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Meaningful sex
May 07 2015
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Sex with someone where there is real sexual chemistry and mutual desire. I'm sure it could happen with random hookups, but I haven't had many of those so I couldn't say :) I think the more you get to know a partner, the better the sex can become. You get to know what each other likes and therefore which buttons to push. The build up to a subsequent meet can result in very passionate sex. Is it meaningful??? I guess that depends on what you are trying to take away from it. It is certainly memorable though... Him
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RHP User
11 years ago
for me it has to be with someone I have a deep connection with. A meeting of the minds and body and that creates an off the chart level of passion. Memorable is meaningful. It rarely happens with a one-off encounter. LG
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Hottie1
11 years ago
Is the mind and body connection that is seamless. Knowing what each other wants and desires and fulfilling those is critical. Having the ability to read what your partner at the time needs and wants and fulfilling those is meaningful sex to me and vice versa. I have had meaningful sex with someone I've played with the first time and or long term lovers. I agree with the lovely ladies above, a long term lover gets to know you well but as person who thrives on spontaneity, the trick for me is to keep that up with long term lovers. This ensures we continue to make it meaningful as our needs and wants develop within that relationship. Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its about connection. If you meet someone and you click, you talk and laugh together, get on effortlessly, then you will be eager to touch, tease and please that person when you play. Make sure that they are satisfied and just thrive on the feelings your two hot naked bodies are creating. Lying together panting, smiling and relaxed after great sex, knowing it wont be the last time. Anything more than that, however, is getting into the "too serious" bracket, its where that phrase Friends with Benefits comes into its own, good friends and satisfying playtimes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Miss Freya..... please indulge my thoughts on the basis that this is not directed at you.... just playing devils advocate and allowing my thoughts to hit the screen. My first thought on reading the topic..... was.... why does sex need to be "meaningful" at all? Does it really need to ... mean.... anything?Or can (should?) it simply be the joyous, pleasurable, passionate encounter of people? Is it more meaningful with a life partner,. at the end of a warm loving evening over dinner, walking under the moon and embracing and enveloping eachother slowly beneath the sheets? Or... does the hot frantic encounter bent over a car bonnet out the back of a pub that you never forget..... mean more? And is sex any less meaningful if you shared an amazing solo moment with.... a toy..... for example? Im inclined to think that to me, at least.... the word "meaningful" can be interpreted as...... most memorable. To that.... I shall merely use her initials.BP..... not from here...... but together we were in an altogether different place. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
with someone you know, I guess you know what turns them on. Nothing worse than having your hand pushed away from a certain body part etc, had that before as obviously exploring what they do and don't like and yeah it can be a turn off. Nothing more pleasing than finding a woman who will give herself to you completely and of course the other way around - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The sex is irrelevant, the question is equally valid "Have you ever had a connection with someone you only met once for a short time?" The answer to which is yes. Sex is just another form of human interaction, we elevate its meaning too high. One can bare all to a complete stranger, let them into the most private personal self. Its a level of intimacy far superior to just sex. The part I find difficult is determining who from a random crowd I can let in. I have always been surprised at who I find the connections with.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sex, encounters, lovemaking......Yes the stronger the connection and trust the more I relax and open up to deeper and more profound experiences. Sex can be for me just an exercise where there is not much in common, just parts rubbing and stimulating (I don't do this any longer) and all the way in the other extreme an experience so profound that is the closest that I have experienced to divine bliss. Ultimately, it is about connection, it is about chemistry and this can be there with a new person or not. Find someone that your Demons and their Demons play together extremely well :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couldn't have said it better
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am just curious as to what people's different thoughts and experiences are.memorable may not necessarily be a positive experience and BM of course you can have a meaningful encounter with a stranger without having sex with them...xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
aah that illustrious connection, that click between two that brings us together time and time again x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had the odd one nighters and they leave me feeling empty and the sex is never great, I just don't think I can relax enough. I really need a physical and an emotional connection for meaningful blow your mind sex. Love getting to know someone's body and turn ons, and exploring those turn ons in one night is never going to happen, well not for me anyway! Like Freya I have some wonderful memories, lovely little day dreams when I'm bored ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
the minute I entered her...her fine lines that defined her body struck an internal chord in my heart.... Then I turned the key and drove off from the dealership as I headed for the lovely Mornington peninsula to bless my brothers wedding with my decorum lacking crassness 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had a one-off encounter with a lovely man who made me feel like a Goddess. Was it meaningful? It was memorable but I don't think it was meaningful.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've had great sex, awesome sex and even outstanding sex but meaningful?? I was satisfied so is that what you mean? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I tend to agree with the majority of ladies... memorable sex 100%... The time when it is "meaningful" is when it is a part of other things... a breakthrough in a relationship... a realisation of conection. M
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RHP User
11 years ago
Perhaps sex is just sex.some encounters are memorable some are forgettable but if they are,how do we know that they actually happened😳....but like Gypsy said,occasionally there is someone who we have an amazing connection with,whether we have known them for a minute,a day,a month or for years.that is meaningful to me xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
To me many years of emotionless sex has worn on me now I need some form of connection for it mean something to me. I seriously and arrogantly thought when a woman wanted a connection it was bs oh how wrong I was!! You ladies are right it's way better if there is a connection there. So sorry to all the woman for my past in thinking you were full of it.. (I can't believe I'm saying this) you woman were right lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Someone said it right earlier, "Most memirable". - Posted from rhpmobile
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