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Men and Games they play.

January 22 2010

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Why do blokes feel the need to play games with girls who are genuinely here for fun and actually meeting people?   I find myself sexually frustrated and mentally frustrated at the lack of guys who actually have the balls... pardon the inteneded pun, to actually show up to a date, or to make the move towards meeting when a hick has indicated she is receptive to the possibility of having earth shattering, mind blowing sex.   I have spent the last week having conversations with various guys in my area, trying to find someone to help scratch my sexual itch. It's been a while since I've had good sex with someone.   It's like trying to find a needle in a haystack... someone who will make the effort to meet with me, isn't hoping for a supermodel and is disappointed when they meet me.... ie, has a fantasy in their head's despite the fact I'm always honest about who I am, what I look like and what I'm looking for. Someone who will travel 10 or 15 kms to meet with me. Just lazy.   They cannot hold conversations that don't involve saying, hey, wanna fuck.... They don't read my profile to get an idea of what I'm looking for.... They don't bother to reply to messages I have sent. They think they must be so good or awesome in the sack that I should bow down in front of them and worship their cock.   Now if you want to play naked Twister, I have 20 years of yoga to astound you with. If you want to play strip Trivial Pursuit... bring it on honey... Mensa.... If you want to have fun in and out of the sack... and I like you.... there is a fair chance we will get naked and rut like horny chimps, talk dirty and end up showering together... simple.   But I wish guys would stop complaining about the lack of girls on this site who never actually meet anyone. There are plenty of hot, horny girls who are out there and looking. We just choose to keep our private lives private and don't put it out there so much.   What do you think...

