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Male traits/intentions/actions and Female reactions and wants
November 23 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
You are just trying to understand us complicated creatures huh? Women like to look at good looking men, nothing strange in that. Womn are look for different things depending on whether they are after a one night or a ongoing friendship. Same as the men. So, the inference is that you have the body and the intelligence and substance. The perfect catch! xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe having substance and intelligence doesn't matter to women, and looks get you in automatically Naturally I can only speak for myself...but a man of letters/words and intellect will do it for me every time...(wished you lived in Perth :P) Im a wordy girl and a strong audio...so watching guys get off on cam or like anything you have just described...does absolutely nothing for me...(in person - different matter :) ..) but perhaps it does more for the younger ladies on here. To each their own... I will always be attracted to articulate, independant, opinionated - without arrogance , intriguing, somewhat domineering and interesting men, long before looks even register with me....btw Im 48 and Im still yet to find him (ok I did once) and so what would I know.???.I mean lets face it Im home tonite posting instead of out !!!..lol Enigma - you are a eloquent poster...do not sell yourself short..stay true to what works and feels good for you...the rite lady (ladies) are out there...patience Grasshopper................................as for trying to figure us out...you cant..and thats why your so attracted to us....our complexity is our lure... ...:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Women don't NEED to be here. They choose to be. So of course they want the 9" worth of brain cells. Guys such as yourself, and I for that matter will and always have been pushed aside for aesthetics on sites like these.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think it's that we are fickle......or that our actions are incongruent with our words. For me, it depends on what i'm looking for at the time. Being something of a voyuer I enjoy watching a naked man or woman, i can get pleasure out of watching an exhibitionist even if they are a little arrogant and in love with themselves. Would i date this person? Would i want to be FWB with this person? No, but i might very well consider them for a one night stand. Let's face it the qualities that are attractive in a partner that you want to spend some time with are very different to those that you may want to just play with. Men and woman are the same in that much.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
I think your intellect (most of the time) is stunning. Would you prefer a woman who looks great on your arm but has no intelligent conversation or a woman less attractive but with a sharp wit and charm? Looks are only skin deep, ugliness of character goes to the bone. What someone thinks is sexy to view on webcam may not be sexy to someone else. Horses for courses. If it feels right for you do it I guess. My personal feelings are that intellect, substance and character are what creates an attraction, looks help to seal the deal, but not if you're dumb as doo doo.
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be honest, looks are what catches the eye first, but if there is no substance then it doesn't really matter how good looking a guy is. There was a guy I went out with, years ago now. He was so good looking that everyone in the restaurant or wherever we were just stopped to stare at him, both men and women. He was great for my ego but bored the hell out of me. It was a struggle to get a conversation going. Loved himself to bits and it was all about "him". I wasnt interested in a second date or anything else for that matter. Give me personality, strength of character and intellect first and foremost, chemistry is a must and if a great body and looks are attached....jackpot! lol Women are visual creatures too and enjoy a good perve, but as the saying goes "beauty is only skin deep". IMHO it's the rest that is more important. SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
BTW Enigmaoflove.....I don't think you have anything to worry about. From what I see in your profile you are jackpot material . Hugs SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
The answer, is everything. And what's left after that too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Women don't NEED to be here. They choose to be. So of course they want the 9" worth of brain cells. Guys such as yourself, and I for that matter will and always have been pushed aside for aesthetics on sites like these. I like to look at gorgeous naked men. Whether that's in the cam room, on porn from time to time, or my lover standing in my bedroom and letting me just gaze at him. I go into the chat rooms to perve, pure and simple. But it takes a lot more than being a gorgeous naked man to hold my attention outside the chat room (it helps if he's gorgeous and naked, of course ;)) Enigma, chat is different things to different people. It might be an escape/distraction from life. As for me, a perve. For some people, a place to chat and interact with like-minded others. For some a pick-up joint for sex. For others, another avenue to maybe fall in love. Whatever it is, it's just a tiny slice of most people's life and I don't think you can pigeon-hole their personality based on their approach in chat. If they ONLY want to chase and fuck hot men, you'll probably be able tell that from their profile anyway, so it shouldn't come as a surprise to you. But the reverse is not true - a profile saying they're looking for more substance doesn't preclude them from popping into chat for a perve, flirt and maybe even a hook-up from time to time. I think the key is all about what YOU'RE looking for, and the standards you hold yourself and others to. The minute someone behaves in a way that hints they say one thing but do another, they're off my list. No mucking around. I'm honest, genuine, not a game-player and clear about what I want. I hold myself to that standard and look for the same in others. Not everyone is going to be of the same mind, but that's their choice and I simply don't spend time on them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Isn't it nice that what people go for is so varied that no matter what you look like, what you're in too or how your brain works....there's someone out there who's looking for someone just like you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to say wanking on cam leaves me total cold. I dont have any emotions when I watch a man wank on cam. I stopped soem and said I am going now or I say ok do it but just remember it does nothing to me. Is there soemthing wrong with it no. Again Each to there own. I even dont like the photos when a man has a women sucking him off on his profile. But hey thats me not you and so I look at some other males. I like photos like yours and tied jeans , or a nice manly face.I liem looking at some cock shots but it doesnt have to be one. Cheers Litonya
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RHP User
13 years ago
of watching women on cam...for the reasons that...I can't touch their silky skin...orsmell the scent of their hair...orfeel their hands exploring me...orshould I continue ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sounds like you've divorced someone at some point in your life, Bathsheba. *mumbles something about solicitors being related to vampires* Glad they leave us with one pint of blood so we can crawl out of the courtroom!
