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Medals of dishnour or leaving your mark?
April 26 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's something a lover asks me to do,I do not leave the little mrks of passion..However I love to feel and see those little purple pansies blooming on my pale skin xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' It's something a lover asks me to do,I do not leave the little mrks of passion..However I love to feel and see those little purple pansies blooming on my pale skin xxFreya I can imagine that would be quite a beautiful sight Freya :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can bring back fairly intense memories and feelings. However I think its in bad taste if its not under some controlled fun. I wouldnt be happy if that happened to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' Can bring back fairly intense memories and feelings. However I think its in bad taste if its not under some controlled fun. I wouldnt be happy if that happened to me. Yes the memories were pretty intense but after I got over the pain it did make me smile a lot - certainly a welcome distraction from work Nice that you're so thoughtful though about leaving your own marks.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Stopped seeing a long term occasional lover because she actually bit Him so hard she drew blood..I think like most things it has to be mutual...some people don't want to be spanked or spank..others love it..some people don't like to bite or scratch but they like having it done to them...there has to be some agreement ,the excuse of spontaneity is just not good enough imo...it's selfish xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Love to nibble and bite sometimes, depending on the moment, but not to hurt, my skin does mark easily and I thought I had been left with a lust bite.... Not the case, I wouldn't mind in a discreet place, if the passion was there, just as long as it doesn't resemble a slab of steak...
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horneycouplewa
11 years ago
With a whoopsie remarks it makes me wonder if it was a vindictive symbol. I personally don't like them in an obvious spot even fom my husband and he sometimes in night of passion will leave a bite on my neck in full view ugh. He also at some stage asked me to scratch his bback as he thrusts but I would never do it so hard to draw blood or create pain. Mystery to me, lucky she didn't have a whip lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've never had a lover turn up with wounds inflicted by someone else, but I don't think I'd really care. I don't like being marked myself and I do tell the men I see this. I kinda happens a fair bit by accident though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have a lover like this, when he first did it years ago I was surprised by the bruising and he made that exclamation that he had marked me as his. I remember back then when I had a few men on the go I didnt know how I would explain Then again he likes it handsy and its always full on and intense with him....its a naughty play
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe she thought you were lightscratcher ? The whoopsie reply..she taking the piss or something? Id whoopsie my key up her car for that shit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It sounds like a style/type of branding she has left to warn others that she has either been there or to warn others that your branded and now belong to her....
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is nothing better than receiving a selfie several days after showing the evidence of a previous entanglement... provided they were welcomed by the recipient...
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RHP User
11 years ago
nearly had my bottom lip bitten off still a scar inside my lip and it fucking hurt not cool . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Unfortunately there is no ref blowing the whistle if there's dangerous play. Only the players can call foul if it gets too rough. I'm particular of soccer referreeing in that decisions are made on the pitch and the game is played based on those decisions. It's not fair to blame someone after the match if you did not voice your opinion during the match. My guess is you liked it so don't be a sore loser and complain about the game afterwards. "Woopsie" is a fair acknowledge given you had no objections at the time :p What should she be sorry that you thoroughly enjoyed yourself :p And maybe the reverse is said that if she enjoyed you pounded her so hard that she could not walk the next day, is it your place to be appologetic (maybe compassionate but not sorry :p ). But saying that, I would suggest more lube if that was the case :p Plus I'm personally not into anything damaging. There are just too many delicate sensations to enjoy that get lost with the pain of something hard enough to leave a mark.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some rather confronting.... things.... can occur in the heat and heights of passion. Ive been there..... as have many others Im certain. Scratched, bitten, slapped, kicked, toe-nail-scraped... flooded and nearly drowned ..... things sometimes happen when people freely express their sexual state.... as they should be encouraged to do so. And not all all after-effects can be seen. Ive had my share of super-sore abs and hamstrings from being tensed and tortured with pleasure that had me writing and contracted for long periods. And ladies of RHP can verify post-pleasurable sensations such as tenderness, wobbly legs, dehydration headaches etc. Sure..... being clawed like a scratching post may not be your 'thing'....... but...... you can take a pretty hefty portion of the blame for it...... ..... because you made her feel that way, you gave her opportunity to express herself that way...... and it doesnt seem like you stopped her. Im not really that keen on calling it a "badge of honour"..... only because that sounds a bit like the process of sharing or bragging..... and runs contrary to peoples promotions of being discrete/discreet. A badge of honour ..... unless you share the story of your symptms... who's to know?! I guess...... my take on the topic is....... please dont intentionally mark me unless I say its OKplease have a little bit of discretion to keep your private life and its effects, private unless we choose to share it.
