M51 F47
Men of Brisbane
February 19 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Dont think your contacting the right ppl. If offer still there I am not "too busy" or "Swamped" lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry to hear your problems, I'm like you and would of dropped anything to be with a nice lady
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RHP User
16 years ago
just maybe other people aren't as interested in you as you are in yourself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sometimes people do have other commitments. Maybe it was just bad timing with the two guys you mention. You have already had several other offers in this post. I'm wondering whether you are going to take them up on it, or are they 'not your (or her) type'. Too many on here ignore the offers that are genuine.Sexyminx4u Thanks for the giggle. Must say you are a damn fine speciman yourself. Wonders if your comment means you have a more relaxed attitude yourself. Pity you are so far away.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is travelling 70 km for a meet and greet smell of desparation? Well it was well worth it. Plus she is into playing only right now so the distance makes her safe. I am very interested in couples int. Y but turning up as a single guy I think would be intimidating. I want to walk on the wildside of life any suggestions.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Could be the old line, but some have standards they live by and are not interested married women. I know I only want to see unattached women, call me old fashioned, call me crazy but I have ethics which I live by.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Because you don't say that you are looking for guys in your profile !
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok, two theory's from me after reading this and really giving it some thought, First one...Not that I am not interested in any of this, but I tend not to spend a heck of a lot of time messaging or chatting or any of that, perhaps some of the males Andy mentions here would be more comfortable with accepting an invitation if I made more effort to contact them myself, I know that if I hear only from one half of a couple then I am not very comfortable until I have heard from the other. Second one...Maybe they just are not into me! Sexyminx, you could be right you know, so thank yo for your deep insight into matter, taken on board but I am wondering, you keep popping up now quick to insult Andy, is your problem with us both or just him? Thank you o those here that have shown interest, I will take a look at profiles and be intouch. Sweetie, thanks for your offer of referral, will contact you too :)I know we do not say we are looking for men in our profile but if we do contact a male we will explain why. Old fashioned men on RHP with ethics and standards...I expect ethics and standards from anyone we play with and we only contact men that are looking for couples. If the men we speak of are not interested, I can handle rejection and would rather they just say so, no harm done. xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
I often get messaged by both parties of a couple and I can honestly say that the outcome of my response is no different, the wording maybe, but not the outcome. Maybe they just do have stuff on that night? Good luck on the search
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, it just doesn't make any sense at all to me, Sal... Andy... you are talking to the wrong sort of guy obviously... what you want are men. Horny men. Hugs Gaz xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
You've contacted 2 guys and been knocked back and now all of a sudden...its ALL Brisbane guys???If you want single guys...or married guys even...then put it on your profile...even if its just until the party.I wish you good luck in your search...but please don't judge all Brissy guys but the few you have contacted.And as someone else mentioned...perhaps they just aren't interested in banging some other guys wife??JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy is not talking about sending of a random message to someone we do not know. He means he contacted two men that we have met and have shown us interested but we just can not seem to pin down to a time to meet......this is why I say I would rather they were straight up and told us they are not keen, I have thick, yet supple and extremely smooth skin.....LOl.Not to lump all men in the same box but I (and I speak for myself only) am interested to hear from the men here and what it is they like and expect from a couple. Women have told us they do not want to be treated like a sex toy, they like to feel like a valued human, not just there to fulfill a fantasy for someone else. Do men feel the same way? Is there a great assumption that has been made that all men will drop anything for a root and do not need to be given the same, time, courtesy or understanding that a woman likes to have?You see, I am not interest in just being banged by some other guy...meaningless sex is just not my thing, but new experiences and getting to meet some really cool people along the way are.xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't take it personally... because I obviously don't know you. lol But the generalisation that all single males walk around all day with a big fat looking for a hole to shove it in