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Men wanting to be will a couple/MFM

May 30 2010

We are a couple looking for another man to watch us and take pics etc. Some people think that since we are looking! anyone who sends us an email is going to be the one, or if we exchange emails a few times and they send a pic, they think they are in. When you are dealing with another man's wife, you can be assured she is not open to anyone and it's "She's on the market, so she is a free for all". It takes time, yes boys, time and chats and cams to see if we are comfortable with you and that you are not showing a 2 second "I need a fuck but no money for a pro". We have come across 1 nice person so far (sent us an email, he did a one way cam and chatted about everything and answered our questions and basically presented himself as "here I am, what do you want to know", was happy to do this to further his chance of being picked and he went to the top of our list and we do plan to meet him. Yes my wife has talked to him on the phone and discussed further what might go on in the meet and he has seen her naked on cam. And we started to chat with another person that is looking good. So for all you men out there looking for a MFM this is what I think would work best. Have a pic on your profile, a face pic. Have a cam and be happy to use it and show your face on it, it shows you are genuine. Although people may be out looking to fulfill a fetish doesn't make your wife is a slut and happy to show the world she wants to play with 2 men and she opens her legs to anyone, so treat with respect. Let the couple move at there pace, it's not timewasting, it's trying to find the right person. Don't expect to be in thier beds after a few email or chats, just show them you are happy to play and chat/cam. We have found that if we don't arrange a meet or tell these people all about us they move on pretty fast, which is good because we are looking for the right one for us. We are not looking for a relationship, just NSA. We are only looking for a cameraman but still we have to look after the safety of the female and still keep her dignity because it's a stud when a man does it and a cheap slut whore when a female does. So as you can understand when a female is involved, rules and consideration is needed, yes if I didn't love my wife I wouldn't care but since I do very much, you have to meet and be what we are looking for. Tell you the truth we are new to this and don't really know what other couples look for but for us if we don't get to see a face pic, see you on cam and happy to let us know who you are etc, we are not interest. I know it's a one way street but it's you coming into our bedroom, so we want to know a lot and see faces etc. It's not a barter system either like "you do this and then I'll do that", if you want a ticket to ride just be yourself and let the other couple know you are up for it and happy to do what it takes to join in. A Quote "Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go. " and "Progress always involves risks. You can’t steal second base and keep your foot on first." Sam and Jane

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16 years ago

Quoted by you: So as you can understand when a female is involved, rules and consideration is needed, yes if I didn't love my wife I wouldn't care but since I do very much, you have to meet and be what we are looking for. I was reading all this and thinking what a nice guy...how considerate....how caring...UNTIL I read that line!! So you maybe think that no other girl should have rules or regulations? I am glad you're not looking for a FFM...cause I am guessing with that line it would have put you out of the race!! Now I could have read this wrong...but I read it like you are giving advice to men on what to do with Couples and what people are seeking for and expecting BEFORE spreading the legs for one and all. I do respect the fact that you love your wife very much...but it's a shame you had to put that line in as you did read as a respectul male (rare on these sites). TO ALL THE MEN THAT READ THIS POST: This is what all Couples and WOMEN expect...the majority of us women and couples don't just get one message from you and then jump into bed with you...we need to get to know you a bit too...we expect the face on cam (as I said in another post)...we expect to share more than a few messages as well as have a few converstations on the phone. Treat anyone that you want to meet with respect and you will all go a long way on this site!! xFunlovingx

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16 years ago

whats your email?

