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Mens pics on couple’s profiles

June 26 2026

PLEASE PLEASE stop with the female dominated pic-fest on couples profiles. Here’s a not-so-secret-secret 🤫 us couples who are looking to play with other couples KNOW the woman will usually be attractive - it’s a no-brainer - because women TRY to be attractive. Men on the other hand, seem to figure theyll get some action because their woman is hot. I’m here to tell you, that’s not the case. PLEASE men, put some effort in. 🥹Put some nice pics in your profile (not just one or two & not just a random nipple or elbow). Put on some nice clothes and give us a few angles - Arms, butt, back and pecs. And while we’re on the topic, get more creative than the (yawn) gym mirror pic, or the even more horrifying, ‘pic in the bathroom mirror with the toilet in the background’ classic. We (women) like to see some eye candy too, so get our motors running and dust off the ol’ iPhone or Samsung and get snapping! 😃🙏 What do you think ladies?

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PandaAndBri

4 days ago

I certainly agree that if it’s a couple profile, I want to see a photo of the man. If I don’t see a guy’s picture in the couple blog, chances are you won’t get any interest from us. And considering a lot of couples are driving by the females veto, you are putting yourself at a disadvantage to even get a lock if we don’t have any idea who we could be playing with. Bri

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nutsundae

4 days ago

I've got some awesome fishing pics?

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Nightglider

4 days ago

🙌 YES!!! Couldn’t agree more. As a solo woman in this space any thought of connecting with couples has been held back hugely by factors you mention. Very few or no pics of Mr while showcasing the “Hot Wife”, then to only have communication from Mr is extremely frustrating. Even a solo guy profile pic with a toilet in the background is better than what most couples provide for Mr. Disclaimer: Toilet pics not recommended

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selfless__lover

4 days ago

My immediate thought on any couples profile where both partners aren't shown, is that someone must be letting the team down 😜 It usually proved true when my partner and I were looking for other couples too. It's hard enough to find four people who all find each other attractive, without leaving it to guessing games because all the photos are only of one partner.

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Shared_HotWife

3 days ago

Depends on the dynamic and what they are looking for? If it’s for swinging where it’s a partner swap then it makes total sense to show both people. For us, we’re not couple swappers so less need to have a balanced profile picture section. We have HotWife in the username as that’s what our dynamic is… however there’s quite a few variations of that theme too… most HotWife profiles only have the female especially if they are cuckold. We aren’t cuckold so we have a couple of couple pics too

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Samwich4wifey

3 days ago

Yes 🙌🏻 so frustrating! Not to mention the “couple” profiles where you’re assuming talking to both parties and all of a sudden “my wife has found her own connections and isn’t meeting anyone new right now/has had surgery and can’t play/is pregnant/ or insert other crappy excuse here as to why it’s just a guy talking. Make a single male profile then!!

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Deetsy

3 days ago

Absolutely agreed. I love to see what a guy looks like. I hate that I have to ask almost every single person. Can I see a picture of your face? I hate a photo where it’s taken in a mirror and the phone is right in their face and all I can see is their body. Yes the body is great but I also want to see the face too after all the face is what I’m looking at and kissing as well.

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Chelsea83

2 days ago

This! The number one reason I'm yet to find a couple to play with. Profiles with no pics of the man and all the pics of the women. All the communication from the man and no comms with the women. As a single female I thought it would be alot easier then what's it's turned out to be.

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LandR202

2 days ago

Yeah … In my humble opinion when there’s no male pics on a profile it can be because a) they’re a fake couple profile and it’s just a dude or L b) the dude is letting the team down (either physically or in his pants) so they have the profile for the benefit of the female partner … Either way I just assume that profiles where there’s no pics of the bloke don’t want to swing/swap but are more here for single men or for hotwifing scenes … This whole thing is so complicated tho … I have another issue in that I find it hard to like anyone based on appearance and really need the guy to be a total Adonis to want to bang without any social exchange And I don’t think Adonis or his brother (Henry Cavill) are on this app … so I always feel anxious meeting anyone… And I never feel excited until I feel excited… and I don’t know when that will happen (if at all) actually sucks having esoteric tastes and trying to swing … just saying

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Timetoshine

2 days ago

Right!! Amen

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SeduceMeCharlie

2 days ago

FUCK YES It's about pleasure for both M and F and for me as a unicorn while I need good chemistry with my ladies I need to be attracted to both F and M

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DaxtotheMax

yesterday

I have had this exact rant in the last week. I hope this post makes some couples consider upping their profiles! Could not agree more!

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Wecome

21 hours ago

How many pictures of the guy is enough..... 🤔 asking for a friend 🙃

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