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I feel your pain and I agree....I'm 24 and have already discovered this and am over the games they play so i just don't play and it sucks, i should be having the time of my life. I am confident in every aspect of my life apart from guys and have no idea what goes on in their head! I dont feel that i should give up but I have as I hate games. But who knows, Im 'little miss optimism' never know if a nice decent guy is around the corner :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm with you girls!!   What's wrong with the lads in Palmerston and Albany??!! Stop pulling you pud and get amongst it boys... you have two sexy gals who are chomping at the bit! Geezz!   Don't make me come over there and do it myself!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have met up with a few, it is a high ratio of time wasting in between though.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It's gonna be a big suitcase, because I've been to both places (never long enough to play mind games) and one is frickin hot and the other is frickin cold.  One has crocs, the other sharks - but with local knowledge and guides on our side.....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Afteer extensive research ad discussion I have come to the conclusion that there are various kinds of men on this site....   a) men that talk about doing it b) men that do it and then talk about it c) men that do it and talk about everything else. d) men who do it and are completely inarticulate, can't spell and have poor grammer but dont give a shit about that useless crap.   So... what was it exactly you were looking for? Maybe I could broker a deal. I mean, I'm trying to bone up my pimping skills and often find myself sandwiched.. errrr.. I mean tangled up... errr... I mean helping resolve lover's tiffs.. 'cause that's the kind of caring egocentric narcissist that I am. :p   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    and age doesn't discriminate - its across the board - older men are no better - always keeping their options open! Just in case something better tickles their fancy!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Jinxy.. sorry to be a fly in the ol' whinge ointment... but your profile says "sngle guys dont bother" etc.... so frankly, is it any wonder why you're complaining? All the decent men are doing exactly what you have requested of them and are ignoring you... right? HUgs Stalky   Quoting 'jinxypussycat' I feel your pain and I agree....I'm 24 and have already discovered this and am over the games they play so i just don't play and it sucks, i should be having the time of my life. I am confident in every aspect of my life apart from guys and have no idea what goes on in their head! I dont feel that i should give up but I have as I hate games. But who knows, Im 'little miss optimism' never know if a nice decent guy is around the corner :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    *rofl* - So articulate.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Afteer extensive research ad discussion I have come to the conclusion that there are various kinds of men on this site....   a) men that talk about doing it b) men that do it and then talk about it c) men that do it and talk about everything else. d) men who do it and are completely inarticulate, can't spell and have poor grammer but dont give a shit about that useless crap.   So... what was it exactly you were looking for? Maybe I could broker a deal. I mean, I'm trying to bone up my pimping skills and often find myself sandwiched.. errrr.. I mean tangled up... errr... I mean helping resolve lover's tiffs.. 'cause that's the kind of caring egocentric narcissist that I am. :p   Hugs Stalky   a)  men that talk about doing it....keeping their options open...just in case yaknow, something better comes along b)  men that do it then talk about it...who just really want to see if your a good lay before investing anything of themselves in you c)  men that do it and talk about everything else...classic no-strings-attached booty call d)  men who do it and who are completely inarticulate...but don't give a shit...they might hold the goods in the sack but don't inspire girls to grab them   I did spy with my little eye that you left off option e)    it's like spotting a rare kind of bird...   I think I'll  just have to settle for interstate lust....I always want what I can't have...and don't want what I can have   Jx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ridge, Stalky and Jean_Girard are on the move... Twelve months of fruit pickin, shiela shaggin madness!   Ladies... The RHP Caravan of Luuurve is coming to a town near YOU..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Jinxy.. sorry to be a fly in the ol' whinge ointment... but your profile says "sngle guys dont bother" etc.... so frankly, is it any wonder why you're complaining? All the decent men are doing exactly what you have requested of them and are ignoring you... right? HUgs Stalky   She doesn't stop at just "Single guys don't bother"... She really lays the slipper in doesn't she!!! Wow!!. I'm not sure the caravan's gonna stop in Albany after reading that!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    How many times do women bitch and moan about this issue?? Have you not heard the expression "once bitten, twice shy"?????   No wonder men aren't rushing to meet women who sound like they need a counsellor, rather than a Fuck Buddy/FWB/Boyfriend.......if men don't turn up when they say they will....BANG....delete them and move on. Whinging on here isn't much of a turn on women!!!   Or you could give them a dose of their own medicine....which would be quite funny!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Leftovers Trish?? OUCH... I prefer "seasoned players".... its so much more appropriate. :p    Hugs Stalky<<< blows kiss to self in mirror.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Ridge_Forester' Ridge, Stalky and Jean_Girard are on the move... Twelve months of fruit pickin, shiela shaggin madness!   Ladies... The RHP Caravan of Luuurve is coming to a town near YOU..   All righty - I'm ditching working on the Datto and installing some heavy duty suspension in the caravan... that caravan won't know what hit it. and hit itand hit it and hit it and hit it and hit it again.   It's a community service... Ruddy should sponsor this.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    n response to Stalky: Ive written 'single men don't bother' cos they DO bother and message anyway.....just hate opening my inbox and have like 50 messages a day saying the same inarticulate boring stuff over and over...need some mental stimulation other than 'hey baby, you hot, do me' it's just lame! P.s tag teaming "bitches" probs wont get you very far! But i guess some guys like bitches...whatever makes it easier for you!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lmfao Trish... .... all that aluminium spit spit spit... hehe... errrr..... Well of course I'm blushing now.... I really don't know what you are talking about or ... errrr... who could have started the rumour of my incredibly dexterous tongue... hehe.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    More then happy to meet, chat & whatever else, just no head games, except the fun type ( you know in the bedroom ), lol!! Have tried many times to contact you & get no responce, they are good & genuine guys out there. Sometimes you just have to talk back too.    Q ps would be more then happy to come down to Albany for a fun w/end.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    OMFG Trish... how many times have I said that it's not the size that matters....it's how you use it... lolz. You of all people should know this already!... and ummm.. :P  There, see!    Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hang on trish!!!  My Jack russell ain't no bitch!  He did lose his nuts at age 3....And likes to hump other male dogs..ohhh..and if ya in my house and sitting on my living room rug ( has japanese style livingroom)..then he is highly likely to come and try to root ya arm....Only men thnough...dunno why he does that :)   awwww...crap!  forgot to tell Mikle who is on his way here soon..To take me out dancin..pmsl     silly kisses   sweetpetite41

