈🙉🙊 thanks Indy great example of where one can take something if not right next to each other ... i am learning ;)

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    As a gift for Xmas. Our sexting sessions hmmm they're alot of fun too and where possible we act them out too.....it's a multi-dimentional approach to our lusting for each other. I have permission to post the full story once it's written in the Eritic Stories section with a couple of others experiences I've captured on paper. Thank you both for the good feedback. That scenario was only the beginning of the experience, he has yet to kiss me EVERYWHERE lol and crop me, and spank me, and feed me.....😍 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Here's usually how it goes:- Oooh ahhh I'm so hard for you baby, cum with me you sexy trollop... Oooo ahhh oh god Samuel you're so big I want to swallow your ball sack bolognaise.... Ickkk....*yawn* Point is....yep gets you all hot and horny, only to find out they're 1500kms away, married, with hairy nipples. :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Indagine, I await with baited breath

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He should have told you before cumming, yes. I always wait. Maybe he was multi tasking - Posted from rhpmobile