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Meeting new people
June 28 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know what you mean I have friend request then when I except and send them a message they don't respond or one granted me access to private album with a message to which I replied but agin they don't reply,but finally one lady has replied and we are now texting each other and I will meet up soon so just keep trying u will find one like I did
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sending "Hi how are you" is never going to get you anywhere. This very thing was discussed in another topic recently (link below). You may want to read some of the women's responses. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Are-all-men-the-same-on-this-site-as-far-as-women-are-concerned-40483
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can I make a few suggestions? I always prefer face pics of the person smiling, so maybe you can add one to your profile. Although you get lots of points for having your face up. :) And, I think it is easier to meet people at social events. I would keep an eye on RHP events section and attending as many as you can.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with Meeka, a 'how you going" will certainly ensure you don't get a reply. It's an awful opening line. I would suggest to refer to something you read in their profile or something, or otherwise a straight down the line approach. Maybe my reasons for not replying might help, although I am not your target audience :) I state quite clearly in my profile what I want and what's important to me. If you were to say "how you going" you clearly did not read my profile. If you are outside my "target age", or in my case, a single guy, I will also not respond. Face shots are important early on, and personally I find cock/fanny shots off putting. If you send me a friend request without ever having met me, I will put you in the "weirdo" basket, and if you want my phone number before we have agreed to meet, I will stop communicating too. Its not the same for single ladies as it is for single guys and I will not give out my number unless I know all is good. What DOES make me respond? People who have clearly read my profile and are willing to send me more than a one-liner to first introduce themselves. People who say something genuine about themselves, their intentions and how I fit into that. good luck :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
and make your message specific to what she has mentioned in her profile....you need to stand out from the crowd,cos trust me there will be a queue....I imagine that Toowoomba is a very small pond so try your chances with the ladies of BrizVegas. And add a bit more to your profile,something else about you that will capture her interest,and good luck x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
....dont know if i should help actually, competition and all .....read their profile, hopefully its not a generated one, try a silly subject heading for example one lady , deep in her profile said 'call me old fashioned , but etc....' my heading to her was , hi, old fashioned....silly i know but got a response....dont talk about sex, the size of your dick whatever time and place for that, chat to the women about interesting (or randomly silly stuff, they'll apprieciate it and most will respond (also dont sit at comp for days waiting w'ere not all on here 24/7 may take days for response)....oh hi all im new to this go easy on me .....not too easy , gentles good....read their profile.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
...im not a female but wore a dress once...ok it was 6 times......ok!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agree with the above ladies, when I get a message that just says, "Hi, how are you?", or some variation, it just doesn't grab my interest and make me want to learn more about the guy. It's also not really giving us anything to work with in terms of a reply, I mean we can say, "Good thanks", and then what? I get that guys have it tough on here and if you're not a wordsmith it can be even more difficult to get women's attention. You don't have to write a novel, but you do need more than just a few words. Obviously there was something about the woman's profile that attracted you enough to write to her, so tell her what that is (obviously be careful when it comes to the physical aspects though, and don't be crude, although you come across as a guy who knows better than that). Basically make the message a bit personalised, so she knows you have actually read her profile and made sure that you - at least based on her profile content - match for what she's looking for. And I agree with Meeka about your pics, try and put one up with you smiling and looking more relaxed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Hi how are you" just doesn't cut the mustard. READ the profile and engage in conversation. And yes agree with Meeka, good show on the face pic. I just got a first message from someone who wrote "Hey, interested in taking things further?" Delete. You outnumber us dramatically on this site, make yourself stand out.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Can I make a few suggestions? I always prefer face pics of the person smiling, so maybe you can add one to your profile. Although you get lots of points for having your face up. :) And, I think it is easier to meet people at social events. I would keep an eye on RHP events section and attending as many as you can. a smile always helps but not the scary kind of smile, like if I meet his guy I could end up in plastic bags all over town just keep at it, read the forums and have fun
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RHP User
13 years ago
But can I also throw this one out there.... Profile names. The first thing you do in here, and the first point of reference (or perhaps second after whatever photo you choose to use) is the name you choose to represent yourself. Take a look through the names do many guys use and you'll see some patterns. References to their dick References to their self proclaimed sexual ability References to what they offer women.... in an almost pleading, bargaining manner. And trust me when I say it turns most women off because it's a display of self focus thats trying too hard, and smacks of ego or desperation. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its all in the first moment....."it was the best of times, it was the worst of times" You see a couple of bucksome beauties with no face picture..."Nock,Nock..hi, how are you". Could I take your boobs out for a coffee? If your head comes along, great!it'll give me some thing to talk to. I wouldn't take any no replies to personal dude, its a woman's market on RHP just look at the ratios. Meeka's right go have a night out.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Make sure you read their profile, make sure you fit the requirements, if it says I'm not interested in guys, then don't move in that direction! It shows self importance and ignorance of a girls needs. I am a stickler for grammar, make sure you spell correctly and use words in proper context, to me it shows intelligence and thought! I would answer a guy ever who can't spell basic words on their intro!! Like all the girls have said before, a nice couple of pics of you smiling will do a world of good. I don't want to see your cock, keep it in your restricted photos area.. If a girls interested she will ask for access to these photos. Good luck in your search! Keep it polite and warm and you'll do better and better.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' But can I also throw this one out there.... Profile names. The first thing you do in here, and the first point of reference (or perhaps second after whatever photo you choose to use) is the name you choose to represent yourself. Take a look through the names do many guys use and you'll see some patterns. References to their dick References to their self proclaimed sexual ability References to what they offer women.... in an almost pleading, bargaining manner. And trust me when I say it turns most women off because it's a display of self focus thats trying too hard, and smacks of ego or desperation. DG- Posted from rhpmobile ... I'm taking your advice ... I can feel a name change coming on ...
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On_Safari
13 years ago
I was thinking the same for a friend. Meeks Happy Birthday, I hope you've had a wonderful weekend. Abd isn't it anazing how some of us just keep mgetting better with age. ;-) all the best. Indy On Safari.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Hang in there, practice makes perfect.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Indy....... mind you it was almost three weeks ago now... had forgotten all about it. :)
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