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Bang, move on.......is the solution - doesn't solve the issue! Mind you at 28, I never had that problem bees to the honeypot!!!!.........rolflmaoooo

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    and people usually do.   Cynical... the thing is I usually do block, delete, etc.... but there are still stupid women out there who pander and put up with this sort of behaviour. So men get the idea that treating a women like shit is acceptable. That manners don't mean bullshit... well if thats how women want men to behave and treat them, then I may as well dig a deep hole and not even bother....   I guess I am just looking for someone who is willing to do what they say they want to do. I'm not a frigid bitch, or an ice princess, just a chick that doesn't like being used.   If ya want a one timer, cool, be honest, if ya want to be FWB then say that at some point, but don't throw it out there and not mean it because you think you won't get a shag.   I appreciate honesty.   I also appreciate a contact number from guys who want to shag with me. Not endless email ping pong.   Ridge.... I'm here and waiting babe.... always like a man who can use his tongue for more than pleasure....   Stalky, your a naughty, naughty boy...bend over and prepare to be spanked.   DRJG.... old man emu suspension is apparently the best a man can get....at least up here...lol.... and the wet season is almost over.....bring on the dry....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Awwwhh Ok Jinxy.. you're absolutely right. I meant to say "spit roast". Well at least Frack_Me seems to have devised a suitable punishment and I am vewy vewy sorry if I caused you any twuble. :p    Jean, get the van ready.... wooohoo Road trip, Ridge.. .we're going to get a spanking!!!   Hugs Stalkyboy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Im loving your attitude there Frack... well there will be three of us.. so I suppose you better keep all those options open... Not sure exactly which way Doc Jean leans.. but I have my suspicions that Ridge is a whip man... I mean look at that grin. :p   Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    goodness me... and call me too serious for all the fun that everyone is having on this post (which I love, you guys are funny fukrs lol)... but CHRIST! when did having sex with a girl become treating her like shit?????????? I hate hate hate all over this idea... Women can only be treated like shit if they let themselves be treated like shit. FFS... women... wake the fuck up... it's called self-determination (the power or ability to make a decision for oneself without influence from outside)You girls have all fought for equal rights... it annoys me no end when the only equality you all seem to want is the equality that suits you at the time!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Frack_Me'   Ridge.... I'm here and waiting babe.... always like a man who can use his tongue for more than pleasure....   Stalky, your a naughty, naughty boy...bend over and prepare to be spanked.   DRJG.... old man emu suspension is apparently the best a man can get....at least up here...lol.... and the wet season is almost over.....bring on the dry.... We don't need to be told twice boys...   Jean, how's that suspension coming along? Something about and old man and an emu... Sounds kinky.   Sounds like you're in a little bit of trouble Stalky...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Soph, social interaction always involves manipulating the senses, the opinions and the will of others by one means or another, by assertion or by co-ersion that's how people get their way. Self-determination is all well and good.... but we are, all of us, susceptible to these external forces even though we may not like to admit it. We may like to say we're NSA yet we all have our strings waiting to be pulled. lmfao... And as I see it, women are all about strings.... if a guy pulls the wrong string her legs will slam shut faster than the doors on a Death Star... hehe. Seems to me that guy's strings are usually buzz cut and so considerably less tangled. Our buttons are easier to press.. our strings are easier to pull. And there's plenty of influence from the outside for everyone..... our decisions are influenced by all kinds of things, not only by other people.. by our environment or whatever it is, your particular set of influences are what make you unique....   For these reasons, it's not true that the stuff a woman has no control over is all of the stuff that the responsibility for which she has relinquished. And rest assured that men are manipulative mongrels, some more so than others.... But as you are fully aware, this is not a trait that is limited to my gender.   Seriously, the games men play to get their way..... are the same games women play except that women are obviously much more adept than is Stalky.     Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Instead, I support the emancipation of men from the clutches of all things matriarchal... Free range men. It's the way we were meant to be. Isnt that right Ridge. Ridge? Are you there buddy? Whitey?   Hugs Stalky<<< thinks Whitehawk too long for a name and from here on in shall refer to him as "Milky".

