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Meeting at Lotus Club

January 21 2010

Last Saturday night my wife and I met a nice lady (Sandy?) at the Lotus club.  She took a fancy to my wife and together they had a very good time. Sandy taught my wife quite a bit about female sexuality and now my wife would like to learn more. My question is: is it appropriate for my wife to try and find this lady for another meeting away from the LOTUS Club? Or, should we just chalk this up to experience and move on to other couples. My wife really felt comfortable with this lady and her friend (Wendy?) and would like to see her again.

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I hear what you are saying about feeling comfortable. You're likely to meet some very friendly people while swinging. Once you are a regular somewhere you do keep bumping into people again and if it works again, it works but it's not kewl to become a stalker. I suggest you continue to play the field and if you run into Sandy and/or Wendy again and they're up for it... this time.. don't forget to give them your contact details. I have always found that the most unexpected people offer the most enjoyable sexual experiences.. so don't be afraid to stretch your preconcieved boundaries.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Hi BI ThaiI would think that Lotus does not control your lifestyle outside the club.If you met at a regular bar, club or social event you are not restricted to meet only at the same venue.IN my  opinion ....do as you like !!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    We think we might know her   Ahhh but soooo very many fish in the sea ..................... for you to find.   But more than appropriate you try to find her! Oh yes !   sssssshhhhhhh

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lmfao... I wondered and there could only be one like that. :p   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I am merely, here for the ride ..............................   We thought YOU would have worked out the math before thou ...... LMFAO !   My life is apartyof ........?   A very happy passanger ......... Brae   (Oh lord .... all these poor people wondering what are these total spanner heads going on about)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yeah.. lolz .. I had a hunch. You've been away on holidays Brae... so you haven't you been listening, baby... Lippy, Miss Anna Avocado and Tina the RHP resident dick tater has observed that I'm quite able organising a threesome with Me, Myself and Irene... lmfao... now... if only someone will please undo these ropes!   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What are you total spanner heads going on about??

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lol Sonsie... it's like a converation between the ridler and the joker... put your catwoman suit on and join in bebe.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If sonsies in a cat suit I wont be JOKING anymore !!!!!!!!!! tooo hot for me!!!! Ouch bebe!!!! (oh I like the purple suit)   Sonsie it was miss sarah NOT sandy at lotus! Yes yes sexy gal strikes again! I should say or I was saying , I am only her dominant handbag! (ok is that a oxymoron... I think so !)   Sarah strikes again! Brae watches from the bench smiling broadly .....mmmmmmmmm (actually I was , sitting in the spa with the other member of our wicked trio from apartyof3 ...... as a lovely subbie miss s always comes ask for permission )   For the record the lady as described above is lovely ...yummy ... delicous gal ..... Sarah had much fun! Any more and you can buy the book!   Oh now I am off to bed with the thought of delicous Sonsie in a cat suit saying Sir to me ooooooooouch ! Stalky you can watch from the corner camera in hand ...one hand! LMFAO!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Meah Brae... You may be dom to Sarah and Wendy.... but I'm my own master so IM hardly likely to do what you tell me..... and as a fully fledged and certified narssicist (ask our resident Ziggy) .... if Im holding a cam in one hand.. it would still be pointed at me.  :)   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Apologies Sahib (Stalky), I was by no means trying to infer dominance over your good self. Point well taken you are your own master. Was not my intention at all, it was an attempt (a very poor one) at humour and a bit of flirting with Sonsie, but if in anyway it was taken the wrong way, I beg your pardon.   I would only ever assume that play if requested! (I note it would not be).  It's play miss s and I love and is far from everyones taste.   Sonsie apologies to you as well if I have taken my flippant fantasy too far !   Apologies to any and all sexy swingers if you took my post the wrong way ...... YEP I truely am a spanner head! (Code for idiot !)   Brae.... now wishing for that recall button!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hey - I want to see Sonise in that cat woman suit... Brae... stop with the withdrawals/retractions... don't pull out yet...   Sonsie - my room now.. catwoman suit = mandatory   Stalky - you can have the camera in the corner... I don't care which way it's pointing or what you do with your other hands... ;-)   hehe Me thinks the weather in brisbane is getting to me head right now....   Wayne

