RHP

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Manicuring men?

March 18 2010

I've got a guy that I am just so into, yet his genitalia is like a bush.....no a hedge! Now I have always been very well maintained and waxed. My man likes that. I like to give BJ's to him but find it so difficult because of the hair. I have spoken to him in jest about the fact with no result. He said to me, 'I hadn't even thought about it' , but I will do something.........yet still no resolve after months! Is he in denial, is it a man thing, is it a statement? I don't know. Anything would be good! Short of me taking clippers to his house on the weekend.........lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i say just turn up one night with the hedge clippers, give him a wink and say lay down babetell him its either that or you can wax together....nothing worse than having to pick pubes from between your teethgood luckroxxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Given that you've said you really don't like his pubic hair, I would suggest something along the lines of: "Sweetheart, I don't like snorting your pubic hair when I'm giving you blowjobs. Either trim it or it's no more blowjobs" Blow the double standard out of the water! But be prepared for the truth...he may prefer his pubic hair. Well, thats what I would say anyway.... Jx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i like to give myself a number two haircut with the clippers, looks better, females are more receptive to the suggestion of a BJ, and the sting in the tail is that visually you look larger as less inches r covered by hair. all guys in porn seem to be trimmed or bare for this reason. ever wonder why the guys in porn appear to have large cocks, (its all in the trimage). (not that i need the extra inches)haha

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Bondage..............Tie him up spread eagled, and play with him a bit, use the scissors and go to town! He may just think that trimming downstairs is not the "Manly thing to do". I know i work with a few boofheads like this, and they think that giving it a bit of a trim is "Poofy".So mybe show him how hot it can beI know i just love the visuals when i get to be the "Shaver" for Mrs Roughgive it a go, if it doesn't work, then don't let Sweetiepies door hit you in the ass on the way out!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Excellent question. Personally, I'm a manscaper from way back. I use an epilator (it only hurts the first time, after that its nothing). Its a great, clean, sexy look and its very much appreciated. When the clothes come off, the waxed/epilated/shaved man-flesh tells a woman you are a sensual, rather rude and sexy person. And those kind of thoughts help put us all in the mood... Latte, don't think all men are strangers to the downstairs shaver - there are plenty of guys like me around. If lots of other guys are making the effort, that means you can expect a lot more effort from your guy than he's currently making. The fact that he's not thinking of doing this of his own accord seems to be making Sweetiepie wonder how much of a commitment your guy has to you. It may not be that bad though - maybe he just hasn't taken you seriously. Maybe he just needs to be talked to in a more serious way... I encourage you to really stop doing it in a jokey way, and sit him down and ask him to trim it all back, maybe even shave. And let him know you are serious. Tell him he'll look so much better, and feel better about himself. And you'll make sure he feels your appreciation... We men need to get information given to us in a very direct, non-subtle way. We're not simpletons, sophisticated information is readily absorbed! But we can't read the subtitles like you can. Give him a chance to understand you mean it. If he still does nothing, after you've made your feelings very clear, at least you'll know whether he's avoiding the issue. Good luck. Now be sure to come back and let us know how it goes.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Grow yer pubes and make him lick them. When he says "gross" Tell him his are 5 inches and yours are only one. Say "Get a trim or ffs I am going to have a manky bush and niether of us is going to go down. Ffs" Yaaay Random

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Use a wide comb ..Presentation Latte, otherwise it is latte for one ,not two !!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'randomtip' Grow yer pubes and make him lick them. When he says "gross" Tell him his are 5 inches and yours are only one. Say "Get a trim or ffs I am going to have a manky bush and niether of us is going to go down. Ffs" Yaaay RandomWords of wisdom Random... to add effect, I would also suggest cultivating a bit of a goatee and armpit hair... give him both barrels!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I have made a few men shave in my shower! It's worth the cpl bucks of the razor to watch em shave!..lol..And we actually have fun laughin about it .. They know shave or get nothin! huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    but doin it for my own benifit was boreingso now just platt em. i look like Bob Marley munahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahaahaEarl