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Ridge_Forester'   She doesn't stop at just "Single guys don't bother"... She really lays the slipper in doesn't she!!! Wow!!. I'm not sure the caravan's gonna stop in Albany after reading that! We shouldn't be so quick to re-route (although the other route is through Kalgoorlie, so I guess we should auction it off and see what sort of excitement or anger Kal has to offer).   Jinx is only knocking back single guys.  There's like umm... one, two... three..  Yep three of us.  So we're a couple... well not a couple - are we a triple?   PS - FRACK - Old Man Emu LOL... You don't know us.  Off the shelf shit isn't going to be able to cope, not even OME.  We're talking remote caninster, Paris-Dakar type suspension.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Sophie, excellent comment!   Too many people - and I am talking about both men and women here - just aren't true to themselves.  They get online in hear and portray themselves as someone who is liberated, out there so to speak.  They talk the talk, get in the flow of what is going on.  But they can't back it up in real life.  Some spend so much time online that they create a persona that they know they can't replicate in real life.  Yet they persist with this persona and eventually, they will get caught out.  Someone will call their bluff, expecting to meet that person they see online, not knowing that the person only exists in cyber space.  Then of course, these people who have created this persona blame and bitch the poor person who accepted that persona as actual!   Consider what you do online is like an advertisment for yourself.  You do the wrong add and you will attract the wrong response.  You do reap what you sow.   mooka

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Jeeese Jean... you really are a genius. I bags the middle. :p  I also love how you undermined the system there and saw a shadow of hope where we saw none. Skilled man!   I've been taking your advice.. you know... trying to humour up my posts as you recommended.. trying not to be so serious all the time. Did you see how I took that women's lib movement quip.. and coupled it with Libra... ? I mean.. the burning bra v's the Libra... was I too obvious? Maybe I need help with the delivery Doc. You don't mind if I call you Doc do you? I just noticed other people were starting to call you Doctor Jean Girard.. and ... well, I'd hate to assume too much... I kind of thought you were Prof JG actually.. or maybe even Dean? Head of School at least. OK what?   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It's not possible. Whatever you present here is still you. Whether you are being truthful or not, it is still a fragment of you that is exposed. Your lies expose you and your honesty exposes you. It's probably that when you meet someone in person you will "see" more of them... or rather sense more of them... especially if that person intentionally lets that happen by letting you in. (see my post on armour and the barriers people create around themselves).   Here on line you see a fragment of someone.... usually an anonymous fragment... but an actual fragment none the less. Role play here.. role play in real life... there's no difference. The purpose of actually meeting someone is to know them better... and smell their pheremones. :p An individual may not be the person you imagined them to be.. but that fragment that drove you to investigate further still exists. Well I think so... and their pheremones help you determine if that attraction is real or imagined. THat's why it is important to root first and ask questions later. :p     Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Oh I reserve my right to differ!  I have met women who have been the life of the chat room, the wittiest voice in a forum.  Yet in real life, they are like church mice, timid, afraid.  They know they can't be that person online.   I was a member of another site who use to hold regular drinks nights.  Now these drink nights were a revelation.  Only about half the people who actually turned up were in anyway like there online persona.  Yes all the classics were there: the woman who was the darling of the room, the one who was the most outlandish in chat, spent the entire evening hiding in  a corner; the guy who always talked himself up as the baddest guy in town turned out to be a little wimp.   You may be right Stalky, there is a little bit of that person in their larger than life cyber world but who the hell is going to wait for the true person to turn up.  You organise to meet them and they turn out to be totally different from what you imagine.  Would you hang around to see if they improved, would you ask them out for a second, third or fourth date, hoping they get their act together enough to open up?  If the woman you expect to meet has portrayed herself as a sex goodess yet acts like a nun on the meet, would you hang around and take that time to get to know her????

