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Man's seed to be shared????

April 25 2010

I read years ago that women have three stages in their life and for each of those stages they need a different partner. No doubt this is a very simplistic view of things and as we become more sophisticated as a race (or are we?) there are no doubt more and more stages in our lives. And of course not every woman will go through these stages (myself included) The theory went something like this – Stage 1 – Young women are interested in exploring their sexuality so the partners they want / look for will be someone they find sexually appealing – someone gorgeous, exciting, etc Stage 2 – Women want to have children and raise a family so the partner they need or look for will be someone they think will be a good father, good provider, someone steady and reliable. Stage 3 – Kids are grown up and women would like to revert back to Stage 1 and therefore Stage 2 guy is not always going to cut it. Therefore they need a partner who is adventurous & will satisfy their maturing sexual needs. Which I have learnt from RHP forums will be kinkier and kinkier as we grow older. My questions is - if women have stages in their life (or do you think that's complete bollocks?) – do men have the same? Or do men essentially have one stage which is spread your seed as far and wide as possible ? Your thoughts?

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Great topic Meeka Men like woman like you !! Confident, sexual and interesting.. I can only speak as a single guy who has not brought kids up, so i may differ as my time and brain space if you like, are not shared with the kids or a wife etc.. I have always had a strong sex drive and creative mind ..I would like nothing more than to find a life partner now and grow old with..Explore eachothers wants for the rest of our lives ..Maybe sow some seeds in the garden, then roll around in the hay..

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I've had stages, still only 28 and i'll explain. as a teenager i messed around with plenty of giirls of a similar age. At 12 yrs old i was 1.80m tall, i looked older than i was, lost my virginity at 13, so i guess i had a head start on most of my peers..As i hit 18-20 my attention went to older women. mid thirties ish. Boy did that open my eyes And once i got into my early twenties i was more interested in girls my own age. At this stage now it really doesn't matter to me age wise as long a there's a spark between the 2 of us. What's next? younger women maybe? who knows, watch this space.AS far as spreading seed all round the place, I guess i am guilty of that since my breakup over a year ago as i was way more open to people i may not have been previously open with in the past. But whatwith condoms and all I doubt there's any lil murphsters on this planet.(hope i haven't jinxed myself now)

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Oh goodie... I love gross generalisations of the differences based on the sexes... for example... one of my faves is about words... it goes like this... apparently women speak about 21000 words a day and men speak approx 12000 words a day... so by the time we are both home from work I've used all of mine.. and apparently she still has 11000 left to say. :p Men are obviously designed to adapt to the changing circumstances so that we more or less can satisfy all three of said woman's stages... however we are easily distracted.. so keep feeding us to pussy. :p Hugs Stalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have no doubt you are good for every stage Stalky but the theory is suggesting that women need a different partner for every stage! As the one partner can not fulfil us for the long term. But again so nice to hear that men are willing to adapt to all our needs - hahahahahaha

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz... Im polyamorous Meeka... I do not think any of us should have to be saddled with just one partner for life. :p Hugs Stalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    just like exploring.......so where do i fit in?ahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahaRFB2

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Lol Earl. You beat me. Meeka what stage are you at???????? I don't know if us guys have stages??? I guess we are either hunters or collecters. "I'll kiss you in four places" Fab RFB4

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    What I do know, and it's a medical fact. All men lose approx 60-75% of their testosterone at age 33-35. It dissipates and men find they are not so angry/on the move/driven e.t.c. Men who bald early have more testosterone as a rule (yes the bald patch is a solar panel for a sex machine). I did'nt consider myself a 'Grown Man' till I was about 28, when I was at my peak physical strength and wisdom became a sought after commodity. But that's me. I know some men who never grow -up, they probably don't want to, and are 'eternal teenagers'. Regardless we all lose testosterone at about 33.

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanks for the kind words Taipan. Looks like you had years of sowing seeds !!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalky - I have to admit I like the sound of it - polyamorous - but I struggle with the praticalities of it. I think it has a lot to do with social conditioning as we are taught from a very early age about the One prince who will come and save you. How do you stop yourself from getting jealous or possesive????? Who do you think came up with the one women & one man concept - men or women?? I say men did !!

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    About a year after my divorce 8 years ago, I met and had a "cup of tea" with a nun that had known me since I was 5 years old. She basically wanted to know how I was getting on with single motherhood and 2 very young kids. The topic of conversation got around to talking about men. I was saying to her that it was never my intention to be a single mother, but just that my relationship with my husband had failed to grow. She turned to me and said: "J, I could never imagine being married to the same man all of my life". I didn't have the heart to say that she was :) Interestingly, she and the Parish Priest have been "together" for 40 years...they do everything together and while I will never understand the purpose of celibacy, I can see that she and the Priest quite simply have a loving marriage of sorts. Jx

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'customer69' but, we can be led home, by our short and curlies!Trish ahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahaNeanderlithic Earl

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hehe... Monogamy is a woman's idea for certain. Let's face facts here... women can control a man's universe with the snap of their legs... stands to reason that this whole time we have lived in a matriachal society. :p As for the one Prince thing... sure you might find that one prince but once you do.... there's still a reasonable prospect that you'll bump into another one... and then there are two... hehe. It's accidental but I think inevitable. The question is.. what do you do about it? As for the jealousy thing.... bisexuality cures all that... for example... How can you be jeolous of your husband for lusting after that other woman when you are also lusting after her? Plus, set aside your inhibitions and you can both do her together.... we all know it's more fun that way anyway. :p Hugs Stalky Quoting 'Meeka100' Stalky - I have to admit I like the sound of it - polyamorous - but I struggle with the praticalities of it. I think it has a lot to do with social conditioning as we are taught from a very early age about the One prince who will come and save you. How do you stop yourself from getting jealous or possesive????? Who do you think came up with the one women & one man concept - men or women?? I say men did !!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    But the number is still being counted well over 100 ...So I am Told

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Fab69 - I think I got stuck on Stage 1................. as I never progressed to stage 2 welll not yet anyway.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalky - that is the third time Ive seen you mention that we live in matriachal society. Where do you get that idea from?? Once upon a time a long long time ago when women gave life to the new generations and collected 90% of the community food and the men went hunting to get the other 10% - when only the strong men survived the hunt and were there to satisfy the women when ever they wanted. When pple worshipped Mother nature. Isn't that a matriarchal society?? Seems to me that men invented religion to rule over women. They are in government, princpal of schools, the bosses, the CEOs, the presidents and prime ministers, they are the law makers, they are the judges - Men make the rules - Sorry to break it to you but that is now and that is called a patriachal society.!!!!!! So the way I figure it - you guys must want it that way. One man and one women for life!!! Hugs and Kisses Meeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sounds to me as if you have the best of both worlds. Luck you !!!!!!

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Not sure where you fit it but I am pretty sure you should you be out hunting right about now.

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