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The camera might still be pointed at you, but where will your eyes be looking?  I'd be a little offended if you didn't at least glimpse my way ;)   Please, no need to apologise to me Brae....I took you exactly as intended :)  Although, I don't think my Master would be too happy about me calling anyone but him 'Sir' *giggle* ;) xox

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well, you learn something new everyday don't cha!  Thanks for taking the time to give me this insight into the way guys work Stalky, cause I was more than a little bit lost *blush* :)  I do sincerely hope that you too felt rewarded for your flattery which, of course, I am susceptible to and enjoy very much (I am a woman after all *giggle*).  For what it's worth though, I have my own personal landscape gardener who cuts my grass very well *hehehe* =P

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lol Sonsie... you're welcome of course... and now armed with that insight I'm sure you are quite capable of seeing Niceguy's post for what it is. You will note, that none of us appear to give a dutch oven about whether or not you already have a Master. It should now be clear to you why.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    LMAO...So many alpha males! It's actually making me seriously consider getting myself a catwoman suit...although, something tells me I'd probably be more comfortable in a wenches outfit and maybe some duct tape or rope....*giggle*

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hehe.... Ooooh you are a dirty lil pricktease, Sonsie.... that single little image will draw a whole new fleet of guys to this thread you know... each of them trying to think up unique ways to cut in.   A wenches outfit, with torn stockings no doubt... one nipple partly exposed.. helpless... bounded and gagged.. legs spread because your feet are bound to the legs of your wooden chair... hair jostled and lips ruby red.. you're blushing because you feel so exposed... ripe, wet... a cool breeze blows through an open window and that nipple goes erect.    Well, can you hear it? That's the sound of shuffling in seats... little adjustments being made to the junk in their shorts as they imagine you there exposed and vulnerable... Oh look.... it's Sydneyboy naturally, the Doc of course, Ridge, Jose.. maybe even Whitehawk... all me best mates would give it a shot... hehe... how can I grass cut to "get some of that". Nom Nom Nom...   Then there are the really nice guys.. sitting back.. thinking to themseves "if she really likes me.. she will ignore them".. well of course the nice guys have no idea.. lol... then there's the guys who think.. "nope.. that's too difficult.. I'll just watch and see if I can catch some crumbs"... hehe.... they're waiting for the video to come out...  and then of course there are the guys who think.... "I've already got my prize.. no need to get greedy".. and those are the poor suckers seeminly just waiting to get shafted by their besty.... and then there is your Master.. but meah.. we dont need to consider him in this scene! :p   hugs Stalkyboy

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Did someone mention the Professor?    Brilliant analysis Stalky... you are quite right, not only about Pavlov's menagerie but also about me readjusting myself and about everything else you raised in this thread.  We're a predictably programmed sex, and the only thing that frightens us more than a lady who has deciphered our ways is a man that has.  Especially if he looks hot in budgysmugglers.    Whilst some like to cut grass out in the open, I prefer to do it in a stealthy ninja like fashion. Sonsie - PM sent ;-)     The Devious Professor.   Ps - "Dirty lil pricktease".  lmao Stalkster - you grow my vocabulary every day!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hehe Jean.. I knew you were really a professor.. not just some professional doc! Gawddangit.. hehe Wooohoo!   And I expect you to cut grass behind our backs because, just between you and me, I always try to cut grass in stealth mode... but this time I just got sick of hearing Brae crow all the time.. the lucky bastard!! hehe.   Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Watch your apostrophes... and try to be nice...   Hugs stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ok, I usually find 'you lot' (by which I mean many present in this forum discussion) far too cliquey in these forums for my liking, which in my experience makes your public forum dialogue about as interesting as listening to a bunch of grandmas telling in-jokes on a country bus ...but ...this is one of the funniest forum discussions I've read in AGES!thanks for the belly-laughs!!!lilmiss xxx