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    while I accept that people may not be exactly as they portray themselves....I dont get upset about it.What I do get upset about is guys snowing me with bullshit they think I wanna hear just so they can get a root.JUST FUCKING ASK FFS!!!I like a good fuck as much as the next girl...and if thats all you want...then say so...coz i'll prolly fuck you anyway.But dont tell me you want more...that you really like me....blah blah blah...coz i am honest...and assume you are being honest too...and when I find out you have been lying to me....and rest assured I will....I will crucify you and blacken your name to all i know.And im not even a fantastic root....so was it really worth it????Just my opinion....BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    High five to that MissBJ.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I am amazed that guys wud not show up what is wrong with them.......... A shit root is better than a good wank.... Morons lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    As always Miss BJ.. it's impossible to find fault with your line of argument. Which reminds me... exactly when is the annual general meeting of the MissBJ Fan club meeting? It must be soon!   Hugs Stalk

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    both on line and in reality.... all the fragility and crassness, the good girl and the naughty bitch, who wants respect both in the chatroom and in the bedroom.   Having manners and treating a women with the respect she deserves is not an old fashioned notion and should never be... in the same way that men deserve being treated with respect as well.   I guess i'm saying, I'm with BJ.... be honest, if a girl wants a hot shag, she's probably gonna say yes, but don't treat her like an idiot and lie to her.... like BJ I can be as nice as pie, but shit me off and I'll name and shame ya from here till armagedon.....and I'm not talking about the Bruce Willis version....   That profile is me.... those pictures are me.... I like gentleness to begin with so I get comfortable with a new man, and then I go off like a frog in a sock on a BBQ....   And Dashie.... I am no dead root..... believe me when I say it. I just choose the wrong men to waste my energy on.   You gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find the priince, right!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Frack_Me... don't get me wrong... but I read your profile... it's pretty intimidating, especially the "I'm looking for" part... I certainly am no expert... but most of your list is what I'd expect from a guy who was already completely head over heels in love with a girl... most people don't wake up in the morning saying "today I'm going to become somebody's prince or princess"... someone's love and respect is something you earn with time, not something that is automatically given to you just because you want it or think you deserve it.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Games guys play I bought a packet of soft toffee lollies... the kind I know my wife loves.... so when packing her lunch today (she works in the fashion industry ~ you should be able to tell by my clothes :p).....  I put a dozen of the toffees in a lolly bag.... and on the lollie bag I write.... "each time you eat one.. "think of my stiff cock"...   Games girls play Thanks for the lollies, Todd. (her name for my dick). I thought of you all day... and the in house model also loved them.     Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Doc Jean.... ok. I ate all the lollies myself and she made her own lunch. :p   Hugs stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Games guys play I bought a packet of soft toffee lollies... the kind I know my wife loves.... so when packing her lunch today (she works in the fashion industry ~ you should be able to tell by my clothes :p).....  I put a dozen of the toffees in a lolly bag.... and on the lollie bag I write.... "each time you eat one.. "think of my stiff cock"...   Games girls play Thanks for the lollies, Todd. (her name for my dick). I thought of you all day... and the in house model also loved them.     Hugs Stalky I don't know what's funnier, the lolly bag game or a dick named Todd.   Or that you ate them and spent all day thinking of your stiff cock. An engorging read!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Actually Miss_spelled... I was fine with her profile up until I read the part that says: "If you dont hog the bed or are willing to sleep in the wet patch." Now..... that's just too much to ask. I mean, I know Frack is looking pretty hot these days but c'mon really... Intimidating? ... I mean no guy without a gun to his head would do that!    Hugs Stalky Quoting 'miss_spelled'Frack_Me... don't get me wrong... but I read your profile... it's pretty intimidating, especially the "I'm looking for" part... I certainly am no expert... but most of your list is what I'd expect from a guy who was already completely head over heels in love with a girl... most people don't wake up in the morning saying "today I'm going to become somebody's prince or princess"... someone's love and respect is something you earn with time, not something that is automatically given to you just because you want it or think you deserve it.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I actually think Frack's "looking for" section is excellent.The guy has to know what he's getting himself into doesnt he??If he doesnt want those things...then he can leave.I tell guys that I want the whole shebang...marriage...children...security...love.If they willing to even consider any of that...then thats cool...but they arent for me.I personally think too many people are waiting for someone better to come along...instead of trying to BE someone better.Just my opinion...BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Most entertaining.... ...I think we can turn this into a mini series. Where's Jean and his camera?