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Hottie1
11 years ago
I have left a mark here or there unintentionally 😇. I try to be careful but what can I say, I'm also a hot, passionate woman. If the going is good, I can get carried away ..... 💋 Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
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RHP User
11 years ago
I cannot imagine anything worse, and I do not need a 'human' playmate to leave me looking like the cats scratching pad. And if any 'playmate' of mine (not that I'm inundated with playmates, but that is another story.) turned up on my doorstep in such a state, I'd sit them down and see if they had domestic violence issues they wished to discuss...... For the record, I have three cats that I can hire out for a very reasonable fee that perform this strain of S&M. You get a win win situation here. They'll do exactly as instructed, won't argue and harangue you the next morning when you're trying to get out the door, nor will they endlessly act out when you don't offer them a second 'hook-up.'.....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79'there has to be some agreement ,the excuse of spontaneity is just not good enough imo...it's selfish xxFreya Fair enough - it really surprised me at the time but post the event I kind of like that she just went for it - spontaneity can be a two-edged sword but sometimes the risk is worth it
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'treegirl' Love to nibble and bite sometimes, depending on the moment, but not to hurt, my skin does mark easily and I thought I had been left with a lust bite.... Not the case, I wouldn't mind in a discreet place, if the passion was there, just as long as it doesn't resemble a slab of steak... Yeah I was a bit diced and sliced for a couple of days so the steak metaphor works
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I've never had a lover turn up with wounds inflicted by someone else, but I don't think I'd really care. I don't like being marked myself and I do tell the men I see this. I kinda happens a fair bit by accident though. Yes well contact sports where the game is centred on you are bound to have some spontaneous "injuries"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'littlenicky70' Maybe she thought you were lightscratcher ? The whoopsie reply..she taking the piss or something? Id whoopsie my key up her car for that shit. Lightscratcher - love it. Hmmm, given how she feels about her car that would probably make the next encounter fatal for me
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' It sounds like a style/type of branding she has left to warn others that she has either been there or to warn others that your branded and now belong to her.... Yes well we love swapping stories about other fun we've had since we were last together and it's been a bit "don't rain but it pours" for me recently whereas she's had a bit of a drought so you might be on to something there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mstr_Full' There is nothing better than receiving a selfie several days after showing the evidence of a previous entanglement... provided they were welcomed by the recipient... Wish I'd thought of that. Mind you not sure I want to encourage her in that direction again. Once was kind of fun after the pain eased off but not too sure I'd want to have it happen again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Im not really that keen on calling it a "badge of honour"..... only because that sounds a bit like the process of sharing or bragging..... and runs contrary to peoples promotions of being discrete/discreet. A badge of honour ..... unless you share the story of your symptms... who's to know?! I guess...... my take on the topic is....... please dont intentionally mark me unless I say its OKplease have a little bit of discretion to keep your private life and its effects, private unless we choose to share it. Well I guess the point of not sharing the story and just wearing the "medals" is that it's more impactful on whoever sees the "work" ie let their imagination do the work. I think knowing Playmate 1 that that is the way she'd have wanted it to play out. And because I had no idea how the second playmate would react I decided to take a low-key approach so Playmate 1 probably got the effect she wanted. Ah the games we play
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Why am I not surprised to hear that
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RHP User
11 years ago
who left a hikky on my neck and when hubby picked me from his place he mentioned it was quite noticeable to me which it was to the point I bought a scarf before I picked up our teenage sons up to hide it . Next time we met I asked him not to do that again politely as I had to cover it ok he said with a cheeky smile . And that time he bite me on the neck which I protested to sorry he said then we got started again and before I knew it he was trying give me a hickey on my neck again on the other side , I stopped him and asked what the deal was he just said I like to leave my mark on you so everyone can see , but I'm married with kids I told him I can't go around with marks all over me He just shrugged his shoulders When hubby picked me up he saw both the bite mark and the love bite and looked at my f- buddy who said I'm just leaving my mark Well go out and piss on some tyres like a dog does mate that will me easier to explain to parents and kids Never seen him since had fun but to embarrassing explaining marks left were by hubby and I am a shocking lyre - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
and the entire time we dated we went at each other like animals, I've never experienced anything like it before or since. We would always leave scratches, bite marks and bruises on each other. It was a lovely reminder of our times together to watch the marks bloom and fade over the few days after seeing each other.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' and the entire time we dated we went at each other like animals, I've never experienced anything like it before or since. We would always leave scratches, bite marks and bruises on each other. It was a lovely reminder of our times together to watch the marks bloom and fade over the few days after seeing each other. Its always a surprise that first time with a "mauler"... LOL But I think the OP was wondering..... what wold happen if you saw another lover....covered in the marks from another. I think most of us... would feel a bit bothered.Generally speaking.... what we dont know wont harm us.....
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