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Meeting couples

April 19 2010

Guys girls and couples, Please be careful when you meet people on this site...... Hubby and i had a terrible experience in which case we nearly seperated. Hubby and i have been married and have been together for 5 years, never argue but we did all weekend. We met a person on this site on the weekend which he new, the husband.His wife took hubbys no: rang and text him numerous times over the two days asking him over for adult play alone, he refused we had her one nite on the weekend with a friend of ours and she made everyone uncomfortable..... We blocked her as so did a friend of ours after which he said. she does'nt take no for an answer and left.... He told us that she viewed him 28 times within the course of the day... Please be careful Kittycat49

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    People like that come by far too often and spoil the fun for everyone else. Best you can do is keep your e-security tight and hope for the best. Try not to let it spoil or sour your outlook on life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Oh hun..why did you and hubby argue? It's not like he contacted her...he did say no (as you pointed out) and quite basically he is not accountable for HER actions. Never let someone like that get inbetween your relationship....she would relish and be rubbing her hands in delight if she read this Forum. 76...There are not alot of people like that on this site at all...don't make it sound all negative!! You may get the odd goof ball...but I find many people are friendly and no means no...she just happened upon a nutter...unfortunately! KittyKat keep having the fun you want to have and if you are now feeling too uncomfortable may I suggest a swingers party or even RHP drinks nights? They are always fun and full of couples and you can meet in a safe environment away from home. If you would like to catch up with the couple at a later time..may I suggest what I do? Get a prepaid mobile (cheap one) and just use that for people you meet off the computer or from parties...works wonders and if a nutter does get my number...simple...I go and buy a new SIM for $2. Good luck to you both and keep enjoying xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Kittykat, That's terrible ! I hope that never happens to us but there is always a risk.... I will keep up my martial arts skills just in case ! There were lots of wonderful couples at the Melbourne Drinks Night on Friday. It's such a great way to get to know each other. I don't think there's any sure-fire way of knowing that you're not meeting a potential stalker or worse (look at what happened to Rockerfella !). Of all ups and downs of trying to find a nice couple to play with, I continue to believe they are out there... actually I KNOW they are out there... LOTS of them. Move on and meet another great couple. Pity you didn't make it down to Melbourne, I know Mr Fit and I would have had fun and we're about as sweet as they come ! xx Ms Fit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hmmm, that is one way to spoil the fun! Sorry to hear that Kitty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Guys, thankyou that was nice of you to reply, at least i know there are still good people on this site..... Hubby and i are definately coming to the next Melb gig, we missed this one due to my brother having bowel cancer couldn't go.I love melb people cause i come from there we are awesome!!!!!! Once again thanks for the support feel better now. I think we will give it a miss till we come down under and meet all of you at the next party..... Kittycat49 xxxxx