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I was intrigued. My attention was briefly kept. Even had a light giggle at your puns. And although you may have valid frustrations my dear... your post was cast an eeire shadow upon your wording, "scratch my sexual itch".   ps- men are silly creatures.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    And the first AGM of the MissBJ fan club is on Valentine's Day...and woe betide any man that turns up without a block of club dark chocolate with roast almonds and a bottle of smirnoff vanilla vodka.Dont worry...I'll bring the coke zero...and the mouth...lmao!BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have a solution...All the women who are complaining about guys move to Newcastle and set up a time with me. I will do what I say, wont stand you up and wont stuff you around. Like most people I have times that i am not available due to work commitments etc but that is pretty standard. I don't think I'm gods gift but I do know what I'm about and I certainly am better than average. I have about 300 messages sent on here that have not been answered. Some to women who complain that they cannot find a decent guy to meet. The 2 women I have met on here both reckoned I would have others lined up wanting me so go figure.Jinxy the reason you get so many boring responses is that guys are sick of making the effort spending 15 minutes writing a messsage when chances are it wont even be responded to. Better to write something shorter that if the woman is polite and even the least bit receptive she will respond. That doesn't mean something crude and rude either. Then you write a more substantial message the next time. That and about 70% of womens profiles are just done with the profile builder so you can't tell much about them to comment on.Think I've had almost as many webcam girls respond to me as actual real ones on here.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Depends on my mood or what i have drunk i could be on Pluto !! I do know that you've gotto walk the walk..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'lovenlust72' ...Jinxy the reason you get so many boring responses is that guys are sick of making the effort spending 15 minutes writing a messsage when chances are it wont even be responded to. Better to write something shorter that if the woman is polite and even the least bit receptive she will respond. That doesn't mean something crude and rude either. Then you write a more substantial message the next time. That and about 70% of womens profiles are just done with the profile builder so you can't tell much about them to comment on.Ya reckon...and ya've sent 300 emails ya say...15 min per email...let me see....punches fingers on calculator...that's only...tap, tap, tap..... 75 hours...actually i cheated...i did it in me head...hehe...now, not sure who ya targeting...but i only target someone who i would like to know out of the bedroom...as fcuking is only 10%..errr...25%...err...75%...errr...ok, ok...99% of the fun....giggling...now, which figure do ya believe...cheersjose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hello all,, after reading men and the games they play i was moved enough to try and chat to a few of the woman respondents I tried to chat with at least 5 of the women that were on line at the time and guess what? 4 women never responded at all,,,not even a negative response or any response at all,,,but not to lose hope 1 woman out there did and did so immediately she proves to me that regardless of how many chances you take, no matter how many knockbacks you get it is always worth pursueing your dreams,,,fantasies and needs,,,, guys her profile name is onebrightstar,,,so guys here is someone who is real and honest so treat her with respect and at least you know when you send her a message lfirt or chat request you will definately get a response,,,,,,,,,see girls we have the same problem,,,if it's not too much to ask all we want is a response from you,,good or otherwise,,, just keeping it real,,,,,,,,,,and thanks again onebrightstar,,,,,,my faith restored,,,bren

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Brighty and Pen, underneath a tree, k. I. S. S. I. N. G! Hugs Stalky

