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Man Bashing
December 09 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unfortunately for those lovely men you and I know exist on here, the minority ruin it for them. I agree, I too have met some absolutely wonderful men, women and couples on here...sure there are the odd few that dont match up but I try to look at each meeting as something new. More often than not a persons most recent negative experience will sour them for anything new for a while and these people often just need a place to vent. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
...what makes you think that being a respectful gentleman means NOT wanting to get your dick wet???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Aww such nice things to say about men and not grouping us all together ,well done Mistress T Men are like fruit,you get sour ones,sweet ones ,bruised ones and we come in all different shapes and sizes.Alot of men in cam rooms are Banana's But as is life ,there are all sorts,i can understand why some women on here would get a bit angry with men tho.
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RHP User
13 years ago
and still want to get your dick wet. in fact is extremely hard to get your dick wet here without being a gentleman. or anywhere for that matter. ra
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RHP User
13 years ago
I understand and do acknowledge that there are some genuinely nice guys on here, but in just the last week alone i have been sent well over 100 messages from men who either do not read my profile or simply don't care and the vast majority turn around and serve you with abuse when you decline a meeting or allowing them access to your private pictures, the way they go on you would think it is their right to see them. Im sorry but for me it is a little hard to cut males some slack when the vast majority i have had dealings with have been nothing but rude and distespectfull
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been on RHP over 2.5 years and I can't count one one hand the number of rude emails I have recieved after politely declining a bloke. Not sure why that is. I know some friends of mine get very rude emails too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im with you...and one of them he and I ended up exchanging a diatribe of horrible emails just for a case of 'one up manship' - hmm wonder if he is still on here - must go looking - I do like a good insult fest lol Then again maybe it is our profile names? Why? many may ask.....simply put those who have made complaints more often than not have a very suggestive handle Meeka and I do not......... Men are very simple creatures (yes Ive generalised but please let me have this one lol) Give many men the handle with fuck, squirt, tit, boobs etc in the handle and couple it with only pictures of your boobs then yes! these simple males (again a generalisaion I know) will assume you are here for one thing only - that youre desperate and cant get sex anywhere else. With this kind of lead on (in their mind) is it a wonder they feel a little dejected and lash out in the only way they know how? Kisses Focus This i my opinion only and NO I havent asked Meekas advice nor permission to use her name in this pos. This is me and me alone.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Focus,you might be onto something there...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am hearing you girl.... you have a respectful name.. and well chosen pictures.. as does Meeka.. MILF4fun.. "Mother I'd Like to Fuck 4 fun" you gotta admit it.. it IS a little suggestive and prevocative - BUT.. sure.. you/we are allowed to call ourselves whatever we want.. we just have to accept the repercussions of those nics.. Having said that.. I too have had shit from blokes who ask the wrong questions :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sure Cavey i may have a suggestive name, but so what? Does that mean i am not entitled to the same respect from people as someone without a suggestive name? I am not leading them on or replying with a rude or disrespectful message, rather a simple thanks but no thanks . MrsPeachyPear, how do i change the settings for that? Does it work for flirts too?
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
On a few occasions I have asked that the generalisations were not made and it is nice to hear it from a woman too.MILF4fun...as kizza says, there will be all sorts. Please stay positive, weed out the crap and just ignore the noise. Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear'You're not looking for men... setting your inbox for matching omly should clear it outNot always...just this morning I had a message from a guy telling ME how good his tongue was ET xox
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
MILF4fun, Just looking at your profile you have wording saying "not looking for single males as you already have someone who fills those needs" although you also have only looking for women. This would be fodder for those nasties you talk about, thinking they are god's gift to women and better than anyone else. Maybe by removing this you might still get the lookers but not the messages ? ET xox
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On_Safari
13 years ago
.....I've had a great rime on RHP. Have met and made some truly beautiful friends of both sexes. Only had one "tosser" so far and his lucky prize was being blocked. Met one gentleman who's attitude was that yes, since I'm on RHP I must be out to grind away on any pole that comes along. Errrrr NO!! And hopefully he's been re-educated as a result of our ensuing discussion. Mostly I have found the men here respectful, courteous, dazzling, cheeky when appropriate and some just downright sexy! Milf4fun......you're a gorgeous looking woman, try a new "handle" as has been suggested. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Thank you RHP for offering up some exquisite experiences, scintillating conversations and broadening my horizons.....lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I rejected this guy (who wore makeup, women's clothes and had a great tit job) quite harshly, and got a very sweet email back. I instantly felt ashamed and apologised. I haven't rejected a man cruelly since. I just block them instead.RA
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RHP User
13 years ago
