Meeting off RHP and girls/women in general

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I understand all too much about what you are saying as alot of guys have brought up this very subject a few times now! As everyone else would say...you have probably dodged a bullet with them girls anyway! < Can we have a sample of your messages? Are you "Wanting to meet NOW"?...or "Are you horny NOW"?....I know that I get bored with guys that only message me or text me when they are horny! Turns me right off them I have to admit! Yes, I do meet for sex...but don't want to be talking about it all the time! < Your profile reads really great by the way, although, I would get rid of the whole Canada bit as you have already been there and you're back...some might only read to the part where you say you are leaving in 2 weeks time, not read further and think "what's the use if he is leaving soon"! Don't give up hope and I wish you the best of luck xo xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yes it does depend on what you are looking for. I personally like to get to know the guys first, by message and chat. Those that after a few messages send me one that says something like......message me when you are in Sydney next and I would love to meet you.......I never respond to again. I dont want to talk about sex constantly either. Let me know about other aspects of your life. If we met in a bar you would not be telling me how and what you would like to do to me in bed......in explicit detail. Some decorum is needed even on line. Last year, on another site I tried an experiment with my age and changed it every few weeks to see which age got the best response. It turns out that my correct age (this one displayed here) got the most polite and respectful messages out of them all. Even from guys in thier 20's. It seems as if the youth of today do respect thier elders still.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I dont even write messages anymore (mostly because Im a tight bastard and havent paid) But actually I think you'd be a real hit at some of the local fuckfests. A filthy, outragously handsome skinny young fucker throwing it around at all and sundry brings back some pleasant memories of a much younger stalky. :p Maybe you're looking in all the wrong places mate and need to show up at some events with your cock out, hard and ready. hehe. Yeah.HugsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  guys who say " i want to get to know you/about you" etc etc before meeting is invariably always the message "tell my your fantasies" etc etc. boring guys! and you wonder why you dont get a reply. i also dont want to hear about the supposed hot sex you are having that night/ have just had, making a woman come all night. a nice "hi how's your day been, would you like to meet for a drink/coffee/talk" is a lot more likely to get a reply/meeting xx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  In my case the type of opneing email I enjoy responding to is a considered on showing me that my profile has been read. Chatty without being too long. A few sentences on why my profile makes you think I am someone you'd enjoy getting to know. . Think about what you want the girls you approach to be looking for - one off meetings, ongoing meetings, a form of mental connection, not care about mental connection, etc etc... Look for that in the way profiles are worded and write your intial email about that and yourself in respectful and friendly terms. It gets the conversation onto the right topic and you'll both know quite quickly if a meeting would have any potential success. . Good luck :-D

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I'm fairly disinterested in men who have nothing to say except how much they love to give oral. Normally after a few emails it may go to msn chat but if all they can talk about it sex then I lose interest and stop communicating. It's super boring. Anyway way OP your profile reads ok to me. You should post a sample email you'd send so we can give you feedback!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  For us, we really hate it when we get messages that are along the lines of "hay babes how u doin wanna meet sumtime for sum fun?"If you'd bothered to read our profile, you'd have read the bit about proper spelling/grammar being needed for a response. How are you writing your messages? We'd hazard a guess that most intelligent women like to know that the man they're corresponding with has the intelligence to use full sentences.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  lower your expectations would be my advice, esp on RHP. Painful as it is, it's a numbers game interlinked with time and place (chance). But you're out there and in here, so you've just stacked the odds in your favor by being in action about meeting a woman. Chances are it will happen. Patience is a virtue. And yeah, don't talk too much. You'll talk yourself out of sex if you don't watch out. If you want some good principals on meeting women, go to the video store and get 'Hitch' with Will Smith as the main actor. It's a fairly entertaining movie to watch anyway and I think you may get something out of it. I did.

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