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    16 years ago

    1 - A response rate of 20% is pretty good 2 - A response rate of 20% when you have a dick in your profile pic is very good 3 - Perhaps the other ladies were too busy to respond.  Probably chatting to that slut Stalky!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    What can I say?  I have manners   But little did I know that it was "research" that you were conducting and not a genuine interest in me.   Now, whats the title of this thread again?? :p   Cheers Jx Quoting 'penny1958'hello all,, after reading men and the games they play i was moved enough to try and chat to a few of the woman respondents I tried to chat with at least 5 of the women that were on line at the time and guess what? 4 women never responded at all,,,not even a negative response or any response at all,,,but not to lose hope 1 woman out there did and did so immediately she proves to me that regardless of how many chances you take, no matter how many knockbacks you get it is always worth pursueing your dreams,,,fantasies and needs,,,, guys her profile name is onebrightstar,,,so guys here is someone who is real and honest so treat her with respect and at least you know when you send her a message lfirt or chat request you will definately get a response,,,,,,,,,see girls we have the same problem,,,if it's not too much to ask all we want is a response from you,,good or otherwise,,, just keeping it real,,,,,,,,,,and thanks again onebrightstar,,,,,,my faith restored,,,bren

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    how the fuck can you all spend so much time waffling on ,,on the forum collum night after night ,,and still be the all night studs that you all claim to be ,,,,,[ thats both chicks and guys  ]    if you all spent as much time rooting as you do on the forums ,,,,,we d all be happy and could do away with the bullshit ,,,,,,,i read the forums regularly , and your either all superhumans ,,,or pumping up your own tyres,,,and being legends in your own minds ,,,,,,,,i think your all into cybersex  and masturbating while getting your jollies writing your opinions on this collumn,,,,,,,if thats what your all about ,,thats good and well ,,but save the games and bullshit for someone that believes it ,,,,,,,ive been on here for 6 months and can lie to every one else ,,but in the end the truth is the truth,,,,,and the chances of picking up on this sight are very slim ,,,love and licks ,,,,,,,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I c...an't type...tears...wobbly bits...jiggling merrily....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I would like to know where exactly you conducted your research??Oh...and yes....you merely proved Frack's point....the games men play.Shame on you.BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz. Lez... careful mate you'll spit your teeth out or pop an artery!  Picking up on RHP? Do people really do that? It's just too hard with all the bullshit and hoops you have to go through and then finally the dreaded meetings when someone completely different to thei rprofile shows up... or worse..forgets to show up ... Nah Les, if you want a shag.. you have to go and meet people who also want to shag.... There are plenty of them around here... but here, I just want to talk bullshit on the forums and get stalked by really creepy weirdo bigots who have obviously forgotten to take their medication! Speaking of which ... Les... How's your Blood pressure?   HUgs Stalkyboy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Les_1959'how the fuck can you all spend so much time waffling on ,,on the forum collum night after night ,,and still be the all night studs that you all claim to be ,,,,,[ thats both chicks and guys  ]    if you all spent as much time rooting as you do on the forums ,,,,,we d all be happy and could do away with the bullshit ,,,,,,,i read the forums regularly , and your either all superhumans ,,,or pumping up your own tyres,,,and being legends in your own minds ,,,,,,,,i think your all into cybersex  and masturbating while getting your jollies writing your opinions on this collumn,,,,,,,if thats what your all about ,,thats good and well ,,but save the games and bullshit for someone that believes it ,,,,,,,ive been on here for 6 months and can lie to every one else ,,but in the end the truth is the truth,,,,,and the chances of picking up on this sight are very slim ,,,love and licks ,,,,,,,, That's all a load of crap.   Oh except for the masturbation thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    guys girls and couples on here are the same   talkers and dreamers  but every now you find people you are looking for :>   like car hunting...learn to sift thru the time wasters nd talkers/pic collectors and old guys pretending to be hot 25 year old babes...lol   Dont shit can men...there are plenty of cool doods here..   we talk 1st and give proper pics so theres no scarey surprises or mis understandings ..   i think Brett and Donna said "its a numbers game"   keep trying..have fun Neo and Blaze :>