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16 years ago

Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Ok funloving, I don't know what you mean about this line you refer to but I meant it as a lot of replies on this site think you are offering "free meat" and this is far from what we are giving. They think if you do meet, you and your wife have little feelings for each other and she can be ravaged with little or no care from the man. So I did not mean anything bad by this by saying "if I didn't" because I know if my wife did go into an MFM she wouldn't care for the male in the same way as me and all she would be looking for is the physical stimulation while recieving the mental stimulation from me. Need to express words a different way I guess. Sam Quoted by you: So as you can understand when a female is involved, rules and consideration is needed, yes if I didn't love my wife I wouldn't care but since I do very much, you have to meet and be what we are looking for. I was reading all this and thinking what a nice guy...how considerate....how caring...UNTIL I read that line!! So you maybe think that no other girl should have rules or regulations? I am glad you're not looking for a FFM...cause I am guessing with that line it would have put you out of the race!! Now I could have read this wrong...but I read it like you are giving advice to men on what to do with Couples and what people are seeking for and expecting BEFORE spreading the legs for one and all. I do respect the fact that you love your wife very much...but it's a shame you had to put that line in as you did read as a respectul male (rare on these sites). TO ALL THE MEN THAT READ THIS POST: This is what all Couples and WOMEN expect...the majority of us women and couples don't just get one message from you and then jump into bed with you...we need to get to know you a bit too...we expect the face on cam (as I said in another post)...we expect to share more than a few messages as well as have a few converstations on the phone. Treat anyone that you want to meet with respect and you will all go a long way on this site!! xFunlovingx

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16 years ago

it would probably be in your best interests to get down to the melb drinks nite which is next weekend.

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16 years ago

it would probably be in your best interests to get down to the melbourne drinks nite next sat, there would be plenty of interesting characters to meet and have a chat too which may help with your situation.

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16 years ago

we are in exactly the same position so to speak, and have sorted out our guy, doing through exactly the same process. I understand how you feel about needing yto protect your wife, from over zealous blokes, who don't understand the need to treat her like a queen. Glad ypou have found a bloke to help you out with this little party, and look forward to hearing how it went We are in the same boat, and hopefully will dip our toes two weeks from now

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16 years ago

To find to find the right guy, we found someone cool to hang with but he had no idea how to film a sex scene,moving the cam around to fast to close it was like Blair Witch having sex and instead of hearing sweet moans all you heard was him going ''oh yeah''...''.oh fuck yeah''...''.nice''...''dont move''...OH YEAH!!!!

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16 years ago

I think what you wrote was great...I enjoyed your Post .... I just took it that you were offering advice and lets face it whether it be your wife or someone else's wife or any girl on this site for that matter...there are always men that are going to fuck it up by treating the woman like a piece of meat. I think the love you have for your wife is wonderful and the fact that you took the time to sit and write a Post about it is great!! It is hard to read between the lines sometimes and people interpret the way things are written differently (lets face it you can't look in someone's eyes as they are typing), and that is just how I read it. Just how Ihitmyfunnybone read your Post as an advertisement for men to contact you. I honestly did love your Post...was just concerned with that line...if you can get where I am coming from as a female. Hope you and your wife find lots of fun on here and never settle for less. xFunlovingx

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16 years ago

we agree......the two emails and i'm in attitude is driving us mad. we have sifted through guys for months now and find that the vast majority are unable to behave in way thats appropriate when dealing with a "lady"..........enjoying sex in whatever form does not make a woman into anything other than the lady she should be treated as........guys. put every woman on a pedestal. treat her properly. say the right things and behave in the right way and we'd consider you as a candidate all the sooner.... to those who type "one handed", stop what you are doing with the other hand and think a little.... and if you make and arrangement or undertake to chat further/send pics/meet or whatever, for gods sake have the decency to follow through! oh and the girls and women....whether single, girlfriend or wife, who have taken and posted photos, really do deserve to see something other than your dangly bit gracing your profile..........we are after men, not sniggering little boys.

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16 years ago

Hey Sam I get what your saying and don't know what all the fuss about.Goodluck

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16 years ago

Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Hey funloving, yes I can understand because as the saying goes "Behind very useful male" lol. I am really just a puppet on this thing and it is driven with 100% female needs and musts. She has 1000 musts, her needs are first, she gets the first cum right and after all her needs are met, then I can start looking after mine. So although it may have had a one way male spin on it, I can say I am last on the list of my needs. I trawl the emails then call her to to approve further contact and once that happens she starts with her list etc It wasn't an ad but posted in hoping to streamline responses, make our emails and trying to find someone a little less hassle free. Don't get me wrong, there is nice people on here but I think if some went another way about it (if they really are genuine) then this might? save us all time and not let them feel they are being messed around. Although we are a couple, we can only have one captain, rest are deckhands :-) Sam and Jane I honestly did love your Post...was just concerned with that line...if you can get where I am coming from as a female. Hope you and your wife find lots of fun on here and never settle for less. xFunlovingx

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