M43

Married Men

March 28 2012

Hello People, I am new to this site and love the forums. I have been married for a couple of years now I usually find myself wandering around and trying to get into a exciting affair or sexual encounter but when it comes to doing the deed i get guilt attacks. I know there are many women out there too who have discrete affairs. how wrong am I in pursuing this ? well i know its wrong and dont really need lectures over that. I am just trying to seek advice from mem and women who have experienced it or are having affairs out side their marriages/BF.

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RHP User

14 years ago

DUCK and then run and dodge all the bullets....The "high and mighty" will come and visit you shortly! xFunlovingx

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14 years ago

We don't have the conventional conservative view of sex so prevalent in todays society. We think sex is fun and enjoy sharing the pleasures of a woman. It works for us.And I think the reason it works for us is because all our needs are satisfied. I get to express my bi side, and MrTri gets to express his need for variety. And afterwards we always go home together and love each other deeply.In previous vanilla relationships we had to suppress these desires. And that didn't lead to healthy relationships. It caused secrets, mistrust, and in some cases infidelity. I guess that's why those relationships are in the past.I guess what you have to ask yourself is, could I express my desires inside my relationship? It's gotta beat running around behind some ones back. And could I handle it if I got caught (and you will). How would I feel about myself? How would I feel about my significant other. How would you face your friends and relatives?Nothing I say will change the way you feel, but be sure to think through the consequences of your actions before you go too far.Hope that wasn't too high and mighty for ya. ;)

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RHP User

14 years ago

DGT out

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RHP User

14 years ago

Wid Mustang, firstly you may like to read the threads"Getting started on RHP" and 'Lying husbands'. I no longer spend time with married men because the guilt question usually comes into play,you are risking your marriage unless you discuss this with your wife and you play together or have some agreement that you or both of you can. If you are already feeling guilty, you probably know in your heart and mind that perhaps this is not the right thing for you to do. As was said in a previous post,infidelity is one of the main reasons women divorce men. I was in a marriage for nine years where my partner was not interested in having sex.....at least not with me...so I left. Not always an option I know,particularly if children are involved, but perhaps a last resort if you can't work this out with you

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RHP User

14 years ago

Sorry having computer problems....meant to say ....if you cant work this out with your wife leaving may be the best option,you are still very young and you can both get on with your lives.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Nice Trolling. Hugs Stalky

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'Hesione' Wid Mustang, firstly you may like to read the threads"Getting started on RHP" and 'Lying husbands'. I no longer spend time with married men because the guilt question usually comes into play,you are risking your marriage unless you discuss this with your wife and you play together or have some agreement that you or both of you can. If you are already feeling guilty, you probably know in your heart and mind that perhaps this is not the right thing for you to do. As was said in a previous post,infidelity is one of the main reasons women divorce men. I was in a marriage for nine years where my partner was not interested in having sex.....at least not with me...so I left. Not always an option I know,particularly if children are involved, but perhaps a last resort if you can't work this out with youvery well said indeed.....

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'xFunlovingx' DUCK and then run and dodge all the bullets....The "high and mighty" will come and visit you shortly! xFunlovingxThey're heerrrre

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14 years ago

DAMN...ladies i just put a thought out there and Y'ALL smashed my horns. But in all seriousness i appreciate all the replies. Now surely cant blame me can you know for having these wandering thoughts and i know first comes the thoughts and then comes the actioning of those thoughts. MrsTri: High and mighty is good! Hesione: Leaving at times dont seem like an option. I never said i didnt love her did i know. Kinkisthenewpink: Maam i think its too late to know i am not the marrying kind as now i am already hitched. Jennylee1903: whose here..what am i looking out for. P.S: with all due respect hope my response didnt offend anyone. thanks forthe feedback.

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RHP User

14 years ago

sit back and watch them roll on in

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14 years ago

I was single at the time, he was a married pilot We would meet at the Hyatt hotel about twice a month He spoilt me rotten We fell in love and knew it would go no place So I broke it off, and yes it hurt like hell for both of us Would I do it again? Yes Some memories are so wonderful they make a movie out of it And we all sit in our seats and go ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Like all relationships, if you go in you go in eyes wide open and You have to cop it on the chin if things go pear shaped A good affair, well it costs money hon, the hotel the dinners the holidays , having a Mistress is high maintenance well it is if I am your Mistress

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14 years ago

Quoting 'kinkisthenewpink' The dude is BEGGING for it.....a couple of years only? Is that all he could manage? Why the fuck did he bother getting married? hehehehe.......oh....that's funny if it wasn't so pathetic. FFS! ex and I were still honeymooning at year 5 ffs! Didn't start to go south until year 10 Quoting 'xFunlovingx' DUCK and then run and dodge all the bullets....The "high and mighty" will come and visit you shortly! xFunlovingwe agree....

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14 years ago

I am not going to support nor condemn you in your choice, but would like you to think of this. If you caught your wife having an secret affair, how would you feel? Would you forgive her or be hurt? Would you take her actions to be open about the whole thing and delve into an open relationship? Would you talk to her and try swinging? Would you storm out and start divorce proceedings? Until you can answer those questions to your own satisfaction, it might be safer to keep the fly zipped up.

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