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    There is one very simple way to get around all the games, turn to the girls you wont be disappointed. If jumping right in with a girl is not for you have a bit of fun with a couple, I think there would be more couples looking for girls than guys looking for girls on here. You never know you just might get to scratch that itch over and over again lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I do not understand why as soon as a girl/women as bad experiences with guys/men they criticise all men and the whole sex.Why is there a need to say "All men"?? Have you met every single man on this planet and can say that "all men" are this way??? I have met so many girls like this but I dont see the need of criticisising all females for it. I would move on forget about it and stay positive. Just think its a pitty for all of the rest of us to be judge negatively just because you happend to have a few bad experiences. You are marketing the negative side of all us by doing this. Dont know if anyone else agrees about this but there are my thoughts!/K.H 8-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Most entertaining, I can see some valid points on both sides....   The truth is definetly the way to go....   If the truth is spoken no matter what and all the options are on the table then one can make a well informed decision about the choices they decide to take.   So if a guy says I'm after a fuck then the choice can be made, if a guy says i want regular sex with one person then the choice can be made but don't lie and say all the crap we don't need to here just because you think without your not going to get laid...   As for you boys you are as funny as fuckk...lmfao     Rish

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Be blunt Or be weak.. State yer intentions. Dont beat about the bush.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you do realise that women do this too and all the time?   I have been single for most of my life i cannot get laid or find a girl for a relationship. I am a nice person, i am not full of anger or hate, i am always helpfull with people and extremely nicely spoken in person, in fact im very shy and a soft speak, but i treat people right, ie ive had friends from school for the last 20 years and we all get along well and they see me for who i am, and NOT ONE GIRL SEES THIS. I am fit and not fat i do have a big face but im not  fat as ive been told.   this is my typical experience, i find a profile and respond to it...... i enver get a answer.  repeat and repeat and nothing, i move on find another one and another one and another one. i then get sick of the rejections and change my profile and remove my pic, now i send messages and i get replys asking for a pic, so i send a pic and i get ignored, no response and they just stop talking to me like i am NOTHING.   when and if i ever ever get as far as getting msn chats going i try really hard to let my personaility come thru and i usually get comments like, i really like the way you talk and you sound like a really nice person but  soon as they see my pic i get sorry your not my type...... and they dont even talk to me online i have to always initiate contact cos its seems so many women i speak to are speaking to many men online and im in a friggin competition wtf?  so every woman in this site has rejected me and im not anyones type.. my god WTF?   im sick of the games sick of the lies sick of the women on here with unrealistc expectaions and sick of the assholes.   so stop blaming men for the game playing cos im sick and fukin tired of getting hurt by you lot, you dont even give a fuck how nice i am nothing i say or do changes anything, and i am not about to lie just to get sex cos i dont know how to and i refuse to be a low life scum.   are there any geunine women out there that are not judgemental and do not live in a fantasy world that actualy want to meet a nice guy. FFS nice guys nver get sex and always get abuse.   why do nice guys get abuse? cos i have been called a loser and many other horrible things when i question what women want after they reject me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Have read this forum and I find it absolutely amusing. Most of the comments are so true, most of the people are on this site for, well I am not exactly sure. I think there are maybe 10% of members that truly sign up to experience fun and find what they are looking for, though I would say with full confidence that 90% of people on this site just are well putting it simply full of crap.They either blatantly have false profiles with pics that aren't theirs or completely waste your time.I have been a member for about a year now and every time I log on I die of boredom because of the absolute time wasters. The amount of females in particular that respond to messages or initiate contact and then when it comes down to meeting up disappear without further contact, it's mot funny.The way I see it, time is a commodity that is in short supply. I am married guy that is legitiamte in every aspect of my profile, fact is that there are plenty of couples that are on here that are who they say they are and do have open relationships. Honestly sites like this should be around just to make it easier to find what you and/or your partner are looking for, so you don't have to waste time going out and sifting through all the bullshit.We joined this site because we own our own company and do not have time to go to clubs and find people with similar ideals as us, it is far easier to join a site like this and find exactly what you want. But unfortunately that is not the case anymore, way too many fakes on this site.The way I see it if you have joint you are here obviously for a reason, so cut the crap, drop the act and don't waste peoples time.Seb