Many or Multiple Sex Partners

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Multiples.....each to thier own I say. Personally I fail to understand the thrill of this one as I prefer one on one, taking my time and savouring the experience...and yes I have tried 3somes, 4somes and more somes. Many Partners. Some call each other sluts, whores and manwhores as a term of endearment...it is done in jest and taken in jest. It is not up to another to condemn someone for thier sexual actions at all. It is no one elses business and if those in the chat rooms are using these terms in a derogatory fashion then perhaps they need to look at thier own actions as I am sure they are not as pure as the driven snow. No this is not a trend at all....one needs to shop around a bit and even many years ago there were those that had "loose morals" and those that held out for the wedding ring. I am sure that there are many who remain in the one relationship for life. Thankfully we no longer stone people

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  Tart_Du_Jour

  14 years ago

  As long as all parties are consenting adults why does it matter and why should it concern you what other people's sexual habits include? And I'm not sure if multiple partners is normal but then again, so what? Some people don't like chocolate. I don't go around calling them filthy and immoral.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  A) I think it's not any more or less considered "the norm" than it was 50 years ago. With the advent of the internet and the ability to communicate instantly with practically anyone (thanks, Al Gore!!), it is more visible, more so on a site such as this.B) No. Probably been around since Jesus played full-back for Jerusalem.....or longer..C) As with most words, meanings can change with the delivery and context of the words. Personally, I don't use them as I find them somewhat offensive.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  You say Tomato....I say Tomarto . And so the journey or adventure begins...everyone has their reasons for finding company on here. I mean OP, you're just here for a chat and a laugh really ;p . And I have probably passed my use-by-date on here...just using the site for forum and friends. But there was a time that I had many men....now that was an adventure! I don't know if that was the "norm"...it was just what I needed to do to find the type of man I was looking for. No one complained. And I never thought to ask any of them if they were a "manwhore". . But keep your eyes open OP...you might have just started a trend with that pic of your lovely bare bum at the kitchen sink...Most blokes usually take the pic in the bathroom :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  You say in another topic that you think women who have had many or multiple partners are cheap and now you tell us that you met one very special female from this site. Does she know you consider her to be cheap?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think its cool to indulge your fantasies. I mean, how many books you read? What kind of movies do you like? If you get off on Steve banging away on your wife, he likes it and she likes it, where's the harm? Problems really only occur with coerced participation, emotional connections, jealousy, envy etc. Letting desires out of the bag is healthy, a healthy part of development. Remember your first car? RA

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Some people seem to almost collect sexual partners as trophies :-)Personally I prefer one at a time, a FB or FWB if you like... but at times I had two of them "overlap" - happy times, as I have not had one for a while :-( volunteers ... ??

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  For me the words describe the actions, nothing more or less. It's not a criminal offence to be a slut, whore nor manwhore and as such people are free to do as they please accordingly. I don't attach negative connotations to any of those words but it seems if you use the terms @ all, unfortunately people attach their own meanings to them - often derogatory. I think people should consider, and clarify what context words are used in before deciding what, if any meaning to attach.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'Morticiaaa' You say Tomato....I say Tomarto . And so the journey or adventure begins...everyone has their reasons for finding company on here. I mean OP, you're just here for a chat and a laugh really ;p . And I have probably passed my use-by-date on here...just using the site for forum and friends. But there was a time that I had many men....now that was an adventure! I don't know if that was the "norm"...it was just what I needed to do to find the type of man I was looking for. No one complained. And I never thought to ask any of them if they were a "manwhore". . But keep your eyes open OP...you might have just started a trend with that pic of your lovely bare bum at the kitchen sink...Most blokes usually take the pic in the bathroom :) You're not even close to your use-by!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Sorry Handmaden, I didn't mean to be confusing. I thought my other forum post was fairly clear, however, just so theres no misunderstanding, I do NOT think All women on here are cheap, NOR do I think women who are, with conviction, experimenting with many partners, in order to find their ultimate mate are cheap. My enterperitation of "Cheap" is Women (and Men) that seemingly change partners as often, and sometimes more often, than they change their underwear, just to get their numbers up. Personally, I don't really care either way to be quite honest. It's their life and their reputation, so good luck to them.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  we believe you can be here, or at sites like this, and 'play' without ever appearing, sounding or even actually being perceived as 'cheap'.......... however, some people will be, sound,behave cheaply...wherever they are... just saying...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Everyone has their own opinion, opinions are like ass holes... everyone has one. We are all different thats what makes each and everyone of us unique... How boring would this site be if we all aqreed on the same topics..Each and everyone of us are here for our own reasons. You have your opinion... i have mine.... doesnt mean you are right and i am wrong... If u enjoy doing whatever.. if it doesnt hurt anyone else then good for you.. If you want to fuck ten guys.. good for you as long as no one gets hurt.. I find name calling and the like rather offensive and judgemental... Thats my opinion only. xxTRIPSxx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Ummm I am free :) And you can call me what you like who cares I was a virgin to the ripe age of 19 and from 13 the boys and girls at high school called me a slut. Why? Because I was five ten and had 36" 24" 36 body. I was blonde tall and apparently had an overt sexuality that I was oblivious too. I was confused, as hell as not ever having sex I could not figure it out why I was a slut or whore Now I tell my girls Slut means an experienced woman, practice makes perfect. Whore is a business woman that has the power to sell her body if she wants too Man whore, is a guy who is lucky enough to get away with it Right now I am just a woman who knows her own desires and fills them.

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