at any cost is a bit unfair... and frankly, a bit insulting. Speaking for myself, I'm very selective and like to choose my girls rather than be chosen. Sounds like I'm full of myself, but I can assure you I'm not. The attitude that some women/couples have that by simply messaging a single guy on this site is automatically gonna get them laid is ridiculous. You reckon single guys take rejection hard? Man... you should hear some woman and couples carry on when you reject them!! lol. It's not pretty. There are plenty of pest couples on this site who harass single males but they don’t seem to get the same amount of press that the single males do... For some reason it’s taboo to say anything bad about couples... yet its open slather on single males?? As single males we're always getting told to "suck it up", "Man up", "Deal with it" and blah blah... After reading this thread, it would appear that similar phrases also apply to women and couples...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting from one of your other posts, "The problem is Sal is very fussy and we really don't play as much as people might thing. BUT if she play with a guy and he blows after six minutes then that's it, friends or not. You don't make her cum you're off the Christmas Card list." Well I think comments like this may be ceating some of your problems, you're automatically putting pressure on guys b4 you even start and you are portraying them as purely sex objects. Basically if they dont live up to Sal's standards then you can fuck off. And this one, " One occasion me and a tri-athlete and member of RHP (i can give you his details ladies) he and I worked on Sal for nearly two hours. He lost two kilos in sweat that night but we were all satisfied with the outcome." Now I dont know about the rest of you but I wouldn't bother trying for 2 hours to get someone elses wife to cum unless I was getting the same luvin in return. Nothing said about that so automatic thought "high maintenance" and no return favours,stay away from it. We met a single guy awhile back, he was that nervous(first couple meeting for him) that he dry reached in the shower when getting ready to come out and meet us. Well he pushed through it and showed up, glad he did.We had a great night. So Sal as you said maybe a bit of time,understanding and courtesy towards the men as you would towards the women is the way to go. Now I'm sure that most of your posts are a bit of tonuge in cheek but there's a lot out there that wont view it that way. None of the above is having a go at you in any way but just how your comments are viewed by people. Mr pip
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ridge, you have read this forum and responded to my questions with as usual a balanced, level headed response without offending, we had another male too that responded but in a personal message as he did not want backlash for his opinions. Which shows the forums are failing and it is a shame that people can not express their feelings for fear of judgement and a public bollocking from the other readers. I am interested that we have had a more positive response from the males here than we have from women or those in couples. I wonder why that is? I can assure you 99% of Andy's posts are tongue in cheek and it would be a shame to think we have to check ourselves and be something we are not to please the masses. Andy is in two minds now as to if he even wants to continue to post here anymore.....Mr Pip, perhaps you are right, in which case it is us looking in the wrong places isn't it? Really, I would take Sexyminx and her opinions more seriously if I did not believe she was posting them just to be a bitch. She seems to have a problem with us from the get go and I am not quite sure why as we have never met or spoken or exchanged banter in the forums until one day when we sent her a message to say hello and she abused and blocked us. Now she just pops up from time to time says something nasty and unsubstantiated and then goes away. xxSalina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry if that offended you... It wasn't meant too. It's just tough being single male scum on here and being tarred with a brush.. I know you and Andy are pretty cool. I've read enough if your posts to realise that.. Apologies if that came out the wrong way...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nah Sal.. Sex toy is fine. Yep. I'm good with being treated like sex toy. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Andy.. keep posting bro. I love your work. If some people misunderstand you then that's awwwright. My favourite Oscar Wilde quote springs to mind "To be great is to be misunderstood." As for sexyminx... "Always forgive your enemies. Nothing annoys them so much" As for why you should stick around..... "the only thing to do with advice is pass it on. It's of no use to oneself". As for why I'm saying this... "My own business always bores me to death. I prefer other people's" hehe Bottoms up Stalkybot
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RHP User
16 years ago
I hear you guys, try and get guys to come along to a swingers party, i booked about 10 and i am lucky if 4 turn up. I think they are all scared..lol but i dont know what of Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
There's quite a backlash against swingers in these forums!I think i can see why- Sal and Andy- you guys are sexy,intelligent and fun.Worst of all you look.............happy!Love Mrs Birdxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
