Men Can't Find Clit - True Story?

June 11 2023

We've wondered about the stereotype of men not being able to find a lady's clitoris. Have you experienced this problem yourself ladies, or men? - Alex.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I don’t have a clitoris so I’ve never had that problem

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    3 years ago

    Its about 50/50. Some women Ive noticed are fairly ignorant of female anatomy too 😳

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Haha no they know where it is. They just don't care 😂

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    3 years ago

    Long ago I had an impromptu fun play session with a very old mate and his wife. I went down on her and gave her a clitoral orgasm. My mate exclaimed “oh that’s where it is”, they had been married around 15 years 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Clitoris? Clitoris? Where are you? Why can I never find Clitoris?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Most know where it is, they either don't care cause it's all about them or they don't know how to work it.

  • TheMinx

    TheMinx

    3 years ago

    Lift the hood peak a boo.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Is it a case of guiding us guys ladies? My bestest oldest girlfriend (never ever kissed but have shared all our secrets forever) recently told me that her new fwb gave her, her first clit O ever and even she struggles on her own to find it. My experience with clits is that some women are super dooper sensitive there and only an ultra light touch required/liked while others really like pressure sucking etc. let us know ladies please tell us what is good for you when we are down there. Everyone is different.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Nope, I find the clit every time, regardless of its size (using the tip of my tongue) I find it instantly and start the gradual build up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    And stimulating that clitorus is all I care about, that comes way before myself

  • create4u

    create4u

    3 years ago

    I don't believe men can't find the clitoris, most just don't know how to please it.

  • Felicitous

    Felicitous

    3 years ago

    I don't think it's anatomical ignorance.... I think 'toys' have a huge part to play or not (excuse the pun) in this arena. I do think they desensitize and immediately satiate, thus the most 'experienced' would struggle to compete. However separate from that... we really are all so individual ... some prefer light touch / others 'hard fast now'. It's not so much (in my opinion) not knowing where it is ... but battling the mindfield of preferences. Perhaps an 'astute' lover may pick up and adapt to individual nuances.... but this is exactly why I prefer something 'ongoing'. Discovering the secrets to another... That is f*cking sexy.. and doesn't always happen in one night. It really depends I guess if one is contented with being a 'destination' or a 'journey' Or both 😂 why not!!?! V

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    One thing l do know , finding the clit is the easy part ' finding the right spot and applying the correct pressure is the tricky part .. But once you get there its happy days...

  • jenniecruising

    jenniecruising

    3 years ago

    I got mine pierced so no problem finding it 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    never had the problem always found it, g spot sometimes a challange

  • redhotozz

    redhotozz

    3 years ago

    Personally, i always find the clit. I am patient enough to look for it. Top of tge triangle, and you can tell by her reactions

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 years ago

    Hey there's no reason to cliticize. Maybe its outside their Cilty limits or maybe they're really rubbing women the wrong way. 😝 Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 years ago

    Confusions say: Man who can't find pussy, has dry meow meow. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    If they can't find the clit there's no hope they'll find the G spot! 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    For goodness sake ladies, just do the man thing, show it off and say look what I’ve got for you. Men, start off slow and put some time and gentle effort into it. Do what you never do driving, politely ask the woman for the best directions via the longest route 😎🌻

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Alex, my sample size is extremely limited, but I don't feel like it's that hard to find the clit, but also at least the areas where a woman experience clitoral pleasure. It just takes patience, curiosity, and attention to a woman's reaction. Also, my experience aligns with the other comments ad I have found that, while direct contact with the clit may be great as an good irregular or teasing jolt, consistent attention on areas where the clitoris receives secondary or tertiary pressure is how the orgasm builds, and often finshes, best and most enjoyably. But of course, it is very individual and I find it delicious to discover what makes a woman writhe and what she likes best.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    3 years ago

    She might not be comfortable with him just yet. To the contrary, Tara likes the idea of pressing her buttons, she has wonderful orgasms, she let’s herself go when she goes and sometimes who knows who or what exactly is any of us are up to, just in amongst it all, especially double penetration and to be honest, crossing swords with a mate and Tara carrying on actually becomes somewhat dangerous with her legs flying about, she doesn’t need them where she goes and actually knocked a mate out KO one time, he knew the risks and not paying attention, but wore it like a badge when he came to, then she squirted all over his face as I released the choke hold and timed perfectly as she had a rush of tingles from her head down throughout her body of blood flow and that was a great experience for the three of us. Tara sais it’s different every time, her orgasms, the sex, and all them buttons being pressed, When she feels comfortable, safe and wants to share herself and the entire loom of nerves from her brain down her spine and into the clitoris and branching off in clusters overseeing not just the passion, the reproductive system. To top it off, and why women are so far ahead of us blokes period. While giving birth, she shuts down most bodily functions, motor skills, feelings, speech, etc. So that she has the energy to leave by altered state of mind and joins her child in mind and comforts her child through the trauma of birth and into the dangerous world to be. While she is in altered state her clitoris for a while has to carry out the tasks at task and keep the show on the road, it’s hard wired and them nodes ? Great question Alex Mado Mado Tara xx

  • GangBangLadies

    GangBangLadies

    3 years ago

    It’s that little button you turn on like a light switch Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Hmm ok I know where it is I think it’s because of men selfish and not paying attention

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I do Yoni massage so the clitoris is by the end the golden buzzer… never missed yet

  • HeWasFierce

    HeWasFierce

    3 years ago

    I’ve never struggled to find a clit, nor do I struggle to find the urethral sponge aka the g spot, I just wish women tried as hard to find the prostate. I’d really love to be milked at least once.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    2023 Men and the Clitoris really ? Wasn’t this done to death in the 1970’s ?

  • AussieKisser

    AussieKisser

    3 years ago

    It's easy to find

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    The trope is a myth. Like someone esle said, they know where it it, but dont care.

  • 73bandit

    73bandit

    2 years ago

    If you need to read this then keep wanking.

  • AussieKisser

    AussieKisser

    2 years ago

    It's so easy to find, where as the gspot is more of a challenge but can be found if you search with you finger while stimulating the clit. Always get a good reaction too

  • SingleGuy103

    SingleGuy103

    2 years ago

    It’s always in the same spot. It’s not where’s Wally.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    That’s just bull shit. They can’t find what the don’t look for. But hey just in case they don’t know it’s in the middle of the V between your legs and at the top of the labia. You couldn’t get better directions in a Melways (or Google maps nowadays ).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I love sucking licking tickling a ladies clit till she cums, it's awesome, I can spend a lot of time on a ladies clit, I like her to have the best time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Easy to find the clit, more difficult to find the woman attatched to it.

  • goldielex

    goldielex

    2 years ago

    Are said men first timers?

  • Staples4335

    Staples4335

    2 years ago

    It's easy as to find. Little lady in the boat lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I have this problem a lot especially with small clits. Then I bought my very own clit sucker wow life has changed x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Mr here - have never had an issue finding it and its always fun seeing what works best. Although most i have encountered love being licked and sucked on, i do recall one ex girlfriend whos magic spot was actually 10-15mm above the clit, so had to work the nerve endings through the outside of the hood with your tongue. Couldnt handle having her clit licked at all

  • Onemustry

    Onemustry

    2 years ago

    personal experience men are insecure about being guided by a woman telling them how they like to be licked...porn is sometimes destructive

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    If one asks a question some vets an answer. Try working ones way around the complexities of the head of a cock for comparison, Comms is the golden key.