But I normally have tits & ass pics up so I don't think you can blame that. And just because someone has a suggestive name doesn't give the right for someone to be rude and milf4fun isn't even looking for single men.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Either I am a total prick or God's gift to women. Probably the latter:) I do think there is a stereotype out there about men in this 'enlightend' world. It seems like virtually every show on tv was made by some damaged woman who hates men. Homer is a complete moron, and Ned Flanders is his bible bashing neighbor. Just about every male character on the simpsons is a complete idiot with no spine or just a jerk. Charlie in two and a half men is a drunken womanizer who uses women and throws them away (ok, her does that in real life too), but in many other instances, men are portrayed as abusive, spineless, or flat out beasts, while women are for the most part portrayed as the saviors of society. I think that lots of men get pushed over the edge because of the stereotypes, and what is expected of them (sometimes impossible feats) in society. No doubt some guys on here are real jerks, but hey, it seems to me this is a get laid site, so ladies, if you are here for a deep and meaningful thing from guys here, you r in the wrong place. Is there a chance you could meet 'mr. Right ' here? No doubt, but I think you stand a better chance of meeting mr. Right in church as opposed to a pub or a sex site, so don't set the bar too high for us guys on here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whip me beat me, I need love Spank me with that leather glove Whips and chains may be your thing But ooooo that leather sure does sting! Sorry,fond memories of singing cadence in the army, 150 voices, loud and strong, getting our commander in trouble for being politically incorrect while running past the battalion commander:) The first Sergeant would drop us for pushups and berate us on what idiots we were while the C.O. Would walk past us to get his ass chewed by the battalion commander for not being able to control his troops. It was worth the pain:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Milf4fun'I understand and do acknowledge that there are some genuinely nice guys on here, but in just the last week alone i have been sent well over 100 messages from men who either do not read my profile or simply don't care and the vast majority turn around and serve you with abuse when you decline a meeting or allowing them access to your private pictures, the way they go on you would think it is their right to see them. Im sorry but for me it is a little hard to cut males some slack when the vast majority i have had dealings with have been nothing but rude and distespectfull There are tens of thousands of men on here who haven't messaged you. You're profile doesn't come up in my searches because I always tick that box that says "looking for me" so you've never been messaged by me and most likely tens of thousands of other guys who do the same. I think you'll find that if you do indeed do the number crunching you'll see that the majority of men do leave you alone. I'm good with numbers which is why I find it offensive that so many women group all of us men as one. Something that I often suggest to those ladies who find it intolerable to be lavished with so much attention is to upgrade their profile to full membership and then lock it so nobody can message them and then be the one to instigate contact with people they feel are suitable. Wow that would solve all the problems wouldn't it! I'm sorry men don't read your profile then bother you, I'm also sorry that you allow rude ignorant pigs who are total strangers upset your day by letting their futile messages bother you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
But lets not just have the focus on gender for a moment and say people. All walks of life, all with different agendas and expectations. Hell, even I've suffered from that problem. I just don't think 'bad apples' are restricted to one group.
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RHP User
13 years ago
God forbid someone had to say it. Women can be such bitches most of the time.
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
A lot of people carry bagage from previous relationships. Me included; but the answer is to try and leave it behind you. Now you can bash me because my experience is that Its the older women that use the forums the most. to express their feelings. Maybe as we get older the little things can annoy us because we have seen it before or we are looking at it through our own experiences. I am not suggesting that the rude and agrogant people should not be told off or blocked. Give the creepy ones the finger. Some of our own anger comes from our insercurities. We all look at things from a different propective due to our life experiences. Men dont express themselves very clearly and things can be missunderstood or taken to heart because of our previous experience. Also it is know fact that people say things on line that they would not say to you; face to face at a party or gathering. eg twitter Some people like to troll or stir sacasim is the cheepest form of humour. How do you tell the difference between genuine humour and trolling in few lines on the web without being able to watch their body language.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said... A gentleman often gets further than any other. I must agree with Meeka and Lost Focus too - a name might say more than intended, even though this is an open-minded site. Personally, I am slightly embarrassed to say for some reason, that I met my beautiful husband on this site, so my experiences have mainly been pretty awesome with men on here.... :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to disagree with you there Miss Focus......some of the worst mail I ever got was as "TassieRose" thats a very sweet innocent name lol but gee it was fun to fuck with their heads the idiots ;-P ......MissT I am one of those generalising bitches and I stick by it. Even though I have met a couple of fabulous blokes on here 3/50 to me isn't good enough and that isn't even mentioning the 100s of idiotic messages I've gotten over the years lol.....if the men on here weren't so nasty and Annoying they wouldn't cop so much flack....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Male brain equates....She talked to me = She wants to root me?She said no= What, she is better than me?The formula should be She talked to me= If i show my personality,she may decide to get to know if she likes what she sees.She said no= There is someone else that life has for me to meet.I for one am sick of being grouped with males who ruin it for all.I am taking my bat and ball and going home!