M44
Meet first, play later.
February 16 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
'1st date, 2nd date or whatever' tells me you are only interested in one thing (not that there's anything wrong with that). I'd say 'Meet first, play later' means they aren't what you are looking for.It mean they are not a 'sure thing' and they reserve the right of refusal. That said, we've met some MFPLs and got on so well the P wasn't much Lr.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Noted, but this is not necessarily me, i asked the question purely out of curiosity, the reason is everyone has this on there status, i would be happy to wait plenty of time for the right one, but in saying that if someone was keen i would not rule that out.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It means what it says, I would like to meet you first to see if I fancy you, whether we have anything in common and whether you really are the person in the photo. If after that I feel comfortable with you then we can play. Straight away or on a second meeting.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and meet for the first time without a "guarantee". It's not always the guys that are just "a little bit" different that what you might have expected...although I do prefer to meet someplace with a bit of privacy and maybe, just maybe the option to let nature take it's course. Worse case scenario...I may just stay in the city and try my luck at the Casino. | It's all good...make the most of it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Obviously you have to meet first and play later. Obviously what is meant though is meet first, them meet again for the purpose of playing. I usually skip the formalities.... although I'm not a pushy guy at all, it makes me feel uncomfortable and I dont like being uncomfortable, and I'm not good at reading the signals either. Its a wonder I ever get laid really. :)). Don't you hate waking up in the middle of the night thinking "damn! That's what she meant!" hehe. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Basically it means ...Lets meet if your Hot we will Fuck .. But if your an ugly cunt we wont
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chilli Ban on all though the Freak part could be a hmmmmm maybe just this once
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am sure there is very few couples or single girls that would just give out there home address or hotel room number without having met the other person or couple face to face beforehand.Although the spontaneity is exiting it's also risky, potentially dangerous and could end up unnecessarily orchid. Meeting first is a necessary step for most before making further plans with some one new. The play later can be immediately after or for a later date.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
Got one of those the other day Him= Where are you? Me= Same place as yesterday working Him= I will be down your way at 3.40pm to meet at your house ( this is a guy I have never met mind you) Me= I do not take men to my house, and do you want to try a coffee in a public place first up? Him= no if you are not going to meet me at 3.40pm at your house then delete my number Me = now let me think about that one, dahhhhhhhhhhhh thinking thinking ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmm me=DONE I mean we could meet he could have a head like a robbers dog, I have breath like the robbers dogs bum and its love at first bite. Why would any woman , say yeah come bone me I want you bad baby if you have never met a person? You could end up mighty embarrasseded with your cock in your hands and neewwww you do not want to go there and then your dick shriveles up and you say, ummm sorry my mum wants me home NOW!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' Basically it means ...Lets meet if your Hot we will Fuck .. But if your an ugly cunt we wont Quoting 'ChasingChilli' Quoting 'wowwow11'But if your an ugly cunt we wont But if you're a psychiatric patient we won'tBut if you're completely boring we won't But if you're a freak we won'tBut if you stink we won'tBut if you're a creep we won'tChilli xxrules are made to be broken Apparently, none of this matters. How many times have you received a message from someone, without a profile pic, not prepared to show you a pic, &/or not even bothered with seeing your own face pic, requesting to meet for sex?...no meeting, no chat, just straight into it. I know a pic doesn't tell us if they're a schiz mix but of course appearance plays a big part in the initial attraction. I tend to think that they, to quote wowwow11, are an ugly c**t and hope to get laid just because they're on the doorstep and think we won't want to hurt their feelings. Hell, be realistic. I won't eat unless I can see the food wrapping....I'm sure the same analogy can be applied here The 'meet first' is a must, even if the 'play' is 5 minutes later.
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RHP User
14 years ago
ahhh Its Quasimodo, come for his bonk Its ok Q, I say, I am no Esmeralda and sure I would love you tie me up in the rope you bought with you, and make my bells ring. Is that prison green your wearin?, It suites your eyes. No I promise not to give you away for the reward. Sure thing hon, condoms are optional I like penicillin injections. Of course you can come quickly, not a problem at all, I will just put some eggs on to boil, you and the egg timer can go of at the same time. I kinda like the guys with no profile picture, who have the have generic In need of attention, that’s understandable as you just escaped from prison. I have a thing for guys with nick names like, all cock, big cock, giveucock,rock around the cock, and cock a doodle do me. Meeting first has the most important ingredient “ Safety first” if it feels wrong then it is wrong. Now back to the Saturday papers
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmmm, for me, it's about managing expectation. As a couple, we don't want to (and won't) meet someone with the expectation of playing the very first time we meet them.I can just imagine rocking up to a hotel bar, room booked and the Mr and Mrs we're meeting for the first time are completely different to their profile and about as exciting as cutting toe nails....awkward!Mrs Addy
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's like a Quality Assurance check. If the QA is up to standard (on both sides) you might go ahead. Then comes the QC, which may result in NSA or FWB.feeling very abbreviated tonight...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just like going to a restaurant, you may think the menu is sensational but no doubt there are dishes on the menu that aren't quite to your taste...therefore you don't order them, there is the option of saying 'not for me'. Enjoy reading all your thoughts regularly, thought it may be time I contributed. Cheers
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RHP User
14 years ago
Pretty much what InAdditionTo and Prurient said. It always nice to meet first on neutral ground and make sure that they are what you are looking for, but also you are what they are looking for! You (and also the other party!) can then make a more informed decision and either not take it further, arrange a future play meet or if things go real well, find a place to play a.s.a.p! That is pretty much what meet first, play later means to us.
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