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RHP User
13 years ago
The common theme amongst it so far is.... 1. Looks are the beginning attraction. If the looks are there then rule #2 comes to play. Brains/substance, etc. so again I ask if you don't have the looks what have you got?? I'm such a cynical bastard I know, but imagine the process in a step by step process like a flow chart. Please, you guys can't honestly think that someone that doesn't appease to your eyes you would gladly approach on the off chance that they are your unicorn??
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RHP User
13 years ago
To offer anyone a chance to walk down the street with me, and have ME pick out someone for them to approach and chat up, with GENUINE INTEREST. I think alot would be surprised at how many people they would not approach.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Think most women will take a nice pair of high heels over any man.I know i have mailed a few women here and been polite ,dose not seem to work.I tend to find women want want most men want that's a stylish,well versed and handsome man.Counts me out ,so i shall try to pull a woman with my quirky wit,wish me luck! Enigma when you find out what women want can you fill me in with a memo?Thanx mate
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks guys and girls some really good answers. Just interesting that i talk in the camroom with someone and then get shafted once someone else is there. Feels pretty crappy just being someones fill in time until the naked play comes along. Thanks again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes it takes for most of us an initial attraction to decide to see someone again (Remembering that we all have different tastes in whats goodlooking in our eyes) if we should then chat and the person is not pushy, desperate sounding or plain creepy, and we get on well and the want to meet is mutual, then you proceed onto meeting each other, some people will hit it off straight off the bat, no uncomfortable silences etc, and it's a match made in RHP heaven whether that be for a night or a regular thing. Important point here being WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT TASTES, What is goodlooking in my gf's eyes I will sometimes go Eeeeeeewwwww! and vice versa. My partner and I were having a duscussion last night and he said that I go for only young adonis looking guys, I disputed this, I told him that I could go Sean Connery or Sam Elliott any day, his reply was 'that's because they are famous and if they came around to lay some paving you wouldn't go there' My god I should be so lucky!!! I would absolutely jump their bones, and at the same time too!!!! It's not about age, or status, just if I feel an attraction and there is a nice vibe coming from that person, a trusting vibe, so you can be completely comfortable with what transpires. Enigma, you are the bomb, we have had a few emails fly some time ago, you are gorgeous, you are articulate (and then some!) Yes you are absolutely a catch, bide your time, I think you will find someone very special. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Enigma, I really enjoy your posts on the forums and if I went into the chat rooms and saw you carrying on with the said mentioned actions, you would loose a little credibility in my eyes... That's just my opinion though. As to answer what women are looking for on this site? I think everyone would be on here for different reasons and looking for different experiences and of course everybody is attracted to a nice body or body parts and having a look, however, it doesn't mean those girls will hook up with the naked, masturbating cowboy's having a look probably doesn't hurt though? I'd rather see a nice face shot, a little flesh and read what they have to say, to see if there is any depth to the nice face or body... Again, just my opinion.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate i recon you should not try to understand actions on the internet.Things get lost in translation.It's not like you are having a coffee with someone and can read their body language.Just come here for a laugh and enjoy yourself.I try and chat to anyone in chat room,men ,women and couples.It dose not mean i choose one over another.It means im a big mouth :DAs is life i speak to all,dont try and understand peoples actions.they have a way to be in one mood one day and in a different mood the next.Just be yourself mate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Women don't NEED to be here. They choose to be. So of course they want the 9" worth of brain cells. Guys such as yourself, and I for that matter will and always have been pushed aside for aesthetics on sites like these.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Sensory_fun' BTW Enigmaoflove.....I don't think you have anything to worry about. From what I see in your profile you are jackpot material . Hugs SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
and string theory....what do women want?...how long is a piece of string...not attached of course because this is RHP...we are all looking for the big bang though...unfortunately we tend to lump all wishes and desires together..there are some people that everyone either wants or wants to be ,there are others that nobody wants or wants to be ,and then there is the rest of us ranging from A to Z..you are on the A list Enigma,seems to me you should be the moaner leaster here,you have youth ,intelligence,a hot bod and you are a single white male....the most fortunate group on the planet. Do you really wanna be a cam star?Swings and roundabouts here I would think.A number of women would enjoy seeing you strut ya stuff,spank ya monkey,I find watching men on cam mildly amusing and sometimes even laugh out loud funny,but hey that is just me. Give me a rigorous discussion ,some sharp retorts,an unreasoned argument and I am wet ,wet ,wet.A tongue and word fetishist me. Words are my bitches
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimesricky'of watching women on cam...for the reasons that...I can't touch their silky skin...orsmell the scent of their hair...orfeel their hands exploring me...orshould I continue ricky continue my needs are pretty superficial to tell the truth. I want sex, in the flesh the rest bores the shit out of me. But then I am a simple girl with simple needs. I see lots of very hot men with my photo shoots, but that does not mean I want to fuck them, perv yes as they are right there in front of me. Pictures well I am not a fan of cock pictures, cept the ones I take myself or of lovers I have already had the pleasure of holding said cock in my hand. web cam is as good as watching paint dry or the cricket. but once in bed I need the brains as well as the good looks , though you do not have to be a oil painting as I am not one of those either. Each woman, has her own individual desires, there is no such thing as what the collective want, same goes for men.
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RHP User
13 years ago
But it just so happens I'm a lawyer. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'RightCompany' Sounds like you've divorced someone at some point in your life, Bathsheba. *mumbles something about solicitors being related to vampires* Glad they leave us with one pint of blood so we can crawl out of the courtroom!
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Maybe having substance and intelligence doesn't matter to women, and looks get you in automatically".Maybe this is the wrong view as well.... I have found many guys who cam have substance and intelligence and I have found many guys who cam clothed with no substance or intelligence. In answer to your question enigmaoflove - personally I just have a look and find a nice cock I would like to ride and let my imagination do the rest and my fingers do the walking. It's a great night cap.
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