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've found married men to be the nastiest after rejection so if that's what MILF is referring too then I understand totally..... :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love men, I adore men ( and women) I’ve even been known to even marry a few , have a relationship with some and bonk the others…….but sadly I’ve had a bit of a run on bad meets of late (yes from here – and see updated profile for explanation) but you know it is what it is… most of the guys I have had contact with from here…have been quite lovely and polite, respectful etc…and as Dirty said…thousands on here..occasionally you will come across a bad egg….whose got an attitude for whatever reason……but as HT said…it’s not gender specific though…sadly women are just as capable of being rude, obnoxious etc…. If I have been guilty of man bashing in the past, on here, then please accept my apologies, it is sincere..….(except the ex..nope not apologising for bashing him..just wish I could... with a piece of 4 x 2 as you can only forgive so many things !!!) …but I do love men…glad I inhabit the world with them…just wish I could find that special someone to inhabit my little corner of the world with !!!!…
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belladonna888
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I have been on RHP over 2.5 years and I can't count one one hand the number of rude emails I have recieved after politely declining a bloke. Not sure why that is. I know some friends of mine get very rude emails too. Iv never had a rude email , if its handled right with manners and repect , no problems
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RHP User
13 years ago
there are rude people and there are charming and lovely people here.There are more men on this site than women ergo there will be more rude men here than rude women.My profile doesn't attract either the volume, or rudeness ,that other women complain about in receiving messages. Some of the female profiles I have read have shocked me even more than the male profiles I see.Today I read a mans profile that did make me laugh though,he said he had never played up before but now he was looking for people to root.At least he is honest in stating his intentions. A few men have said on this thread and others that they feel they are being lumped in with the men who do behave badly.I doubt this is true.I think if a woman has had a few negative experiences,or she has even just been on the internet carousel too long,she may vent her frustration here it's true. But as Shinasbabe said,I like men,I enjoy them as lovers and I enjoy them as friends.Men rock and sometimes they role.
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RHP User
13 years ago
group hug...So we (men) are grouped into a great big lump...and bashed and kicked and knee'ed in the nuts...maybe rightly...maybe wrongly...But I will stand up and be counted as different...mind you...having lime-green armpit hairs DOES help...Ricky (always )
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RHP User
13 years ago
One nasty email in the time I've been here, and two or three "You think you're too good for me?"s. No problem. Block! Kizza, don't gooooo! I really appreciate your posts. You are one of the many good guys here!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some very interesting posts - my response is more to those with negative experiences... From my time on RHP - the two questions I have are: Q1 - Just because we are online - does it mean that we can't be curteous and respectful ? A - No, I don't say, write or communicate with anyone on RHP any differently to I would in the real world Q2 - Who's behaviour can we control ? A - Just like in real life we cannot control anyone else's actions, words or behaviours - only our own. @ Milf4fun - its terrible you've had a bad experience. You've also posted previously in a different thread about not meeting when agreed - so hang in there. On topic - I'm sure in the real world you also have people looking at you - in cafes, pubs, the beach, just generally out and about. Thankfully in public most of those people restrain themselves, except those who would likely approach you in ways you also didn't like. Yes it is frustrating to get crappy messages - however, your can only control your reactions and behaviours - not those of the people you don't like contacting you. From what I saw of your profile - unfortunately, you'll likely continue to get some interesting messages unless you activate some profile controls... Perhaps the lessons from those who have successful times on RHP would help you cull the undesirables - Brave_Heart, TuscanRed, Lost Focus, DeviousMiss and Meeka to name a few - usually give good advice - as do some of the guys such as MischieviousLad, EnigmaofLove and Funlover71. Best of luck... A
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RHP User
13 years ago
...then wonder why they end up rooting each other. Thanks anyway, Mistress T.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I got frustrated by the number of women who post long winded, self righteous crap about how men are users and cheaters. If the tables were turned and a man wrote in the same terms about women he would be shot down in flames by the same women writers, hence the topic.To all those who get abusive messages either report or block and be thankful you dodged a bad one.Of course the guys on this site want to get their dicks wet (nothing wrong with that!) but not all of them are disrespectful or abusive and I get sick of women saying they are.
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RHP User
13 years ago
remember that one woman's abuse may be anothers come on.The forums here are a little microcosm of people who like to read, learn and express.The majority of users here pay scant attention to the forums, the action is out in the profiles, out there bluntness, tackiness etc often works. It's just that sometimes the proponents misjudge their mark.I know who I am, and I like me. The abuse and whingeing doesn't wash with me because it is not me.But I do get a giggle from it because those guys make me look good !
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess I will get banned for another year. The world is ending in two weeks so I don't care.
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