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I adore the Manscaper!!!! Absolutely!!! I have mixed theories on this one...Call me different wtf... I like some guys "with" hair and some guys "without hair", nicely manicured is a good sign they take pride in themselves and are considerate to us. Doesn't actually bother me one way or the other, at the end of the day I want to feel a man for what he is. If hair is there, it's all good. If nude, bit prickly actually (pardon the pun). Manscaper luv it..... xo

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i have been clean shaven for 20 odd years since my army days in the bush on exercises was more hygenic no showers for days at a time now just a natural thing

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well personally I don't manscape but then I don't resemble a border hedge either (well I have had no complaints!You could always do as suggested and let your's grow - when he complains just point down and say that you thought he liked a little hair down there. He will get the hint.If that fails, I have a friend down there, Jessica and she can lend you her hair dressing scissors lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    just book him in and take him in .I just hand my first waxing ,was booked by partner and to be honest was shiiting my self at the thought of having my nuts waxed and was worried little fella would stand up for lady doin it.But to my supprise i throughtly enjoyed it (give me more hot wax)can`t wait to they grow back so I can go again.I even found the milli second of pain when she started ripin the hair out very enjoyable(sick--will just alittle). Besides all of that it is much more comfortable down stairs less is best

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If he has a problem shaving then buy him a set of clippers.....he will feel clean and sexy afterwards....I sure do ! Perhaps older fashioned guys aren't up with this aspect of personal grooming but it sems as though the evidence on here suggests that todays modern woman likes to see her man neat and trim if not waxed smooth... A couple of minutes in the shower every couple of days keeps your business smooth.....I bet he likes you trimmed and smooth so what's stopping him I wonder ? DoggyStyle.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    She's a trouble maker our Jessica...........lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well..........thanx to all your wonderful words of wisdom guys. I chose the straight forward tactic! Invited him over for dinner, gave him the power that he likes and asked him to cook the BBQ, and open the bottle of wine (it did have a cork lol). After a lovely meal I took him to bed and very seductively, after much foreplay told him how much I would enjoy him even more if he was manicured. My handsome and horny more man replied with, 'OK, I trust you, get some scissors'. I almost fell off the bed! Job was completed and he got the best BJ he'd ever had! They were his words......lol He even commented the next day how nice he felt and how much better it looked. He wants me to maintain his manscaping! Thanx guys........I'm happy (extremely) and so is he.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Latte_for_two you poor thing, why not tell him the truth,,hehe tell him he will look so much bigger without the forest and the thought of him being larger will drive you wild, so much so you would love to take his new and rather large cock all the way down your throat and then lick his smooth balls while he's in your throat, we fall for the truth us men And miss sweetpetite, shame on you,, why aren't you in the shower helping,, we don't have a head on a swivel, some spots we just need help with, and with you in the shower ! the cock in the way, wouldn't be a problem now would it? have fun all,,,,,,,,,,,,,bren, oh and can anyone tell me why everybody on the forum is named >email not listed ps, jacqui , i fixed it

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love a man with some hair!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanx Mrs S for your comments and confidence, much appreciated. I must say the feed back I received from all, gave me a very different insight into the male and female thinking on this subject. I was very surprised at the similarities in some ideas. This was the first time I had ever posted a Q on the forums.............it's a pretty informative place to be, think I could be a regular reader and may even learn a thing or two ; ) xxx latte

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    NOw my freind latte...I could have said wax stips...lol....but you managed very well on your own.....and what the hell anything is possible after a bottle of white lol and moka I am not trouble ..just have some good problem solving skills lol....xxxx and good with scissors

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Manscaping should be mandatory ! Whats good for the Gander should be good for the goose..... not a particularly flattering analogy, but accurate. ...and Latte, if he doesnt....switch banks. (Yay....more fish in the sea for moi !)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    latte_for_twofrom another point of view (especially after seeing basic instinct last night) some peoplemight feel a touch uncomfortable letting others have sharp or cutting implements near their genitalslet alone hot wax..However there is dipilatory creme, even the woosiest of guys couldn't object to that - helltell them its a new massage creme and they'd never know until they're deforrested :)