a) Intimidated by the unfamiliar.... and b) fear of non-performance caused by the anxt resulting from a). Someone said in a post yesterday that the fuck showed up and then was so nervious he spewed up in their shower! I mean, wow... hand around the valium! Swingers are regular people... who like to root around... Lack of familiarity is the issue here... Maybe more meet and greet nights without the expectation of sex are the order of the day. Why not host one every now and again, Leesa so people can see what your place is like, for example. I mena, how many people do you see on your security camera turn up in their car and then sit in the carpark.. too scared to come in? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have done that stalky..and they still dont turn up. I do everything i can to make sure they are aware that they dont have to have sex if they come And those that do attend, become members instantly as they love it and think it is awesome. The last time we did a no sex on venue party ( no sex till midnight)lol, everyone could not wait till midnight and they were like naughty school kids fucking in the toilets..pmsl. That was a while ago and maybe we should do it again, it seemed to make the night hotter for some...lol Single guys get a bad wrap, our single guy members are awesome and so are all the guys that take the plunge to attend. We dont ever have trouble with them and they are just as scared as couples or single ladies. So everyone, be nice to them, they are just as scared as you were when you first attended a swingers party. Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
there ARE alot of "talkers" on here.....but that doesn't mean that all swingers are all talk.Some people REALLY DO have busy lives...and can't just "slot in" to fit other peoples' schedules.And some are too nice to say..."yanno what? you're too fucking high maintenance"....or...."you're not that good a root".Sure...it's annoying....but meh...no point making an issue of it....just put them on your black list and move on.All I would have to say though is if you're gonna put so many expectations on a guy....you would wanna be the fuck of the century.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was serious with what I wrote. I do value your opinion. Do not think I was being a smartarse.xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
I do not have grand expectations at all....I am aware of the things Andy said about people being off my list and the hours it took to get me off etc......He was joking...well the boys were at it for a while but that particular man we ran into the other night, and his memories so he says all seem to be fond, he had a sense of humour too, hence the high five.Andy does not speak for me, nor do I for him. If people do view what he said as from my mouth then that is our bad and to all you guys out there, I really am not that scary, in fact I am a little bit shy, I worry too much about what other people think, and I am easily hurt when I realise I have done something to upset someone or when people upset me. If I am such a challenge to get off then it is probably because I am a little nervous.xx Salina
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sal, I am sure you have done nothing to upset anyone honey. Next time you have the urge ask me...i have a little black book of "dont bother with" and they are the ones that wont turn up. And then there is the list of those wonderful guys that will and give nice messages to say when something comes up and they cant make it to the club. See me i will point you in the right direction..lol Kisses Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
My previous post was not aimed at you in particular...as I too have had meet and greets where lots say they are coming but few actually show up.I prefer now to meet at CI so then if they don't show...I know Im still gonna have a great night.The written forum is not good for conveying sarcasm and tongue in cheek humour...unless you put a big LOL at the end...even then...sometimes things just don't come across as we intend them to.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agreed, If you guys are happy then the rest isn;t an issue. Main thing is you are both comfortable with it. ... :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I spose there are a lot of guys who are just too chicken to actually act on what they "set out " to do. You need to find the right single Brissy Guy!
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RHP User
16 years ago
im keen :) put me on the list
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RHP User
16 years ago
message us sal
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sal...im a single brissy guy..and not all of us are "all talk"...the bad 1ns ruin it for the good guys..ive been here on r.h.p 4 nearlly 4 years and met and shagged no 1..it isnt from lack of trying..same women,everyday...yet none are interested..anyhow..long story short i am keen to help you on your birthday quest..i also have friends that will attend aswell..have a look see at my profile and perhaps we can get the ball rolling...good luck and hope you find what your looking 4....GUYS OF BRISBANE HANG YOUR HEAD...what r we on red hot pie for??????
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